Need advice on how to approach this girl without looking like a complete psycho. Can anyone help? (Somewhat long)

blitzik · 2012-09-13T19:49:40+00:00

You definitely are over thinking this. Lucky that she works at the resturaunt near you, but you're being kinda stalkerish with this whole thing. Fucking RELAX. You don't even know if this girl works there or not yet for sure, so chill.

Now i'm not going to tell you to not go for it with this girl, but you have to recognize that you've got ONEITIS over a girl that you DON'T KNOW yet. You haven't had enough conversation or time to get to know if you actually really like her or not at all yet! You cannot afford to be the kind of guy who falls in love with a girl based on not much more than a few fleeting moments of conversation.

Girls are like busses. If you miss one, there's another one around every 15 minutes. Let go of the NEED to be with this one girl right now, before your can progress. Keep making progress in the rest of your life, and try to approach other girls, using the material on the sidebar of r/seduction.

In the meanwhile, If you want to see about getting back in touch with this girl, Keep popping by for fast food, and make nice with the people who work there. Eventually they'll get to be friendly with you and consider you a regular. Do not jump the gun and about about the girl until you are very comfortable with the workers and have an excellent rapport. At that point you can throw it out like "Hey, does a girl named MyCrush work here? I could have sworn I saw her walking in the other day".

fair warning - Don't do this without making the effort to improve your life in those other areas! You will wind up blowing yourself out.

Title	Need advice on how to approach this girl without looking like a complete psycho. Can anyone help? (Somewhat long)
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Upvotes	1
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Date	September 13, 2012 7:35 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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