First off, I am a big guy, probably considered obese by most standards. I feel this is my main limiting factor and am constantly working on it. I consider myself handsome otherwise; I get compliments from time to time. I'm fresh out of a terrible ending to a 4 year relationship so trying to meet a bunch of women.

I ran into a buddy's younger sister and her friend (20yo HB6) at college FB game. We have them "sit" with us because we have a great view (standing room). I start talking up the friend and we were hitting it off decently well. We talk about a bunch of stuff and I had her smiling a lot. I work on the following throughout the game;

  • Compliance test her when I went to the bathroom by having her save my spot. I was proud when I came back and she was still holding it down; there were several acquaintances around with worse views who could have moved to my spot.
  • Attempt some indirect kino with upper arms rubbing while standing side by side.
  • Had her play the game where I let her give input about what to say in response from a txt from a random number. This had a hilarious result when I ended up knowing who the person was.

I ended up giving her a hard time about not drinking. She's not old enough but I asked her if there weren't still ways to get around that when you're in college. I probably said something about not being old enough to have a drink 3~4 times and in retrospect I don't really think its a good idea to continually bring it up. How should I handle that? (fyi 26yo here)

So the football game is about to be over and I just ask for her number. I say something about getting a drink later in the week and she laughs and rolls her eyes. I immediately spin it to, "no we'll get a coffee somewhere, how about wednesday?" She just laughs, I think this caught her off guard. I ask her which place in town she likes to go. I don't think she frequents them because she responded with sbux. I wasn't in the best shape to gauge her interest at this point having ~8 beers through the course of the game. I sent her a txt so she had my number "coffees or something, wednesday!"

Text response since has been poor. I referenced a couple of funny things from our interaction and she has had very blunt responses; "nope sorry." "haha"

I since let the coffee day come and go without bringing it up. I probably would have pressed the issue if it weren't for her being my good friends sister's friend. I really don't want to develop a bad image in this circle.

My plan from here is to just give her a hard time next time I run into her about "the afternoon she left me waiting at sbux for 5 hours."