Lifelong friend led me on, tells my best friend she isn't interested, should I stay friends with her?

auskill · 2012-08-21T07:08:53+00:00

Move on! Keep her as a friend if you want but as long as you continue to see her as a sexual option you will never move on. In my situation I had really bad oneitis for a friend for about a year, she lead me on, finally learnt it was never going to happen. So I cut her out of my life completely focused on improving myself and the women came with the improvement. Now she begs for to fuck her but I don't find her attractive any more and I know I can do better than her. Our friendship suffered for a while but it was worth it to just stop running circles around this one girl.

Catmanly · 2012-08-21T07:52:39+00:00

how did she lead you on? by being friendly?

Money_Train · 2012-08-21T16:48:19+00:00

You allowed yourself to be led on. This isn't a movie. If you don't make your intent known, you don't even have a penis in the eyes of the girl. There's plenty of other girls out there, go find them.

puaCurveBall · 2012-08-21T16:48:30+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

I believe the term "Friendzone" applies to your question, I URGE you to read this post.

This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT)

Title	Lifelong friend led me on, tells my best friend she isn't interested, should I stay friends with her?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	0
Comments	8
Date	August 21, 2012 6:59 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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