So I'll start off with some background, I go to a small liberal arts college. We have approximately 1,400 students and they are all undergrads. Of that, roughly 55% are girls so the odds are pretty good. The problem with being in such a small school is that once something happens, pretty much everyone hears about it. This is especially true within the various social groups around campus. Normally this wouldn't be that wouldn't be that difficult to handle, but a relatively limited number of students party, drink, and go out frequently so the 'party group' exists somewhat. For example, one of my friends achieved huge player status the first semester of our freshman year. But once that started to spread around it became excruciatingly difficult for him to get laid. To add onto this, our liberal arts college is very liberal so most of the ladies started thinking of him as a sexist pig. This has led me to a few questions, that hopefully you can help with. 1. How can you maximize the amount of girls without offending a strong branch of them? This applies both to my situation, but also any instance where you have to deal with a small, interconnected population without your name getting around. 2. Since I'm generally meeting most of the ladies early in the year, I can't use some of the techniques that provide, more or less, instant results. Any advice as to how to work on one angle while preserving another potential for a later point in time?

Thanks mates.