Horny - make sex nr. 1 priority - have sex - realize it's no big deal - Repeat. How to break the cycle?

Borsao66 · 2018-09-22T20:22:53+00:00

Sex is like air, it's only important when you're not getting enough.

[deleted] · 2018-09-22T19:23:38+00:00

I have the same problem and I've realized that this is likely a misconceived perception of your self-value, i.e. you think your value depends on how many women you're fucking, hence to feel you're high value you must bed a new girl every week. It's not even about the pleasure, it's about your ego.

robatusf · 2018-09-22T20:51:00+00:00

You can’t. Feeling horny is a bodily urge much like feeling hungry, thirsty, or sleepy. Only difference is that failing to satisfy it over long periods of time makes you uncomfortable/unhappy instead of killing you.

menial_optimist · 2018-09-22T19:01:31+00:00

Sex for pleasure I think is just like anything else done to relax. Do you feel like watching a tv show, movie, chatting at a coffee shop etc is a waste of time? See it for what it is, a fun activity to relieve stress from time to time. If you feel it's that much of a waste why even bother with it? When you get horny just wank one out and continue doing what you were doing.

Title	Horny - make sex nr. 1 priority - have sex - realize it's no big deal - Repeat. How to break the cycle?
Author	ushirtrun
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	September 22, 2018 6:58 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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