I am clearly having a hot streak right now. Yesterday I went to a bar with some friends, as one of them won an open bar for himself, and towards the end of the night I just had to approach a random so I approached some woman. I used the standard asking about her clothing approach. This was a HB6 and I just said something about how it would be more awesome if there were dinosaurs on her dress instead of foxes. So we start talking and find out she's 27. I tell her I'm 22 (really I'm 21, so not too bad). She's kinoing me, I'm kinoing back. I meet her friend, a HB6 as well. At this point I'm texting my friend telling him to get over there since it's just me and two women lol. He says it looks like I'm doing fine and doesn't come wing for me, even though I didn't really need it too much. I find out I have a lot in common with the friend because she was in a sorority and I'm in a fraternity. I can tell the friend is into me because she just keeps getting close when she leans in to talk to me. So eventually the friend wants to go dance. Normally, I would have left at this point, but since I felt like a boss, I just offered to go dance with her since the other HB6 didn't want to. So we're grinding and I keep moving closer, before she says "Oh you want to makeout?" with a smile on her face. Then we makeout. Fortune favors the bold guys.

Now here is where I may have fucked up. The HB6 I talked to originally, comes up to us and asks why we're making out lol. The one I just made out with asks me, and I pretty much just say "why not?" Looking back, I could have probably asked "want to join us?" and gotten a 3way makeout, if not a 3some. Anyway, they ended up leaving and I got one of their numbers. This would not have been a problem if my friend winged for me and danced with the other HB6! Though I wouldn't have had a real shot at a 3some.

Meanwhile, I'm also texting with a friend of mine that I've been trying so hard to hook up with. Lately though, I really don't try as hard and it's great. I blatantly flirted with her through text last night and she invited me to a party. I only went for like 15 minutes since I was only there to see her and didn't know anyone else. I left when she left. So I'm pretty much applying kino by putting my arm around her lower back, she was receptive to that. But when I try to hold her hand, I only get a chance to do it for like 5 seconds every time. It's like she knows what's up and everything, but she's playing really hard to get lol. She used to be a oneitis for me but since I started to just be awesome, she really isn't anymore so I don't give a fuck. Which helps me a lot. She did kinda complain about her ex (who was one of the people I saw earlier at the bar lol) and how he told her he was still attracted to her. I just shrugged it off because I hooked up with a 27 year old an hour before. I told her about it to gauge her reaction and she said something like "she's not going to call you back" which was hilarious because jealousy. Now I'm just trying to figure out how to proceed with this friend, considering all that happened between us in the past (which I am not going into since I made 3 topics about it lol). Considering that I may have a makeout buddy from my last topic and the new found confidence I gained recently, I'm not too worried right now.

So the last paragraph really has nothing to do with the topic but I felt I should tell you about the entire night as opposed to just one part of it. Here are a few things I have learned though:

  1. Don't be afraid to approach. Just observe the girl a little and find something you can approach her about, it has worked many times for me.

  2. I still can't talk to mixed sets. It freaks the shit out of me. Guys might start thinking I'm cockblocking, which I am, but I really don't want to start fights.

  3. I am probably the most confident of my group of friends since I'm the one who talks to random women when we go out. Makes me feel good about myself, even though one of my friends doesn't even have to try to get girls he knows to make out with him :(

  4. This is all much easier than it was a few months ago. I really have no idea how this happened so suddenly but it really is easy. I think I even found my true personality when talking to women. It translated to the way I talk to female friends too.