I want to improve/make my life more fun. I need your guys help.

nittutt · 2013-01-07T08:00:15+00:00

Well, for us to help you have more fun you have to define what you think is fun.

When i first started this "pickup" adventure I have been on the last couple of years i went to rsdnation.com and skimmed through everything. It could provide you with some fun, if that's your cup of tea.

Activities, games, sports, hobbies... Random stuff that provides fun.

And, if you think that each approach a "pua" makes is successful, you are wrong. We have just learned not to get affected by the blowouts and just move on. There are days where i approach 30+ ladies on the streets and get rejected all 30+ times. Then there are days where i approach 15 ladies and get 15 numbers.

Don't let negative events stick with you, focus on the positive.

SingAlong_Original · 2013-01-07T13:42:21+00:00

You simply approach my man, I do not care what comes out of your mouth. If you say a simple "hello" you made progress. You don't need to start with some super complicated opener. Just say hello, ask them an opinion "I'm thinking about getting this jacket" or if that's to "childish sounding" ask something else. As long as you say something you will eventually get better. And the way you open will be great.

Allot of people will tell you to approach 200 girls in a month. Don't do that, try to make conversation and have it go as far as you can without it "getting awkward". And just try to make it longer every time. Bro you just gotta go, if you see her 321 go. However it goes, it goes. If it turns out you made conversation with 200 girls that's cool, but don't just open, talk, and go. Try to make conversation "hey did you hear about (headline)". It will be TERRIBLY uncomfortable at first, but it will get better. Just stick to it man

LifeRocker · 2013-01-07T17:49:22+00:00

Sounds like you have a self confidence issue. Walk with your head up, shoulders back and a little bounce in your step, looking everyone you pass in the eye. When you approach women, don't pretend like you are awesome, truly believe you are. Look them in the eye with a confident smile. Just practice looking everyone in the eye and holding it no matter what. It might be really difficult at first, but you'll get better. Don't worry about sounding too cocky right now. Own up to your accomplishments and know what makes you great. Don't take life too seriously, and just enjoy every experience you have. Talk slower, and more calmly and really listen to what people are saying. When you're talking with people, don't inject too much about yourself or your opinions, especially if they are negative. Don't say ANYTHING negative. Tease people more often, but not in a negative way.

Title	I want to improve/make my life more fun. I need your guys help.
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Date	January 7, 2013 7:24 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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