So I have a few girls that I frequent now and am still trying to figure out how to balance them all without hurting or becoming committed to one. They are all great girls and I have already established to all of them that I am looking for no commitment any time soon but one of them is (actually the one I do emotionally care about the most) sort of pressuring me to give more of a commitment. What are your guy's strategies on diffusing the situation or otherwise what would you guys do short of breaking it off? I'm not an asshole. I do value her as a person and love her so I would not get in a relationship with her knowing that I will do whatever I want because I am not willing to commit. Suggestions?