When I get nervous, when I don't know what to do, when I want to swoon her over, sometimes I get stumped.

I recently found my quip I tell myself to get into the groove.

Either you do something now to get her, or some PUA out there will beat you to it.

This makes me feel challenged. I am challenging myself in the way that I must act like the competition, I must act better than the competition. Soon after I feel confident, I feel like the man.