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Starting to feel depressed... don't want to be but it's hitting me

LB54TG

September 13, 2012

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Title	Starting to feel depressed... don't want to be but it's hitting me
Author	LB54TG
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	September 13, 2012 12:45 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/zti6m/starting_to_feel_depressed_dont_want_to_be_but/
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[–]LB54TG[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

i feel like all the little progress ive made is gone now.. I cant break out of my comfort zone because I'm scared of approaching because it will be in public. I can't get over the fact that I can't do it not because of the rejection, but because people will see. I shouldn't care, but when it comes down to it, I do and can't get it done. I'm shy as fuck around girls, and the socially awkward part prevents me to do something out of the norm in public.

I wish there was a pill or hypnosis or something that I can just do that will get rid of my AA and nervousness. Its social conditioning. It's just how we grew up and I wasnt conditioned to be able to do this.

And the fact that I've regressed back to old me is killing me. I see chances to approach, girls that I want to talk to, but I end up not, and after I think about it and become sad that I wasnt able to.

Behind the pretty faces that I see is a person. Some are bitches and some are nice girls, and it makes me sad that I can't find out for myself. I want to find the nice girls and know them.

I hate waking up on a day I dont have class cause I sit and think about all this. Any help from redditors?

[–]uberafc 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Man i can relate to this, not so much the quikmeme image because i'm not attractive or physically fit, but your post. I too had made progress and now i'm stuck trying to figure out what the fuck happened because i've lost it all. I'm starting to feel depressed as well, because of my lack of results.

I'm meeting a lot more bitchy girls who aren't nice then anything else really, and that has scared me from even trying. So i rarely open now, because everyone i have opened on my campus seems to be a rude/angry/unfriendly bitch. I get this "I'm better than you" vibe from them and it turns me off. The saddest thing is i'm not even opening direct, just indirectly just to make friends first, and see if they are even worth the effort of complimenting them.

I had a pretty bad rejection in public and it scared the shit out of me. It's hard to be fun when the other people are boring too. I've noticed something about myself that i usually become fun when the people around me are fun.

EDIT: Some advice - > you need to stop giving a shit that there are people around. Follow the 3 second rule. Easier said than done though.

[–]LB54TG[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link