You know how most guys are thinking "Man, I really want this girl to text me"? Reverse that. Start thinking that this girl is who really wants you to text her!

It's amazing what that did for my mentality yesterday. I was thinking about how this one girl was hot and cold with me, knew when I was free between classes and barely texted me. I realized that I never texted her and how much she must have wanted me to text her, as much as I wanted her to text me. It made me feel so much better and brought this lingering thought off my mind. Of course, now I'm wondering when would be a good time to contact her but that's another story.

Oh and also, don't be overbearing. No one likes someone that texts nonstop 3-4 times in a row if they get no response.

Let me know what you guys think about my little "revelation."

EDIT: I did not expect this many upvotes! This is my most upvoted topic on Reddit, I feel special. I hope that I actually helped someone with this.