12:00 I got to my office a bit late today, because on my way here I stopped by my new FWB's place for a quick blow job.

By the way, this is how I closed her a couple of months ago, we're still going strong.

And here's the beauty, the quick blow job was not my idea, it was hers!

A few weeks ago I was stressed at work, so I texted her that I was in need but I had no time, so I asked her for a quick fix. Since we've been playing some light BSDM, she obliged. On my way there, being the Nice Guy that I am, but no longer Mr. Nice Guy, I thought that I would get her flowers.

I know, I know, never give a woman flowers, that's what I was thinking as I was driving there. In my quest for becoming good at seduction/PUA I've been reading for the past decade+ about /r/psychology and /r/SocialEngineering, and one of the basis of both disciplines is Pavlov's dog's experiment, so I come up with an experiment of my own. I got a bouquet of flowers (a dozen roses) with a thank you card.

I got to her place and I didn't give it to her, I left it in the car. I didn't want to train her into receiving stuff for nothing, that is AFC behavior. I should know, I used to be one.

I went in, exchanged pleasantries, started making out, and within 60 seconds of my entering her place, she had me inside her mouth, working it as if it was her oxygen line and her life depended on it.

Needless to say, the encounter scored extremely high on the intensity scale, and short on the timeline scale; but it ended with a grand finale explosion that would compare favorably to any Fourth of July's Firework display.

When I left, I still didn't give her the flowers, I thought it would feel cheap as compensation for sex, instead I put the flowers on the windshield of her car, under the wiper, and the card read: Thank you for taking good care of me today.

I know she saw me do that as I was leaving, but I didn't mention anything, nor I looked back. I never look back when I leave, it's a thing I do.

Of course a couple of minutes later I get THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU FOR THE FLOWERS text! Not bad for $4.99 supermarket flowers in exchange for... freedom from stress.

So that was a few weeks ago, this morning when I woke up I was greeted with a text from her Got wood? I'd like to take care of you, if you can be late at work.

I must thank the seduction/PUA community, including - but not limited to - /r/seduction , it has tane me a very long time to be in the situation where I am right now, and often as I think over the quantity and quality of women/sex that I have... I can hardly believe it myself.

Honorable mentions to:

  • /r/psychology

  • /r/SocialEngineering (I am presently reading Social Engineering: The Art of Human Hacking)

TL;DR: keep at it, keep reading and going out there trying stuff, it is a cumulative effect, and... the sky is NOT the limit, you can go a lot farther than that.