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I remember when i was younger I fell for it on yahoo chat or something. Jerked off on webcam and then the person threatened to send my vid to people. I panicked but never sent money. I know better now.
/r/seduction22/03/19 01:59 PM
26

I mean, it’s a movie haha. But I think that unless you’re in the situation, it’s really easy to say what you’ll do. I’m sure you wouldn’t be as rigid as you say you would be if you were in a situation like Steve Carrel’s character was. While I agree there isn’t an excuse for cheating, emotions and life are complicated. You never really know how you’ll react until you’re in a situation like that.
/r/seduction21/03/19 06:27 PM
46

He’s fighting for her because he loves her, they’ve been together since high school, and have kids. I don’t think that’s that outrageous honestly that he wanted to try and make it work with his wife.
/r/seduction21/03/19 05:30 PM
0

As someone who just got out of a one year relationship, reading this was pretty nice. Still trying to work things out with the ex though before I do the online dating again. As fun as it was in the past, I just don’t really want to go back on it.
/r/seduction20/03/19 11:43 PM
5

Man I have had bad luck with comedy show dates. Every time I tried to go to a comedy show/went to one for a date, I never saw the girl again. Granted, it’s possible I was just a shitty date back then because I wasn’t really myself, but point still stands.
/r/seduction01/03/19 03:03 PM
3

Lol this is an amazing image of how I feel.
/r/seduction07/02/19 03:46 AM
4

I think he is the best at giving advice. I don’t see him targeting drunk girls much either. Not like Tyler or other RSD guys.
/r/seduction15/01/19 12:38 AM
0

Nah you aren’t a downer, the guy above is just stupid and treats things as mutually exclusive.
/r/seduction09/12/18 04:06 PM
4

Nah you aren’t a downer, the guy above is just stupid and treats things as mutually exclusive.
/r/seduction09/12/18 04:02 PM
3

At first I thought you called it a grandson and wondered how that was possible.
/r/seduction09/12/18 04:00 PM
1

Cool thanks! Will watch when I get a chance.
/r/seduction31/10/18 02:05 AM
1

So what happened with the 100 approaches in 50 days? You literally never posted anything about it after it was done and it was all from a year prior. I’d be more inclined to take your advice if you actually had an update about it instead of reposting something a year old.
/r/seduction31/10/18 02:01 AM
1

I have to agree with this. I only went to therapy for a few months after I realized it might be beneficial and it helped me a lot. Even just to talk about my issues with a neutral third party. I wish I did it sooner than this year. The only reason I stopped was because I’m going back to school and don’t have much else to talk about right now.
/r/seduction17/10/18 06:21 PM
1

I met my girlfriend on hinge. Hinge is great! I actually matched with some hot girls on it.
/r/seduction13/10/18 05:28 PM
13

All I got out of this is that I should buy Spider-Man.
/r/seduction10/10/18 10:50 PM
0

I don’t do anything beyond just playful flirting as is. I just want a way to do it without feeling like I have to escalate to get reactions. Basically more friendly escalation than anything. I tried to pull the girl to my friends to pawn her off but she was dead set on me.
/r/seduction08/10/18 03:08 PM
0

Lol that would be wild considering I never told my girlfriend where I was going. It was crazy that I had a bunch of attractive women just eyeing me last night. Makes me really wonder how attractive I am on a day to day basis.
/r/seduction07/10/18 03:12 PM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:03 AM
2

I wore a button down that had a really interesting design but wasn’t too overbearing, maroon pants and some steve madden shoes. The outfit just ended up coordinating well which made me feel good. Plus I got a haircut so everything was just fresh af.
/r/seduction24/09/18 01:18 PM
4

I didn’t say much. One I just met through a friend and was talking to/joking with and the other two was just a random conversation at the bar.
/r/seduction24/09/18 02:05 AM
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My advice is to just wear clothes that fit. When going out, don’t wear shorts to a bar (at least not at night). A lot of people think that the more expensive the clothes the better they look but usually, it’s just dependent on fit. I can make a five dollar t-shirt look good if it fits well. Also, avoid anything too flashy. Basically nothing tacky like graphic tees. I love graphic tees but I don’t wear them often when going out unless I can layer them with a jacket or something. It’s hard to give…
/r/seduction23/09/18 06:28 PM
32

I mean, my girlfriend was pissed and ready to fight the two she saw hitting on me so smashing would have been frowned upon haha
/r/seduction23/09/18 04:44 PM
1

My current girlfriend has herpes from an ex and while it does suck, I’m basically not that worried about it. We always use condoms and don’t have sex during breakouts but that’s about it. I should get tested soon though just for my own sanity.
/r/seduction23/09/18 03:22 PM
3

I’m in your position currently. Girlfriend has hsv-2 and before her, I said I would never date someone who has it. What I’m learning from this is that perspective on things changes as you get older and you surprise yourself. I’m also not that worried about it because we use condoms and she takes medication to prevent breakouts and shedding.
/r/seduction23/09/18 03:19 PM
4

Amen.
/r/seduction20/09/18 08:10 PM
6

See that makes sense to me too. But I’d probably be more willing to deal with that type of baggage at your age than the emotional rollercoaster of an 18-21 year old. Believe me, you do what you want to do, but I would definitely not be praising you for being 50+ and being with an 18 year old. No offense or hostility meant behind that, I just think it’s gross.
/r/seduction20/09/18 07:33 PM
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Yeah I don’t understand it. I’m 27 and can barely date 21 year olds when I tried, no idea why a 50 year old dude is being praised for pulling 19 year olds. But I guess the nature of this sub is just like that, to each their own.
/r/seduction20/09/18 04:08 PM
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I hate to be that guy but this doesn’t read very normal. I mean, she’s 18 so whatever but I just can’t help being skeeved out by 50 year old dudes going after college chicks. A lot of dudes here would probably downvote me but the girl is the age of your daughter...how is that worth a high five?
/r/seduction20/09/18 03:49 PM
2

Same here. I was super guilty of it when single. Definitely lost me some girls.
/r/seduction18/09/18 11:15 PM
2

That’s actually not bad...odds are I’m going to completely forget about it but we’ll see.
/r/seduction17/09/18 10:45 PM
1

Hahahs that’s my situation to a T. It’s not even by choice. I just zone out
/r/seduction17/09/18 12:19 AM
1

It’s pretty crazy looking at his old videos and his new ones. I only recently found him but that beard makes him just look like a crazy old dude to me. His life but it just doesn’t look flattering to me as a straight dude.
/r/seduction25/08/18 12:20 AM
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Do you though? I’m gonna get downvoted for this but I wouldn’t want that at 50.
/r/seduction23/08/18 06:59 PM
2

Although I met my current girlfriend online, I do think I had better results when I met someone in person. I was single for a few years after my last relationship and one of the problems I had with online dating was the connection when meeting lacked something. I had a lot of lays online, don’t get me wrong, and I’m not saying that my failures online were due to meeting them online (it was due to other things that I didn’t fully realize until right before I met my girlfriend), but the connection…
/r/seduction23/08/18 04:31 AM
2

I never made the subject about sex with chicks...not sure if you have poor reading comprehension or not.
/r/seduction20/08/18 01:33 PM
2

I mean, for social circle building purposes I want to try and get more female friends.
/r/seduction20/08/18 01:18 PM
2

Seen this before. Dude looks like a serial killer with those angles.
/r/seduction08/08/18 12:00 AM
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I heard Todd describe it as needy vs persistence depends on the quality of the followup
/r/seduction07/08/18 11:58 PM
2

Jesus christ, you have some terrible views about women. They aren’t objects my dude.
/r/seduction07/08/18 03:49 AM
3

Holy crap, it’s like you lack reading comprehension. I never said it was okay for women to do either.
/r/seduction06/08/18 06:34 PM
5

Oh I didn’t get that. But yeah, it was weird. She was touchy as fuck.
/r/seduction06/08/18 05:33 PM
4

I’m pretty baffled myself about the amount of posters saying “women do it too!” Just because women do it, doesn’t mean you should do it.
/r/seduction06/08/18 05:32 PM
5

You carry on the conversation by saying “its not working” and then never speak to them again. How os this difficult to understand? I’m not saying keep talking to her lol
/r/seduction06/08/18 04:49 PM
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I’m not disagreeing but to act like ghosting is awful and then doing it to someone just screams hypocrite, hence why I recommend not to do it. I just see a ton of guys bitching about it (me included) and then doing it to women.
/r/seduction06/08/18 04:15 PM
2

I’m just speaking from my own perspective. I personally don’t like when I’m ghosted so I think she has a right to be pissed, even if it’s childish.
/r/seduction06/08/18 04:13 PM
1

Yup. Same here. I’m not the type of person anymore to call it out in a serious manner but may call it out as a joke depending on the interaction. It sucks but it doesn’t mean you should ghost just because you were ghosted by someone.
/r/seduction06/08/18 03:27 PM
4

I’m not condoning that either. It happened to me a few times and it sucks. You either have to get better at sex or just suck it up. Ghosting sucks on both sides.
/r/seduction06/08/18 03:25 PM
3

I never told her I was looking for a relationship. Just to be clear.
/r/seduction06/08/18 03:06 PM
4

How so? Girl was being a little too touchy with me while drunk and it got a little weird.
/r/seduction06/08/18 03:05 PM
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That’s what I would argue too. I forgot this girl was friends with my buddy’s girlfriend. If there was no chance of me seeing her again, I wouldn’t have made this type of post. But I saw her again this weekend for the first time since we had sex and it just wasn’t a situation I would like to repeat. If there is no chance of seeing a girl again, you’re safer to ghost but I wouldn’t really push that option if possible.
/r/seduction06/08/18 01:53 PM
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I agree with you but on the other hand, don’t be surprised if it bites you in the ass one day. I’m just sending this message out to guys that what happened this weekend with me can happen with you if you don’t just spend two minutes telling the girl you slept with that you aren’t feeling it or even making up something like you met someone. It’s really just easier that way assuming she won’t stalk you or blow your phone up. I can agree with ghosting if the girl is crazy or can’t take a hint and k…
/r/seduction06/08/18 01:50 PM
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Luckily I wasn’t with my girlfriend at that time and met up with her after but point still stands. I would have been extremely embarrassed in front of my girlfriend if she was there because this girl got so offended and was so drunk that she couldn’t just save her feelings to discuss later.
/r/seduction06/08/18 01:28 PM
1

Yeah I feel you on that. I really just wanted to have it end so I came up with an excuse for it and all seemed forgiven. It wasn’t fun being called an asshole and piece of shit for several hours lol
/r/seduction06/08/18 12:12 PM
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Hahaha no kidding
/r/seduction06/08/18 12:05 PM
2

I mean, I remember me just never reaching out to her again and moving on. It was literally after we had sex. Like we had sex once and I was just over it, especially since her personality wasn’t at all what I wanted to deal with.
/r/seduction06/08/18 12:05 PM
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Yeah I’m surprised by the weird backlash I’m getting just for saying to be civil. Ghosting sucks and sometimes doing it to get back at someone is nice for the ego, but if someone hates it being the norm, why do it to others?
/r/seduction06/08/18 12:01 PM
1

Yup. I was just trying to get my notches up so I kinda went a little wild with women who weren’t very much my type.
/r/seduction06/08/18 12:00 PM
3

I mean, I agree but then don’t complain if they do the same to you. I’m just stressing that in most cases its better to just send a “hey I’m not interested” to a girl.
/r/seduction06/08/18 11:59 AM
2

How am I part if the problem? I’m advocating for no one to do it because it might bite you in the ass one day. I really didn’t enjoy being called an asshole and a disgrace all night by a drunk girl because I didn’t remember to just say “hey this isn’t working for me”. Obviously you can do what you want but then don’t complain when you get ghosted either. I just try not to be the type of person who complains about ghosting from girls and then ends up doing the same thing.
/r/seduction06/08/18 11:57 AM
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Nope. But she wanted it. I have a girlfriend now.
/r/seduction06/08/18 11:52 AM
11

That Luke description is always funny because I too doubt his shit.
/r/seduction06/08/18 03:46 AM
1

I can tell you right now you’re overthinking. Essentially what you want to do is pay attention to how the girls react when you touch them. Start off with little touches to emphasize a point and then see what happens. If she moves away, take note and cut it for a little, then try again. As for kissing, you just have to go for it. There isn’t ever going to be a best time. In terms of being sexual, that varies girl to girl. Some might think you’re too forward and others might not mind. You have to …
/r/seduction01/08/18 05:42 AM
6

As someone who used Tinder, OkCupid, Bumble, etc. as a main venue to get laid, I don’t think night game is dying. What’s happening instead is guys don’t approach women as much anymore as I’m guessing they used to because they have access to millions of girls on these apps. Dating is just changing. Whether it’s changing for better or worse is debatable.
/r/seduction01/08/18 05:38 AM
1

So I didn’t mention it in my write up but I did kiss her and make my intentions clear. I basically joked about she was going to take me out to dinner. It is possible I just wasn’t forward enough though.
/r/seduction22/07/18 07:38 PM
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Just so people know, this is all from a year ago. Not that it makes much of a difference but I think it’s important that you at least post where you are at today after this challenge.
/r/seduction18/07/18 09:05 PM
1

This is EXTREMELY dependent on city. I’m in New York and most people here do not drive at my age (though I have my license). But yeah I agree with you about this. OP shouldn’t have done what he did with girl 1.
/r/seduction17/07/18 04:27 AM
2

I had this issue a lot. Honestly, sometimes it really is that the girls just don’t feel it, which is okay. But when it happens a few times back to back, that’s when I reevaluated my approach. When I got a bit better, I was getting to third dates and then a “I’m not feeling it” after that. I realized part of that was me just not being myself and being too agreeable. Also, when I started to really date, I was heavy on kino, too heavy. I noticed it after a while and then recalibrated to actually lo…
/r/seduction17/07/18 04:25 AM
1

Do what Todd does. When you open, you can either go direct and say “hey, how’s it going? Thought you were cute.” Or you’re talking and then she says something and you can say something like “oh wow, keep talking like that and I may just have to marry you” or “yeah I can already tell this won’t work between us, you’re cute but too feisty for me and I don’t think I can handle you” or something (would be better with context since what I wrote sounds like a weird neg). Basically, anything can be dir…
/r/seduction17/07/18 04:18 AM
3

You probably are coming off too strong and not reading their reactions. That’s when I had trouble getting second dates. Also, you might be too agreeable which is boring them. Just something to consider. Tinder and online dating in general is a crapshoot because of the many options there.
/r/seduction11/07/18 12:16 AM
1

It depends how detailed at this point in my life. If a girl is like “yeah, I had crazy sex with this guy” it wouldn’t bother me as much as the details of what made it crazy. Also, it doesn’t really bother as you as much once you get experience.
/r/seduction07/07/18 01:34 AM
1

Hey if t works for you it works. I personally prefer to be a little more persistent up to a certain point because I have success with it.
/r/seduction05/07/18 10:41 PM
3

This is something I’m noticing a lot the older I get. There are people in my life who I just kinda feel “meh” about and like my life doesn’t really benefit from hanging out with them. They aren’t bad people but it’s just meh. Then there are people who I really like spending time with and bring out the best in me. These people are the ones I want to keep hanging with because the energy is just so different.
/r/seduction28/06/18 12:15 AM
5

I want to know how you manage this.
/r/seduction28/06/18 12:11 AM
4

I don’t think it’s complicated so much as it is sold as something that’s complicated. What this means is that you have guys like RSD who put out videos with all these tricks and lines and phrases that make some guys think “oh if I say this this and this to the girl, she’ll automatically like me.” Essentially, guys get into the mindset of women being like computers where theres always the same outcome which obviously isn’t true because people respond to emotion and what works on one woman wouldn’…
/r/seduction25/06/18 12:08 PM
5

His project was from a year ago.
/r/seduction16/06/18 07:36 PM
2

Pretty much. It also just depends on how much the woman likes you. What one woman considers desperate anther might not. The goal posts shift depending on your behavior.
/r/seduction14/06/18 05:51 PM
2

Good point.
/r/seduction14/06/18 04:44 PM
1

Thanks for your sage advice!
/r/seduction14/06/18 04:44 PM
1

It becomes desperation when you can’t take no for an answer. It all kinda depends with how you do it. If you sound whiny, it sounds desperate. If you say shit with a light attitude, its fine.
/r/seduction14/06/18 04:39 PM
1

I don’t really want to do that since I’m in a relationship and not THAT desperate. I’d consider it if I was single though.
/r/seduction14/06/18 04:12 PM
1

Yup. Got her coffee and left
/r/seduction14/06/18 04:11 PM
2

Persistence is good! As long as you don’t pressure her it can work in your favor. I would just say something like “nah, I prefer women your age” to be direct. I would cut through the bullshit with her and just ask her to drinks. Plus, since you sexted, it’s a good thing.
/r/seduction14/06/18 01:59 PM
1

Hahaha to be honest I think I have at least 30. I lost count because I just wasn’t about it anymore. I also did a lot of online dating and the flings were short so I stacked up a bit quickly. I’ll also be honest and say I put off doing approaches in person so I respect anyone who doesn’t do online. It’s easy mode for getting dates for me.
/r/seduction13/06/18 10:50 PM
2

You only have 5 lays. This proves my point exactly. I’m not saying it matters but if you give advice, at least have numbers to back it up mr “I have turned down foursomes”. This has to be a joke.
/r/seduction13/06/18 08:20 PM
1

Lol you take this all so personally.
/r/seduction13/06/18 02:26 PM
1

Okay. Were your friends the ones who downvoted me too?
/r/seduction13/06/18 01:09 PM
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Yo why am I the only person on this sub that doesn’t buy OPs bullshit? I can’t be the only one who read this and immediately thought “this guy is literally just a keyboard warrior regurgitating Mystery Method”. There’s no way to verify it one way or the other and I don’t really care enough anyway, but c’mon guys. That said, this is a nice a solid list.
/r/seduction13/06/18 12:13 PM
2

I’m jumping in here because I too want a picture. I’ve been trying to hype him up too and it’s like talking to a blackhole.
/r/seduction12/06/18 09:20 PM
1

Eirher shit or get off the potb
/r/seduction12/06/18 09:15 PM
1

Jesus man, you’re a pussy. You apologized to me for being confrontational when I’m the one being confrontational. You need to re-evaluate your life more. Your problem is that you’re too shy, too nice and a pussy. I guarantee that’s your problem. You also give up too easily and probably let people walk over you too much.
/r/seduction12/06/18 06:48 PM
1

The frustrating thing about talking to guys like you is you seem to kinda just act like you gave up on dating when you aren’t even old. It’s good that you go to the gym and all that but my dude, it’s like you’re looking for validation about your feelings of giving up. I don’t understand it. Either make a move on girls or don’t that’s it.
/r/seduction12/06/18 03:18 PM
1

Alrifht do what you want dude. You want to be a pussy be a pussy.
/r/seduction12/06/18 11:59 AM
1

I think therapy would help you because you talk like someone who gave up already. Therapy is never a bad thing. It helped me with my own issues.
/r/seduction12/06/18 03:48 AM
1

The fact that you’re in a place where you are actively battling me telling you your situation can be fixed tells me all I need to know. Your mentality is warped in the sense that you think the boat sailed and that you believe you’re ugly when I bet you aren’t. I bet you need a nice haircut and wardrobe and you’ll be okay.
/r/seduction12/06/18 01:57 AM
1

So I find it hard to believe you’re as unattractive as you say you are. My whole point is that it isn’t too late for you to turn your dating life around. That’s all I’m saying bro. The fact that you think that is why I think you need therapy. Life doesn’t stop until you die.
/r/seduction12/06/18 01:38 AM
1

Jesus dude, you need therapy. Have you ever asked a girl out?
/r/seduction12/06/18 01:26 AM
2

So you haven’t missed the boat. Bro, don’t be so negative. Keep putting yourself out there. Do you ask girls out if you like them? Do you show your interest?
/r/seduction11/06/18 08:07 PM
3

I don’t understand, are you in a relationship or have you just given up? Because 26 for me was probably the most successful year. But I also used a lot of online dating which is kinda easy mode. Anyway, if you “gave up” don’t.
/r/seduction11/06/18 12:53 PM
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I don’t think I ever experienced it either. I’ve experienced renewed friendships that lasted a month or something because the girl enjoyed attention but never a “let’a have sex...nvm our schedules don’t line up” thing.
/r/seduction08/06/18 06:24 PM
1

Part of it is just not caring as much. I’ve been there too.
/r/seduction21/05/18 01:06 PM
2

Your field reports go into some weird details my dude. I appreciate you trying to paint a picture of what the girl looks like, but for some reason they just read like r/thathappened material to me.
/r/seduction18/05/18 04:36 AM
6

That FYI is why whatever you say should be taken with a grain of salt. You clearly got defensive to bring that fact up.
/r/seduction13/05/18 09:15 PM
1

Like others have said, there really isn’t such a thing as too fast or too slow because each person is different. Just keep doing what you’re doing. My only piece of advice is to not overwhelm her with texts or needy shit. Try to stay busy instead of always talking to her. It’s different once you’re in a relationship obviously but in early stages limit it a bit.
/r/seduction13/05/18 03:00 PM
4

I too want to know.
/r/seduction13/05/18 02:55 PM
1

The problem with PUA is it’s viewed as manipulative thanks to Neil Strauss. Everyone who gets into it at first thinks it’s some way to get laid by having the right lines that will automatically drop panties (at least I did when I was in high school and college). Then I got more experience and through A LOT of trial and error realized it’s just about improving yourself and getting better at approaching everyone. Anyway, the reason it’s stigmatized is because you have men who are misogynists and t…
/r/seduction09/05/18 09:52 PM
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Top 10 Anime team-ups
/r/seduction04/05/18 12:15 AM
2

I’m just referring to the whole “if she’s under 28 and wants a boyfriend, reconsider her” comment made by the guy. Not to white knight or anything but the main problem with this sub is some comments really make women seem like second class beings. His other points are good but the whole idea that a woman under 28 looking for a boyfriend has something wrong with her isn’t true.
/r/seduction03/05/18 03:46 AM
3

This is what I keep preaching. This entire PUA thing is a bunch of bullshit meant to sell a service, when all it really does is attempt to make you more social so that you think “oh I learned lines to attract women!” When it’s actually you just became more comfortable talking to different people and got your social juices flowing. That’s it.
/r/seduction03/05/18 12:56 AM
0

Dude, don’t take that advice completely seriously, what the fuck?
/r/seduction03/05/18 12:45 AM
18

I always laugh when I hear Boomhauer talk. “How bout a size Boom baby?”
/r/seduction03/05/18 12:43 AM
68

I hate that this is so funny to me. A friend of mine actually got drugged once and said it was the scariest experience of his life.
/r/seduction30/04/18 04:18 PM
1

You realize you just responded to a bot?
/r/seduction28/04/18 08:02 PM
1

Ok
/r/seduction28/04/18 01:16 AM
1

You’re fucking weird dude.
/r/seduction27/04/18 10:10 PM
1

Lol hey man, if you’re into hearing about guys nutting, that’s on you.
/r/seduction27/04/18 09:23 PM
1

But why’s it matter? You get off to thinking about guys nutting?
/r/seduction27/04/18 08:56 PM
1

...if he’a fucking it’s implied he nutted.
/r/seduction27/04/18 05:33 PM
1

Dude, why do you ask all these weird fucking questions about if the guy nuts? Every comment I read of yours just reads like you try too hard to be “alpha”.
/r/seduction27/04/18 04:05 PM
10

This is actually really fucking good. I wish I knew about this sooner.
/r/seduction24/04/18 11:26 PM
4

I always write like that. I hate sending blocks of text.
/r/seduction24/04/18 11:25 PM
4

Yeah, no shit. It either ends in a breakup or death. That’s not my point.
/r/seduction23/04/18 12:24 PM
4

What? Hey man, if you have trust issues, that’s on you. I never said you were wrong in the sense that shit happens but I also think a lot of your points are some personal baggage that you have. Yeah, there are cheaters out there. But you acting like all women are the same or at least writing about them like they’re the same is one thing I hate about this sub.
/r/seduction23/04/18 12:23 PM
9

Your goal should be to have fun. Obviously if you go out with a goal to pull and you don’t, you’ll be disappointed.
/r/seduction22/04/18 09:18 PM
24

So do men. What’s the point? Can’t go through life expecting your partner to cheat on you eventually.
/r/seduction22/04/18 09:16 PM
37

What’s with all these ideas about women eventually cheating? I get that it happens but this entire list makes it sound like no matter what, don’t commit to one woman because she’ll cheat.
/r/seduction22/04/18 07:43 PM
3

Why are you commenting on irrelevant posts of mine? Not only are you a piece of shit, you’re a dumb piece of shit. Go cry in your fucking closet.
/r/seduction20/04/18 08:58 PM
3

Wrong post dumbfuck. I’d rather see you kill yourself you nasty piece of shit.
/r/seduction20/04/18 07:11 PM
1

Ain’t gonna fuck with an attitude like yours. I’m all about the fucking and getting better at it but social game is important too.
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:36 PM
1

Or he could just not try so hard and look at this as a networking opportunity to grow his social network.
/r/seduction20/04/18 02:57 PM
1

Is this just a fantasy of yours or what?
/r/seduction20/04/18 02:40 PM
1

You have no clue what you’re talking about. The only chance he has is because he has her number. At this point he should just go, have fun and meet people without focusing on her.
/r/seduction20/04/18 02:29 PM
1

What in the tests gives you ANY fucking clue she wants him? Yeah it could happen, but it could also not. I’m not sure what you’re seeing here that I’m not.
/r/seduction20/04/18 02:28 PM
1

Dude what? Are you mental?
/r/seduction20/04/18 12:06 PM
1

To meet her friends and possibly hook up with them.
/r/seduction20/04/18 12:04 PM
1

Just bring your own alcohol
/r/seduction20/04/18 03:16 AM
3

Yup summed up my feelings exactly. Things can change in the next few days and she might lose interest. This guy is celebrating himself losing his virginity before anything even happened. I’m glad he made progress but this just sounds like it’s going to lead to disappointment for him.
/r/seduction17/04/18 12:16 AM
1

I agree with this. I’m told I’m good looking all the time but I still have to work for it. Yeah, I can get away with a lot of shit usually but at a certain point you have to learn to talk and conversate with people without sounding like a dumbass. I don’t get approached nearly as often as my friend, who is 6’2” and good looking (hell I never get approached) but I’m outgoing enough to be able to open the door more than him because I make moves rather than wait for moves to be made on me.
/r/seduction03/04/18 07:07 PM
0

Yeah so I posted on r/herpes and I have someone blaming me for not thinking to ask the girl first if she was clean before going down on her...
/r/seduction28/03/18 09:09 PM
1

I appreciate your advice here. Thank you.
/r/seduction28/03/18 08:59 PM
1

I mean, this is strike one in this case. That’s what I’m thinking at least.
/r/seduction28/03/18 08:46 PM
1

That’s what I’m concerned about. I never actually thought of myself as being the type of person to actually wrestle with this since I never expected to ever have a partner with herpes. I’m talking to her about it more in depth today because I only found out by text and I’ll see how she reacts in person before I can make a decision. If she looks or reacts remorsefully, I’ll have a harder time than if she reacts with a straight face. I also already did some research so it’s not actually THAT bad g…
/r/seduction28/03/18 08:37 PM
1

Well yeah, I’m not exactly going to deny any of that.
/r/seduction28/03/18 08:30 PM
0

It’s easier said than done haha. I know it’s not the end of the world if I just end things with her now, but I do like her and she seems more or less responsible aside from that omission.
/r/seduction28/03/18 07:34 PM
0

I’ve never been tested for it. But I’m std free as far as I know based on my tests for other STDs.
/r/seduction28/03/18 07:33 PM
2

I think I figured out which bar from your comment. Is it PDT?
/r/seduction23/03/18 03:50 AM
1

I haven’t slept with 100 women but I know what you mean somewhat. I have a lot of trouble getting passed three dates with someone before I get a “there was no connection” text. Lately it’s been better but I also found someone recently that I really like so things are going well with her and progressing into a possible relationship. I think you just have to try not sleeping on a first or second date and getting to know the girl better. It might help your mindset.
/r/seduction23/03/18 03:49 AM
3

They'll weed themselves out, especially if it's only 2 dates and 1 date with each. I was in your shoes a few times and it just worked itself out.
/r/seduction20/03/18 12:24 AM
1

I just say I’m not looking for anything in particular but I’m open to anything. That’s what I always went with because it was the truth.
/r/seduction18/03/18 09:28 PM
1

You stop focusing on an outcome and just have fun. That helps me a lot. Especially when nothing ends up happening because then I can at least be like “oh I had fun at least”.
/r/seduction18/03/18 09:27 PM
1

Thanks bro. I’m not gonna lie, I’m kinda nervous since date three is the make or break in my experience and I get the “I’m not feeling a connection” text from the girl. I’m really digging her so I’m trying not to overthink it since she seems to dig me as well.
/r/seduction12/03/18 07:37 PM
2

Yeah, we had a date this weekend and planned a third date. Shit is lit so far.
/r/seduction12/03/18 07:33 PM
4

Ha I remember that bad video. It was posted a week ago. It was pretty dumb how they just kinda acted like all girls cheat on their men, etc. just for a few new benefits in a club or something. I also have trouble believing Luke pulls. He seems like a personable guy from the videos I watched but I want to see him actually pull.
/r/seduction10/03/18 09:42 PM
4

While I agree with you, I think it should be emphasized more to not focus on these people who flake on you. Like yeah, give it another shot but don’t start thinking “okay she flaked but I’m still going to try later” and then put the person on the pedestal.
/r/seduction05/03/18 04:54 AM
1

This is what I do as well.
/r/seduction05/03/18 04:53 AM
1

But explain to me why you’re so bitter though. Do you need to watch someone have sex before you believe them? I’m not even defending PUA, I just find it bizarre that you’re so hostile over something like this. Have you not had sex or something?
/r/seduction04/03/18 07:37 PM
2

What makes you think I have them? I’m confused.
/r/seduction03/03/18 08:26 PM
3

I still don’t understand why you’re so hostile. It’s fine if you disagree but you’re being very hostile and bitter over this.
/r/seduction03/03/18 03:23 PM
1

What? I’m going to guess you tried their stuff and expected to automatically get laid? I’m not defending PUA because I think a lot of them are just full of shit but I just found Simple Pickup funny and entertaining.
/r/seduction02/03/18 03:07 PM
1

Sources? Because this is the first time I heard of that.
/r/seduction02/03/18 01:06 PM
1

Not sure why you were downvoted, Simple Pickup was great back in the day. I found it funny as fuck.
/r/seduction02/03/18 04:30 AM
1

I mean it’s a little of A and a little of B because I do want to expand the circle haha. I already invited the friend out...along with some of my friends and a tinder girl I met. I don’t plan to invite the target out or talk to her until the party. I’m just trying to get a group of people together for a fun night out and remembered the target’s friend who I got along with anyway.
/r/seduction28/02/18 08:04 PM
1

I’m just curious here, what’s the protocol for inviting her friend out? I don’t plan to make a move on the friend, I just want to expand my social circle so I invited the friend out to hang with my friends. I don’t want to look like I’m one of those guys who swings around either (not that I mind, I just don’t want to come off like that type of guy if it’s going to hurt me with the girl I actually want to try a bit more with). I already had one of her friends’ numbers that I got because I met the…
/r/seduction28/02/18 07:26 PM
1

I’m just curious here, what’s the protocol for inviting her friend out? I don’t plan to make a move on the friend, I just want to expand my social circle so I invited the friend out to hang with my friends. I don’t want to look like I’m one of those guys who swings around either (not that I mind, I just don’t want to come off like that type of guy if it’s going to hurt me with the girl I actually want to try a bit more with)
/r/seduction28/02/18 07:23 PM
1

That’s the plan here. I’m not going to contact her anymore before the party unless she contacts me. I’m tired of chasing excessively at this point. Which is why I just don’t really care if I left the ball in her court.
/r/seduction27/02/18 03:19 PM
1

That’s how I feel. She’s either neutral or just friendly. I’m fine with it either way. It’s just annoying because I vibed with her when I met her haha.
/r/seduction27/02/18 01:11 PM
2

I hear ya. She’s one of those girls that I got signals of interest from and vibed with when I met her so I’m just wondering if she’s playing hard to get or just being friendly. I’m not putting too much stock in it or anything, I’m just kinda confused.
/r/seduction27/02/18 01:08 PM
1

It’s hard with this one because I got signs she was possibly interested when I met her the first time. Hence why I’m confused if she’s interested or just friendly haha.
/r/seduction27/02/18 01:06 PM
1

I just told her a time and date I was free. Not the whole location shit. I mainly did it to see if she would give an alternate date.
/r/seduction27/02/18 01:04 PM
5

The Aristocrats!
/r/seduction27/02/18 05:17 AM
5

That’s a good one for next time.
/r/seduction27/02/18 03:54 AM
-27

I get it. I just like to give people benefit of the doubt until I know them a bit better. People are all different so with her it might be a little more of a time thing where she needs to get to know someone better or something. I’m still hitting on other women always. Edit: Holy downvotes batman! Fuck me for being positive based on what I know about her amiright?
/r/seduction27/02/18 03:36 AM
1

Makes sense. I’m just gonna hit on her anyway at the party haha. I was just looking for fun ideas as to how to handle this situation because I was in it before and ended up sleeping with the girl after a few years.
/r/seduction27/02/18 03:01 AM
3

That’s pretty much my plan now. I’m seeing her in a few weeks at a party regardless so I’m not too invested.
/r/seduction27/02/18 02:51 AM
0

It’s possible. Or she’s legitimately busy/playing hard to get. I’m still seeing her at a party so I’m just looking for ideas as to how to have fun with this.
/r/seduction27/02/18 02:47 AM
1

Oh I agree with you about the point you make regarding how I stack up against other guys. I’m not sure why I asked that for this particular girl since I never ask that usually.
/r/seduction23/02/18 01:10 PM
0

I mean, I’d rather ask for feedback like “how do you like this?” The first time so I can get to bang regularly. I don’t want myself to look like I can’t fuck and not get any anymore.
/r/seduction23/02/18 02:52 AM
1

Uh...you want to talk about what led to your issues there pal?
/r/seduction22/02/18 09:58 PM
1

True that!
/r/seduction22/02/18 06:30 PM
1

I’ll probably just end up waiting until Monday and seeing what my schedule looks like and give her options. I’m not really that concerned about it. I just wanted to ask her out so now that I did that, I feel better.
/r/seduction22/02/18 06:29 PM
1

We’ll see I guess haha
/r/seduction22/02/18 05:05 PM
1

That’s how I’m thinking already. I don’t want to hit her up with a “so when are you free/how’s work looking this week?” (Though I am tempted haha). She knows I asked, she told me and she seems genuine based on what I know about her, so this is on her now. I’m just happy I asked.
/r/seduction22/02/18 02:32 PM
1

Yup. I’m supposed to be going to a party she’s planning soon anyway. I just wanted to get her on a date before it. So in this case I have a few options where I can see and gauge her behavior.
/r/seduction22/02/18 02:30 PM
1

That’s my thinking exactly. I’m trying not to be pessimistic in my life so I’m looking at this from an optimists pov.
/r/seduction22/02/18 02:29 PM
2

That’s why in this case I’m leaving it in her court based on past interactions. I genuinely believe she will get back to me either way and I have a plan for whatever her response might be. I’m not hoping or praying, I just don’t want to look like I have nothing better to do than ask her when she’s free at this point.
/r/seduction22/02/18 02:28 PM
0

Well, she works a lot I think so I’m not really too worried about it and I don’t care that much. I get what you’re saying but I also just don’t want to look desperate either. I rather just leave it and let her come to me given our past interactions.
/r/seduction22/02/18 05:08 AM
1

My advice is to just read more. And ask questions. What your friend said was a no brainer though. Obviously people are going to be excited to talk about things they know more about and like than things they aren’t interested in. How was that a surprise to her?
/r/seduction22/02/18 01:18 AM
1

Man that app fucking blows
/r/seduction22/02/18 12:09 AM
13

Yeah you need better friends dude. Friends don’t talk down to other friends.
/r/seduction22/02/18 12:05 AM
1

I’ll give you my POV on it. So I do A LOT of online dating. My trouble used to be that I couldn’t get a text back after the first date. Now my problem is usually getting 3 dates and then a “there wasn’t any chemistry but we can be friends”. I thought the same thing as you, that friendship would lead to me getting to know their friends, which would lead to more opportunities. So I said okay. How many of those actually turned into a friendship? Only 1. The rest just used the “let’s be friends” lin…
/r/seduction21/02/18 05:00 AM
2

Yeah...don’t take what the second girl did too seriously. She was only talking to you to get you to sign her stuff. Not to sound negative but you’re assuming too much.
/r/seduction21/02/18 04:47 AM
1

Yeah I know. It’s mainly just because she said she was going to invite me and friends to a party so I’m waiting for the invite. That way if I get rejected, I at least have a party invite!
/r/seduction19/02/18 11:07 PM
1

Already did that and then we talked a bit. Didn’t ask her out yet though or talk to her since haha. I’m being kinda patient with it.
/r/seduction19/02/18 10:57 PM
1

I got her facebook so I’m using that instead of texting for the time being.
/r/seduction19/02/18 10:33 PM
1

I’ve had this happen fairly recently too. My advice is too do as you said, talk to other women. Or just focus on your own life and improve so you don’t look too desperate. I’m actually in a similar situation now where I met a girl I’m really into but I never went on a one on one date with her so I’m kinda trying to figure out the best way to go about it because I felt a decent vibe and connection with her despite not even making out or anything.
/r/seduction19/02/18 09:50 PM
6

“You have in the past though”
/r/seduction17/02/18 01:59 AM
2

Yup. I messed up here haha. The problem was that I started talking to one girl and found out we’re neighbors so I obviously asked for her number to keep in touch. Then I got to talking to her friend who I found myself enjoying a lot more and forgot to ask for the number.
/r/seduction13/02/18 01:07 PM
1

How direct do you think I should be?
/r/seduction13/02/18 12:50 AM
2

That was what I was leaning towards too.
/r/seduction12/02/18 04:39 PM
1

Thanks for the response. My issue lately is that I go on three dates with girls and then get the “I don’t feel a connection” from them. I just don’t really understand what I’m doing wrong when interacting with people at times since I’m trying to improve myself but I’ll give this stuff a shot.
/r/seduction03/02/18 03:59 AM
2

Hey Nick, is there a way to get better at building chemistry? My issue is that I restrict myself when talking to people because I don’t want to overload them all that much and it makes me look like a pussy or something on dates. I basically play it really safe in terms of conversation and I’m trying to change that.
/r/seduction02/02/18 04:15 AM
1

But on the other side of the coin, can’t it also come off as putting your foot down since other guys will just play along? I’m not saying you tell her to stop and then keep talking to her. I’m saying you tell her to stop then leave.
/r/seduction01/02/18 02:34 AM
2

I don’t understand if Luke gets laid at all. I see him in some of the videos and I just don’t get it. Is it a way to get the guys to believe looks don’t matter? Because I don’t know anything about the guy but he looks like the token fat guy.
/r/seduction30/01/18 12:47 AM
3

Looks are definitely probably more important in my opinion. I mean yeah at a certain point you have to know how to talk but looks are important.
/r/seduction28/01/18 03:24 PM
1

Alright. So then what do I do after the dancing? Because I’m not some dance god but I would like to also talk to the girls and get to know them.
/r/seduction28/01/18 03:22 PM
1

Have you guys had sex or anything yet?
/r/seduction28/01/18 03:20 PM
2

I had to reread what he posted because I thought the girl said that about herself haha. But yeah OP, listen to this guy above me.
/r/seduction28/01/18 03:19 PM
1

I have this same issue. Either I get bored after three dates or they get bored and tell me they “don’t feel a connection” after three dates. Some of this is due to me being clingy if I like the girl, some of it is due to me making cutesy coupley comments like you did which can scare people off. It’s also possible that you don’t have depth as others are saying. I’m guilty of it too because I don’t like talking about the heavy shit early on. I suggest just being more aware of how you behave next t…
/r/seduction27/01/18 02:07 PM
1

I mean it differs among people but I find myself really often running out of shit to say. I just want to get better at starting engaging conversations as opposed to just saying random things during silences and hoping it would stick.
/r/seduction22/01/18 02:04 AM
1

I mean, that’s fine but when I start noticing I have some trouble holding basic conversations beyond interview questions with people, it gets annoying.
/r/seduction22/01/18 12:16 AM
1

A little of A and a little of B. Last night it was just to get laid.
/r/seduction21/01/18 08:04 PM
1

But I want to become Channing Tatum! /s Honestly, for me it’s just that I feel like all the women I meet, I have to put in more effort than they do and it’s annoying. I just get attached too quickly in varying degrees.
/r/seduction19/01/18 05:16 PM
1

Man, I have no idea how to do it. I just lose interest really quickly lately and the women I am interested in don’t want me haha.
/r/seduction19/01/18 03:28 PM
1

Yup. I mean, not too much because I became too safe about it after the first date but there were sexual conversations this time. Usually I just play it by ear to see if this girl is the type to have sexual conversations.
/r/seduction08/01/18 01:11 PM
1

So to point 2, I agree with you in that I kept making relationshipy and coupley jokes/comments/gestures way too early. I think I definitely showed my hand too early rather than just play it cool. I got way too comfortable and into it that I just forgot we were dating casually at the moment. I guess all those comments just made her think “is this someone I want to be in a relationship with since he’s clearly looking”. Because I really thought there was a connection hence the shock and surprise th…
/r/seduction08/01/18 03:32 AM
1

Escalation isn’t my problem for the most part. My problem is apparently not being better than the other guy because I can’t make her feel emotions with me among other things I think. This last one I think really opened my eyes as to what my problem may be so I at least have that going for me.
/r/seduction08/01/18 03:13 AM
1

Usually barcades, dinner, museums, walks in parks. Dinner isn’t until date 2 or 3 usually. My issue is living in such a big city, I tend to stick to going to the same places and not really know any other fun spots.
/r/seduction08/01/18 01:43 AM
1

Okay. How do I be more fun? I need ideas because I view myself as fun but clearly I might be lacking it.
/r/seduction08/01/18 01:35 AM
1

How do you qualify someone? I might need a refresher on that.
/r/seduction08/01/18 01:17 AM
1

I did fuck them...I’m just confused with how to even try to improve myself because I see myself one way and these girls see me another way. I do escalate, I do fuck them, but then after three dates I either get ghosted or told there is no chemistry by the ones I like. I think from this girl I learned that I have to be more assertive/less “nice”. And I think I should stop with the coupley relationship stuff after the second date and save it for later.
/r/seduction08/01/18 01:17 AM
1

Well I know all that. And I think that’s where I messed up here and it took me until her to realize it may have been why I fucked up on other dates where I felt some chemistry.
/r/seduction08/01/18 12:51 AM
1

I think I am fun though. That’s the issue. After the first few dates I just can’t keep momentum going for some reason.
/r/seduction08/01/18 12:50 AM
2

I usually do that. I just slowed it down to inly one at a time so I can focus on my own professional development as opposed to constantly dating.
/r/seduction07/01/18 11:21 PM
1

She’s really open about her opinions so her saying I was too nice wasn’t meant to be a bad thing. I think I just stopped being challenging to her after the first date and became too agreeable when I realized I liked her/made relationship references and jokes when I shouldn’t have at this stage, basically I moved too fast with that cutesy stuff because I got comfortable. She seemed to like some of it but I guess it was too much.
/r/seduction07/01/18 09:38 PM
1

I should do that. Which is why I’m weening myself off dating apps for a while. I did it after I met her because I meant to do it for a while anyway.
/r/seduction07/01/18 08:44 PM
1

I mean, I wasn’t hiding my vulnerability from her. At all. I just don’t really like talking too soon about heavy topics.
/r/seduction07/01/18 08:43 PM
1

Yup I definitely made a mistake of bringing up relationships with this one. I just really fell for her and kinda looked way too far ahead after the second date.
/r/seduction07/01/18 08:41 PM
1

It’s definitely not the lack of touching and kissing. I do that plenty. I think it’s more that I stopped challenging her after the first date and stopped being as ballsy.
/r/seduction07/01/18 08:40 PM
6

How do you do that without coming off as weak?
/r/seduction07/01/18 07:28 PM
1

A lot are from online, this one included. Honestly, I’m fine with hooking up but I’d rather it be with someone I can see myself dating. I think its a little of both that I’m guilty of.
/r/seduction07/01/18 07:19 PM
3

Just something consistent honestly. I’m more open to relationships now at this point in my life than a year ago though.
/r/seduction07/01/18 07:05 PM
6

Kissing, yes. Joking, usually but play it safe. Decisions, I try at that. It’s possible I’m too much of a pushover agreeable type. I wouldn’t say doormat though.
/r/seduction07/01/18 06:59 PM
1

I tried that and it doesn’t really work in my favor. I don’t always respond immediately either.
/r/seduction07/01/18 06:49 PM
1

I don’t really know how to explain it. I just get affectionate really fast. Like with this last girl, I was blowing kisses at her as a joke and she was laughing and smiling at that. So it gets me confused if that was a factor or if she was okay with it. I’m not even upset that it ended as much as I’m upset that I get the same reason of no connection. I think part of it is me playing it too safe and being too agreeable, which I still don’t really understand too well because I don’t want to rock t…
/r/seduction07/01/18 06:25 PM
3

Yeah. I have sex after the second or third date usually.
/r/seduction07/01/18 06:15 PM
1

I think part of it is me moving too fast to coupley shit. Like if I really like the girl, I start to act coupley too soon. I don’t genuinely mean it all the time but they interpret it as me wanting something they might not, regardless of if I mean it or not. Or I’m too nice like this girl said and act too agreeable not to rock the boat too early.
/r/seduction07/01/18 06:14 PM
3

I think it’s gotten better than its been before.
/r/seduction07/01/18 05:29 PM
1

I have no issues escalating. The issue is creating a lasting connection after three dates apparently. I got to the point where I can do first and second dates with no issues but after the third is when it gets tough for me.
/r/seduction07/01/18 05:27 PM
3

I’m very physical. Women have told me I’m more touchy than them in many cases. That’s not the issue.
/r/seduction07/01/18 05:15 PM
1

I have a social life for the most part. Not the best at the moment due to a lot of my friends being scattered but it’s there. It’s something I try to improve actively though.
/r/seduction01/01/18 04:56 AM
1

For me, it’s more that I just can’t find a balance between casual conversation to just talk and joke over text vs doing the former too often and looking clingy just because I genuinely like the girl. Because while just texting to set up dates has worked better, it also just sets that precedent I guess and leads to a very...distant type of dating scenario if that makes sense. It’s basically not the same as seeing my ex in college everyday and always having a chance to talk.
/r/seduction31/12/17 11:43 PM
1

This is solid. I wouldn’t say my world revolves around women, I just feel lost lately in my goals but now I’m getting more and more focus on my goals from a professional aspect. I really like talking to people and get a really bad case of FOMO and feel like I have stuff to prove/make up on from my time in high school where I wasn’t the most social outside of school. So all of that combined is partly why I get infatuated easily/always want to talk.
/r/seduction31/12/17 03:54 PM
3

Eh it’s more that I get really fucking desperate and it doesn’t lead to results obviously. It’s also that I tend to realize it too late and it still takes me like a few days after realizing to return to being cool and shit.
/r/seduction14/12/17 09:50 PM
1

Man, I had the performance anxiety happen to me a month ago. Shit is embarrassing. In my situation, the girl didn’t really want to see me again I don’t think. It was a mix of anxiety and alcohol. It happens. If you want, just be direct with her and see what happens. I’m still talking to the girl on and off but haven’t seen her since our sex date.
/r/seduction10/12/17 10:34 PM
12

Yeah. Lately I’ve been getting laid more consistently after a few dates. And the sex isn’t awful in most cases either in my opinion. Like I hear back from them post sex if I text them but otherwise I don’t really hear anything. So I’m not sure what’s going on. Maybe it’s because I set a precedent to only text to set up dates?
/r/seduction05/12/17 05:15 PM
1

I mean thats what I want to do but I'm not sure about frequency of talking.
/r/seduction14/11/17 12:31 AM
3

The problem was the even this morning I had to work on my wood. I just didn't have it immediately and it caused another loop for me. The issue always happens with girls I really like because I want to have them coming back to me. If I don't care about the girl or I'm not "intimidated" by her, it isn't much of an issue.
/r/seduction12/11/17 04:56 PM
1

Second dates are usually the dinner dates now. First dates are the fun game dates. I'm not saying all first dates are successful, but lately I have more success with first dates than before. I think part of my issue after the first date is I get nervous that I won't be able to show the girl a good time. Or I'll blow it somehow.
/r/seduction24/10/17 01:54 AM
1

Sometimes this might be the case but it happens even when I'm attracted to them. It's true that I don't always feel sure about them all but there have been several where I really like them but then feel like the connection just isn't there because I get too into my own head. Like there are certain girls that I'm attracted to but just can't ever get because they lose interest in me. I'm not sure why and I try to be more introspective but it doesn't really help me.
/r/seduction24/10/17 01:26 AM
11

Mannnn $20 is a lot
/r/seduction21/10/17 12:33 AM
1

The third date thing happened to me like 4 or 5 times when I actually made it to those dates with girls. Either that or I lose interest. It's not really a matter of me not forgetting about it, because I bounce back quickly, it's more that it became a pattern and it makes me feel like I'm not capable of dating or boring after the initial first date excitement wears off. That's why I'm paranoid this happened to me after my second date last night.
/r/seduction13/10/17 12:06 PM
2

I did that! It's just that after the first half of the date there was some silence while walking her home so I got all paranoid.
/r/seduction13/10/17 10:27 AM
2

I did that on the first date which she really liked. We did dinner the second date which was fun too. It was only during the walk home when it got kinda quiet. I'm planning a movie for the third date and then try to escalate to sex.
/r/seduction13/10/17 10:25 AM
1

Not yet. I'm not sure how to get it to that level with this girl. It's just that we weren't exactly in any position to do heavy petting and the second date wasn't giving me much opportunity either.
/r/seduction13/10/17 10:23 AM
1

So basically just treat her like a friend who I flirt with is what you do?
/r/seduction01/10/17 03:12 PM
1

So what do I do now? Just treat it normally?
/r/seduction01/10/17 01:01 AM
1

Yeah I'm just going to text something like "I want to call you, is that cool?" from now on. It also might relax me a bit more too knowing I at least spoke to her beforehand.
/r/seduction28/09/17 06:01 PM
1

Well, it obviously varies for people. It's just something to try. Also, the only way to get better is to do it. I guess it helps that I had a ton of job interviews over the phone and at some point was able to ace all those phone screenings before the in person interviews. I'm just trying different things at this point. I feel like the phone call I had at least helped me build some rapport and see if there is some chemistry there at least, which you can't really gauge much through text.
/r/seduction28/09/17 04:24 PM
2

I just had to text her with "hey i know its weird but lets talk on the phone" or something similar. A lot of people don't do that and I just felt like talking.
/r/seduction28/09/17 02:29 PM
3

I know what you mean dude, believe me. I like attention but I also like talking to people.
/r/seduction25/09/17 02:37 AM
2

This is me. It's a hard habit to break.
/r/seduction25/09/17 12:53 AM
1

My worst habit that I keep doing though I'm getting better is kino. Like I can break the touch barrier but I'm trying to do it more naturally. It ruined many dates for me in that I don't get as many responses after the first date.
/r/seduction25/09/17 12:53 AM
1

Both. So with this girl, I texted her this afternoon and got no response which is okay since I'm just going to try one more time before calling it. But with other women, the situation I'm trying to figure out is what I could have done on my end to keep the momentum going. Basically if I meet a girl at a bar, makeout with her, she then leaves with another group of guys that hit on her. Like I want to avoid that happening where I feel like I had momentum and then nothing.
/r/seduction23/09/17 10:56 PM
1

I'm not sure if you're being a smartass or not. I just wanted to get some outside perspective on how to approach this situation in the future.
/r/seduction23/09/17 10:23 PM
1

I agree with you. This is why a lot of the advice in this sub I don't usually take to a T because it neglects that women are people which means not all of them think the same way.
/r/seduction22/09/17 04:56 AM
1

I don't agree with the guy above. My advice is to just focus on expanding your friend group. Don't focus so much on the people who know plenty of girls. I am the same way as you but honestly, just having a solid group of friends to hang out with is all you need. The girl part shouldn't be a necessity.
/r/seduction21/09/17 01:48 PM
2

I agree with this. Just be like "hey, lets go out". Then you'll know. Being blunt and forward is something I do when I feel like a conversation slows down, especially with a girl I don't know well.
/r/seduction21/09/17 01:46 PM
1

This makes sense. I also find myself just texting too much and getting to know them that way if the date can't be set up until a week later or something. I'm not sure how to cut myself off.
/r/seduction21/09/17 02:37 AM
19

Don't bamboozle us
/r/seduction21/09/17 01:14 AM
3

Ah okay, I see. We were already watching TV at her place so I see what you mean. I'll try it next time.
/r/seduction11/09/17 06:15 PM
9

Okay Billy Badass. Next time I'll be sure to do all this.
/r/seduction11/09/17 02:54 AM
3

It was past midnight
/r/seduction11/09/17 02:32 AM
2

I didn't stay the night because she told me I couldn't. I tried everything short of whipping my dick out.
/r/seduction11/09/17 02:32 AM
1

Yup. We talked a bit and watched a movie before making out and I think I was just used for a make out. So now I feel like I'm being ghosted. I only left because she was falling asleep and didn't want to do anything past making out.
/r/seduction11/09/17 02:04 AM
1

No, we talked and stuff beforehand. I mean, it wasn't an emotional connection immediately but we didn't just make out. Though once we started, that's basically all it was. We cuddled and watched a movie for part of the time too.
/r/seduction11/09/17 02:02 AM
2

I mean, I tried. Like we were making out and I was grabbing her places and trying to push a little more each time. She moved my hand away each time and then said "this is getting heavier than I want" so we just cuddled and kissed. I tried man.
/r/seduction11/09/17 02:00 AM
2

I know this feeling well. You want to get better or you're having a hot streak so you want to keep it going, etc. which leads to you neglecting other parts of your life. My advice is that you just have to really prioritize what you want. I'm in the same situation as you but out of college. You need to know what your goals are and how you plan to hit them.
/r/seduction09/09/17 06:50 AM
1

I like you. Honestly, I'm not even sure anymore what counts as needy and not. If I like talking to a girl, I just message her whenever I have something I want to say or just shoot the shit.
/r/seduction02/09/17 03:16 AM
1

I agree with you about all this. Whenever I come on this sub, I have to remind myself that not all of this advice works on all women. That's the one thing I want to see more of, just some awareness that saying the same thing to girl 1 and girl 2 will not have the same effect. People aren't computers. It took me a long time to realize that.
/r/seduction02/09/17 01:09 AM
1

There is a limit though. A girl I was hooking up with until recently ended things with me. I'm pretty sure it's because I appeared too needy or something (or at least my attempts to talk to her when I had nothing going on didn't help). What I'm trying to say is you may become overbearing too.
/r/seduction02/09/17 12:18 AM
1

That's what I'm worried about. I try to not make them "interviews" so it's really difficult to tell if that's what I'm doing. I try to be fun and all that.
/r/seduction30/08/17 07:05 PM
0

No, I very rarely have day 1 lays.
/r/seduction30/08/17 02:01 PM
1

Yes, I sleep with some of these girls. Not all of them but there is some sex happening.
/r/seduction30/08/17 02:01 PM
2

I try to be optimistic. I never go out with a depressed mindset. I think I just run out of shit to discuss with women or I'm just cautious about opening up to them too soon so I run out of things to discuss. That can lead to a lack of chemistry and just a lot of silence between us.
/r/seduction30/08/17 04:18 AM
1

Yeah, I don't think it's that. I just run out of shit to talk about I think.
/r/seduction30/08/17 02:01 AM
2

Well good news is I'm over it already. The rejection was just a surprise because who the fuck likes rejection? Haha. I did think this would lead to something that lasted a bit more than three dates though.
/r/seduction29/08/17 03:04 PM
1

That's true. Hmm, I mean, I'm actually already over it for the most part. Might not even wait two weeks.
/r/seduction29/08/17 02:37 PM
1

It was never a relationship though. And me saying that would sound like I'm trying to get a relationship, which I'm really not. The whole situation is kinda weird for me because while I did like her, I was also on the fence about it. I enjoyed the sex a lot and her company was nice too.
/r/seduction29/08/17 12:03 PM
1

Just to be clear, my writing may make it sound like I'm destroyed but I'm really not. Rejection just wasn't what I expected here because I liked her. I'd be fine with casual sex now that I know how she feels I think. I didn't do anything drastic after she told me she doesn't see a future here and kept it cool. I was talking to other girls and just happened to like her most out of them all.
/r/seduction29/08/17 12:00 PM
1

Alright just to be clear, we were never a thing and it was still in the casual stage. I was talking to other girls but just enjoyed her company the most out of all of them. The reason it hurts is because rejection fucking hurts.
/r/seduction29/08/17 11:55 AM
0

Yeah, I wasn't going to do what this guy said. I don't think I was too needy though in hindsight I might have been. I just enjoyed talking to her. But i appreciate your advice here.
/r/seduction29/08/17 05:20 AM
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I mean, here's the thing, I want to at least try. Yeah, it sucks, which is why I'm not immediately trying to set up another hang out. I'm going to wait like 2 weeks and then reach out to try and be friends to see how that works out. It shouldn't be too bad considering we only went on like 3 dates. I'm going to see if I can be friends and fwb if I figure out how to bring that up.
/r/seduction29/08/17 05:18 AM
6

I had the realization you did recently too. When I first started Tinder about three years ago, I had a lot more luck getting laid. Now though I just use it sporadically. Recently met a girl on Bumble that I like surprisingly.
/r/seduction12/08/17 02:35 PM
1

For me the first dates just don't have a spark or anything. Though, currently I'm focusing more on work so I probably wasn't all that into the date I was on, but it wasn't terrible in my opinion at least. Now I'm not sure if I should bother sending a last hail mary in a few days or not considering I didn't get responses to my last two texts.
/r/seduction17/07/17 04:57 PM
2

I get that but my issue is I just can't seem to make connections with people I go on dates with off Tinder, OkCupid, Bumble, etc. Like I went on a date with a girl last week from Bumble and while it wasn't awful and I want to see her again, the conversation was more strained in person than online. And I'm not sure if I'm even going to see her again haha
/r/seduction17/07/17 04:02 PM
2

That might honestly be it. I've stopped using it nearly as much because it's the same shit over and over. Whether it's because I take them to the same bars or I'm just burned out, I'm not sure.
/r/seduction17/07/17 03:40 PM
2

I do all of the big ones and none really led to sex for the last year or so. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong or if it's just me being not as touchy so my intentions aren't too clear or there isn't connection. I'm not sure.
/r/seduction17/07/17 03:12 PM
2

Like, I go on dates and nothing happens. Part of it is because I don't make as many moves because I've toned down my kino, or there just isn't as much connection with who I match with. I really don't know.
/r/seduction17/07/17 03:11 PM
45

I still have trouble believing all of this is real and not staged. Like some of it has to be staged.
/r/seduction22/06/17 01:37 AM
1

I mean, I had a good time.
/r/seduction07/06/17 12:37 PM
1

Yeah I know what you mean here since I have friends like that too. I guess for me it's more that I still feel alone at times because those groups don't always invite me out.
/r/seduction21/05/17 04:56 PM
2

Thanks for the tips. I'm basically trying to go to new places in my city (cool bars) and should try going to new events on my own/with friends. I just have a hard time actually going to new places because I either get too tired or have other things to do.
/r/seduction21/05/17 04:54 PM
1

I had/have this problem a lit. My issue was I touched farrr too much/too fast because I took kino way too seriously. I have since tried to stop it and do it a but less, and it works. There are some girls who are into it though, I just try to pay attention to how they react. I recently went out with a girl and she told me I was very touchy, but I still got a kiss in the date so that's a good thing. The other issue is sometimes that there just isn't any chemistry. It's not really a bad thing. Some…
/r/seduction14/05/17 03:45 PM
1

Huh? I'm not following what you suggested. To clear it up, I did speak to her but I wasn't really able to convey I changed if that makes sense. Possibly it was because I haven't or that I didn't want to show her I changed or something. I'm just in a weird place in life where I'm not even sure how I should act with people anymore.
/r/seduction06/05/17 12:55 PM
39

Thw only reason I stopped jerking off as much is that it makes it difficult to get hard when in bed with a woman. It's good to reset once in a while.
/r/seduction04/05/17 12:22 AM
1

I think usually it was me no kinoing properly and just there not being any romantic connection.
/r/seduction27/03/17 02:31 AM
1

I've actually toned it way down. I'm not needy or overbearing lately at all. My dates go poorly for other reasons lately. But I get your point.
/r/seduction27/03/17 01:15 AM
1

Oh I just ignored her. I just rarely ever meet someone that's so rude to me when I just try to be friendly. I wasn't at all affected by it and ended up hooking up with a chick last night anyway.
/r/seduction18/03/17 10:02 PM
1

You clearly have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/seduction18/03/17 02:05 PM
1

I think I've been trying for the longest time to merge both chill and party animal but that doesn't really work for me. I like to party but I think being chill is more my style looking back at myself and the people I hang out with the most. I will admit that changing this is going to be painful for me if this is actually the case. I want to be chill but at the same time I want to be able to cut loose if that makes sense, is it possible to do that?
/r/seduction15/03/17 04:30 PM
1

How did you pull through that "one more text"? I have trouble with that myself.
/r/seduction14/03/17 01:53 AM
4

I think it's a mix just because while looks help, he knows what he's doing for the most part I think.
/r/seduction12/03/17 09:21 PM
1

Well how would I take advantage of the opportunity at a house party or something? Knowing myself, I would just say "Nice" and then run out of things to say to lead to anything.
/r/seduction02/03/17 11:30 AM
1

Good advice but difficult to actually implement haha. My sex drive hasn't been the best lately either.
/r/seduction28/02/17 11:00 PM
1

The only issue here is they can just say they want to see you again and ghost you. I had that happen far too many times.
/r/seduction03/02/17 04:14 AM
1

You need to find a good balance too. Telling someone to kino a lot will cause a situation like mine where I kino'd way too much and came off badly. Needs to be a balance. It's a hard thing to improve when you're used to doing it a certain way.
/r/seduction31/01/17 03:33 PM
2

So most of my issues are from online dating. I go on a date and then even though I think it's a great time, I get no response. What I usually do is just wait a few days, ask her out again and if I get no response I move on. That's really it. Sometimes I get over eager which is a different problem but just wait a few days and ask her out again. It's not a science, people are all different.
/r/seduction31/01/17 03:30 PM
1

Haha figured as much. I'm just going to move on until I end up seeing her again or if she messages me again at some point.
/r/seduction30/01/17 03:40 AM
1

Online is shitty. There are so many people online that you always know there is someone better looking than who you went out with. Also, the whole getting to know a person phase is non-existent in that they usually wrote a lot about themselves. For people like me, who enjoy that phase, it makes me feel like the women I meet are boring online. Also, I just have more luck every time I meet a girl offline.
/r/seduction16/01/17 07:31 PM
1

I have to say that sex is sex. But that said, having done a lot of online dating with women I'm not into, I just find myself losing interest after a few dates/after sex. A lot of my online dates were one and done either by my own decision or them ghosting.
/r/seduction02/01/17 02:13 AM
4

The fact that you seem to be responding to everyone who calls this staged is the reason this looks fake. I'm not saying it's fake, I'm saying I can't tell anymore what's fake or not on here aside from everyone's claims of what happened when they went out. Like, there are so many things about this that seem staged. It's probably because I'm not able to do something like this yet but like, the girl stopping, talking to you as long as she did, buying you coffee AND THEN to top it off she took you b…
/r/seduction06/12/16 11:28 AM
26

This is extremely confusing for me. Like, I can never tell anymore if videos like this are staged or not.
/r/seduction06/12/16 04:20 AM
1

Oh we talked. I thought I made that clear. Sorry if I didn't haha.
/r/seduction13/11/16 10:34 PM
1

I have this same issue about being more confident online than in person sometimes. Just gotta get better man.
/r/seduction28/09/16 02:22 PM
1

It's true that gives you a bunch of opportunities but it also gives them a bunch! You can distinguish yourself better if you approach in person. I also fond that my personality is better known if I approach in person first. Online and in person personalities are different for me. In regards to kissing, sometimes you just gotta go for it. See how they react when you touch them (don't go overboard with this either, it's something I'm still trying to get better at since I went overboard a lot at on…
/r/seduction28/09/16 04:12 AM
4

Honestly, online dating isn't a good way to get second dates. My ratio for second dates to first dates from online dating is insanely low partly because I'm working on my game still and another reason is because of the HUGE amount of variety from online dating. I also know what you mean about the sex. I had sex and then never heard from the girls again. I don't get it but it's whatever at this point haha. My advice is to always try to kiss on the first date if you feel it. I don't do it all the …
/r/seduction28/09/16 03:32 AM
1

That's a good point too. Anyway, what can I do next time I'm in a situation like this. Any witty lines to say? All I said in this case was "alright" in a joking/cocky manner and stayed non-reactive.
/r/seduction27/09/16 03:49 AM
-4

Are we really bringing the friendzone up here? Haha
/r/seduction27/09/16 03:48 AM
-4

Normally, I would agree. But this doesn't seem like it's so clear cut based on what was said. I'm not going to focus too much on it obviously, but it's kinda confusing given what I thought were mixed signals, i.e. She said she liked my smile. I mean, she's legitimately busy with her career right now and I get it which is why it's not as black and white as it might seem.
/r/seduction27/09/16 03:29 AM
1

Honestly, you just have to do it. I got more comfortable with it only recently and now I enjoy doing it. You just have to get up and move and eventually you'll get it.
/r/seduction18/09/16 03:58 PM
1

I'm not high enough in my business to invite them to dinner yet haha.
/r/seduction16/09/16 02:32 AM
12

This is why online dating sucks for me. It just doesn't have that feeling of "I definitely want to see this person again". Like I've had dates that I thought went well and then never heard back from them again. A majority of them were from online dating. My advice is to just not do it and expect anything from it.
/r/seduction10/09/16 08:26 PM
1

Best case: make millions and get laid all the time!
/r/seduction14/08/16 02:18 PM
1

I want to know how to get nudes on snapchat
/r/seduction02/08/16 12:58 AM
1

I have a similar problem but it's mainly that I can't get second dates from online dating.
/r/seduction23/07/16 08:42 PM
2

I'm glad that I'm not the inly one who thought OP was talking about Bonnaroo. I wish I could go this year.
/r/seduction30/05/16 01:15 AM
1

For me, there was a disconnect between who I was in text and who I was in person. Basically, the conversation in text went better than in person. I realized that it's normal and happens if you use online dating as much as I do (cutting it down though). Also, my whole approach was focused on breaking the touch barrier as soon as possible and I used it too much throughout a first date without reading the girl's interest. That was what my biggest flaws were and what I'm still working on.
/r/seduction24/05/16 03:12 AM
2

Honestly, I've looked for this and it just varies by girl. Some people are more comfortable texting than talking in person and vice versa. No amount of texting is really going to save you if you have no chemistry in person even if the chemistry is there in the texts. That's what I learned from my experience in dating (I did a lot of online dating).
/r/seduction24/05/16 03:08 AM
2

Truth. The best thing I ever heard about the friendzone was from a girl. She said its more like the sex zone or the relationship zone (or both). Also, if the friendzone is actually real, I broke out of it by just setting a flirty relationship with all my female friends from the get go.
/r/seduction24/05/16 03:05 AM
1

I mean...I get what you're saying but it's a lot easier to be outcome independent when you don't hate your life and don't feel like you're struggling. Like, I'm looking for a new job now because my current one makes me kinda miserable. I'm not going to lie and say that I wouldn't feel better if I had more money/could be happy with where my future is going, because at this point, I'm at a place that is a deadend. I don't act like I'm low value but it's a lot easier to have high value when things …
/r/seduction04/05/16 11:44 AM
1

I just want to comment and say I know exactly what you mean when you said you have to work on inner game and you were in a good place in your life. It happened to me. I remember when I got a new job, new apartment, etc I was more confident and just overall less of a needy bitch with women. Then when I struggle in other areas of my life, it just gets harder to deal with women and stop looking needy. I'm currently going through something like that and it lead to a dry spell currently at 3 months :…
/r/seduction04/05/16 03:31 AM
1

Yup. This sounds about right. I'm definitely one of those scared of the ridicule most of the time.
/r/seduction01/05/16 04:17 PM
11

Leagues don't exist.
/r/seduction24/04/16 09:03 PM
2

Yeah that's bullshit. You just wanted her opinion and she was acting like you were looking for solely validation.
/r/seduction24/04/16 03:45 PM
1

Yeah I guess so. Oh well, I guess I'll know depending on if I can get another date with her.
/r/seduction23/04/16 09:36 PM
2

I didn't mention it in my post but the date itself went fine I think. We madeout a little and went to another bar after the first one. She was open to me physically escalating and holding/touching her hand. So it wasn't like she immediately went cold or something thinking I was weird (at least I don't think so). I'm just not sure if I came on too aggressively without meaning to or if I did other shit wrong that I didn't even notice. She said she had a fun time before we went our separate ways af…
/r/seduction23/04/16 09:10 PM
1

Doing an AMA doesn't mean anything. I can make up bullshit stories and claim they're true too.
/r/seduction21/04/16 03:17 PM
7

I'm not sure why this guy types like this. His typing is making me cringe.
/r/seduction21/04/16 03:14 PM
1

What the fuck? Is he retarded? That all looks creepy as fuck.
/r/seduction21/04/16 11:24 AM
18

My bullshit detector is going off like crazy. I mean, if this is true thats awesome, but I just can't buy it.
/r/seduction21/04/16 11:21 AM
1

By fluid I meant it's different for everyone haha.
/r/seduction10/04/16 04:15 AM
1

Thanks for that great write up. I donmt think I'm newrly as bad as I was when I was younger when it comes to actually viewing women as normal people. Like, I act the same around everyone. The issue is not always the friendzone, since I'm very direct now if I find a girl attractive, it's just that I don't get laid as often as I want (though who does right?). I also don't really believe in the friendzone but that's a whole other story.
/r/seduction09/04/16 10:55 PM
1

Thats a good point. I'm pretty direct with saying that women are cute, etc. I already flirt heavily.
/r/seduction09/04/16 06:44 PM
1

Well, yeah, I realized that her not being attracted to me is more than just my conversation skills because we have good conversations, even on the first date. I'm over it already and don't really care. My issue is I have no idea what I lack or miss in situations where I like the girl and she doesn't like me as more than a friend (some I don't care, some hurt a bit lol). Thanks for the insight. I already know it varies among women and men and taste is fluid generally. I just want to get a discuss…
/r/seduction09/04/16 06:16 PM
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I see. Thanks for your input. It's mostly just because my competitive fires light up and make me wonder why I don't get approached. It makes me question my looks haha.
/r/seduction03/04/16 03:05 PM
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Never do. I'm just venting because whenever this happens, it makes me evaluate my looks in comparison to others haha.
/r/seduction03/04/16 03:02 PM
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No idea. It's possible but it doesn't explain why I don't get approached :(. My friend doesn't exactly exude confidence either.
/r/seduction03/04/16 02:30 PM
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I don't know why you were downvoted, I agree. I'm not worried about them because there's always a new girl on Tinder/OkCupid/world. I just wanted to get a discussion going about it.
/r/seduction08/03/16 12:38 AM
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I'm not mad at all. Sorry if I made it seem like that. I'm just a bit put off with how easy it is now to just stop talking to someone instead of being direct and saying something like "Not into you like that" or "I met someone else I find more attractive, etc. than you". Like, one of the girls I had sucking on my face on the second date and then nothing. What bothers me about it is just how it happens even after you seem to have had a decent time, hooked up, etc. Like, it's not really a feeling …
/r/seduction08/03/16 12:37 AM
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I mean, I want to actually make friends to hang out with outside a bar. I just want more friends to do shit with and at 24 its kinda hard. Doesn't help that I'm job hunting so I can't really focus too much on making new friends now.
/r/seduction28/02/16 01:03 AM
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I'm trying that now. Even just small comments.
/r/seduction28/02/16 12:09 AM
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I have this situation going now though I had a date with her in which we had sex. I'm just planning on texting her tomorrow since she didn't reply to my text after I saw her. If I get no response to that, I'm just moving on, which is a shame because I liked her.
/r/seduction22/02/16 12:58 AM
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The thing about tinder and online dating in general is that even if I manage to have sex on the first date, I have trouble getting a second one. It sucks when I actually like the girl.
/r/seduction22/02/16 12:52 AM
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I have this problem with my social circle once in a while. Honestly, I think it's partly just in your head. You notice it when you feel down and when you're busy, you don't, at least that's how it goes for me. They probably don't text you because they know you're busy, they're busy, etc. I've never been too great with keeping in contact with people and that's my issue for why I don't have people constantly hitting me up. My question is do you end the conversations or do they? Like who is the one…
/r/seduction04/02/16 05:57 PM
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These types of comments are why I come to this subreddit.
/r/seduction04/02/16 05:52 PM
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This was a great read. I'm actually curious, how did you get to talk to dudes? I find it easier to talk to random chicks just because the whole purpose is there and easier to convey. With dudes it's just harder for me because I want friends to bullshit with and all guys go to bars to meet chicks, not dudes. Any tips?
/r/seduction03/02/16 02:42 AM
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Me? I would just send a "I had fun" text, act normal, and then see how she acts. She probably didn't know how to react to what happened so just don't overthink this. See what happens next time you speak to her.
/r/seduction23/11/15 12:52 AM
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Well, she actually texted me a few days ago saying she wants to go on a second date but is busy lately and she apologized for being so hard to contact. Basically, I'm just gonna wait a bit and then try to catch up with her again. Plus, I met another girl I'm interested in recently so that's a new source of anxiety waiting for her responses lol
/r/seduction09/11/15 02:21 AM
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The thing about the phrase "rock bottom" is that it's all about perspective. I see your point and I do agree with it but at the same time, OP considered what happened to him to be what he considers "rock bottom" whether it be in an emotional, financial, etc. sense. But yeah it can always be worse.
/r/seduction05/11/15 02:00 PM
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Yup, I am currently in this hole. I'm not exactly giving up on dating (went on a nice one last night) but I'm going to lessen them and work on myself more. I was so focused the last few months on dating that I had one lined up every week from online. It fucking sucked. I didn't even have sex like I thought I would. I'm only recently coming to terms with how unhappy I am in my own life and how I have to fix it. I fucking hate my job and it's causing me a lot of stress just looking for a new one w…
/r/seduction05/11/15 12:00 AM
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I honestly laughed how men had no taboo area when touched by women.
/r/seduction28/10/15 01:34 AM
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I mean, it isn't just dating but I noticed that my dating life needs a reset because I'm at a point in life where I'm deeply unhappy with a lot of things. I put dating as one of my priorities when it really shouldn't be (I don't even want a serious relationship at this time either). Based on my track record I need to slow down a bit I think and focus on different things at the moment. There is something I wonder about though, my dad never seemed to put his dating life on hold as he got his shit …
/r/seduction27/10/15 05:57 PM
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That is true. Though she was the hottest.
/r/seduction27/10/15 02:14 PM
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How long do you plan to do it? Any noticable changes in terms of attraction from women (not doing it because of that but just curious)?
/r/seduction27/10/15 12:13 PM
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That's what I'm worried about happening lol. Funny thing is, we have two white guys in the group and a black guy... But with our pact, it's no casual sex either =/
/r/seduction27/10/15 03:10 AM
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Oh that sucks a lot. I keep forgetting that what I experience since I live in a big city is not typical of what others might experience. I really don't know what else I can tell you.
/r/seduction13/10/15 03:30 PM
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This happened to me MULTIPLE times, even after I ended up having sex with them. It might even be happening to me now with a girl I met on Tinder that I really liked and had a good time with. It sucks, especially since she responded pretty enthusiastically after the first date and now setting up the second is a hassle which is confusing. My advice is to just keep reminding yourself how many girls there are on Tinder. Helped me before.
/r/seduction13/10/15 03:00 AM
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This thread is awesome. I was just about to ask this question pertaining to my situation. I'm talking to a girl I met on tinder, had a date with, and I really like her so far. We texted a bit after the date and when I asked her when she would be free for another date, she told me she would let me know today, then we kept texting and she stopped responding randomly. I haven't heard from her at all today and I'm not sure when to text her again. She sounded really excited and receptive to my texts …
/r/seduction13/10/15 02:25 AM
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I'm reading all the comments in this topic and I have to ask, are all the guys in this sub commitment-phobic or something? You all say how relationships are shit and I don't get it. Yeah, I don't want a relationship at this point in my life, but if I found a great girl who I wanted to date exclusively, I would do it and all of OP's points are solid. I wouldn't be the person I am today if it wasn't for the serious relationship I was in from 21-23, despite the fact that the breakup also hurt me mo…
/r/seduction04/10/15 11:48 PM
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I mean, body language wasn't too bad from what I noticed last night. That's what I'm confused about. And the gorl from last night otherwise lives in the same city as me so it's not like I would never see her anyway. That's my logic at least. Oh and another thing, she did respond to my text when I asked her if I passed her friend's "interview" pretty positively so that's a good thing.
/r/seduction20/08/15 08:01 PM
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Good point. Women are confusing and lately I have no idea what I'm doing right and wrong since one day we're kissing and the next there are awkward moments. It didn't feel awkward though that's what confuses me when I look back at it. It just got a bit awkward when my friend showed up for some reason. Like before he showed up, I was having a great conversation with her friend and her but after, it just felt a bit off and for whatever reason that bugs me a lot more than it should because I feel l…
/r/seduction20/08/15 02:45 PM
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Yeah I figured it was either of those two things or that her friend was "interviewing" me for approval or something. Though, I'm leaning more toward the second option or third out of all of them since my hand was on her leg under the table and she didn't move away, if that even means anything. Oh well. Any tips on how to keep in contact with her while she's away in another state a few hours away for grad school?
/r/seduction20/08/15 12:44 PM
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I just said it was a date. Oh well. I'm not invested in it at this point so I'm just trying different things out.
/r/seduction29/07/15 03:29 PM
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That makes sense. I mean, she wasn't pulling away which made it confusing for me too. Yeah, I will admit that kino is like a race to me. I'll be sure to try and slow it down next time to see what happens.
/r/seduction20/07/15 12:46 PM
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No, I moved fast as hell haha. It's possible she wasn't feeling it, which is fine. And I normally don't apologize but felt like trying because nothing to lose there and a possibility of being friends. Guess that isn't happening based on her lack of a response after I responded. Oh well. She did show it in her actions by basically leaving me at one point and not coming back. I went to find her, she was with another guy, I stuck around for a few minutes then left. I could have handled it better bu…
/r/seduction19/07/15 11:32 PM
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I see. I like this. Yeah, I'm trying to ween myself off all that online dating stuff because in my experiences, it doesn't get me any consistent fwb or anything. I have gotten laid and made out with girls I met on there but it just doesn't work out for me, especially when I start remembering I met all the girls I dated in person first and not online.
/r/seduction19/07/15 08:17 PM
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Oh I don't mean just the kiss. I'm fine with going for the kiss and getting rejected if she doesn't want to. I'm just talking about touching in general. She said I came on too strong and moved too fast for her so she ditched me pretty much. How do I not come on too strong? Or is that just a thing that varies based on a girl's personal preferences? I noticed I tend to do it to make a good first impression and get the touch barrier broken as soon as I can.
/r/seduction19/07/15 07:28 PM
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Kinda. Honestly, I'll admit I'm too much of a pussy right now to approach random girls/people. I have a lot of other things on my mind and I like to think I should focus on that more than gaming. I'm in a rut essentially and feel like I have to work on my own issues first.
/r/seduction10/07/15 05:53 PM
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Yeah dude, I'm going to stop online dating as well. Nothing ever happened with me since I did online dating, aside from the occassional lay or makeout (actually a lot of makeouts). I'm only looking to casually date at this point myself but online dating just doesn't lead to anything at all consistent for me. The only consistent situations all happened when I met girls in person.
/r/seduction10/07/15 11:38 AM
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Dude, you have a great knack for writing. I bursted out laughing at the body builder part. I too get similar results, though I get dates, sometimes makeout and then nothing. I just can't hold conversations as well as I want to and that hinders me.
/r/seduction10/07/15 01:56 AM
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That's pretty much what I think too. I don't really want to ask what it means because it's pretty clear. I'm relieved that we aren't dating for the purposes of a relationship though.
/r/seduction17/05/15 07:51 PM
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I do have a full time job and career that I'm working on advancing. I'm 24. I just got my own place (though with roommates since where I live I can't afford a studio with the money I make now).
/r/seduction12/04/15 01:41 PM
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Right now, I just talk to a few at a time since it's mainly online dating. I've been pretty busy lately, since I'm moving out of my parents place and I have to get everything ready/save money. I've never actually dated multiple women at once and I don't think I could actually do more than like 3 at a time.
/r/seduction12/04/15 04:32 AM
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I have no idea what that means...I'm basically doing whatever I think I did before when my ex and I started going out. I'm not being an asshole or anything, despite how all of that may have come off in writing.
/r/seduction12/04/15 04:25 AM
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Where varies. Normally I do it at the bar while we get drinks and when I feel like the moment is right (though I will admit sometimes it feels like I just do it to see if I can haha). As for escalating, I mean, I touch them a lot and they don't seem to care so I'm at a loss as to what I'm doing/not doing. I'm told that I'm awkward around people, but I try not to let that effect me too much and I'm working on becoming more natural and friendly and comfortable with talking to people. I really wish…
/r/seduction12/04/15 01:33 AM
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I think I'm building comfort and rapport, since I'm not exactly kissing the girls when they're drunk. I don't think I'm being too nice and I'm a good balance of jerk and nice, not intentionally but I'm definitely not too "nice." I may need to work on building more rapport and comfort though. I'm trying to work on how I build connections with people anyway. I'm also thinking that maybe I give off the impression I'm not over my ex, which is true but not exactly as true as it was months ago. Or I'm…
/r/seduction11/04/15 10:53 PM
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You see, sex and all that is very good, but I hate feeling like they're just doing it because I'm there. It makes me feel like the only thing that makes them like me is alcohol.
/r/seduction23/02/15 12:35 AM
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They have before lol
/r/seduction22/02/15 08:13 PM
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I mean, I don't make anything awkward after the moment either. I just hate how it feels like I'm the "second choice" or something since I come out of left field as she says. It makes no sense to me. Like, do they not think about hooking up with me until it happens or something? I probably just got used to having a girlfriend haha. I'm not looking for a relationship now but it would still be nice to be considered for a hook up and not as a second choice or whatever.
/r/seduction22/02/15 07:04 PM
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I have that same problem where I meet a girl on tinder or okcupid, made out with her and then she was just not interested in me. I'm not looking to seriously date anyone at the moment anyway so I don't get upset but I do get confused. I even slept with a girl and never heard from her again haha. There's really not much you can do. If you're getting makeouts, you're doing something right, even if the girl doesn't want a second date. I wouldn't worry too much about it. Just keep doing what you're …
/r/seduction31/01/15 11:25 PM
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Yeah, I was just blatant with it. After we left the place and she was heading home, I just told her that I was going to kiss her, moved in a little and she said "No, sorry" lol. I was just happy I at least attempted it.
/r/seduction28/12/14 06:11 PM
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Wow man, I really can't say if I would have done the same thing in your position (though I have madeout with girls in relationships before). I definitely would have had sex with a girl with a boyfriend if I had the opportunity, but that was before I got into my first serious relationship and actually got relationship experience. Now, I'm not in a relationship anymore and I really feel a lot of conflicting emotions about what I would do if presented with an opportunity like this, given that I kno…
/r/seduction28/12/14 01:02 AM
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I can answer this as a guy who proposed a break a few months ago and that led to a breakup. I proposed a break mainly because I was having problems in my life that prevented me from being the boyfriend I was in the past and I didn't want to put her through it. It was also because I was getting a little scared with how serious the relationship was getting. So all of that contributed to my mindset. Anyway, it turned into a breakup when she told me she wants to be single for a while and focus on he…
/r/seduction14/12/14 06:04 PM
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Nice job, though I'm not sure how I feel about the whole kiss a girl with a boyfriend thing, even though I did this stuff myself in the past. I just recently got out of my first serious relationship so I'm not sure if I would be able to do some shit like that again, even if the opportunity presented itself (unless it's my ex, then I'd probably do it). My relationship made me reevaluate my stance on girls in relationships, when I had no problem before with the idea of making moves on them. Not ju…
/r/seduction29/10/14 01:31 AM
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upvoting for analogy
/r/seduction29/09/14 12:10 AM
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Had this with my ex after like 3 months of dating. I don't know why but for some reason I was thinking, "Okay, there are only two things that could happen from this relationship, we either breakup or get married." It freaked me out and I even had to talk to her about my feelings because of how freaked out I was. Yeah, I liked her but we were/are both young and this was the first serious relationship for us so all these thoughts were pretty new for me. Anyway, after talking to her about it, I rea…
/r/seduction16/09/14 01:16 PM
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This is normal I think. You just have to stop labeling them with numbers. That's what I think your problem is. Just be confident and don't focus on "Wow this girl is a 10! I have to have her!" Just think "This girl is cute/gorgeous/etc. and I want to make a move on her".
/r/seduction14/09/14 10:36 PM
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That sounds extremely low... Though it does make me feel better about myself since I slept with 4 so far.
/r/seduction04/09/14 03:00 AM
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Honestly, I would be happy if I have stuff to cross off my sexual bucket list. Though, considering I just got out of my first serious relationship, I honestly think I like relationships more, which is why I'm hoping to eventually revisit and try again with this girl when I get my shit together. I had a one night stand with some girl from Tinder a month back and I only felt good for a few hours before going back to thinking about my ex. It's really surprising honestly because I would have always …
/r/seduction02/09/14 12:46 AM
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I was in this situation a month ago. Broke up after 1.5 years and I'm basically just adopting the mentality of it's meant to be, it'll be. She wants to be single and focus on herself, which is fine because I realized recently that even if we got back together immediately, our problems would still be there and I would rather not have the same ones. It's a long story about my breakup. Since the time we broke up, I slept with one girl and made out with one. You should just focus on bettering yourse…
/r/seduction10/08/14 02:20 PM
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BURN!
/r/seduction09/08/14 09:00 PM
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"I'm not going to push you into anything you're not comfortable with; I'm just enjoying kissing you right now" This is essentially what I said to my most recent lay. I just said I'm comfortable doing whatever she wants and that I'm "just chilling" haha.
/r/seduction03/08/14 09:11 PM
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Haha I had that happen to me this weekend too. My buddy was hooking up with some girl and I was trying to entertain her friends after they pulled us over so my buddy could meet their friend. I went outside with one of them, tried to kiss her after some line like "we should makeout since our friends are" and she just said "no". I tried to see how far I could take it then just backed off after trying two more times.
/r/seduction03/08/14 09:05 PM
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The easiest thing to do is assume attraction until proven otherwise. This is what you should always do! Seriously, just assume attraction until you get rejected or just don't really feel it. It works also in the sense that you would at least feel like the shit when you assume all women are attracted to you from the get go.
/r/seduction03/08/14 09:02 PM
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I got laid on my first ever Tinder date surprisingly. I did what the guy below me said. I kino'd a lot and built up a sexual conversation before meeting. I had a decent plan to follow through with, it's really just a matter of making a move.
/r/seduction03/08/14 02:23 AM
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My matches went through the roof when i put up a pic of me with a puppy. Bitches love puppies.
/r/seduction03/08/14 02:21 AM
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I just got out of my first serious relationship and I just had sex with the first girl that wasn't her this past Monday so this should give you some decent perspective. I had one night stands with girls before my long term relationship, though it was only like 2 girls. I find that the long term relationship sex is actually more fulfilling. Yeah, one night stands are fun as hell and make you feel more manly or whatever it is, but in the end, they just aren't fulfilling, at least to me. The girl I…
/r/seduction03/08/14 02:15 AM
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This is exactly what I do. Or talk about their pictures.
/r/seduction03/08/14 02:08 AM
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AHAHAHAHAHAHA I can picture this almost exactly!
/r/seduction28/07/14 03:07 AM
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You just made me miss my recent ex more than I already am lol
/r/seduction27/07/14 08:54 PM
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I agree with the "don't become comfortable" thing. That was one of the things that ruined my recent relationship of 1.5 years, though that was more due to a life situation. But yeah, avoid becoming comfortable.
/r/seduction09/07/14 03:12 AM
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lol so I went against my better judgement and went to see her last night to talk in person. I really don't think she left me out to dry based on how she was acting. I think I would know better at this point to know how she is as a person. She wouldn't do that to me. Also, I feel a little better after that honestly. It was extremely therapeutic.
/r/seduction22/05/14 04:54 PM
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Oh oops lol. It's been a while since I posted on this subreddit. You have any advice here on how to become a better person in general?
/r/seduction20/05/14 01:38 PM
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I really doubt it will but who knows. Right now, I know that I'm going to want her back.
/r/seduction20/05/14 10:41 AM
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me: 23, I'm going to keep the location hush hush, it's a big city though, I just got my Bachelors Degree a year ago. She's 20. My confidence is back and forth, I've only slept with 3 women including her. I make $10/hour now and I want to go into marketing and advertising.
/r/seduction20/05/14 03:39 AM
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Basically, I just wasn't the same happy guy I was when we met. We met when I was still in undergrad, thought I knew what I wanted to do and was convinced I was going to do it. Then I started to have a hard time with a bunch of shit, changed my path and want to do something else. I got very stressed out and started to take it out on her when I got irritated, which led to fights. It was terrible. She just doesn't like how I changed from a happy guy to a dude who is depressed about the direction my…
/r/seduction20/05/14 03:06 AM
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Yes. Absolutely. This was my first relationship but honestly, she's a great girl. She always supported me and was never bitchy to me.
/r/seduction20/05/14 03:03 AM
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Oh wow, thank you for all the ideas. Yeah, I'm well aware that I may not want her back or vice versa. I just want to work on my shit for myself and for her. Seriously though, when your girlfriend cries and tells you that you aren't the same guy she fell in love with a year ago, it hurts and really makes you analyze a lot. I was seriously crying like crazy last night. Today, I actually started feeling better as the day went on. I'll probably make a post her about how to get her back in a few mont…
/r/seduction20/05/14 02:07 AM
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Well, I already have a job (paid internship I don't feel satisfied with), I do workout and eat a lot, drinking isn't a problem, having fun with other women is something I'm planning to do since I have this opportunity to really find out what I want especially since this is my first serious relationship and I missed out on opportunities. Thanks for your input. Any fun hobbies you recommend?
/r/seduction20/05/14 01:10 AM
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It just sounds like you can't close/don't make any moves on the girls when you're on a date with them. Or you just act kinda desperate. I find that when I stopped caring I started getting more results and I even got myself a girlfriend. What also helped is that I stopped taking a lot of the seduction techniques seriously and just incorporated what I saw fit, like kino.
/r/seduction02/01/14 01:12 AM
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I don't walk up because I think it's fun to just "steal" her away from him like I just met her. Is that frowned upon? I don't want to look like I'm worried they're going to steal her from me or something so I just let them talk and then come in when I feel like talking to her or if the guy is getting too touchy.
/r/seduction30/12/13 03:11 PM
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This confuses me. Can you clarify? To me it seems you're telling me I shouldn't care if she fucks other guys.
/r/seduction30/12/13 03:07 PM
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I get some enjoyment too, I'm just not sure if My new worries are legitimate or not.
/r/seduction30/12/13 11:41 AM
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Because you guys are better then /r/relationship.
/r/seduction30/12/13 11:41 AM
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I completely agree about communication. This is the first serious relationship for both of is and I made it a point to be honest and open with communication. Thanks to this community, I also came into this relationship more relaxed about the relationship and not be the possessive boyfriend. Thanks for your input! I'll talk to her about it when I see her.
/r/seduction29/12/13 10:05 PM
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No I was not around when the guys bought her drinks. She was with a single friend of hers and I showed up later.
/r/seduction29/12/13 07:01 PM
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Ohhh I see and now it makes more sense. Thanks for clearing that up...and making me more paranoid lol.
/r/seduction29/12/13 07:00 PM
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I don't get what you're trying to say. This can happen either way, even with some guy she meets in class. And I'm not really too worried about it happening because I'm an open book with her. Someone would have to try REALLY hard to plant doubts. It's not out of jealousy that I'm concerned, it's just that it might lead to problems at a bar that I would prefer to avoid. I don't care if guys flirt with her, I'm just starting to think it might not be a great idea for her to accept drinks from other …
/r/seduction29/12/13 06:04 PM
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Thanks for your input. I'm just looking for advice on whether I might be overblowing it.
/r/seduction29/12/13 05:50 PM
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On who's part?
/r/seduction29/12/13 05:48 PM
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Yeah, the thing is I didn't care before. It's just that I started thinking about it and spoke to my parents about it and they told me that it's not right and could cause problems when the guy realizes I'm her boyfriend and he just wasted money hoping to hook up with her. Especially when she starts accepting drinks from guys when I'm at the bar too (even when I'm not next to her and just talking with my friends).
/r/seduction29/12/13 04:11 PM
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I started dating my girlfriend last year when she was a freshman and I was a senior. I really didn't expect to get into a relationship my senior year of college, not to mention with a freshman. That said, I just did it normally, hit on her, was direct with my intent because that's what works for me. Then again, she thought I was a player at first, which I kinda was and didn't really want a relationship initially. I went to a commuter school so it's not the same as your school I'm assuming where …
/r/seduction18/09/13 03:32 AM
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Pretty sure I read this somewhere else before. Not sure if it originated on 4chan or if it was copy-pasted on 4chan though. It's a good read though, not so much for guys with girlfriends...makes us a little paranoid lol.
/r/seduction29/08/13 02:26 AM
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Just going to say what I tell other people on reddit who experienced a mutual breakup, today, with social media, it's much easier to reconnect with an ex. So you two may be together again one day if you still love each other.
/r/seduction26/08/13 01:13 AM
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What I noticed is you never say that you let your hands run through her body. That's the problem. Touch her more.
/r/seduction25/08/13 03:30 PM
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Awesome shit bro. Good job! I always wanted to do this, yet never had the balls until of course I was on my way to a relationship and had balls of steel. Now of course, I've been out of the game for 9 months and not sure when/if I'll be back in it. I miss the chase, even if I sucked at it.
/r/seduction22/08/13 04:07 AM
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This is awesome. When I was single I was really fucking touchy which actually worked. Now, I'm still touchy, but I can't do anything besides that lol.
/r/seduction22/08/13 04:02 AM
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It's just that I'm busy with studying for the LSAT and looking for a job since I was recently laid off. Also, as for oneitis, I feel like it's okay to have oneitis for your girlfriend as long as it isn't too the point where you're clingy which is what is slowly happening to me since I'm not going out as much as I used to and can't until October.
/r/seduction20/08/13 05:41 PM
1

Honestly, I feel like this is exactly what I'm going to have to do since it's actually starting to bother me that I'm literally acting like a bitch. I talked to her about it before and she doesn't find it weird that we don't talk daily. I really don't find it that weird at all but when I have no idea what my girlfriend is doing, I kinda am starting to see it as a problem, not even in the possessive boyfriend way, just in the caring boyfriend way. Especially since I'm currently at a weird stage i…
/r/seduction20/08/13 04:34 PM
1

Thanks this actually makes sense. It's my first relationship and I really expected a little more talking to my SO. I actually had this whole thing handled until recently when I just have nothing going on aside from studying for grad school entrance exams. Thanks a lot for your input though, I'll do that whenever I feel like texting my girlfriend and feel like I'll appear clingy.
/r/seduction20/08/13 01:30 PM
3

I only read this hoping for a mother-daughter threesome. I was a little let down.
/r/seduction10/08/13 01:58 AM
1

I just have a question considering you lost your virginity to basically a stranger...Are you going to see him again? Good FR though, sounds like a bunch of stuff that I did with my current girlfriend when we started seeing each other.
/r/seduction03/07/13 12:39 AM
14

:(
/r/seduction28/05/13 03:02 PM
2

LOL If I didn't have a girlfriend, I'd probably try this exact thing next time I go out.
/r/seduction28/05/13 02:46 PM
2

This. Luckily, I haven't had to deal with this with my girlfriend, though it would be weird considering she doesn't have many/any guy friends that I know about.
/r/seduction24/03/13 05:30 PM
1

I'm right there with you. I'm 21, graduating college in May, have a gorgeous girlfriend that I honestly fell in love with. Yet, until recently, I wasn't sure about what I wanted to do in life and wasn't content. Now, I pretty much am back on the track I started off and still don't really feel content with my life. It's normal I think. Or I just need to have sex with my girl. That might help me.
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:52 AM
3

That's what I was calling creepy. The technique itself I think is dumb.
/r/seduction28/02/13 04:07 PM
0

Not at all.
/r/seduction28/02/13 05:52 AM
0

Yeah, most people say I look like a Jimmy.
/r/seduction28/02/13 05:10 AM
1

I admit, I loled. Have an upvote. My name isn't Jimmy though.
/r/seduction28/02/13 03:58 AM
2

At least you held a conversation with her before you attempted to get her number.
/r/seduction28/02/13 02:44 AM
-3

Wow, what a dick. If you're serious, fuck you. If not, I take back my fuck and hope you fuck plenty of girls that aren't my girlfriend. I had the same exact mentality as you do, now since I'm in a relationship, I can't condone fucking other guys' girlfriends.
/r/seduction28/02/13 12:26 AM
-5

Have one, looking for a new one since I'm about to graduate college. She's going on it soon. Need to find a cheap one.
/r/seduction27/02/13 11:37 PM
-6

:3 Yeah, living with your parents while in college is terrible. Don't have nearly enough sex.
/r/seduction27/02/13 11:23 PM
-6

Yeah, I wish I could. We both live with our parents :( haha
/r/seduction27/02/13 10:47 PM
0

Those posts are from when I was inexperienced and actually cared about results. Since I stopped giving a fuck, my success got better.
/r/seduction27/02/13 09:23 PM
-4

Nice.
/r/seduction27/02/13 04:33 PM
17

Really? In that case this trick can come off as creepy. And don't follow the girl around after she rejects you. If I was there, I would have just laughed in the guy's face.
/r/seduction27/02/13 04:20 PM
-2

link?
/r/seduction27/02/13 04:20 PM
-8

I'm telling people to get to know the girl before doing a trick like this, at least talk to her for five minutes before trying it. I mean, I really don't plan on trying it since I'm in a relationship, but if someone wants to try it, don't do it out of the blue.
/r/seduction27/02/13 04:20 PM
3

Well, yeah, that may also be a reason, but the guy didn't even talk to her. He just approached her and handed his phone to her saying he has to have her number. Honestly, that's just a creep move. At least talk to the girl before asking for her number. That's all I'm saying.
/r/seduction27/02/13 03:55 PM
1

I think of them as people too, I was just always focused on talking to them with the purpose of a close that I forgot how to just talk to them without having it on my mind all the time.
/r/seduction23/02/13 04:56 AM
1

I don't think of it as rude at all. I should probably reiterate, I can talk to them, but I just can't NOT flirt with them, which is a problem for me because I'm so used to it. I just have some trouble steering the conversation.
/r/seduction23/02/13 04:55 AM
0

Tell me about it. That's basically what happens to me, I feel guilty even though I really shouldn't. I just have no idea what to talk about with them.
/r/seduction23/02/13 04:11 AM
0

I understand that, but it's really difficult. I literally flirt with everyone. I just find that with girls, I always somehow steer the conversation towards sexual things.
/r/seduction23/02/13 03:12 AM
1

Guys got it almost immediately. It was just weird haha. Tey didn't acknowledge me until I put my arm around her.
/r/seduction18/02/13 03:18 AM
0

I'm not in high school. I'm a college senior and live with my parents.
/r/seduction17/02/13 08:22 PM
2

My girl doesn't like when I flirt with other girls, not to mention I feel uncomfortable doing it in the same party environment as her. I still flirt but not in front of my girlfriend. And the sexual release is made harder when you don't have your own place :( But yeah, her being hit on just made me more proud to have such a hot girlfriend.
/r/seduction17/02/13 05:26 AM
8

we did this a little bit last night, pretending we only knew each other for 10 minutes.
/r/seduction17/02/13 01:29 AM
17

I agree with this which is why I didn't do anything other than just watch and act cool. The only thing about this is that while I trust her, I don't trust the other guy for taking it TOO far and making a move on her.
/r/seduction17/02/13 01:28 AM
1

This actually brings me to another point, should I uninvite her to the party by just saying "it would probably be best if you didn't come to the party, sorry"? Or should I just forget about this thing and go on with my life as usual?
/r/seduction13/02/13 03:53 PM
1

Would you say...SUPERgenius? ;)
/r/seduction13/02/13 03:35 PM
1

I'm not going to act on it at all. I'm just going to be much more wary of her now, especially if we're both around alcohol.
/r/seduction13/02/13 03:35 PM
2

Oh I'm actually aware of how vague it is. It's just really annoying/amusing to hear this crap now that I'm off the market.
/r/seduction13/02/13 02:48 PM
3

I'll probably end up doing this if she brings this crap up again.
/r/seduction13/02/13 02:45 PM
6

Yeah, I'm well aware of this. This girl is basically going through my friend group (after she and my friend stopped hooking up, she started dating his friend). I also just stopped talking to her after I started dating my girlfriend whereas before I used to see her almost every day. And yeah, I know this won't be an issue once I start getting more girls. That's a whole other thing in itself since I just suck at keeping in touch with people and no one really contacts me first.
/r/seduction13/02/13 04:56 AM
1

Well I mean, I always had a feeling she had a thing for me. Obviously I'll keep her on the backburner, but I really just don't know what's going to happen now if I hang out with her in the presence of alcohol. That's what I'm worried about, especially since she apparently isn't shy about making the first move.
/r/seduction13/02/13 04:47 AM
4

I remember when this happened to me with a girl I was hooking up with for a few months. I basically just enjoyed hooking up but after a while I just started to lose interest in her after I got to know her. After we finally had sex, and I saw her naked, I basically lost all attraction for her (she looked TERRIBLE naked). Don't do what I did if you're ever in this situation. I basically stopped replying to her texts instead of just saying we're ending things.
/r/seduction11/02/13 05:27 AM
1

This is how I always felt. Whenever I liked a girl, I never liked ONLY her. I just tend to like one girl a lot more than the others but never let it stop me from flirting or making moves with other women I found attractive. Of course, I have a girlfriend now so no longer do I think like this.
/r/seduction30/01/13 04:07 AM
5

Should've turned around and been like "hey wait...we're looking for food too!"
/r/seduction27/01/13 02:16 AM
5

Honestly, you just don't give a fuck about what you say and you just say it. Eventually, you get it. It's all about talking.
/r/seduction27/01/13 01:23 AM
27

I can say from past experience that this comment is the truth. Waiting for shit to happen is never the right course of action.
/r/seduction23/01/13 07:09 PM
1

Fuck...I just posted this same article.
/r/seduction15/01/13 08:03 PM
2

I had the exact same problem. I fixed it by not waiting for people to contact me first and instead contacting them. It took YEARS to figure out that I wasn't owed anything by anyone. I wish I realized this sooner.
/r/seduction14/01/13 09:52 PM
2

Oh I don't have a problem with the guys, hell I helped start the chapter at my school. I do like your advice though.
/r/seduction12/01/13 06:14 AM
27

I was talking to one girl and I found out she was on the softball team. I proceeded to ask "Are you a lesbian?" I found it funny. Then her boyfriend/guy she was with came up to us and I asked him "did you know your girl's a lesbian?" I was drunk, really drunk.
/r/seduction31/12/12 07:08 PM
1

That could have gone so much worse haha.
/r/seduction31/12/12 07:04 PM
1

Good job with getting past the boyfriend thing. Though, since I just got a girlfriend this month, this kind of stuff is starting to worry me about guys trying this on her at some point, even though I would totally do the same thing if I was single.
/r/seduction30/12/12 05:18 PM
7

I'm not sure how I feel about this. A part of me thinks this is all completely staged.
/r/seduction29/12/12 04:52 PM
1

I just realized that I can't sit around and wait for people to contact me. I started actually finding people I wanted to spend time with and making moves to hang out with them. I still have problems with getting people to contact me first but it's just something I have to work on (make a better impression on people). I also just stopped really having a negative opinion about myself. As soon as I started hanging out with people that I enjoy spending time with, things just clicked and I started to…
/r/seduction29/12/12 04:53 AM
1

This is awesome.
/r/seduction29/12/12 04:28 AM
3

Well, since I have a girlfriend now, my NYE plans changed from what I imagined they would be this year. Considering this is my first NYE as a 21 year old, I thought I'd be going out to bars and just having fun with my friends. But since I have a girlfriend, who is under 21, I had to modify my plans. We're just going to a concert on NYE and then figure out what to do from there.
/r/seduction29/12/12 04:12 AM
1

This is excellent. Being that I only have a semester left of college I will try to apply it as much as possible now. The friendzoning attractive girls bit will be difficult though, since I really like having options and if my friends start dating those girls, it will basically make things more difficult for me lol. Though I do have a girlfriend now, so this part should be easier.
/r/seduction25/12/12 10:03 PM
3

Holy crap that was cringeworthy. I literally yelled out in my head when I read this. You'll laugh about this one day though.
/r/seduction19/12/12 06:48 AM
1

I exaggerate. When I started hooking up with my current girlfriend, she asked me if I was a player. I just said "Yeah, I'm such a player. I have 25 women waiting for me every time I snap my fingers." It worked and made her laugh.
/r/seduction14/12/12 09:28 PM
2

Have to get my girlfriend into bed first. But this is a given of course.
/r/seduction09/12/12 03:33 AM
2

This is the type of advice I want to hear. I just really hope I don't get too drunk one night out with my boys and end up hooking up with some random girl...
/r/seduction09/12/12 03:33 AM
3

LieBaron huh?
/r/seduction03/12/12 04:30 AM
2

Porn I've seen shows me that if you offer a woman money in the Czech Republic, she will fuck you while letting you film it.
/r/seduction01/12/12 05:05 PM
1

Woah.
/r/seduction30/11/12 03:54 PM
2

Jew fro buddies!
/r/seduction27/11/12 05:51 PM
1

Well this doesn't work for me yet lol. Obviously I know you don't just ignore her. I guess this is going to be something fun to try.
/r/seduction27/11/12 05:50 PM
14

I really don't think that works on all girls, otherwise I'd be having more success.
/r/seduction27/11/12 04:31 PM
1

I actually live my life by that motto right now. The funny thing about those ballsy responses is the last time I blatantly flirted with her about 2 months ago (told her that I hear people with tongue rings are good with their tongues, she got a tongue ring a few months ago), she basically ended up telling me she wasn't interested in a relationship, which I just took as her saying she's not interested in a relationship and she wants to mess around, for now at least. Since I don't want a relations…
/r/seduction16/11/12 03:36 PM
2

Yeah, you're probably right. Nah, I'm going to just text her next week. Can't do anything this weekend anyway.
/r/seduction16/11/12 05:07 AM
1

Well, it's too late to respond to this now but I have a thing for a girl (currently I'm seeing a different girl, nothing serious though) and I texted her to ask what she was going to do at noon since I had a break. Her response 3 hours later: I was asleep at home. I was thinking I could have just responded with something like "Trying to make me jealous I see." Then if she responded, I would be able to say "I'm jealous of the bed, not you sleeping" which would have been ballsy and hilarious even …
/r/seduction16/11/12 03:06 AM
3

What if he actually is excited to see Twilight? There are people who have bad taste you know.
/r/seduction15/11/12 04:06 AM
1

Basically, yeah. This is one reason I don't believe in the friendzone like people define it. The fact is, humans are emotional creatures, and if someone changes, people are going to notice eventually. Whether the girl you want notices sooner or later, it doesn't matter. She will notice eventually and may like what she sees. If not, you have another girl to occupy yourself with. I really don't know if what I just typed makes sense to everyone, but this is basically my logic of why the friendzone …
/r/seduction13/11/12 03:50 AM
1

Dude, your mentality is basically my mentality when it comes to women. I basically keep a bunch of girls around for the purpose of hooking up with them, because let's face it, men and women really can't be friends like they can be friends with the same sex. Sex is an extremely important part of a relationship and I just can't really be friends with girls. Yes, I can be friendly, but I really can't be friends with girls like I can be friends with guys. The way I view it, the girls I'm "friends" w…
/r/seduction13/11/12 03:37 AM
1

I was making out with a girl in my university's staircase today and had my hand rubbing her pussy...if only I was in a bedroom...FUCK.
/r/seduction09/11/12 04:54 AM
1

Okay, good job trying. I personally think you should focus more on talking than dancing. What I do, since I'm more of a talker, is start a conversation then when you know each other better, go dance. It works for me.
/r/seduction02/11/12 02:57 PM
3

Good on you sir. You'll probably see her running after you after a while when she sees you don't give a fuck. Women are weird like that.
/r/seduction31/10/12 05:17 PM
1

I never understood the whole "out of my league" thing. I never went through that phase of thinking a girl was out of my league, and I'm not saying that because I'm successful with women either. I just never told myself "That girl is out of my league." All I did was say "she's really hot" then it was a matter of me actually trying to talk to her. Try that.
/r/seduction31/10/12 05:13 PM
2

Oh I'm working on it. I just made this topic as something I noticed while watching this show. I'm not really THAT concerned about it, it's just something that confuses me.
/r/seduction31/10/12 02:26 AM
6

I know what he was asking. And I'm saying that eventually, all kino is unintentional because it comes naturally.
/r/seduction28/10/12 02:23 AM
1

Well, I was planning to be a male stripper. But I decided to stay home and study for a midterm on Monday.
/r/seduction28/10/12 02:14 AM
11

Eventually, you start doing all kino unintentionally.
/r/seduction28/10/12 01:11 AM
3

Well I'm fucked.
/r/seduction27/10/12 11:23 PM
8

I approve this message. What you're advocating is direct game which is basically my go to most of the time now. I hate pussy footing around and beating around the bush. Direct game makes me feel bolder.
/r/seduction27/10/12 09:48 PM
3

Why not? Don't make her your sole priority however.
/r/seduction27/10/12 06:43 PM
1

I agree with this completely. The only time I really start staring to to figure out how I can start a conversation with her based on what she's wearing since it's the easiest thing for me to comment on. Or if I just feel like getting better at reading body language.
/r/seduction27/10/12 06:39 PM
8

RabbiMike has spoken!
/r/seduction27/10/12 04:42 PM
2

These jokes are hilarious. Upvotes for everyone!
/r/seduction24/10/12 04:27 AM
-1

Disclaimer: I have never had a friends with benefits relationship. I would just keep hanging out and escalating.
/r/seduction23/10/12 03:42 PM
1

Your story about that HB9 is similar in a way to whats going on with me and a girl I know. Recently though, I started hooking up with another girl and the girl I know is no longer as big a worry. Still trying to get with her though lol. Oh and I know what it feels like to get whiskey dick. It sucks hardcore. Had whiskey dick when I lost my virginity.
/r/seduction23/10/12 03:35 PM
1

I just mean older as in the context of older than me...by a few years.
/r/seduction23/10/12 03:17 PM
3

I really have no idea how you friendzoned yourself here.
/r/seduction22/10/12 05:00 AM
2

Same here...I've been told I'm a good kisser, I just realized recently I may use too much tongue though. I love kissing with tongue. I don't like slobber though, I just like putting my tongue in their mouth.
/r/seduction21/10/12 03:23 PM
7

This. Something I learned after I turned 21 in May. YOU have to be proactive. Let's face it, people are lazy fucks. You're lazy yourself because you don't invite anyone to do anything. I had the same exact problem all throughout high school. It's up to you to be proactive and invite people out.
/r/seduction20/10/12 05:53 PM
1

What language did you speak to the girls in? and did Bella end up going home with a guy? And did you fuck Alice in the ass later?
/r/seduction20/10/12 04:39 PM
1

I would go out again tonight if I didn't have a midterm on Monday. And yeah, I'm going to try and set up a day2. I'm just so proud of myself lately for growing a pair. It feels so great. I even feel like I can close with my friend in the last paragraph if I keep this up and get out of the friendzone if I'm even in it. The amount of confidence I feel now is off the charts.
/r/seduction20/10/12 04:28 PM
1

Wow, what a dick. He fucked himself over with how he talked about the girls to you. Where are you from btw?
/r/seduction20/10/12 03:03 PM
1

Thats what I'm leaning towards actually.
/r/seduction20/10/12 05:47 AM
1

Yeah, when it comes to this. We haven't even had a proper date yet.
/r/seduction20/10/12 05:47 AM
1

I did play it cool though. I had nothing to say other than that.
/r/seduction20/10/12 05:46 AM
2

Well I mean, I can't really tell what she wants since we just kissed yesterday. So I could just be wrong about what she wants. Just based on what she was saying it makes it sound like she might want a relationship in the future or be the relationship type.
/r/seduction19/10/12 06:37 PM
0

Ahhh, I remember when I first started grinding. It was awesome. Yeah, grinding is unique because it can be extremely easy, or extremely difficult. It honestly just depends on how loose you feel that day. I've had days where I was awesome and days where all I could do is sway side to side lol. Also, try to get the girl to grind face-to-face. That way its easier to make a move. I still have no idea how to kinda twirl her around for that, so I would like advice on that shit myself.
/r/seduction15/10/12 04:01 AM
3

I will use this in the future.
/r/seduction15/10/12 03:52 AM
1

I have this same exact problem, I'm going through it right now, somewhat. I'm not even sure anymore about where I stand with this girl due to a bunch of shit she's pulling with me. Anyway, yeah, I tend to compare all the girls I meet to the one girl I'm currently into, which is awful because I find flaws in all of them and I just can't bring myself to find anything better about them than the girl I'm into. It's so bad lol. Though, I find that hooking up with girls helps calm your heart and no lo…
/r/seduction15/10/12 03:38 AM
1

You're attached to 4 women? That's impressive. Whenever I get attached, it's only to one woman. I just compare all of the women I meet to her.
/r/seduction15/10/12 03:30 AM
3

Not sure where I read this, but someone once said that if he was asked if he was gay, he would just say "If I was, could I touch your boobs?" or something like that.
/r/seduction15/10/12 03:25 AM
7

I've known about the whole seduction community for a few years now, I only recently (since I turned 21 in May) started to kinda try applying it. I learned that a bunch of this stuff is a bunch of theory and should not be taken seriously. It's really up to you to know what works and what doesn't. Sure, I neg and kino much more than I used to, and I flirt A LOT with everyone (even guy friends lol). Still, it all comes down to actually making moves and just grabbing yourself by the balls and approa…
/r/seduction14/10/12 04:44 AM
1

Have midterms coming up, will try this.
/r/seduction14/10/12 03:38 AM
1

HOLY FUCK! Can you be my dad?
/r/seduction14/10/12 03:32 AM
2

I hear you man. I mean, I'm not in a band or anything, but like, I'm told I'm attractive often yet my success rate is pitiful because I just can't approach too well.
/r/seduction11/10/12 12:32 AM
1

That isn't it at all. And they really can't since my dad works 17 hours a day every other day, which means he goes to sleep early. Also, he sometimes sleeps on the couch in the living room, which is right outside my room lol.
/r/seduction09/10/12 05:36 PM
1

Yeah, that's basically what I figure too.
/r/seduction09/10/12 05:34 PM
6

Fortune favors the bold.
/r/seduction09/10/12 04:20 PM
1

I read it somewhat before. I also watched a little of re your brain on porn video.
/r/seduction09/10/12 05:22 AM
2

What if you live in an apartment with your parents and your parents told you already to just use a hotel? My parents are almost always home since my dad works every other day. Basically I have no time alone in my place.
/r/seduction08/10/12 11:43 PM
2

...going on 8 days now...
/r/seduction08/10/12 07:21 PM
1

Oh yeah, I know that. I know that it isn't a cure for everyone. I just find it interesting how every time I manage to close, it was always after not jerking off for over a week. It's so weird.
/r/seduction08/10/12 06:03 PM
1

Yeah, I really want to see how good this is going to go.
/r/seduction08/10/12 05:50 PM
1

Well, I'm really trying ti cut down how much I masturbate since I do it upwards to 3 times a day.
/r/seduction08/10/12 05:49 PM
2

Yeah, it's not easy lol
/r/seduction08/10/12 05:48 PM
1

We did it for an organization that deals with philanthropy work. I really don't understand it either, but it was easy as hell.
/r/seduction08/10/12 05:47 PM
1

Well, I think it helped. I lost my virginity after I dropped masturbating for a week, as well as made out with 2 girls in one night after dropping masturbation for a week. I like to think that dropping it has an effect on me.
/r/seduction08/10/12 05:46 PM
1

I really wasn't that wasted. I just don't remember what was said, especially since it wasn't a bar but a loud club. I suck at club game.
/r/seduction08/10/12 05:45 PM
1

I'm like you in a way. You're basically scared of the awkwardness if you're rejected right? Honestly man, just take chances. Every little step counts. Don't worry about fucking up, just do it. Easier said than done, I know, but you have to try.
/r/seduction08/10/12 02:24 PM
2

This is an awesome post.
/r/seduction05/10/12 12:19 AM
2

This sounds like it works on shy girls only.
/r/seduction04/10/12 06:02 PM
2

I myself am currently trying not to do it for a while. Its hard as fuck, no pun intended. I'm currently 5 days in I think. I noticed that everytime I have gone an extended period of time without fapping, I have gotten some type of action, k-close to a f-close. Hell I lost my virginity after not fapping for about a week. Though alcohol was involved.
/r/seduction04/10/12 05:44 PM
1

I don't think you understand, I don't really talk to the women I'm interested in like I want to be their friend, at least I don't think so. I just suck at escalating.
/r/seduction03/10/12 06:55 PM
1

You asked me if I'm relationship hunting and I'm not.
/r/seduction03/10/12 05:01 PM
2

I'm not sure how valid this story is.
/r/seduction03/10/12 03:44 AM
2

Finally that I'm on my computer, I can see this and I can't stop laughing.
/r/seduction03/10/12 02:55 AM
1

I really don't want a relationship right now, i'm too busy with other things in my life. That said, if a relationship happens, it happens. I'm not actively looking for one roght now.
/r/seduction03/10/12 01:34 AM
1

Well my specific girl wanted a relationship from a friend of mine when they were hooking up, he did not want one though, then she got into a relationship with someone else in his friend circle. So this girl isn't like the one you're talking about. Thats actually a reason I don't really believe in the friendzone, among other similar stories, since she was friends with the guy before getting into a relationship with him, even if the relationship only lasted around a month lol. But this topic isn't…
/r/seduction03/10/12 01:33 AM
1

I'm on my phone now so its difficult lol. And this topic isnt even about this specific girl in the first place just a general question using her as an example. She never talks to me about other guys.
/r/seduction02/10/12 10:42 PM
1

Well thanks for looking at my previous topics lol. I never got a "lets just be friends" from this girl, just a "I'm not looking for a relationship" through text to which I replied "good neither am I" meaning it in a fwb way. Then she started contacting me during our breaks between classes more and asking me to hang out. Its weird as hell since I don't know if she knew what I meant by my neither am I response, nor do I get what she meant in her text. Women are weird man.
/r/seduction02/10/12 09:38 PM
1

I don't hear about any girls sexcapades. So I'm okay in that front. At least not this particular girl's relationships. She doesnt tell me about any of her guys I just find out from other people.
/r/seduction02/10/12 09:27 PM
3

So what should I have said in this particular situation? I'm just asking a general question here, nothing on this specific girl (at least not in this topic).
/r/seduction02/10/12 06:42 PM
1

Oh well now...Getting advice from the other side is pretty nice. But, what if the girl doesn't sleep around? What then?
/r/seduction02/10/12 06:40 PM
3

I mean, I'm okay at the kino. I just can't escalate past touching the shoulders and lower back. I have a hard time just making a move to kiss the girl, especially the one I'm talking about in my OP due to certain situations.
/r/seduction02/10/12 06:38 PM
4

look in my topics, if you're too lazy, I'll link you to them later. And I completely agree with the video, this is actually the second time I'm seeing it.
/r/seduction02/10/12 04:43 PM
16

nice video...fuck. There's a long story about why I haven't. It's somewhat me being a huge pussy as well as the various situations I've hung out with her in which there just wasn't anything going in my favor. I've made topics about this particular girl lol. Also, I don't really believe in the friendzone (downvotes incoming!).
/r/seduction02/10/12 04:36 PM
7

....What the fuck...
/r/seduction02/10/12 03:47 PM
6

Kill your ex. Kidding, don't do that.
/r/seduction29/09/12 03:13 PM
2

How the hell can this be NYU? There are no forests in NYC! I would know considering I visit the NYU area often lol
/r/seduction28/09/12 01:23 AM
1

The good thing about this text from her is basically woke the fire in me to succeed. I completely plan to do this now, if front of her or not. The most interesting thing is I'm not even depressed about this, just angry. Also, she never even said she just wants to be friends or anything, just that she doesn't want a relationship "right now". Whether that's a rejection or not I have no idea.
/r/seduction24/09/12 02:49 PM
2

Well, I decided to just send this "Good, neither am I." I really aren't. I mean, I wouldn't complain if I got into one with her, but I'm not seeking one.
/r/seduction24/09/12 05:34 AM
2

Yeah, this too.
/r/seduction22/09/12 02:45 AM
5

I like this. Yeah, I still have a hard time knowing when to back off. It really depends on how much I like the girl.
/r/seduction21/09/12 06:28 PM
-1

This makes sense as well.
/r/seduction21/09/12 06:27 PM
22

That's fine, I wasn't looking for any real praise here. I just wanted to share something I recently thought about and how much sense it made to me.
/r/seduction21/09/12 06:26 PM
6

No jew fro here...;) haha
/r/seduction21/09/12 06:25 PM
2

Wait...if I'm Batman though, my parents have to be dead... But thanks, at least I know I'm not an idiot lol.
/r/seduction21/09/12 01:49 PM
1

Josh vs Max was hilarious! I really hope I can remember what I saw, even if it was acted out a little.
/r/seduction18/09/12 04:57 PM
5

Right on the money. I myself am Russian and all the friends I have that are Russian really just don't show too much anxiety when it comes to approaching women, it's pretty awesome actually. I wish I was like that but I have to practice to get there I guess.
/r/seduction18/09/12 03:00 PM
1

I remember I got a k-close once thanks to a girl's gay friend. It was awesome.
/r/seduction17/09/12 02:09 PM
2

So...you made out with 6 girls or something? That's awesome!
/r/seduction15/09/12 01:49 AM
1

A friend of mine moved in with a girl, now they're dating. Sweet girl, but she's really...kinda ugly.
/r/seduction12/09/12 03:39 AM
1

This is awesome. I really want to try this at a bar.
/r/seduction11/09/12 03:29 AM
2

Yeah, that's not bad at all. If you want bad, look at the topics I made about my Sunday night last week. That was so bad and I made such a fool of myself I have no idea what to do next.
/r/seduction08/09/12 07:05 PM
1

Has this guy made a move on her before?
/r/seduction05/09/12 03:37 AM
1

Yeah, we talked about negative shit when we were by ourselves at hookah. I regret that completely. I knew after we started that conversation it was an awful decision to try and be deep.
/r/seduction05/09/12 01:03 AM
-1

The friendzone does not exist. Thats my view on it. Its something a man made up when he was too scared to make a move on a girl.
/r/seduction04/09/12 03:49 PM
1

Well I know I fucked up on multiple fronts. One thing I pride myself for is admitting when I'm wrong. I guess I'm just going to apologize for my actions and get that off my chest. Then I'm going to try and get more options in girls and maybe just go cold on this girl and stop flirting with her or something for a while while I figure myself out.
/r/seduction04/09/12 04:59 AM
1

Basically at hookah me and her started talking about after college, and like I had the same conversation with my father multiple times which led to fights. I really have no idea what to do with my life after college. That, coupled with my parents getting into a fight yesterday, and other things just made me depressed. That was the first time I became an angry drunk in a while. I really feel like I should apologize for my actions, should I? Especially considering that in my drunken state I told h…
/r/seduction04/09/12 12:47 AM
2

Well, the hookah was just me and her. Then we met up with mutual friends, one of which is the friend of mine she was hooking up with and the other of which was her boyfriend for a month (they recently broke up). Yeah, I was just in an awful mood throughout the night. It got progressively worse as the night went on, partly because of stuff I overheard her say, like how she's always leaning on her guy friends or something. I really don't remember. I could go on and on about stuff that annoyed me l…
/r/seduction03/09/12 08:19 PM
2

Oh wow...I think you're completely right about the first point. The second point I already realized, it's just hard to really practice it without having options. It's more like, I like her the most out of the girls I'm talking to. Do you have any advice as to what I should do now? Considering the last time she saw me I was just angry and drunk and ignored her texts/phone call. I considered basically telling her how I feel but that was only for 5 minutes before I realized how bad an idea that is …
/r/seduction03/09/12 06:27 PM
4

This too. Seriously dude, I have never had a girl ask me for my number...ever. If a girl ever asked me for my number I'd give it to her and feel a HUGE surge of confidence. Even if you rejected her, your confidence should be through the roof right now instead of throwing yourself a little pity party.
/r/seduction01/09/12 11:53 PM
7

This.
/r/seduction01/09/12 11:49 PM
1

What do you mean by hitting on her openly? Because this whole possible bf situation is preventing me from doing too much.
/r/seduction29/08/12 07:53 PM
2

Well, I'm easily able to get attracted to other women. Hell I like multiple ones at a time. I like tocall my oneitis situations as me liking a specific girl more than the others. Which is what this girl is. I just wish I had more luck at getting laid with girls I like lol.
/r/seduction29/08/12 07:50 PM
1

A bunch of girls I talked to aren't touchy at all. It's only after I initiated physical contact did they open up to the idea.
/r/seduction29/08/12 04:13 AM
2

I wish it was that easy for me. I may actually just go to that party on Friday just to hit on women. It'll make me feel better and if I do it in front of this girl, I'll get some sense of what's going on in her head...or at least I hope I do. Unfortunately, I'm making myself wait to bang anyone because I went through pilonidal cyst surgery and even though only a small part of skin got cut out and it's healing well, I just don't really want to bang anyone with gauze taped to my ass lol.
/r/seduction29/08/12 04:12 AM
1

Honestly, I'm not sure. She doesn't seem like the type because she's actually a nice girl. I know a girl that's like that and she's a bitch and a half.
/r/seduction29/08/12 04:09 AM
1

Thanks. The only reason I'm all confused about this whole thing is because she shows interest (or what I consider to be interest, as well as what my friend noticed when he saw us together), yet she is possibly in a relationship with the guy. Even though I'm not really close with him, the fact that he's close with some of my friends is really making this whole thing difficult for me.
/r/seduction29/08/12 03:11 AM
2

I went on 2 dates with a chick that said I come on too strong. I was extremely aggressive with kino, as in I did it non-stop. I kissed her after the first date. After the second date, we just made out and held hands. Then a few weeks later, she tells me she's not going to fuck me and that I came on too strong for her. I feel like it varies between girls. Some girls like the whole physical contact stuff, others hate it and need to slowly transition to it. A girl at work is the same way. I'm a rea…
/r/seduction29/08/12 02:43 AM
1

Sorry if I made it seem like I worship her or something, because I really don't lol. But yeah, thanks for your advice. I think too much, it's always been a problem.
/r/seduction29/08/12 02:40 AM
1

You act like all guy immediately go for your vaj.
/r/seduction29/08/12 02:37 AM
1

Yeah I like her, I'm most likely going to hang out with her plenty since we have the same breaks between classes this semester. I'm torn between hanging out with her or just cutting contact for a while.
/r/seduction29/08/12 01:23 AM
1

Holy crap, this is my problem. Like I hit on girls but I can never get a legitimate friendship going because I go in thinking "I want to fuck her." Granted, I haven't had sex in over a year and all this girls I want to sleep with from classes never really go anywhere besides the talking stage. I honestly just need to figure out how to be friends with attractive girls instead of solely wanting to sleep with them. Okay, this isn't the same problem as you, but it's somewhat similar.
/r/seduction29/08/12 12:15 AM
1

still more subtle than guys. Or I'm just not observant enough lol. The glance is much quicker than the ones guys give girls.
/r/seduction24/08/12 12:02 PM
3

I agree with this. Women aren't really as obvious as men when it comes to checking out the opposite sex, which is annoying. I mean, I notice once in a while when women check me out but it's really really rare. My dad used to tell me when women were checking me out, but I never noticed it. I'm not sure if he was telling the truth or if I was oblivious but yeah, women are subtle as hell. You don't see women whistling at a guy as he walks by lol
/r/seduction24/08/12 04:45 AM
1

They still are doing shit for fun. I mean, yeah they want to make money off their stuff, that's understandable. Hell, that's one reason I want to get good with women, so I can make $1000 teaching other guys how to deal with women. It's easy and enjoyable.
/r/seduction24/08/12 04:41 AM
2

I'm told I'm good looking by so many people, yet I'm pretty terrible with women. This summer though, I've been going out a lot and honestly, I feel like I'm getting better. I'm also just pretty shit at socializing in general. Like, I rarely get invited places. But that's a whole other issue that I learned to deal with, people are lazy and you have to make things happen for yourself, which is what is going to put you above people, especially after college is over. I have a bunch of friends who do…
/r/seduction24/08/12 04:38 AM
1

No, I am part of the CUNY system though. I assume you're talking about Baruch? Because I don't go to Baruch.
/r/seduction23/08/12 12:16 PM
1

I like the agree and amplify thing as well as ignoring it. The player line just seems like a lie.
/r/seduction23/08/12 12:15 PM
1

I actually found out she has a boyfriend from facebook because she's actually in a relationship with the guy. Thanks for the tips though. I'm normally pretty sexual though it hasn't worked out for me too well in the past, though thats probably because I'm normally too scared to make a move. Though my confidence went up recently so I may get new results now.
/r/seduction23/08/12 11:50 AM
1

I should have probably written it in the OP but I just want to know what a good response to this would be in the future, if a single girl says this.
/r/seduction23/08/12 02:50 AM
1

why? If I'm going to actually plan some mixer with her sorority, and get my fraternity on good standing since we just made a chapter on campus last semester, it's better to just branch out and get to know other people, especially since she's the sorority's social chair. Besides, her sisters could be hot.
/r/seduction23/08/12 02:17 AM
1

Well I commute to college but yeah point taken. My brothers probably won't care because there are a bunch of sororities we know anyway, but you're right. Also how is a coffee date lame? I never met this girl in person and figure coffee would break the ice pretty well for a first time face to face meeting.
/r/seduction23/08/12 01:42 AM
1

I call bullshit. As a female you just have to pretty much offer the man sexual favors and you get him. That's the truth for most men. I enjoyed the read but females will always have it easier if they want.
/r/seduction22/08/12 04:45 AM
1

You could have just told her she was so hot that you came before you got in her. I wouldn't have left though. You just made her feel like shit and I would not be surprised if she does not want to talk to you again. That said, my first time, I couldn't even get it up. I couldn't get it up with the first girl I slept with and the next girl (which was the last one I slept with with before this dry spell of a year I'm going through lol) I couldn't get it up either. Seriously, I wish I had your probl…
/r/seduction21/08/12 02:52 AM
1

So you were naked but just kissing?
/r/seduction20/08/12 05:07 AM
3

I kinda want to know how old this girl is. Makes no real impact but she sounds older lol. Good job man. I hope to have results like this soon.
/r/seduction20/08/12 04:54 AM
3

That makes sense. Keeps me from any actual trouble too. Thanks. Solid advice.
/r/seduction19/08/12 03:48 AM
2

This is awesome. I feel like you can only pull this off if you build rapport beforehand. I love this.
/r/seduction19/08/12 03:15 AM
1

Basically this. At the present, Russian women are all really fucking picky, at least the extremely attractive ones. You need to have money to take them out and get them interested.
/r/seduction17/08/12 05:00 AM
1

Friendzone does not exist. It's complete bullshit guys made up when they can't get the girl. After all the stories I've heard from my dad, who got with friends all the time, it doesn't exist. It's all about making a move after kino, which is hard part for many guys.
/r/seduction16/08/12 12:17 AM
1

sigh Yeah, yesterday wasn't a good day for me at all.
/r/seduction15/08/12 03:27 PM
1

About the mindfucked thing, I really wasn't expecting shit from her. I did the best I could at the time. Hell, I made a post about it. I don't expect anything to fall in my lap, let alone blowjobs. I'd really appreciate if you stopped making assumptions about my "entitlement attitude." I expressed pretty much as much intent as I could have at that point, I'm not a complete newbie at this stuff. The whole situation at the time was just really awkward for me and I don't even know why I put myself …
/r/seduction15/08/12 04:10 AM
1

A few things, I just wanted to know if the boyfriend handled it like it should be handled or if there was a better way to handle it, just wanted seddit's opinion for my own future relationships. That said, I already admitted that I have a oneitis, though I wouldn't call it major at all. And I haven't gotten laid in over a year so yeah, I guess I qualify as an AFC in that regard.
/r/seduction15/08/12 01:55 AM
1

I can't do /r/NoFap. I fail every time lol
/r/seduction14/08/12 07:37 PM
1

I don't even hang around her that much. I've only seen her like 2 times this summer, once for her birthday yesterday and the other for our little "date" or whatever it was in which she mindfucked me completely. I'm man enough to admit that I'm completely fucking jealous and that it's pissing me off that I'm jealous. It doesn't stop me from pursuing other women but it's always at the back of my mind and I have no idea how to get rid of it. It sucks, hard.
/r/seduction14/08/12 06:45 PM
2

Honestly, I'm not going to deny this. I'm man enough to admit I feel jealous as fuck, which is something I really don't want to feel. It fucking sucks. And like I said, I just wanted seddit's take on the response for my own future relationships.
/r/seduction14/08/12 06:41 PM
1

It just got me thinking about what I would do in a situation like that and I wanted seddit's input on it. Plus, I have a thing for the girl, which is annoying me because there is nothing I can do about it now that she has a boyfriend and their whole relationship from what I observed yesterday looks like he's into her more than she's into him. Man, I need to start getting laid lol.
/r/seduction14/08/12 06:11 PM
1

I've been on a dry spell with sex for over a year now. It sucks. Especially since I only slept with 2 girls. I just use that as incentive to talk to as many people as possible and improve my social skills.
/r/seduction14/08/12 05:52 PM
1

The girlfriend and the guy weren't talking even. The guy was just blocking the boyfriend from his girlfriend.
/r/seduction14/08/12 05:04 PM
-9

I mean, yeah, I wouldn't have gone aggressive either. I just would have asserted dominance when the guy was blocking me from my girlfriend. Then I would have ignored the threat.
/r/seduction14/08/12 04:13 PM
2

Friendzone does not exist! Fuck man.
/r/seduction06/08/12 12:18 PM
1

I would love to see some topics you read on Seddit that changed your outlook and perception on what is smooth.
/r/seduction05/08/12 04:27 PM
27

Boner alert
/r/seduction04/08/12 07:29 AM
1

Oh, right. That could be taken either way I think. Depends on how much OP wanted to get laid.
/r/seduction04/08/12 02:06 AM
1

Yeah, I just happened to notice because it was being made blatantly obvious. You should open anyway though, eye contact or not.
/r/seduction04/08/12 02:05 AM
1

The multiple approaches thing is so money. The first approach is always the most nerve racking.
/r/seduction04/08/12 12:54 AM
1

That was hilarious. I don't see much of an opening she gave you though.
/r/seduction04/08/12 12:49 AM
2

I noticed this for the first time on Wednesday this week. Seriously, you'll know when you make eye contact, I promise you. Just tell yourself to remain mindful of it and you'll start noticing. I always had trouble noticing it, but Wednesday, I have no idea how it happened but I noticed at least 5 girls locking eyes with me at the bar. I guess it just clicks eventually, or I was just on fire that night with eye contact.
/r/seduction04/08/12 12:48 AM
1

Wait, how she seeing someone but not cheating on him? I thought the term "seeing someone" refers to having sexual relations with the person. Anyway, just give it to him straight. Tell him flat out what she told you. It's honestly up to him to listen.
/r/seduction03/08/12 04:22 AM
2

I love this man. That canoe story was the best.
/r/seduction03/08/12 04:14 AM
1

Yeah, there are a bunch of places in NY that have $1 beers on weekdays at a certain time.
/r/seduction02/08/12 11:46 PM
1

I didn't tell him to act dickish, he just did it. And he wasn't really insulting the girls or anything, he was just being dickish, not really an asshole.
/r/seduction02/08/12 10:11 PM
4

I agree with this completely. At this point in my life, I just want to fuck and get my dick wet. A bunch of the girls I talk to just can't hold a conversation for their lives and I eventually run out of things to talk about. This happened to me on Friday at a party. Granted, everyone was drunk, but I couldn't even make conversation with those girls, and I didn't even know them.
/r/seduction30/07/12 08:14 PM
1

I don't know. I just kinda moved my face closer to hers and went in. That's it. Probably looked like I was trying to bite her when she turned her head away.
/r/seduction27/07/12 05:28 PM
1

I should add that I'm pretty sure he didn't make a move. And also, I was in a position where I may have been able to escalate into a 3some if I was more savvy about it...lol
/r/seduction26/07/12 08:38 PM
40

Big boner here.
/r/seduction25/07/12 04:32 PM
1

It's just the whole mentality of having bars finally open to me that did it.
/r/seduction25/07/12 04:29 PM
3

I'm 21 now and I have to say, the bar scene changed me a huge amount. I honestly just realized there's nothing to be scared of and started talking to more people since turning 21. It's great. I always told myself that once I turn 21, I'll stop being such a huge pussy and actually approach, which is exactly what I started doing. I'm still not at the level I want to be but I'm getting better I guess.
/r/seduction25/07/12 05:50 AM
5

FUCK! I'm 21 and this made me wish I went to an actual school and not a commuter one. Good shit!
/r/seduction25/07/12 05:46 AM
1

The friendzone does not exist.
/r/seduction24/07/12 07:25 PM
3

Any stories?
/r/seduction24/07/12 07:21 PM
1

^ Same here.
/r/seduction24/07/12 06:02 PM
1

I can sympathize with you a lot OP. Honestly, something I learned recently is you can't expect people to contact you. You have to do the contacting. Also, I turned 21 in May so a bunch more places are available to me. Before this summer, I really was pretty anti-social outside of school. Now, it's much easier to just call/text someone and ask them to hang out and grab a drink or something. Just go out and talk to people. It's not easy but do it.
/r/seduction22/07/12 09:15 PM
1

For the bumming cigs, I offer a dollar for a cig. That way it's not really bumming but buying one off the person. Thanks for the advice here, I appreciate that you took time to write it so detailed. For the bartender, I just figured she might help lol. I didn't think she would get so annoyed.
/r/seduction22/07/12 08:47 PM
2

I should have made this more clear, after she said that and left, I didn't run after her. I hung out with coworkers for a little then saw her again as I was leaving. She was dancing with another guy.
/r/seduction22/07/12 01:24 AM
1

That's another thing I noticed about myself. Where I would beat myself up in the past for not getting a number, I don't do that anymore. I'm perfectly happy just getting a conversation and going from there. The bar scene, especially in NYC, has so many women, that I just don't care as much anymore, especially if I'm drunk.
/r/seduction21/07/12 05:29 PM
1

Museums. I live in NYC myself and museums are awesome. I would love to hear what other recommend though.
/r/seduction18/07/12 02:34 AM
1

I have the same problem. I live in an apartment with my parents, I'm 21, and my apartment really isn't big enough. It doesn't help that my dad sleeps on the couch pretty often (the couch which is right outside my room). My parents even told me I should use hotels or something, lame.
/r/seduction18/07/12 02:26 AM
2

This applies to so many things in social life. You have to be out there making moves, whether going to parties or just hanging out with friends, sometimes you have to initiate shit. I only learned this recently and I've been going out every week over the summer so far. Though that can also be attributed to me and my friends all being 21 now.
/r/seduction18/07/12 02:22 AM
2

I just laughed out loud when I read this title.
/r/seduction15/07/12 06:56 PM
1

I know...I just really don't know if i will ever really recover from it. It's a problem I have where my attraction for a girl never really goes away. It fucks with me.
/r/seduction11/07/12 06:02 AM
1

I mean, I would probably have fun considering there are going to be more of my friends there. But i really just dont know how I would gey when drunk and seeing her all over her boyfriend, especially since I really like her. It's quite the conundrum.
/r/seduction11/07/12 05:41 AM
1

I really don't know. I'm just venting I guess and looking for some type of advice on what to do when I see her again at her birthday. As it stands now, I don't really want to go anymore because I may make a fool of myself. Also this whole situation is fucking with me, even though this girl and I never did anything more than hangout alone twice outside school. One of those times she was hooking up with my friend , then he went to study abroad and she moved on to someone in his social group and is…
/r/seduction11/07/12 05:27 AM
1

Worst thing is we never even hooked up...
/r/seduction11/07/12 05:21 AM
5

I did. I'm not making an excuse, I just focused on having a conversation.
/r/seduction05/07/12 01:21 AM
12

I just wanted a conversation. I wasn't aiming for a number.
/r/seduction05/07/12 01:20 AM
5

I mean, the subway car was well lit so I noticed it easily once I started looking at her pupils. It's more about reminding yourself to look at the pupils and watching how they change. This was the first time I saw pupils dilate while talking to a woman.
/r/seduction04/07/12 11:39 PM
5

I really just talked to her. I wasn't feeling it enough to go for a close at the time.
/r/seduction04/07/12 11:37 PM
4

Yeah, I left that train ride feeling awesome as hell. Though I got no number lol. The thing about dilated pupils is that they are also tricky because they could be due to lighting as well, or so I read.
/r/seduction04/07/12 08:06 PM
1

What's it called?
/r/seduction30/06/12 03:00 AM
1

Holy crap. I would love to see you write a guide to body language.
/r/seduction29/06/12 10:04 PM
2

I realized this recently as well. I realized that part of my personal game is to be funny as shit, as well as a little cocky. So far, it's been working and I can actually have decent conversations with girls! I have to work on closing more but that'll come eventually.
/r/seduction25/06/12 05:47 AM
6

I think you should just wing for him if you feel a little bad for him.
/r/seduction24/06/12 06:30 PM
2

Take me with you!
/r/seduction24/06/12 01:50 AM
2

Here's another thing people should remember, friend zone does not exist. Seriously, stop this shit. Just go about your life like normal without the belief you're in the friendzone.
/r/seduction22/06/12 06:23 PM
1

Oh I don't mean I get blackout, slobbering drunk. I just meant that when I'm drinking and have a buzz going, I typically don't really pay attention to what I do or say. I just do it and say it. Then I try to remember what exactly I did and I can't remember because I just do it. An example is I was drinking with friends and somehow started holding hands with one of the girls as the night went on. I have no memory of how that happened, it just did.
/r/seduction20/06/12 04:09 AM
2

Oh thanks. I still live with my parents since I'm only 21 and don't make enough money to move out yet lol. I'll check some of these places out though.
/r/seduction18/06/12 06:55 AM
3

Same here man. What are some good places to go?
/r/seduction18/06/12 06:25 AM
9

I'm going to go out to a bar on Thursday so I'll let you know how it goes. Some people, like me, just suck at remembering what it was that we did exactly. Especially when intoxicated. Where are you from? Mentioning the subway makes me think you're in NYC too.
/r/seduction18/06/12 03:06 AM
1

How's your bar/club game? I would suggest you go there first then move back into daygame. You have to keep in mind that most people during the day have shit to do, like work or something.
/r/seduction18/06/12 03:00 AM
54

I love the details here. I learned some pretty good kino things from this post. Upvotes for you.
/r/seduction18/06/12 02:57 AM
2

Like a boss. I can tell you I know exactly how you feel about the married woman. A girl with a boyfriend of 8 years held my hand all night like last week...it fucked with my morals and I would have done stuff with her if her cousin didn't start cockblocking.
/r/seduction18/06/12 02:53 AM
1

I had the same thing all the times I had sex which was only twice but whatever. It's just nerves I believe.
/r/seduction17/06/12 04:16 AM
1

...The way he spoke gave me chills.
/r/seduction14/06/12 08:31 PM
2

I wish I had this problem. No one posts on my facebook, at least not often :(
/r/seduction13/06/12 05:06 AM
3

The hard part is now going to be to apply it when sober. I recently started seeing some results when drunk, which makes me feel more confident, but now I have to work on getting those same results sober...which is not as easy lol
/r/seduction13/06/12 04:55 AM
2

OH MY GOD! The images I got in my head made me bust out laughing so hard. Thank you.
/r/seduction12/06/12 06:17 PM
3

I never had an easy time smiling at random people.
/r/seduction11/06/12 03:40 AM
1

Extremely true. I realized this after I turned 21 and started actually going out. It just calms you down, the more people you talk to. Or it could also just be the alcohol but who knows lol
/r/seduction09/06/12 11:23 PM
1

Good job man. I wouldn't recommend the canned openers though. At some point in the night, you should just stop with those and start saying hi. Or since you smoke, you could just say "mind if I join you?" that worked for me when I tried it last time I went out and had a smoke.
/r/seduction08/06/12 03:00 AM
1

16 year old kid? How old was this cougar? lol
/r/seduction06/06/12 03:42 AM
2

I only did this for a few seconds but I feel better now. Fucking A!
/r/seduction06/06/12 02:46 AM
16

I'm glad that I wasn't the only one who caught that bit about his son being possibly a mistake.
/r/seduction06/06/12 02:37 AM
2

Nice. I actually had a similar experience in which I was drunk and didn't try at all and ended up making out with not one but 2 girls. I wrote a field report about it further down on the page.
/r/seduction01/06/12 05:58 PM
1

I also just looked through my texts and forgot that I texted a female friend of mine (that I'm actually attracted to) about shoes I got...she asked for pics so she could approve the purchases and I ended up asking her "What are you? my wife? :P" Needless to say I got no response from her lol. Should I just send her pics of the shoes I got? Or fuck it?
/r/seduction01/06/12 05:31 PM
1

Yeah, I know. I was drunk though. I wasn't all "Okay!" I actually put up some resistance and joked around with her about the cigs. We made out like 4 times though, so I don't think the cigs were all that necessary now that I think about it since she never moved away when I leaned in to kiss her. I actually made out with her right after she made out with another guy who gave her a cig lol. As for the other girl, I really did not expect to seal the deal so fast lol. Yeah, this is a huge boost of c…
/r/seduction01/06/12 05:15 PM
1

I just want to upvote this because you're a fellow Jew. I went on Birthright last summer, good times.
/r/seduction31/05/12 06:41 PM
2

Oh nice. Yeah, or at least that's how I read it after you wrote "We said our goodbyes and it wasn't awkward at all."
/r/seduction30/05/12 07:40 PM
2

That's awesome man! You gonna see her again? Because you make it sound like you aren't.
/r/seduction30/05/12 02:03 PM
0

SURPRISE BUTTSEX!
/r/seduction17/05/12 12:32 AM
3

I have the same problem. Honestly, with me it's that I can't get a girl interested enough to contact me regularly. It's always me contacting her. You aren't born with game, you have to practice and improve yourself. It's hard, I know.
/r/seduction16/05/12 11:18 PM
1

HOLY CRAP! I like this guy's direct method. It honestly seems like the type of game that would work for me. Minus the whole rapey aspect of course.
/r/seduction16/05/12 10:59 PM
1

I probably don't go to union enough then.
/r/seduction15/05/12 11:42 PM
2

I live in queens, but commute to school in the city.
/r/seduction15/05/12 08:51 PM
1

I have never seen any PUAs in union.
/r/seduction15/05/12 04:07 PM
2

You should have a dance battle.
/r/seduction15/05/12 03:42 PM
2

Will do. I actually do think he's sarging now that I think about it, based on how he dresses.
/r/seduction15/05/12 03:42 PM
8

Sex on the beach would turn into some orgy.
/r/seduction09/05/12 05:39 PM
84

"So...do you guys want this for here, or to go?" I busted out laughing way too hard at this.
/r/seduction09/05/12 02:53 AM
0

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dofu4Css-LU&feature=related Full video.
/r/seduction05/05/12 10:54 PM
2

I laughed hard. This guy is awesome.
/r/seduction30/04/12 04:16 AM
1

That actually makes sense. Even though I don't necessarily believe in the friend zone, this makes a lot of sense as to why I have so much trouble building attraction. Though, I know guys that are pretty much the same as me, yet they're still more successful :(
/r/seduction30/04/12 04:00 AM
1

I thought it helped to get over insecurity...since you're making some fun of yourself.
/r/seduction30/04/12 03:53 AM
2

Where on the sidebar should I start?
/r/seduction30/04/12 02:44 AM
1

Okay, thanks. I'll keep that in mind.
/r/seduction30/04/12 02:15 AM
1

Yeah, I don't mean getting rid of the comedic shit. I just tend to say dumb things in order to get a laugh. Thanks, I'll do what you suggested.
/r/seduction30/04/12 02:00 AM
1

I would say it varies, but it's mostly self-deprecating.
/r/seduction30/04/12 02:00 AM
0

I personally don't believe the friendzone exists.
/r/seduction26/04/12 01:25 AM
2

You're right, thanks. I know, it's pretty pathetic. The whole factor that she's part of my social circle is what makes this hard. I do badly in awkward situations. Thanks for your advice, no matter how harsh it is.
/r/seduction25/04/12 04:25 AM
1

I mean, I really don't care about how obvious I make it. I'm actually glad that I'm pretty direct with my intentions and don't beat around the bush in that regard. I would do that but I honestly don't want to make things THAT awkward in my social group. I should add that I noticed she doesn't contact me or show me as much attention recently, which may be explained by her knowing I'm attracted to her. I should also add that I never kissed her so that "taking it to the next level" thing would soun…
/r/seduction25/04/12 04:16 AM
1

So I recently found out I make it obvious that I like a girl in my social circle. Thing is, I don't know what to do now. She may be hooking up with a friend of mine since they are both at the dorms (I commute). We went on one date, I had my hand on her leg and she was receptive to that and I made her laugh, etc. I really have no idea what to do here now that I know for sure everyone in my social circle knows I like her. Even the friend who is possibly hooking up with her knows. Any advice? Shoul…
/r/seduction25/04/12 03:23 AM
-4

I disagree.
/r/seduction23/04/12 11:06 PM
1

This was awesome!
/r/seduction23/04/12 04:11 AM
1

I really didn't want that girl enough to make a move. It only dawned on me I should have asked for a massage after lol. This was my first real frat party and luckily it was my own frat (though my school isn't known for it's greek life so I can't just say I'm in a frat and expect panties to drop immediately). I like your post though, any specific advice for my situations as opposed to general advice?
/r/seduction23/04/12 03:01 AM
1

It wasn't an official frat house, just a brother's house lol It was my first house party in a while. I guess I just pussied out again to make a move. Yeah, he told me he wanted to hook up with her so I didn't want to really go past kino with her, even though I probably could have. I just texted her, don't really expect a reply though I may be surprised.
/r/seduction22/04/12 07:24 PM
1

Yeah, I do assume attraction in most cases, but that girl (HB7) was literally not doing anything and I had no idea how to isolate her from her friends. I tried the whole role playing thing too, just for fun. I probably should have just invited her outside or something. Oh well, live and learn with the massage. I just sent her a text, not sure if she'll remember me though haha.
/r/seduction22/04/12 05:56 PM
2

texting and internet game
/r/seduction16/04/12 04:46 AM
3

God this just reminds me of what I want to do ad what I have to keep working on. I need to just chill because right now I may come off as desperate, which I kinda am.
/r/seduction16/04/12 04:26 AM
2

My problem is more like I want to, but I can't pull the trigger because I'm worried about things being awkward whether I'm rejected or not. It's actually happening with a girl that I know from my social circle. I even made a post about it lol
/r/seduction14/04/12 07:44 PM
6

I want you to record this if it happens.
/r/seduction14/04/12 06:24 PM
2

I'm conflicted between what you said and what OP said. I mean, yeah, investing time into a girl you really like is worth it in the long run, but at the same time there's a risk of her not feeling the same way about you until much later in time. That's something that always annoys me.
/r/seduction14/04/12 04:48 AM
2

This is tempting me to try MDMA now.
/r/seduction14/04/12 03:30 AM
4

I just want to know how you managed to sell a startup company for 2 million dollars. What type of company was it? My advice to you is to not give up. Seriously, don't. You're probably a too nice and don't realize it. I really don't want to start yammering about my problems here, but they're similar to yours. Message me if you want to hear about them. I suggest you just ask your brothers to observe you and be honest with you about how you come off.
/r/seduction14/04/12 03:11 AM
1

I honestly don't believe in the friendzone. I think it's a silly concept. But that's just my opinion.
/r/seduction13/04/12 04:41 PM
2

I never understood why the fuck some people say bye when texting. I know one girl that did that and it was just weird. But yeah, you're done for now.
/r/seduction13/04/12 02:35 PM
1

Honestly, I have to agree and disagree. I agree in that if you do it too much, it's going to fuck shit up, I would know. Also, waiting for a response sucks and some of my jokes fall flat in IM. I disagree becase as others said you have to do it effectively. If you do it right, it could work in your favor. All this said, I can't get anyone to post anything on my wall :(
/r/seduction13/04/12 02:32 PM
1

I would love if you could give me some chat examples or how I can get better at all this.
/r/seduction13/04/12 02:30 PM
3

Also, the friendzone doesn't exist. People should be saying this more I think.
/r/seduction13/04/12 02:26 PM
1

Saved. Even if I don't agree with the part about parents necessarily, the rest of this is awesome.
/r/seduction12/04/12 11:42 PM
1

Good to know. Now how would one do so properly?
/r/seduction12/04/12 11:14 PM
1

Oh I'm not saying his advice is bad. I just think it's funny the way he describes the situation, given his username.
/r/seduction12/04/12 11:13 PM
2

Yeah, to the previous hook ups you should have just responded by not responding to her. Should've just stayed cool. I had a girl that I know from my social circle do this on our date or whatever it was yesterday, I just tried to be cool about it and not react, and tell her about my past hook ups since we were on the subject.
/r/seduction12/04/12 09:59 PM
1

The irony of who is saying this.
/r/seduction12/04/12 09:58 PM
17

A lot of people actually use something like this. I agree. It's great.
/r/seduction12/04/12 05:33 PM
3

I feel the same exact way. Honestly, it's gotten to the point where I realized that no one is going to do anything for me and I have to just make things happen on my own. That's just how some people are.
/r/seduction12/04/12 04:52 AM
1

THANK YOU! The Friendzone is a load of horse shit. It really doesn't exist. It's all about making moves and not acting like a pussy.
/r/seduction11/04/12 01:02 AM
3

Try to avoid buying women drinks, that's the general advice from this board. I myself don't really see the harm in it. Also, don't have your friend go and tell the girl you're awkward. It just sounds really bad and makes you look bad. I'm not the best with women myself though, these are just some things I noticed in your post.
/r/seduction08/04/12 07:32 PM
6

Dude, that type of thinking you have to stop. If you're good at playing guitar, just let that be a confidence booster. Women love that shit.
/r/seduction07/04/12 02:38 AM
1

Oh wow, a bunch of these nice guy things hit wayyyy too close to home. On the nice guy list, I'm guilty for a majority of them, but a bunch of that is my fault and just stuff I realized I already had a problem with, like 4 and somewhat 5. 20 is a pretty big one for me too, but it's more due to just my expectations of good people.
/r/seduction07/04/12 02:32 AM
1

This. I want to know this as well.
/r/seduction06/04/12 03:15 AM
-2

I have the same problem. Are you me?
/r/seduction05/04/12 04:02 PM
2

Well fuck, now I'm getting pretty worried about my chances with this one girl I may honestly have a oneitis for, even if its a tiny one. I mean, I kino her a lot and I recently started touching her on places other than the shoulder and arm. I have to start being mindful about how I act with other girls around her now, even though I never really hung out with other girls and her...lol fuck. Though I do want to do it just to see how she reacts...
/r/seduction05/04/12 03:50 AM
1

That was awesome to read. Would love to hear your texts to her.
/r/seduction05/04/12 02:44 AM
2

This article was awesome. I lol'd at the pimp part.
/r/seduction05/04/12 02:26 AM
1

Makes sense, I'll try it on a date.
/r/seduction05/04/12 01:34 AM
1

Yeah, I follow the ladder somewhat it just still feels strange and difficult to get to hand holding.
/r/seduction05/04/12 01:34 AM
4

This helps a lot actually. I'm having a lot of trouble escalating to the hand holding part of the ladder. I have no idea how to make it seem natural.
/r/seduction04/04/12 10:21 PM
3

Can you give me some examples of what you mean by heavier flirting?
/r/seduction04/04/12 06:02 PM
3

Lol my friend says that I even flirt with him and our other friend. Its hilarious. I hope I have the makings of a master...I really do.
/r/seduction04/04/12 05:28 PM
1

Yeah, I realized this may have been why I couldn't get anywhere with some girls. Considering I really like a girl right now, I don't want the same thing to happen with her.
/r/seduction04/04/12 05:27 PM
2

My flirting style is to just make people laugh. I tell jokes and I do kino, getting better recently with touching women on places other than shoulders. And I did put this on askseddit but it wasn't showing up so I figured to try my luck here lol
/r/seduction04/04/12 05:25 PM
1

Yeah, that's what I think happens to me. I'm worried people just stop taking me seriously.
/r/seduction04/04/12 05:24 PM
1

Guess I have to work on escalating more now.
/r/seduction04/04/12 05:22 PM
3

I'd love to see this.
/r/seduction04/04/12 02:00 AM
2

This. Just contact her in a few days and invite her out again if you want to see her again. Next time tell yourself to pay attention to body language (though not too much because body language varies). I still can't really pay attention to it nor am I good at it. Just go for the kiss, that's all you can really do.
/r/seduction02/04/12 12:50 AM
2

This. I like these guys, even if their stuff is getting pretty bad. I still get a kick out of watching them in awkward situations.
/r/seduction31/03/12 01:58 AM
1

Yeah, for me it was mainly because I just kinda let myself get too crazy in junior high school. I hung out with the class clown, but he didn't get any girls and I didn't either. People laughed at him not with him. Basically, my social personality changed after that. Then I just became a huge pussy and am trying to get my balls back. I really just want to be that guy that gets laid regularly and has friends that he's proud of having. This is how I'm using these seduction techniques, they aren't w…
/r/seduction31/03/12 01:41 AM
-1

I don't know, nor do I even really care. I just wanted to force myself to talk to her. I did it. Now I may never see her again and I'm fine with that.
/r/seduction31/03/12 01:08 AM
-1

Who knows. I didn't really care because I doubt I'll ever see her again. I didn't even bother asking for her name. The conversation was awful lol
/r/seduction31/03/12 01:07 AM
2

You should have answered her question with a "you're cute" or something along those lines. That's what I would do at least. The rest of it could just be construed as her having an off day, it happens. I wouldn't have brought up the hook up myself, I would have just forgot about it and try to do it again while sober. But I'm still learning myself so I would love feedback on my approach.
/r/seduction30/03/12 01:05 AM
2

AHAHAHAHAHA this is so good.
/r/seduction29/03/12 04:33 PM
1

There's actually similar ones on this subreddit too. Like the alien one.
/r/seduction29/03/12 03:04 PM
2

Can we just separate the good from the bad for those of us who aren't good at texting?
/r/seduction29/03/12 05:39 AM
1

...don't you mean "boyfriends"?
/r/seduction29/03/12 05:33 AM
2

Probably...but he's not very alpha though. I have no idea how to be laid back with women, I probably would be if I had better luck or didn't have that whole "I have to work hard for what I want" mentality. I really don't know, I noticed when I am laid back, nothing happens. So I guess I have to find a medium or something.
/r/seduction29/03/12 04:08 AM
1

Pretty sure this happens to my friend too. A lot of guys I know don't try and seem to ALWAYS succeed with women. I however try pretty hard and get nothing. I don't get it. One friend of mine comes to mind immediately, but he actually talks to women. He doesn't try at all though, they love his witty personality or something...even though he's pretty weird.
/r/seduction29/03/12 02:46 AM
15

You'll be fucking her again in a week. Good job. I want to be like you.
/r/seduction28/03/12 05:11 AM
2

I remember the few movie dates I've been on...lol I just awkwardly put my arm around the girl and they went with it. Got some hand holding out of it :D
/r/seduction28/03/12 01:00 AM
1

What about if you don't get oneitises but just like a certain girl more than others? Because that's something that usually always happens to me, like I flirt with girls, get numbers, but there's always one that I like more than any of them. I wouldn't necessarily call that a oneitis. I'm actually experiencing that right now in fact, and I may be in the friendzone (or at least close to it) and I don't even believe in the friendzone.
/r/seduction25/03/12 03:42 PM
2

I love the way you wrote this post. I literally lol'd multiple times. I want to have your life, guess I better start getting my shit together.
/r/seduction21/03/12 06:06 PM
-2

Tofu answer my PM dammit! I am willing to hike to SF and have you teach me! lol
/r/seduction21/03/12 01:22 AM
2

HOLY CRAP! THAT'S AWESOME!
/r/seduction20/03/12 01:42 AM
1

WHAT. THE. FUCK. Dude, teach me.
/r/seduction19/03/12 02:08 AM
1

Well, I understand all the assume attraction things since I've been doing that pretty much my whole life. And I know about that kino escalation ladder, thanks. Thanks for the examples of when to kino though. If anyone has more examples, that would be awesome.
/r/seduction18/03/12 11:50 PM
1

Okay, so I kino the shit out of women I know. Mostly it's on the shoulders or arms or something. I have no idea if what I'm doing is working or if it's creeping them out because I'm not getting any responses from these women at all.
/r/seduction18/03/12 11:04 PM
2

Man up and ask her out. That's all. You'll never know until you do. Also, your mentality is wrong. If you think you're lesser looking, you lost.
/r/seduction16/03/12 03:52 AM
2

Yeah, I normally work in the fitting room but they put me on the floor yesterday and I had to say hi to every customer I saw. I noticed how much better I felt after the first 3 customers and just started wondering how I could make this a game for myself that could just help me in the long run.
/r/seduction12/03/12 01:05 AM
3

I don't understand why I would stumble over my words...
/r/seduction12/03/12 12:34 AM
4

Say something like, "you missed out on an awesome orgy! But I forgive you." then set up another date. But I'm not too great with text game so I don't know. Just try to set up a date.
/r/seduction11/03/12 09:16 PM
3

I thought you used a little too many smilies, considering she didn't use any. But I'm not too great with text game myself.
/r/seduction11/03/12 03:52 PM
1

I didn't know what to do...If I said that, she may have thought I was just being a dick.
/r/seduction11/03/12 03:49 PM
2

This is a good topic. I've been wondering the same thing myself.
/r/seduction10/03/12 10:54 PM
1

I actually met her through friends. She just sat in my class because she has the same professor as me but at a different time and she missed that class. Oh, and those friends I met her through are also in my class...both are guys. She has a lot of guy friends.
/r/seduction10/03/12 03:15 AM
1

That sounds interesting. I guess I'll try that with a girl next time.
/r/seduction10/03/12 02:46 AM
1

I mean she still talked about him lol. I just zoned out at that point. Plus, I'm not even sure if I'm deep in the friend zone. I pretty much realized girls can change their minds just as easily as guys about who they're attracted to. Also, I try not to initiate too many conversations with her on facebook or text, though she doesn't either so I'm not in any zone right now I guess...
/r/seduction10/03/12 02:10 AM
1

The side bar stuff could help, though with my texting it wasn't specific enough lol
/r/seduction08/03/12 07:14 PM
3

I've heard way too many conflicting reports on this. Which is why I decided to just simply cut down on my fapping to a few times a week, as opposed to how I fapped 3 times a day every day for the last few years. Don't feel too much of a change though.
/r/seduction08/03/12 07:10 PM
4

So don't work out or fap? That sounds like a lose-lose situation.
/r/seduction08/03/12 07:09 PM
0

Your friends sound like douchebags. Honestly, the sad thing is I think I'm like your friends...which is bad. No more of this shit for me.
/r/seduction08/03/12 07:00 PM
5

I love you for this. Nothing beats Fast Times at Ridgemont High, nothing!
/r/seduction08/03/12 06:54 PM
1

Or he could just start inviting these people out more and they invite him out. That's something I realized. Sometimes you have to make your own plans. Happens to me pretty often since I'm not the most social person outside of school. I'm still working on getting my social life in order. Just get back on the horse OP, it's not easy but you have to do it.
/r/seduction08/03/12 04:51 AM
-3

HOLY CRAP! This is genius.
/r/seduction08/03/12 12:14 AM
1

It was more to vent lol
/r/seduction07/03/12 03:11 PM
1

So I decided to see a counselor today at my university just to vent. It didn't really help too much, especially since I got no constructive criticism. Seriously, wtf is the point of bitching to someone if they don't even really give you advice? I mean, she said it was a "trial" meeting or something and I'm going to have 10 weekly meetings there or outside, depending on how much help they think I need. Pretty much it's a bunch of bullshit and isn't going to solve any of my problems I feel.
/r/seduction07/03/12 02:50 AM
2

Thanks for that compliment. I hit the gym as often as I can already. It really can only do so much. And yeah he's an asshole, but he's also paying for my education and keeps a roof over my head so there's not much for me to do. I just feel extremely depressed at this point because there's nothing I can do to just fix all my problems immediately. I know if I got laid, I'd pretty much immediately feel better about myself.
/r/seduction06/03/12 05:41 AM
1

I haven't gotten laid in almost a year...sigh I know which one I am.
/r/seduction05/03/12 11:56 PM
1

He sounds like a nice guy, you shouldn't really try to compete with him. I mean, yeah, guys compete, but I would suggest that you just start working together or something like that.
/r/seduction05/03/12 03:27 AM
1

That sounds genius.
/r/seduction04/03/12 03:27 AM
1

I have the same problem as OP, though I have gotten laid, but I recognize that this is pretty much the only thing you can do to better your situation. That said, it's really difficult for some people to focus just on talking to girls, especially attractive ones. I for one try to game just about every attractive girl I talk to, which isn't working, but that's just the type of person I am.
/r/seduction04/03/12 02:03 AM
1

Great topic. I'm just going to bookmark it.
/r/seduction04/03/12 01:51 AM
1

Any advice on good text and internet game? Where is a good place to look aside from seddit?
/r/seduction02/03/12 09:45 PM
1

Why don't you just tell us? lol
/r/seduction02/03/12 05:22 AM
3

Damn...lucky kid I guess.
/r/seduction02/03/12 04:12 AM
3

Age 12???? what the fuck? Did he tell you how he managed to do that?
/r/seduction02/03/12 03:41 AM
3

Oh I see. Yeah, I'll do that from now on. I'll just hang out with my guy friends for now and if she shows up, whatever.
/r/seduction01/03/12 02:53 AM
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I mean, the messaging thing I realized recently, its not even just with her, its just messaging in general lol. It feels so weird to me now. Its also hard to cut her off when I hang out in the group. Plus I just don't want to cut out someone I just recently started speaking to, I just have to try and stop this oneitis. I think I can get her eventually, I just have to stop viewing her as the only girl around, especially when I don't even really see her often in the first place. She's a cool girl …
/r/seduction29/02/12 10:00 PM
1

This is exactly it. Seriously, your friend is like my friend.
/r/seduction29/02/12 03:01 PM
1

Yeah, I mean, I go to the dorms once in a while to hang out.
/r/seduction29/02/12 06:08 AM
1

20 almost 21
/r/seduction29/02/12 06:08 AM
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"It also sounds like you have a lot riding on this one girl. As people here say, the more outcome independent you can be, the better. Realize she is just one person, who you barely know. Relax and know that at the very least, what you do will be putting you on the right path to being a more attractive and more assertive person." This part is why I'm pissed at myself. I realize that I barely know her but I'm already feeling down about this shit and overthinking, which is something I hate about my…
/r/seduction29/02/12 04:10 AM
2

How do you know she was facebook stalking you?
/r/seduction29/02/12 03:41 AM
2

Thanks for that, I actually feel better. We actually hung out today, she initiated it last week by asking me to go get food with her. Of course she also invited three of our mutual friends (all guys) of which only one went with us today. One of those invited was the friend she hooked up with, he didn't come with us though. When I got home, I just decided to contact her on facebook, wasn't getting great responses and just said we should hang out again sometime, and left the conversation at that a…
/r/seduction29/02/12 03:36 AM
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You mean like just ask her about herself? lol
/r/seduction29/02/12 03:26 AM
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Thanks. I mean, yeah, I've only known her for a month or so, so it's not like I'm in the friendzone for sure or anything. I'm just kinda pissed because she kinda flirts with me and is receptive to my flirting, etc. but I don't even really know her too well so I'm getting ahead of myself already. Thanks for the advice though.
/r/seduction29/02/12 03:03 AM
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What's the best way to deal with oneitis? I only knew this girl for a month and I'm already pretty smitten. She hooked up with a friend of mine as I found out today and I feel like crap about it, mostly because of my own failures. Now I'm just overthinking everything I do around this girl and have no idea how to proceed with her.
/r/seduction29/02/12 02:45 AM
1

He literally does none of that around me. It's times like this where I start questioning everything I do. I don't even know if I did the right thing by contacting the girl on facebook just now, just based on her short responses. I'm just really pissed off at myself right now. Especially since I only knew this girl for a month or something and my body is already fucking with me in more ways than one. I mean, she did agree to hanging out again sometime, so it's not a total lost cause. I'm just in …
/r/seduction29/02/12 02:35 AM
2

...He really doesn't do anything. The guy is just witty as fuck. From what I noticed, one of the girls actually just kissed him out of nowhere.
/r/seduction29/02/12 02:10 AM
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Thing is, what if the girl accepts that she's "one of the guys"? There are girls like that. Telling her this may just end up backfiring since that's how she's viewed by the guys in her group and she's used to it.
/r/seduction27/02/12 04:35 AM
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What if the girl hears the "bro" part all the time or even refers to herself as a bro?
/r/seduction27/02/12 04:25 AM
1

Doesn't make me want to fuck her any less unfortunately...just means I have to change up my game lol Seriously, how should I act around girls like her?
/r/seduction26/02/12 06:23 PM
1

Yeah, but her/my friends aren't chodes lol.
/r/seduction26/02/12 05:19 PM
0

Honestly, I could care less. Because most likely they slept together in the past if not last night. I have a really weird view about this stuff, especially if the girl is cute.
/r/seduction26/02/12 05:18 PM
1

You seem to have misunderstood. I know she's single but she said it herself last night that most her friends are guys. I was hanging out with her and my guy friends last night and hitting on her but as soon as she said she has a lot of guy friends a red flag went off and I didn't know how to approach the situation. Also, she may or may not have fucked one of my friends last night. They aren't together though.
/r/seduction26/02/12 04:57 PM
1

you have a point there.
/r/seduction26/02/12 04:19 PM
3

Set 4 was awesome!
/r/seduction26/02/12 12:39 AM
1

I have to be honest, don't do anything. When you see they're with a girl, just destroy the shit out of them. Say something extremely embarrassing when talking to them around the girl they like. It's something I would do. Just cockblock them like they try to do to you.
/r/seduction26/02/12 12:34 AM
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Yeah, I did this, and do what anubus said, because I alienated them and paid for it in loneliness. Besides, you can still make a move later possibly, and break out of the friendzone.
/r/seduction26/02/12 12:26 AM
3

If I was in your position, after finding out the situation, I would try and introduce him to another girl at the venue. It'd make you look like a better guy and you'd have made a new friend. Also, I would probably do what the guy did...sadly. I mean, I'd also mingle with other girls too, not just her.
/r/seduction26/02/12 12:23 AM
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Thanks, point taken. It helps knowing she's a tease so I don't expect much to begin with :D I do think she'll end up contacting me again in a while, if not now, though. But until that happens, I'm forgetting about her.
/r/seduction24/02/12 04:10 AM
1

Yeah, I decided to contact her just a few minutes ago, we talked a little, I could tell she wasn't into the conversation too much so I just got to the point and told her we should hang out again, this time at a museum I really want to check out and to let me know what she thinks about the idea. Then I just left and decided to leave it up to her. Not my best move, but she wasn't really into the conversation anyway so I'll just forget about her for a while if she doesn't respond.
/r/seduction24/02/12 03:45 AM
1

when should I contact her again?
/r/seduction24/02/12 01:57 AM
2

I'll try that if I see her again. Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction23/02/12 04:51 AM
2

Great read. I did some light kino, like touching her arm. I didn't really do much else in terms of kino though, so that's where I most likely went wrong.
/r/seduction23/02/12 04:38 AM
2

Yeah, I don't know, I mean, she was receptive to kino and shit. She was giggling and smiling when I was joking around with her about the kiss. From what I observed throughout the night, I think she was into me, but I'm honestly not too great at reading people. I tried to see if her pupils were dilating just for fun, and I think they were, so that's a good sign.
/r/seduction23/02/12 03:25 AM
1

God damn dude...The way I picture this playing in my head made ME horny! lol
/r/seduction22/02/12 03:55 PM
1

I would say everything is an overstatement...just what I do and say around mostly the opposite sex.
/r/seduction21/02/12 11:55 PM
1

I've seen this video already, really great stuff. Yeah, I try to have that mentality, but sometimes it just doesn't happen because of something I do or say around the girl that fucks up how she sees me. That's something that I'm always worried about, especially around a hot girl. It's pretty stupid to think like this, I know, and I wouldn't if I was more successful with women.
/r/seduction21/02/12 11:54 PM
2

source for this?
/r/seduction21/02/12 07:46 PM
1

This makes sense actually. I mean, I wouldn't say that I'm completely uncomfortable with myself, just a few aspects. The happiness thing is spot on sadly, which sucks.
/r/seduction21/02/12 03:34 PM
1

Just whatever I say to the opposite sex. If I don't get a response I expected or something doesn't go the way I hoped I immediately start to overthink and think that I fucked up, it's a bad habit. I'm trying to change it but I have no idea how to do effectively.
/r/seduction21/02/12 03:32 PM
1

I'm a student at university, work out at the gym and no I do not meditate.
/r/seduction21/02/12 03:31 PM
1

I do this one pretty often. It's fun.
/r/seduction21/02/12 12:23 AM
1

Yeah, I'm only 3 months away from 21 so it's not a big deal, too late to get a fake though. I'm not going to transfer at this stage, I'm a junior now and don't want to stay in college longer, even if it meant I would get more sex. I do wish I did better in HS though so I could have gone away for school.
/r/seduction07/02/12 05:57 AM
1

I always feel awkward going to a club by myself, I don't know. I did it when I was 16 and it wasn't that fun solo.
/r/seduction06/02/12 06:17 AM
2

I have the same problem with my friends. It's so fucking frustrating. Especially since they get laid more often me already.
/r/seduction02/02/12 05:20 PM
1

I just want to say I love your videos. I really want to try some of your shit but I still get nervous. Anyway, you all make fun of Kong's penis, how small is it exactly? lol
/r/seduction02/02/12 05:12 PM
3

This. Honestly, I hold myself back sexually because I really don't want to creep out the girl.
/r/seduction31/01/12 05:36 AM
1

Advice for someone who goes to a school that's mainly a commuter school? The campus life at my school is pretty much dead since everyone basically commutes.
/r/seduction31/01/12 05:28 AM
2

Well, there were A LOT of things to talk about, great kino opportunities, etc. You could just ask her what she sees, then make fun of her for it if it's something silly. I can't really describe it, you just have a lot to talk about in a museum.
/r/seduction24/01/12 06:02 PM
2

I took a girl to a museum on a first date...it was awesome. Do it. From now on, all my first dates will be to museums.
/r/seduction24/01/12 05:23 AM
1

I'll keep that in mind. Thanks. Guess I know what I'm going to work on now with the teases.
/r/seduction24/01/12 03:44 AM
1

So good...I love this. It explains a lot of my problems too. What do you mean about deleting the boring thing in the box? How can you delete it if you sent it already?
/r/seduction19/01/12 05:28 AM
1

How do I deal with the flirts/girls who are teases?
/r/seduction19/01/12 05:17 AM
2

...I like that outlook a lot... Thanks.
/r/seduction19/01/12 03:36 AM
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Will do, thanks. Now what about the other part of my post about viewing all girls I talk to as potential targets. I seriously just can't get myself a friendship with a girl that rejected me or that I'm interested in, I have no idea why. I can't seem to get the girls to get interested in me, even as a friend. It might be that I'm shy though, I really don't know.
/r/seduction18/01/12 06:09 AM
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I would love to know how you dealt with girls that are teases and flirt with everyone. My main problem is that I don't really have anywhere to go to hangout and just can't figure out how to become more likable/interesting to people, especially women. I also have a lot of trouble in NOT wanting to be friends with women and just wanting to fuck them, as in, I view a lot of girls as targets and I'm pretty sure that fucks me up. I always had trouble getting along with women on a friendly level due t…
/r/seduction18/01/12 05:57 AM
1

Took me a few seconds but this was hilarious.
/r/seduction17/01/12 04:30 AM
1

Talk about anything really (except politics). I recently had a date with a girl and I never even really talked to her before said date. I just let the conversation flow naturally.
/r/seduction12/01/12 08:27 PM
2

Same here. It also just makes me more aware of how much I'm missing out on, which isn't that great.
/r/seduction12/01/12 05:05 AM
2

If I remember to do it. I'm actually looking forward to getting the "I have a boyfriend" excuse now.
/r/seduction12/01/12 04:52 AM
2

I loved reading this, especially nice hearing you're my age. Awesome stuff, hopefully I can get off my ass and do the same thing soon.
/r/seduction12/01/12 04:49 AM
2

I was about to post that same line. I'm seriously going to try it next time I get the girl saying she has a boyfriend.
/r/seduction12/01/12 04:36 AM
9

I agree with this. The sad thing is many of my friends (me included) don't like introducing one another to girl friends that we want to bang. It's smart though.
/r/seduction04/01/12 01:47 AM
1

I'm in the same boat man. I get the whole "you're handsome, funny, etc." thing from friends and family yet i for the life of me can't figure out how to interact with women at all. This year, I may actually get better at it considering I turn 21 in May and will gain access to more venues where approaching is pretty much expected.
/r/seduction02/01/12 04:20 AM
2

WTF is this? Seriously?
/r/seduction29/12/11 06:22 AM
1

As long as you don't do what that guy in the Virgin Diaries did and tell the girl on your first date with her that you're a virgin, you shouldn't have a problem. I mean, I wouldn't go around telling people you're a virgin unless they ask though.
/r/seduction29/12/11 03:29 AM
1

I have the same problem, which holds me back in terms of making moves. I live in an apartment with my parents though so I can't really bring any girls home at night. Especially considering my dad sleeps on the couch outside my room often so he can watch TV without waking me mom up. Living with my parents in a small apartment is not the biggest problem I have in regards to getting laid, but it's certainly an issue.
/r/seduction19/12/11 05:03 PM
1

I thought the same exact thing.
/r/seduction15/12/11 06:51 AM
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