I wrote this in two parts because the first part is very much related to game and the second part is more of a personal victory that may or may not have had anything to do with my gaming ability.

[Part 1]

I got into the venue at around 10. Before long, I was at the bar filling up my cup with a Captain and Coke. I felt like I had to “get in the mood” to talk to girls. My friend who I came with is a shy guy and so I made a deal with him that we couldn’t go get another drink until we opened at least one girl/group of girls. It was a rewarding trick that worked very well. I was highly self-amusing throughout the night. I did not over think what I was going to say and was opening girls left and right. Most interactions never made it past a minute. For the most part I was going around and making comments about people’s behavior and observations of our surroundings. There was a football game on behind the bar that people would watch while waiting for drinks. I said something about the game to a fellow drink-getter and had a little conversation with her. I saw two girls sitting, looking detatched by themselves. I said they looked like they were having fun. They never smiled and I did not force any interaction, there were plenty of other girls.

I was actually surprised how just having the balls to say anything really could set you up for later. Early on in the night I was talking to my buddy about how I was feeling frustrated about how some of the girls were not engaging and I was not hooking. I said to a girl passing by, “You don’t want to talk to me do you?” in a dramatic way and she gave me some look like “what the fuck?!” and later on in the night I ran into her again and chatted a bit. Momentum is powerful in social interactions.

I did not expect much out of the night, because I am just starting out and I am not a great conversationalist, so I made the emphasis to be self-amusing.

[Part 2]

I saw a girl I had known back in middle school at this venue. Just recently I was thinking about her and how I had a crush on her. I thought I had a missed opportunity back then. It was awesome to at least be able to talk to her again. I went up to her and we hit it off. Eventually our conversation got around to the topic of sex and I told her I was a virgin. I told her I thought most girls shunned male virginity like leprosy. She said that no, girls like the opportunity to deflower guys. She said she would deflower me. I was flattered. She drove me to her house and all of my petals are gone now guys.