Hey fellow sedditors!

I am a beginner in the field of seduction/self-improvement and had a really bad date last week. Just boring and I still don't know why.

On my way home I was frustrated by the fact the date had not the outcome I expected. But I decided that I should not focus my thoughts on that date. So I walk home and see this nice lady a good distance ahead of me walking towards me and stopping in her tracks.

This is the moment where I decide to talk to her no matter what. What should frustrate me more than my date and I wanted to do something useful today.

But before I have any chance reaching that girl she turns into a bar I never visited. I walked past that bar several times since its on my way home but I never were inside because it is so nondescript from the outside.

So I'm saying to myself "Fuck it, I'm getting to know that bar and that girl." And that's what I did. I talked to the lady who turned out to be a new barmaid at this place and I talked to some customers who are visiting this bar on a regular basis and eventually become kinda friends with one of them.

At the end of the day I was really how things happened and I now know a new awesome bar, two regular guests, the owner of that bar and most important the new barmaid who's number I've got in the end.

TL;DR: Had a bad date. Visited a new bar and got the number of the new barmaid.