Met a girl, we went out a few times, seemed to be going well. Now she's with another guy, why does this happen?

ThrowawayPUA · 2012-12-23T03:56:39+00:00

You went out a few times and all you did was have conversations?

You couldn't escalate and close the deal. She found someone who could.

compto35 · 2012-12-23T04:50:50+00:00

this is a good experience (no seriously, bare with me). you now know the importance of eventually making some sort of move in the first date. the only dates I haven't kissed on the first date, are the ones that went badly and I never saw them again.

My favourite things about dates is the walking around. why? kino. easy easy easy easy kino. all you have to do is link arms to begin with! I'll give you a simple 1st date esculation guide.

don't link arms straight away! I deliberately use no kino at the start of a date. obviously I'll hug them when we greet, kiss on the cheek if you want but no more than that. even if I've k closed them beforehand, I pretty much start afresh. so now that you've met up walk towards your destination without touching her, walk close to her obviously but no touching. if however she touches you, I'd say go for it, but this has never happened to poor ol' blakrimson, he always has to make the first move on dates :'(.

anyway, get to your first location. sit next to her or across or whatever, but still, no touching. just talk, you seem to have that part sorted.

right! now to go somewhere else! if your partner wasn't up for going somewhere else, you'd both be going home because you're sick of eachother, but since you're going somewhere else chances are she's into you, and you don't think she's half bad; sweet

you can touch her now. on the way to the next venue link arms. as far as I'm concerned linking arms is the best. for walking, arm around shoulder or waist can get a bit awkward or tiresome, and can leave you wondering what's going on if she doesn't put her arm round your waist. hold hands is a bit flimsy, so I go for locking arms. always comfortable, and girls love it because it's a gentlemanly thing to do. if things are going well not only will she link your arm, it should feel like she's trying to tear it off.

you go to the next venue, you are now touching her more and more, you have your hands wherever (don't take this literally and be a boy racer about it) and bring her in close as you continue to talk. you should eventually get closer and closer till you eventually kiss her. if it needs more work, you need to read about how to kiss close, but really and truly, in a one on one setting providing the dates going well and the kino escalation is good, it should go fine

Title	Met a girl, we went out a few times, seemed to be going well. Now she's with another guy, why does this happen?
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Upvotes	7
Comments	6
Date	December 23, 2012 3:08 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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