Met a girl. We were acquaintances before, but she's been hanging out more and more with my friends because our new roommate is her childhood friend. Me and her would always go out with the rest of our crew.
I always treated her as a friend at first. Before when we would go out, I would always hit on girls in front of her and sometimes I'd be successful. She's two years older than me, and one day after a failed approach with some older girls I ask her if girls are attracted to younger guys and she gets very serious and tells me that her only serious relationship was with a younger guy.
One day at the club I buy her a drink. I have a crush on her by this point, but I'm buying her a drink because she bought me one earlier in the week and because I had actually spilled one on her earlier while we were pre-gaming. Later on the dance floor, we dance and she kisses me on the cheek. So I kiss her back a few times, but then I realize that she's still in a relationship with her man and so I decide to leave the club. She follows me and is holding my hand, and for the rest of the night she is in my arms, holding my hand, her head on my chest etc. Showing lots of affection directed specifically at me. At one point in the night she muses where her boyfriend is.
The next time we all hang out she explains to me that she was very drunk the night before and she doesn't remember a thing about the night before. So I go to the club and end up going home with a different girl.
Next time I see her she greets me as "her favorite boy". I avoid her most of the time we're at the club because I don't want to orbit, and she runs off with a different group of boys. Later in the night she comes back to me and puts her arm around mine and we talk for a bit. As we leave the club she's got one arm around one guy and her hand in the small of my back. We all go home and hit the hay.
Next night its just me, her, and one other friend. We go out and at first things aren't really popping off between me and her so I decide to booty call another girl. I leave, but booty call goes to bed, and so I end up returning to the girl and her friendzoned guyfriend. We talk more, and she ends up bringing a bunch of guys back to her place.
At her place me and her kinda go off in the corner and she tells me her relationship is on hold. She tells me what kind of guys she's into (quiet, confident guys in the corner). She tells me that she always initiates things. She tells me she's not a slut and she doesn't play games. We talk until about 4 in the morning at which point her friendzoned friend decides to crash at her place and I decide to head home.
I'm pretty sure this weekend is my last shot at this girl. I'm planning to iso and initiate, but I'm really quite terrible at this shit.
TLDR hook up with girl, she knows I like her, her relationship is ending, I'm trying to seal the deal, can't tell if I'm friendzoned or not
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