I just wanted to share a quick thought. I've bought some new clothes recently and one might say that I look homosexual but I've watched a lot of russel Kane recently and his style is awesome. I was out this weekend and when people asked me if I was gay I used his line in which is says I'm just post modern hurraay, followed by a girly spin. Not only do you show that you're in touch with your sexuality but the ambiguity is intriguing and as other people here already mentioned, it totally blows out the AMOG, no matter how alpha they are. I think those days of alpha are over now! Also get yourself some close female friends that you don't sleep with. They will inevidably be attracted to you and going out dancing with 4 female friends whilst being 'post modern' is simply magical :)