Background :

Alright. I am 22. Long back i made a comment in /r/AskReddit about the lack of relationships in my life and never having a girlfriend .. and people asked me to come here and /r/Fitness ... SO here's the result after three months:

  • I still haven't got a girlfriend but I can talk to almost anyone now. A guy or a girl. doesn't matter. But i feel i am still behind in flirting.

  • I get confidence is the key.

  • i have started taking gym and diet very seriously. today i am 177cms in height and 72 Kg in weight. A big improvement from 85 Kgs. This in my case is the reason for giving me the boost in confidence tremendously.

  • I have come up to the stage where there has been 3 instances till now that girls have given me their number without me even asking them to. One girl was like, "this is the part where you take my number" :D

Now here's where i need help:

What's the next step ???

  • I can get numbers but i am really bad at texting!

  • I can talk to girls alright .. but after talking for some days, i think they feel i am sorta boring...

  • after talking for sometime, i dont get what else to talk ... since they may have different majors or career line etc.

  • I cant seem to transform the friendly talks to the flirting ways in talking (i.e showing that i want to be more than just afriend) this has got me friend-zoned in some cases, but i dont give up in talking to new people everyday :)

What do i do ???

Thanks a lot guys!