Long story short: met a girl thru a friend, went dancing, made out. After that she told me she just recently broke up with her 5 year long bf. Agreed that we should remain friends. Few days later we went to the beach as "friends" one thing led to another, we made out again. Then she walked off crying, saying how she regretted wasting her time with her ex. Took her home, eventually did the deed (and it was GOOD!). Talked again the same night. Told me how abusive her ex was, who almost just used her for her money, among other scummy things. She even confided in me that she tried killing herself over him. At the end we agreed to remain friends, where she said that I don't really like her, and that we moved too fast. I told her I can't wait for her forever, but we will remain on good terms.

So here's the deal: all in all this seems like a bad case of rebound to me. I like the girl (she s actually one year older than me at 28, so that might be a misnomer..), but the ultimately she is not my girl friend type. I know this sounds scummy, but how can I keep the physical thing going, but without getting into the middle of the shit storm? (Yes, I would date her, not just for sex)