She’s an old colleague of mine. She snapchats me a lot and occasionally something dirty but I’ve tried to keep both to a minimum because it’s an easy way to kill attraction.

Her divorce is MESSY and she has told me she can’t hang out because of “family dynamics” and the need to be there for her kids.

We found time today for lunch/drinks in the afternoon. Should I play it cool and flirt or go in for a kiss? I think I should save anything sexual for dinner or a time when we hang out at night (she’s promised to take me dancing),

Thoughts? (Also don’t ask her about the divorce right?)