So in my previous post I thought the third party would be her friend, but that's out of question because 'she doesnt want to risk their friendship', which I totally understand so, moving on.

I think we need to go out sarging together. I've searched seddit and all the material is okay but not great. I'm still unsure if I should make the approaches or not. Her idea was to hit the gay bars. We've done that before and girls have approached us so I guess it's okay, but I'm a picky bastard and don't like relying on chance. I think it was either Mystery or Style who suggested gay bars as well, according to them all contestants will know the deal when they see us making out and appraoches will flood in.

I was wondering if anyone has had any experience of this kind? I'm in the UK as well so I'm guessing it differs from the states?