Spoke to a girl I felt I REALLY liked, flaked. I assume it's a flake/not interested, but want some opinions.

2012-09-10T13:19:28+00:00

The woman clearly wants to spend time with you. Why are you flaking out after only 24 hours without response?

It's not a shit test, she's just busy with other shit. You haven't had a busy day/week where you really didn't have the free time to respond to some girl you met?

puntingbaxter · 2012-09-10T16:27:53+00:00

Cliff notes will give you more opinions. I suggest you add some. But, I did read the entire novela so here is my opinion. She left the door open for another encounter. She specifically said "maybe if you're free in the coming week." Also, I think you shouldn't have said what is it that you teach again. It shows a couple of things. 1. you didn't listen to her 2. that she is the only one getting your attention right now when she specifically said she is busy. Next time when she says later this week, respond with " how about Thursday night? (doesn't have to be Thurs. but you get the point)

2012-09-10T14:31:01+00:00

I can't believe I just read that whole essay, but I agree with Penroze. Shes apparently into you but you're trying to play hard to get which isn't ideal in this situation. Obviously she's busy but is taking time out to get to know you (via souncloud music). Be more forward with her. This shouldn't be too hard.

Also here's a tip: if she replies by saying 'boo' don't reply back with a boo of your own. to her it seems like you're mocking her.

2012-09-10T15:29:48+00:00

I agree with Penroze. I also think you should be a bit more direct when setting things up. Like when she explained (afterwards) about her student being late or whatever, you commented on how nice of a day it was then asked what she tutored. I think here you should've gone ahead with trying to set something up for another time instead of asking what she tutors. I say give it a couple days, if she doesn't reply, send her one that's direct like "hey meet me at x place on y day at z time if you're free"

2012-09-10T17:57:33+00:00

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Title	Spoke to a girl I felt I REALLY liked, flaked. I assume it's a flake/not interested, but want some opinions.
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Date	September 10, 2012 11:59 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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