9/25

The entire time I have been in the game, I have been without a wingman. Every time I tried introducing PUA to my friends, none of them bought into it. I have been sarging solo for the first 2 weeks I’ve been here, but thankfully I found a wingman on TAF who is just as dedicated to this as I am. He is a student of RSD, so our styles are different, but we tore it up tonight.

We meet at a college campus early in the evening to warm up with some Day Game. I have never done a Day Game Approach in my life, but I watched my wing perform a 15min set to a chick sitting down studying, which inspired me, and then he encouraged me to just go up and ask a question to break my anxiety. I muster the courage to open a girl sitting at a table by herself in the middle of a cafeteria and ask a simple question “Hey, I’m new in town and I’m looking for a fun bar to show my friend who is visiting. What do you recommend?” BOOM. She answers and we get a short conversation in, I am feeling GREAT. I LOVE having a wing, it is such a game changer.

We leave the student union, and head to the mall because it’s very dark already and too creepy to do day game approaches in the street. I do 1 more direct approach to a girl looking at shoes. I use Souls “I saw you from over there, the way your hair cascades onto your shoulders is gorgeous.” I transition with “I bet this happens to you all the time.” I was so nervous and it reflected in my voice, and she was very surprised and said she is in high school, to which I didn’t know how to play it down in the moment and awkwardly ejected.

We leave the mall and head back to the bars & hop from bar to bar, but it’s too early in the night, so we focus on keeping our social moods. I small talk with the patrons sitting at the bar, with the bartenders, and anyone else I can stir up a friendly conversation with. I open up a cute 3set on the street who were walking behind me and were dressed to go out, “Hey you guys seem like fun, what’s a good place to check out tonight.” I transition with a tease, “so let me guess..you’re getting drunk, you’re picking up boys, and you’re babysitting these two.” They laugh, and we have a short convo from there, but again I don’t know where to go with the conversation and eject.

Fast forward to later that night when the college crowd hits. We enter in a bar and I abide by the 3 second rule, and quickly open a 2-set near the bar HB3 & HB4. I went indirect, “Hey you guys seem cool, what time does it get good around here?” (credit Braddock) and the set lasts a good 10 minutes, I build attraction with HB4 (not interested) by over-exaggerating and giving ridiculous responses to their questions. At this point I’m feeling good so me and my wing venture upstairs..

Upstairs is a fraternity and sorority party going on! It is sports jersey themed, and I immediately open up a 3-set. I tease one of the girls for wearing a Lakers jersey and not knowing Steve Nash is a new addition. She is tipsy and one of the girls takes her arm and walks off but HB8 blonde stays around for some reason so I engage her. I lock-in against the table so it looks like she is hitting on me, and I run the “I had a cat named X” transition and started building attraction by talking about my job and why I am passionate about it. I try small hoop physical escalation like touching her lightly on the shoulder, and when I can tell she is attracted after she starts leaning in and talking in my ear, I go for the isolation and move her into the corner of the bar away from all the noise. I lock eye contact with her for a few seconds while she is giving me the puppy dog look, “That’s interesting.” and drop it. She responds very positively, “What!” I run eye accessing cues routine on her and she is eating it up. I begin qualification with the question game, and I tease her when she asks dumb questions. When she asks me how old I am and hears “23” she gets this look on her face like “WOW” and says “That’s the same age as my brother..” in a very shocked tone, she is 18. I FAIL big time with this shit-test and I eject from the set.

We bounce to another bar and I want to keep my momentum going, so what do I do…I open the fat chicks! I have zero AA when talking to overweight women, so if that helps me get in the social state, I will do it. I BS when the group of fatties for 10min or so… get some social proof? (lol). The first chick I open is HB6.5 asian with “HEY! I’m Indian. What do you think about that?” My opener hits well because I don’t look Indian at all, so they always try and call BS and I can misinterpret & tease by calling them racists or something. My wing takes her friend, and I lock-in against the wall and starting running attraction. I break social touch “Whatever. I’ll kick your ass in thumb-war,” and we play best of 3, and I always cheat to win because it keeps things more playful. I go for the move and isolate her in the middle of the dance floor against a pole that I lean back against so that everyone can see this. Then I begin to run qualification with the question game, she sucks something awful and I tease her for it. I try to keep escalating physically with, “oh, you got something in your hair, let me get it out,” and just touching her on the shoulders. The set was going great until two of her friends came out of nowhere and I couldn’t keep them all entertained so they dragged her away a few minutes later, but I could tell by her body language that she wanted to stay (she was resisting being dragged and looking back at me).

I see a HB7 brunette start to walk by, and I go direct by yelling and pointing, “HEY! You are cute. You need to talk to me now.” My opener hits and she smiles and walks over. I love to run the cat name transition when I go direct like this because I know I can escalate faster, so I pull her in and whisper the routine in ear and then push her off. She has a sexy London accent, and I run some attraction stuff, like trying to DHV my job to show I'm passionate, but I run out of things to say so I eject. (sticking point!)

The rest of the night was going back to a few different sets that I opened earlier on. I had 2 big groups of fatties who pulled my arm every time I walked by so they could take pictures with me, but I’m disappointed that I didn’t try and open some of the 9s and 10s. Overall though, I would say it was a very successful night.

Biggest points to take away from this: Get in state early if you can, it’s hard to just turn on/turn off in the moment. Open fatties to beat AA. Short-Set the bar to build social proof. Find a wingman if you don’t have one.