Need advice on revamping my mental game

ThrowawayPUA · 2012-11-16T18:57:43+00:00

It sounds like you don't believe you deserve a hot guy. One of the things we do in pua is improve our "inner game," to get rid of our neuroses and fix our mental outlook, so that we believe we deserve the best. The best things in life are throwing themselves at us all the time, and we push them away without even realizing it.

2012-11-16T18:28:47+00:00

Hmmm... Not being a girl, I'm not sure how how valid my suggestions are, but maybe some of these tactics will work for you:

Go on dates with other guys. When your calendar is filled up with potential mates, any one person seems less important. If you're reasonably cute I'm sure you can get a ton of first dates on OkCupid.
Put a rubber band around your wrist. If you find yourself wanting to, say, text a guy you like for the third time that day, snap it and redirect your thinking to something else.
Make dates with yourself that don't require the guy to be there. Go to a movie, take a yoga class, go to a coffee shop and read, take a dance class etc.

derphurr · 2012-11-16T19:44:11+00:00

You could try what men should do around a super hot girl, just pretend he is an ugly but cool guy.

Either that or really get into your head the vision of seducing him and hot sex with this guy and envisioning like being in total control in the bedroom, and then when you look at him, your inner seductress type role/character might come out and make it easier for you to be witty/snarky, like he is a mere plaything.. Instead of you feeling like dorky helpless fawn.

Title	Need advice on revamping my mental game
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Date	November 16, 2012 6:13 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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