Recovered from depression, am now a new person. Is it worth it to try game some girls I encountered while I was down?

itsmevichet · 2012-11-07T16:58:24+00:00

Step 0) Is your life right? Keep it right.

Step 1) Become attractive.

Step 2) Start making your own decisions in life.

Step 3) Realize that your life can't be boiled down to one thing that you need to get right. Stay balanced, and keep all of your affairs in order - not just one or two (like women).

Step 4) Be okay with failing now and then.

This is my Dating Doctrine as it's written thus far. Do right for yourself, and you'll find that a lot of things start to go right in your life.

As for your specific question, I would say if you're clear of your anxiety and depression, make whatever choice you want to make regarding these girls. Sure, ask 'em out.

But, don't make the results of those choices mean something about the rest of your life. If a girl blows you out of the water, fine. If 20 girls blow you out of the water, that's fine too. If a girl is excited about seeing you, and you have great success, that's fine, too. But remember, what you have today is a result of what you did yesterday.

As long as your always doing what you need to do to keep your life right, and as long as you're always becoming a better version of yourself, you have the freedom to make choices, and the responsibility to deal with their consequences.

Do what you want. If you're incapable of it today, do today what it takes to get closer to that goal tomorrow.

CrowbarFellatio · 2012-11-07T17:32:15+00:00

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thatworked · 2012-11-07T23:21:32+00:00

Honestly I would say to just go hit up new chicks that know nothing about you, that way they have no preconceived idea of you that you have to tear down.

That's just extra work you shouldnt be having to deal with, but thats just my opinion

sexypirates · 2012-11-08T01:39:18+00:00

Game them with the new you. With women, it rarely matters what you say, but how you say it.

If they bring up how different you are, deflect, joke, or make a comment, then move onto an infintely more interesting topic.

februaryrich · 2012-11-08T07:44:59+00:00

Paxil made me a zombie and I just didn't care about anything at all. I couldn't do much, and didn't care much. Then I sorta hit rock bottom, I felt like nobody wanted to chill with me anymore so I slowly tapered down to 2.5g a day. Music is better but food sucks.

poorloser · 2012-11-07T16:25:25+00:00

First get to know them before flirting.

2012-11-07T20:49:00+00:00

The answer is always god damn yes.

Title	Recovered from depression, am now a new person. Is it worth it to try game some girls I encountered while I was down?
Author	CrowbarFellatio
Upvotes	19
Comments	17
Date	November 7, 2012 4:22 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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