[FR] Don't Be This Guy

ErX29 · 2012-02-25T19:12:02+00:00

Just to clarify, from my pov as a recovering AFC:

The guy hates you and wants you dead, probably.

0wnagetime · 2012-02-25T19:59:25+00:00

He asked me out while we were on a ski lift together one time

hahahahahaha

corner that bitch so she can't get away

bitches love being cornered and propositioned

worthwhilethrowaway · 2012-02-26T02:19:26+00:00

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breakN_leaveflowers · 2012-02-25T20:18:17+00:00

I would be pissed too if a girl asks me to pick her up downtown only to then ditch me for a guy she just met.

Cootard · 2012-02-25T19:41:24+00:00

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Mr_Slippery · 2012-02-25T19:39:09+00:00

His mistake is not being passive. He asked her out and got shot down. His mistake is accepting being friendzoned, then acting like a bitch about it.

Sir_Duke · 2012-02-25T18:28:25+00:00

you shouldn't drink and drive.

skcin7 · 2012-02-25T20:04:53+00:00

Poor guy. I know what it's like to be in his shoes. He'll learn, I hope.

EDIT: How about a FR for when you took the girl home?

keptit2real · 2012-02-25T20:22:14+00:00

This why I am getting rid of my AFC ways. No more friends zone shit. I have decided recently that play the game with any new girl I meet. I do this to make sure i will not revert back to AFC ways.

2012-02-25T21:21:36+00:00

It sounds like he made a move, and she rejected him. Maybe the lesson should be "Be persistent and move the fuck on if she's not into you."

TheGameGenie · 2012-02-25T23:09:49+00:00

A scrub is a guy who can't get no love...

Awesome FR sir. You sound a little bit more advanced than I am but I do know that saying "he really likes you" was not only the perfect thing to say but it had to be addressed.

Poor guy, curious: what gave away that he was AFC. I realize that this may not have been that interesting.

Chakosa · 2012-02-25T23:10:24+00:00

A little bit later the bar is closing and I ask her how she is getting home. She tells me that AFC is going to give her a ride, to which I reply, “No, he doesn’t have to. I’ll drive you.” She then turns around to AFC and tells him that I’m going to give her a ride, and she doesn’t need him to. AFC then just turned, and walked right out the door.

Oh god I cringed. D:

JamesFaced · 2012-02-25T17:14:49+00:00

Just a curiosity, any idea how old the guy was?

Fudgeworth · 2012-02-25T23:39:01+00:00

“ A little bit later the bar is closing and I ask her how she is getting home. She tells me that AFC is going to give her a ride, to which I reply, “No, he doesn’t have to. I’ll drive you.”

I like how the The_Merkon didn't accept that the AFC was going to drive her. Some of the best nights I've had recently were when I was more assertive.

jewfro667 · 2012-02-26T00:23:48+00:00

If I was in your position, after finding out the situation, I would try and introduce him to another girl at the venue. It'd make you look like a better guy and you'd have made a new friend.

Also, I would probably do what the guy did...sadly. I mean, I'd also mingle with other girls too, not just her.

AISockets · 2012-02-26T03:19:48+00:00

Help him out, he'll appreciate it, and you'll have one extra friend under your sleeve. If you get him laid or at least a date he'll owe you big time and you never know when it might be of use.

Lanza21 · 2012-02-26T01:12:40+00:00

I just want to help the poor things...

This happened to me recently. I was out one night and ran across a girl who I used to tutor. She was with some AFC. I walk up, talk to her, flirt, pull her away, end up kissing her and continuing on my way with her number. I could feel the poor kids heartbreak from across the room.

ppp_man · 2012-02-26T03:19:14+00:00

Is it not possible this guy has accepted the rejection and is now just happy being friends?

2012-02-26T00:08:11+00:00

That's rough...

_valtiel_ · 2012-02-26T02:58:20+00:00

Are you kidding? She was never his friend. Keep that bitch at arms length.

pragmaqual · 2012-02-26T04:49:35+00:00

We all know this, that's why we're here, right? I thought it was going to be something you did. But good work. You get to a stage where you're blowing out AFCs. Pat yourself on the back. If they don't want that to happen they are going to have to take charge of their lives and change things, like you did.

lurkerinmyheart · 2012-02-26T05:29:39+00:00

Oh god, HOW MANY TIMES. I have decided that I will not feel bad for them since it's not some kind of charity we're talking about. A woman is not an object and as such, she can't be owned. So I don't feel that bad anymore, unless it's a friend of course. In that case, it's brosbeforehos, every single time. And that's just the way it is.

intellectualwit · 2012-02-25T21:57:04+00:00

Very good advice sir.

Title	[FR] Don't Be This Guy
Author	The_Merkon [recovered]
Upvotes	170
Comments	127
Date	February 25, 2012 5:03 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/q5kvh/fr_dont_be_this_guy/
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