HOW to Bypass Boyfriend-Objections and FLAKES Consistently [Infield Video Analysis]

dking168 · 2012-11-17T03:23:31+00:00

The basic social comfort I somewhat understand, however are there any tips and tricks you have in order to get the "Romantic interest" hand holding?

I mostly do night game now-a-days since I'm still a noobie and night game has the highest turnover rate so I can go from set to set and just get blown out and not worry too much about my ego.

It's super easy to do the initial social comfort (well, questionable depending how your energy is when you enter the set) and etc. Now normally if they say something positive or something you like or something that you find funny; you go "High five" or "Yes, I agree hug it out" and then proceed with the physical escalation. How do you do the suave hand holding without her questioning/pulling back. From my understanding, you try to go for the hand hold by leading her somewhere (aka the Jamba Juice lol). I know it varies but what is the average length you have to incorporate your initial social comfort before they usually comply to let you pull them away. It can even be a hassle if she is in a group or with another woman, but let's assume that under the condition that she is alone.

I noticed you use a lot of time constraints to counter it, how would that be valid in a club? The best I can think of is, "Oh hey, my friend says to meet me outside, I'm going to go see if I meet him, come with me and we will be right back"? I could see that working but then it could also not. Under the condition that it doesn't or you blank or you choke under the pressure, what are some other alternatives than primal-ly grabbing her hand and holding it (which you also said it has to be mutual so she could pull away).

I'm assuming once you do that, you manage step #2, you have to go back to step #1 for a little bit and then you proceed with step #3, I enjoyed your second interaction on this step HOWEVER, a lot of it was bleeped out and so it felt like nothing was taught besides you trying to implement the "we have sexual energy" saying to her. I would like more elaboration on how you implement the "we are on the same page" attraction.

Overall, good video. I understand you are trying to sell your product but when a teaser bleeps 80% of the interaction, I felt it didn't really teach me as much as I wanted to learn and implement.

JustinWayneDating · 2012-11-16T22:00:43+00:00

Yea, I thought this video would be useful. I was told that this video is a bit long. We tried to cram 3 pick ups in one video. I guess next time we will do it separately.

Just so everyone can know what I am doing is an overview of my method called The Domino Effect.

The Domino Effect basically means creating a Romantic Connection with a woman BEFORE parting ways in the initial interaction.

To start things off, there are 3 forms of basic forms of Connection that men have with women.

Social Connections
- This is the ability to befriend women as a social counterpart. This was what the Mystery Method was based upon. The issue with that method was the Lack of sexuality and most PUA's complained about being in the friend zone.
Sexual Connections
- This is where you sell SEX to the girl instead of selling them yourself. This is the 2nd Generation of PickUp where people started going Direct... The main issue with this is that it only seems to be effective in night clubs where you can take home a slightly drunk girl. However, women do not value sex as much as men since they can get it from anywhere. In the event where you cannot have sex with her that same night when she is in the 'sexual state', she will later FLAKE you when she wakes up and no longer in that state of mind.
Romantic Connections
- This is where you are selling the idea of ROMANCE to women. That is what is MUCH more valuable than sex. This is what will make them want to see you again.

I was recently in the mall doing Day Game, where my goal was to create a Romantic Connection with girls in the mall. I avoided using 'flashy' game and instead used more of a solid approach and kissed them after we properly connected. Even though 5-minute kiss-closes are impressive feats, it may still lead to a flakey number. Instead, aim for the Romantic Connection BEFORE the kiss. This makes the kiss 10-TIMES more meaningful to the woman. I demonstrated this 3 times in this video.

These approaches show how to gradually get a Romantic Connection with women from Day Game cold approaching. I am a huge fan of 'Progressive Game'. It makes your success ratios more worthwhile. People have been asking to see footage of me gaming for a few hours and doing the 'The Domino Effect' so I decided to post this video of me gaming in the mall.

Cliff Notes: This video contains 3 girls who I created a Romantic Connection with. For the last girl in the video, the audio cut out during the instant date, so I decided to include the date/day2 footage as an apology. The battery on the wireless died while infield.

The Domino Effect has 3 basic check points that must be done in order of operation.

1) Basic Social Comfort [eg. at-least 60/40 conversational ratio. 50/50 is great too]

2) Romantic Investment [eg.MUTUAL Hand-Hold as a couple for no less than 1 minute, she must be gripping it too for it to count]

3) Same-Page [MUTUAL exchange of verbal interest "I like you..." AND physical (sentimental kiss)* not always needed.]

If you do all 3 you will have a Romantic Connection which will warrant you MASSIVE SUCCESS RATES. I've been doing this for years and know a few guys I coached who are dominating infield. Sadly, many of these guys prefer to be unknown due to their professional lives.

This is somewhat an oversimplified version of The Domino Effect, but it's good for now.

If you follow the video, you will noticed how efficient cold approach can be. You will also notice how I'm essentially doing the EXACT same thing with all 3 girls, which is proof that a system CAN BE REPLICATED over and over again.

PS: I know that people will talk about some instances where the pick-up does not look smooth like it's fresh out of a movie. Well, I do not care how I look to the outside eye, it's all about HOW THE GIRL IS RESPONDING. Nothing else matters.

Also, DO NOT CONFUSE MY STYLE OF GAME WITH THE STRUCTURE. Many people can use The Domino Effect with different styles and personalities. The STRUCTURE is the scientific aspect that is replicable, the STYLE is an individually-based art form that has to be worked on. For example, if you are short, you will have to try to convey more dominance via creative ways. The reason why I use silly child-like behavior is that I will naturally appear more dominant due to stereo typing or genetics etc. This helps to to balance out the negative stereo type of coming across like a stubborn thug. This the the Art form aspect. However, scientifically, if I get the number with the basic PUA structure of getting a 1 minute number, then the statistics of actual dates and beyond will be much lower, than if the women has invested in the interaction, it will be a higher date-rate.

Title	HOW to Bypass Boyfriend-Objections and FLAKES Consistently [Infield Video Analysis]
Author	JustinWayneDating
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	November 16, 2012 9:40 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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