Silence After Third Date. Now what?

Cocky_Douchebag · 2017-09-01T23:24:39+00:00

Honestly bro and a thing that people seem to kinda don't get on this sub is, that's now how you keep a girl around. Maybe if you're like both 35 but after you guys fuck and have fun together, it's okay to text, talk more over the phone, enjoy the other person. It's called getting close and having a relationship. You don't have to be bf girlfriend but still like just talk to the chick after you bang twice a little bit.

p1243 · 2017-09-01T21:53:29+00:00

If I were you, I would tell her that I had a busy week, and totally forgot about the date. Act mostly like you just remembered that. This is the least pushy way of asking I could think of. But between coming off a bit needy vs not asking (and consequently not knowing), I will ask any day of the week. Cheers!

TheLimitlessMale · 2017-09-01T22:00:16+00:00

Please don't ever say "text me later" again, I threw up in my mouth a little bit reading that.

First rule of game: girls are going to do some weird things and there won't always be an easier answer, its not a science experiment.

That being said don't beat yourself up over it. She could be fucking some dude with a big 10" dick and a six pack or she could just be really busy with work/school.

Your mind generally comes up with the worst case scenario.

Here is how you play it. Wait a couple more days and text her something like "Hey, sorry I've been busy as fuck lately. I'm grabbing a drink at xyz bar tomorrow at 10pm you should stop by."

9 times out of 10 she'll respond and you'll get to tap that ass again. If she doesn't respond that just gives you more time to meet other woman.

Best of luck

QuellonGreyjoy · 2017-09-01T23:08:43+00:00

Leave it be, I guarantee you've crossed her mind and if she wanted to hit you up she would. After a few weeks of casual sex she might not be feeling it as much.

Then again she might have been busy, on holiday, away etc. Nothing stopping you hitting her up in a few weeks to test the waters, the allure and attraction might be back there on her side but she's reluctant to make the first move.

questionthis · 2017-09-02T01:00:16+00:00

Sounds like you're in the shallow waters of relationship island. Question is do you want to dock your boat or keep sailing?

If you want to keep things going as they are, don't blow her up and if she doesn't contact you it's not your choice anymore. If she does nothing has changed.

If you do reach out, you are inadvertently making yourself emotionally vulnerable (whether you mean to or not). If you're ready to take that little but irreversible step and reach out, I wish you best of luck and hope it works out.

If neither of those sound appealing, go out and find more girls. You need to diversify your portfolio to minimize risk, so start investing your time in other places so if this one falls through it won't be all that bad.

DavidGolani11 · 2017-09-02T17:52:29+00:00

YOU may be having great sex, she may not be. If you are plowing a girl like she's never been plowed before, she will be very loyal to you indeed. You might want to re-assess your lovemaking techniques.

Title	Silence After Third Date. Now what?
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Date	September 1, 2017 9:04 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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