Forget dating advice, how do I become the guy people want to hang out with?

TatoJonez · 2017-05-21T06:38:21+00:00

LEARN: languages, read books, travel, lift, have many hobbies, get into different kinds of music, learn to dance to different genres of music. Do things that you can tell a crazy/funny/interesting story about. Become a man of many talents. STAY CURIOUS ABOUT EVERYTHING & ACT ON IT.

btiz · 2017-05-21T12:38:12+00:00

First of all, applause. You have the right mind set. Nothing against people that want to get laid more, but they're missing out on the big picture, which is working on being the kind of person you always wanted to be...the life you want gets built from here.

When you interact with people, take note of the ones you would like to (and not because of the desperation of avoiding loneliness) continue to talk to, or talk to again.

Did this person engage your emotions during a conversation, or were they extremely knowledgeable? Did they share experiences that were unique to you? etc...

Once you figure out what you really enjoyed about the interaction, then working on those things is simple (but not necessarily easy).

-Knowledgeable - read more, watch more documentaries... -Better emotional IQ - watch videos/read books on it...practice skills when interacting with people -unique experiences - try things you've never done before...google what kind of events are happening in your location and just go, even if alone...open mics, art showings, drunk kickball...

IIIlllIIIlllIIIEH · 2017-05-21T14:03:34+00:00

Last year I moved from home to a city that was 1000 km away. I knew nobody. Now I have a lot of people to hang out with. But hear this, most of them dont know each other. I have my "beach" friends, my "muay thai" friends, my "university" friends...

What I am trying to say is that there is not one type of "hang out guy", you must find your interests and people to share those interests. If you dont know how to do that I suggest you to start talking to everyone you meet, and eventually you ll found them.

Good luck

Title	Forget dating advice, how do I become the guy people want to hang out with?
Author	jewfro667
Upvotes	7
Comments	7
Date	May 21, 2017 3:13 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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