Allright, ive been browsing this sub a little and feel that i might have something i can contribute finally.

First some background info. Im a 19 yo in college and would describe myself as a good looking guy, especially since i lost some weight recently. In high school i was pretty social but terrible with girls that i had any interest in. I thought this would change just cause i hit college, it didnt. So over the summer and the last couple months i started lokking on ways to improve and found this place, which has helped a lot, but i also have some advice in how exactly to interpret the advice found here and im just going to put down my thoughts. (warning: this will be long, but read it because i cant explain this in a tl;dr)

  1. Lets start with looks. Yes, they do matter, just not as much as you think. If you are over weight then losing some will help and it will honestly just make uou feel better about yourself, which is more important than the actual physical change. Keep yourself well groomed and wear clothes that fit, regardless of what style, no one likes a slob.

  2. Confidence is key. No matter what advice you follow you wont be able to pull anything unless you believe you can. Also, enough confidence and self worth will make you the best version of yourself, which is FAR better than trying to be any version of someone else, even if its james bond. build yourself some hobbies and be the man that other people want to talk to and it will all come naturally.

  3. Women want sex too. Seriously, if theres one thing you learn from this place learn that. This doesnt mean that every gurl wants to jump your bones, but if a woman is into you then you need to be a man and take what shes offering. Always assume attraction until proven otherwise. Dont start going around grabbing ass now, stay classy, basically, if you have to ask if its inappropriate, it probably is.

  4. Finally, have fun. Dont get hung up onfailures because even if you succeed just once you are already doing better than before. I honestly just enjoy talking to beautiful women for the sole purpose of the interaction, if anything more happens then great, if not then also great, at worse i enjoyed myself.

Thats all i have for now because im super jetlagged and cant stay awake but i just thought i would throw in my two pennies.