So I was waiting at a bus stop and there was a very cute girl taking pictures and I decided to flirt with her. She was smiling, receptive of my actions, and I was just being playful talking about random things like what she likes to do, pretended like I knew about taking pictures and making her smile in the process, etc. We continued talking on the bus and at that point, I decided that I need to remember about abundance mentality and that I don't always have to get every single phone number off a girl just because we spoke, since I feel like our cultures are very different and there would be a clash (alcohol, sex, anything physical like going to a club).

She may have been really cute and hot, but she was wearing the Muslim hijab and I made the assumption that she's probably a more conservative girl. I wouldn't want to try and get her number, try to hang out with her, and give the impression that there was a chance that a serious relationship could occur if I want just a casual relationship.

What are your thoughts Seddit? What would you guys have done? I'm pretty new so at first, I wanted to get a number because I actually was talking to a cutie but then thought "abundance" and just enjoyed her feminine energy and just told her that it was nice meeting her when she left the bus.

Do you think I need to talk to much more girls because a person with a true abundance mentality wouldn't have posted this question on Seddit? I assume a person like that usually talks to many women without thinking about a phone number because they are high-value and get to pick and choose what they want.

Edit: this all happened at my university too.