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Depends. Saying Excuse me, implies your action needs to be excused. Does it?
/r/seduction22/10/15 01:28 PM
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That i can agree with. When i was single i usually got the girls to buy the first round and after that it's fair game. Proves that she is equally interested in my company and that she isn't after free drinks. It sucks, but you are right when you say too many expect it. It's their behavior that makes me actively suggest to not buy drinks. As i hinted at, i have had much more success without buying drinks than with. Also, i'm much more inclined to give you a drink or two back at my place later on.
/r/seduction20/01/14 05:26 PM
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I guess i'm putting it a bit on the edge, but the thing i don't like about buying girls drinks is that often it's a prerequisite for spending time with women. I have no issue with actually buying drinks, but it has to be a joint effort unless i know you from before. Also, there are way too many females out there that expect it. And that is just the worst. So, better safe than sorry. If i can't get your attention without buying you a drink, it's something horribly wrong with one of us :)
/r/seduction20/01/14 05:19 PM
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Not if I want to duck you. If I want to duck you chances are buying you a drink (outright, buying a round then you buying a round is different) will hurt my chances.
/r/seduction20/01/14 04:20 PM
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That's not game, is it? That's availability.
/r/seduction20/01/14 12:21 PM
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It's actually spectacular.
/r/seduction20/01/14 12:21 PM
1

Practice makes perfect. Try. Seriously, it's fun and you learn WAY faster.
/r/seduction20/01/14 11:12 AM
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Reference experience.
/r/seduction20/01/14 11:03 AM
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Took me 6 months to break through. Look forward to it
/r/seduction17/01/14 10:20 PM
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You probably feel entitled to a girlfriend and that once you are together she should just settle for that and that's it, right?
/r/seduction17/01/14 03:41 PM
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I'm not saying that. I'm saying that, just because you are in a relationship doesn't mean you can stop improving yourself. There will always be better men out there, and i don't blame girls for going after them.
/r/seduction17/01/14 03:41 PM
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I'm very sorry to hear that. I don't approve of cheating either, but (after having been the victim of it myself a few years back) i fully realize, although it took some time, that it's "my fault". Of course it's not my fault that she acted on the feelings she got without dumping me first. But it's my fault that i wasn't the best man i could be. Getting cheated on was my main motivator to become awesome. And, if you are fucking awesome, and you have built yourself to be fucking awesome, when they…
/r/seduction17/01/14 12:47 PM
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Did someone cheat on you?
/r/seduction17/01/14 12:36 PM
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Go straight up to a girl and say something along the lines of: "Hey. My name is Luckyluke23. You are really adorable, what's your name?" That's direct.
/r/seduction17/01/14 12:24 PM
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No. Don't buy her a drink.
/r/seduction17/01/14 12:23 PM
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They are not awkward. Take pauses. Consistently and randomly. It's fun and puts other people on their toes.
/r/seduction17/01/14 12:22 PM
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Ah ok :)
/r/seduction17/01/14 12:20 PM
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If her BF was an awesome person she wouldn't have cheated. Simple as that.
/r/seduction17/01/14 12:19 PM
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Kissing on the first date indicates attraction and assertiveness. It has little to do with "hooking up". Always go for the kiss. Also, what's your question?
/r/seduction17/01/14 12:08 PM
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Give us some examples of your messages.
/r/seduction17/01/14 12:03 PM
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You build immense attraction, if there was any to build, by being direct.
/r/seduction17/01/14 12:02 PM
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The Power of Now by Eckheart Tolle. Great for inner game. Conversations: Say whatever the fuck you want and calibrate after practice, practice and more practice.
/r/seduction17/01/14 12:01 PM
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You beat me to it! :)
/r/seduction17/01/14 12:01 PM
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Don't plan it. Say hi and just go with your intuition. You will eventually become a master. Say whatever the fuck you want. Any bullshit thing, any serious thing, anything. Have fun.
/r/seduction17/01/14 11:57 AM
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Couldn't agree more. Also check out A New Earth, pretty good if you enjoyed the spiritual stuff as well.
/r/seduction17/01/14 11:57 AM
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This is the perfect situation to learn how to pickup without using words. It's amazing what you can do with touch, eyes and assertiveness.
/r/seduction17/01/14 11:53 AM
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Meditation isn't new in the pickup community either i'm afraid. However, it's great that you figured a way to use it to your benefit. Also, the meditation you described is nothing compared to what you can achieve. Try meditating for 20 minutes a day, if not an hour. It will clear shit up for you ;)
/r/seduction17/01/14 11:52 AM
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Stop comparing yourself to others. It might have been months, minutes or days. Myself, around 2/3 days if i remember correctly. It's all about stop giving a fuck and just doing it. The worst that can happen is getting rejected. And getting rejected is good.
/r/seduction17/01/14 11:50 AM
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Start debates on subjects i know a bit, but not much about. Jump into conversations about unknown subjects. I'm tired and out of examples, but basically anything that stimulates your brain more than nerves unsettle it.
/r/seduction14/12/13 07:19 AM
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I agree with the way you present it, and i agree that myself i have used it to my advantage. But, if we were to use the premise of "Got a light" as an IOI girls would ultimately be infuriated by guys always thinking they hit on us. I'm just saying, rather than acting on baseline IOI's from girls, rather go out and create them. Being the one that's reacting isn't all that great, and playing a passive game of pickup is just not as rewarding as going out hitting the big leagues. Where i live, "gami…
/r/seduction13/12/13 02:39 PM
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Over-stimulate myself to the point where nerves are the least of my problems. And no, i don't mean drugs / alcohol. I mean putting myself in different unexpected situations with no actual goal. Just jump in there for the social stimuli and have fun.
/r/seduction13/12/13 01:40 PM
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It's rarely an IOI and should not be interpreted as such. Some things should be left alone, asking for a light is one.
/r/seduction13/12/13 01:38 PM
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Let's hope there are many to come. Keep at it man, you are doing great progress according to your posts ;)
/r/seduction25/11/13 08:05 PM
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You might have written about it, but i have experience that says coffee = not a waste of time :) Edit: Daytime = Equally good as nighttime. It's not even that different. I've had equal success bringing women home during the day as during the night.
/r/seduction25/11/13 03:58 PM
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It's very much the numbers game :)
/r/seduction25/11/13 03:57 PM
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Coffee waste of time? How on earth?...
/r/seduction25/11/13 01:59 PM
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Because you only have experience being fun while drunk. Your reference experience (the positive experiences) come from moments induced in alcohol. Change that, and change your game ;)
/r/seduction25/11/13 01:12 PM
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It's probably the first - that you failed to build up enough attraction. Also, what kind of "dates"? Coffee, and not using the word date, might solve some issues for you.
/r/seduction25/11/13 01:10 PM
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Happy cakeday :)
/r/seduction25/11/13 01:08 PM
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You can practice it on all kinds of people. It will improve your life in ways you didn't possibly imagine :)
/r/seduction25/11/13 12:57 PM
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No, i feel that going for "easy" is wrong because it implies you don't deserve the best. That's all :)
/r/seduction21/11/13 08:22 AM
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I'm not saying it's not easier, i'm saying the mentality of "easier" is wrong :)
/r/seduction20/11/13 05:34 PM
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We are aligning :) Although, if you are an experienced "gamer" you rarely get the "i have a boyfriend" EXCUSE as you give off the vibe that women want. However, i can see your real point now and must say i agree :)
/r/seduction20/11/13 03:37 PM
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Aha, now i get where you are going. I guess i can agree with you because many of the fellas i see here are still in the beginning stages. However, for the "advanced" people i don't suggest even taking stuff like this into concideration... If i'm making myself understood... Been a long day at work :)
/r/seduction20/11/13 03:29 PM
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KISS - Keep It Simple Stupid Avoid anything but in person communication as much as possible. This will both increase your value (you will seem like a more busy man, which is sometimes REALLY great) and will help you with a more sexual vibe if you do your in person communication well. (Her longing for you and you being sexual will work great in your advantage).
/r/seduction20/11/13 03:27 PM
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It's just as hard to get a women with a boyfriend as it is to get a woman that doesn't want you. It's all about who you are, how you present yourself and what value you are bringing to the girls life. Her status should not even come to your mind, as your mission is to find girls that fit YOU. At least that's my perspective :)
/r/seduction20/11/13 03:20 PM
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No, it's not. But it's the best damn book i've ever read in regards of seduction and it answers 95% of any questions asked here or on askseddit. That's why :)
/r/seduction20/11/13 03:18 PM
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Cost-free dates are the best. Seriously. It's what have gotten me, and everyone i know in the community, the best results. I don't drink coffee, so when i went on coffee dates i didn't order anything. I used to just invite them over for either a meal that i'm already planning or to take a stroll somewhere nice (and close to my home).
/r/seduction20/11/13 03:17 PM
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Just read Models by Mark Manson. It's very simple and will probably help you more than anything else.
/r/seduction20/11/13 03:13 PM
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I don't agree. Imagine being a girl... On an average night, let's say 20 guys hit on you. Again, on average, 1 out of the 20 guys is remotely interesting. You are out to have a good night with the ladies anyway, so you really don't want some lame ass guy coming up to you every five minutes interrupting your fun. What better way to disarm the situation and get on with your night than saying you have a boyfriend? If the guy REALLY finds you interesting and wants to get to know you, he will ignore …
/r/seduction20/11/13 03:11 PM
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Easier targets? Nah man.. That's not a good mentality.
/r/seduction20/11/13 03:09 PM
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Once you become the best man you can be, and happy with who that is you will no longer feel jealousy as you know that you are the best... If that makes sense.. :)
/r/seduction20/11/13 01:59 PM
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"Make her laugh" : This should not be the goal. The goal should be to amuse yourself. Trying to amuse others is just trying to gain vaue / validation and is not concidered attractive. "Ask her interests" : Only do this if you are ACTUALLY interested in hearing her answers. You are out to find a girl FOR YOU. You are already awesome. Go ask questions that YOU want answered. Kino should be started from the beginning of the interaction. Starting kino any later can come off as creepy and will not yi…
/r/seduction20/11/13 01:43 PM
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It should not be a longing for women at all. It should be to improve yourself to the point where a woman coming into your life is just natural. Maybe that's just me.
/r/seduction20/11/13 01:39 PM
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If you believe taking them home is a "big deal", meaning that you make them feel that it's important to you and rarely happens, they will rarely comply. I used to just assume they would follow me to the cab, and in most cases they did. When they did not i went home, watched a good movie and had a good night sleep :)
/r/seduction28/10/13 12:03 AM
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Great quote. Can be applied to life in general.
/r/seduction13/09/13 11:58 AM
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Send a picture of you fucking another girl with the same text that she sendt. "Thought I'd share this picture, good times. Hope everything is well". That should settle the score.
/r/seduction09/08/13 12:09 AM
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You.
/r/seduction09/08/13 12:06 AM
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First - Never take your phone out of your pocket unless: You are getting someones number Someone is calling you Someone texted you and YOU ARE NOT DOING ANYTHING ELSE AT THE MOMENT. Secondly - Why do you need it to be "a wholesome talk"? What you are doing is "preparing" for something that you have no idea will ever be. Just fucking go say "Hi" and take it from there. If it's not a "wholesome" talk, what the fuck does that have to do with ANYTHING? Stop putting more pressure on yourself than wha…
/r/seduction01/08/13 10:03 AM
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The ONLY difference between "night" game and "day" game, in general, is that the sun is up during the day and down during the night. Remember that and develop your own style.
/r/seduction30/07/13 12:19 PM
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Go on google maps, pick somewhere a bit remote (no shopping streets or busy malls) that takes you 1 hour to walk to. Walk there and interact with as many girls (hopefully everyone) as possible. My friend did this last summer and he got amazing results.
/r/seduction30/07/13 12:18 PM
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Well, depends on how well you both control your acid. If you can handle it without a "sitter", then go ahead! If not, then i'd suggest not doing it.
/r/seduction30/07/13 12:16 PM
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How long have you been working on your inner game? If you say anything less than 2 years - keep working and stop worrying.
/r/seduction30/07/13 12:14 PM
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If you have the willpower to go out and make changes yourself: No. If not, yes.
/r/seduction30/07/13 12:06 PM
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No. That's just wrong and sad :/
/r/seduction29/07/13 07:51 AM
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They get more value from rejecting the man than accepting him, seeing as he has no real value coming into the situation.
/r/seduction29/07/13 07:49 AM
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The better you get, the less you care.
/r/seduction29/07/13 07:47 AM
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Saying nothing when you have nothing to say is not a problem. Most people say something when they have nothing to say, that is the problem.
/r/seduction16/07/13 11:21 AM
2

Alex and Julien in one sentence... <3
/r/seduction16/07/13 11:20 AM
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LMR and ASD is actually more about you than her. Breaking character for example is something that would trigger these "traits". Being an awesome guy ensures that LMR and ASD rarely comes into play.
/r/seduction16/07/13 11:19 AM
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Are you responding to said texts / facebook chat? If you are, you are enabling the behavior. Stop responding when you are doing something else. They will learn and adapt accordingly. Classical Conditioning ;)
/r/seduction15/07/13 12:33 PM
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I have a simple method that seems to work. Never be confident that YOU are BETTER than SOMEONE. Be confident that you are better than the one you were yesterday. That is all that should matter.
/r/seduction11/07/13 07:35 AM
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Thanks! the Glow in the dark sticks was original ;)
/r/seduction10/07/13 07:34 AM
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It will hinder your growth if you let it. If you keep thinking about it, dwelling on it, you will fall into the pits of hell. What i usually say to AFC's is: I KNOW this works. I KNOW what i'm saying is right. You can either listen to me and learn what i know, or stay where you are and get nowhere with women.
/r/seduction08/07/13 08:45 AM
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I agree with your post. But, this subreddit is about helping people. And saying stuff like "X WORKS!" is not helping, its enabling people to blame something other than themselves. That was what i tried to convey.
/r/seduction04/07/13 05:12 PM
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Ah, i see. I'm just tired of seeing people questioning other methods before trying them themselves. A "direct" approach is where you make your intentions clear from the start. I.E: "Hey, i thought you were cute so i had to come say hi". "Indirect" approaches: "Hey, do you know where the nearest starbucks is?" and take it from there. And, "seddit" as a whole does pretty much ANYTHING you can think of. So many people here. I've had success with some of the weirdest shit you can think of, my friend…
/r/seduction04/07/13 12:06 PM
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By the way, the font, formatting and pretty much everything on your site needs improvement. It was painful to read. Content was good though, so keep it up :) Tips: Don't use italic, bigger and cleaner font, less text (get to the "point" quicker).
/r/seduction04/07/13 11:49 AM
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“Most men that have lots of lovers (and are, generally, good with women) can always find something to appreciate about a woman. Most men that have not been with very many women are quicker to only want to date the ‘super hot’ girls.” I agree. The "ego" in the man that has NOT slept with many women tries to "defend" itself by setting high standards. This way, when confronted about it, he can say "She wasn't my type" instead of admitting that he could not pull it off.
/r/seduction04/07/13 11:47 AM
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Or, you know, you can actually be excited about what you do and not give a flying FUCK what she thinks of it.
/r/seduction04/07/13 11:46 AM
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ITT: Guy goes to pick up girls, finds that it's easy and "blames" it on the event he was attending. No disrespect, but ANY arena/place/location is as good as the next.
/r/seduction04/07/13 11:43 AM
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Came here to say exactly this. If you are being nice, JUST TO BE FUCKING NICE - ITS GOOD. If you are being nice to get in her pants or to get to a certain outcome - ITS BAD. You can be as nice as you fucking want. Just do it for the right reason.
/r/seduction04/07/13 11:42 AM
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First, let me say that your mentality is wrong. Success in the approach is ONLY decided by one thing: That you actually approach. Other than that i can say i have successfully "opened" this way many times, and unsuccessfully even more. "Direct" approaches, however, is my favorite and i love doing them. But don't think for a second that they work because of the approach. The work because of who i am, what values i portray and how i handle the situation.
/r/seduction04/07/13 11:40 AM
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Needyness is caring more about what other people think of you, constantly needing them to like you for example, instead of caring about how you see yourself.
/r/seduction28/06/13 05:36 AM
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Needyness is: Being more invested in other people's perception of you than your own. Meaning, direct is not needy.
/r/seduction27/06/13 11:57 PM
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You sir understand pickup.
/r/seduction27/06/13 11:54 PM
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Think of it like this: As long as you THINK everyone are better than you, they are. Do you really want to let your mind fuck you over like that? Nah.
/r/seduction27/06/13 10:41 AM
1

Are you seriously that stupid?
/r/seduction22/06/13 06:14 AM
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This would be correct thinking of one were under the assumption that looks actually mean something to women. It doesn't. Value means something. Value means everything.
/r/seduction21/06/13 10:40 AM
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Get a hold of either: RSD Blueprint or RSD Transformations. Or, if you want some more entertaining videos: Jeffy's "Get Laid or Die Trying" is quite fun.
/r/seduction21/06/13 10:34 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/1e8flx/how_do_i_become_more_comfortable_with_my/c9xsj42
/r/seduction21/06/13 10:28 AM
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Fun FR. What i would have done, however, is to escalate in the car. You had the perfect opportunity to make one girl jealous, then flip it around. Some handplay and you would have been gold. Good luck tomorrow! ;)
/r/seduction21/06/13 09:37 AM
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Neither. I let it transition smoothly by taking more and more clothes off. Involving her in taking mine off. Taking her hand, leading it where i want it to go. Take some control.
/r/seduction21/06/13 09:34 AM
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If you make the girls invest more during initial conversation, the numbers you get will start leading somewhere.
/r/seduction16/05/13 08:23 AM
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You still care about what the girls see. You care about that they find you cool or attractive. Which means, you don't think you are as cool as you think you are.
/r/seduction15/05/13 09:28 AM
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I don't support them, i just don't feel the question has anything to do with this subreddit. If you got a girl by actually developing yourself and becoming a better man (NO CHEATING), you would not need books like OP is asking for. You would easily maintain a relationship.
/r/seduction15/05/13 08:22 AM
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/r/relationships - ask them.
/r/seduction14/05/13 01:16 PM
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The reason you are feeling that way is because you give her more value than yourself. Start working on yourself and you shall see that the problem eventually disappears.
/r/seduction14/05/13 01:08 PM
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It is possible to use it too much. It doesn't show that you have any depth in your persona.
/r/seduction14/05/13 01:02 PM
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Are you telling jokes to make other people laugh? Stop, that's what comedians do. Are you telling jokes to amuse yourself? Continue, that's what attractive males do.
/r/seduction14/05/13 08:48 AM
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I think beginners should learn the basics and then go out in the field for countless of hours. I didn't read anything before i was moderately good at this. And even then i didn't read any pickup books. It's just recently that i have found the pickup books to be valuable, as i have the reference experience enabling me to link whats being taught with what i already know. I'd suggest beginners just going out and failing. You can read all the books but you won't get anywhere without real experience.…
/r/seduction14/05/13 08:33 AM
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Keep it up playah
/r/seduction14/05/13 08:29 AM
2

That's true. "I wonder what she's like?" should be your mentality. But to realize that the process is the result (or, in better terms: care about the process, not the result) is so key.
/r/seduction14/05/13 08:26 AM
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Quitting alcohol and drugs probably helped my game the most. Other than that: Realizing that i sucked and that every woman i was ever going to be with would enjoy getting fucked by anyone else. Until you get REALLY good at this shit, you will never find a woman that is faithful. She will crave the dick of someone that is good. Someone that has the attractive traits you are lacking. So get off your ass and start working on yourself. Unless you want your wife to get fucked by someone else in the f…
/r/seduction14/05/13 08:15 AM
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If you react you are decreasing your value. His words alone don't mean shit, the only thing they are doing until you react is decrease his value. When you react however, his value remains the same and your value drops. Also, don't talk to girls with this guy. He is a value taker, not a giver. Value takers suck.
/r/seduction14/05/13 08:11 AM
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Very good point! BUT! If you use it too much, or in the wrong way, it makes you "mr funny guy" and it can hurt more than it helps. As with everything in seduction, you need calibration. And to calibrate correctly, you need reference experiences.
/r/seduction14/05/13 06:21 AM
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It becomes natural with lots of practice. LOTS OF PRACTICE. People who are good at this stuff has done it for several years and approached / talked to 1000's of girls.
/r/seduction13/05/13 09:00 PM
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Thanks! I had these somewhere but didn't find them. Greatly appreciated ;)
/r/seduction13/05/13 04:10 PM
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Don't know about new, but it's very good reads.
/r/seduction13/05/13 04:08 PM
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I agree that you can't predict them, but if you set the frame right and actually never act in a way that might "confuse" people it will never happen. I reinforce my "no relationship frame" every time I meet the women I'm seeing and so far not even one of them has gotten hurt.
/r/seduction13/05/13 10:43 AM
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Well, again: If there are negative consequences you are doing something wrong. Sorry if i'm sounding like a dick, it's not intended that way. But if you live the "pua" life correctly you will never: Send mixed signals Recieve mixed signals (since everyone will be drawn to your reality, you always know what's up) The unforseen ones however are plenty. 4 years ago i didn't grasp how closely connected the "pua" ways were connected to regular social interactions and it has helped me improve every as…
/r/seduction13/05/13 09:32 AM
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The Tao of Badass How to make girls chase
/r/seduction13/05/13 09:22 AM
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Something that worked for me once was: When she came to me asking me if i wanted a dance, i said something along the lines of: "No thanks, my girlfriend is a stripper so i get dances for free at home. I'm just here to enjoy the show". Pre-qualified and disinterest shown.
/r/seduction13/05/13 09:21 AM
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"Pre-qualification" tends to work well on hired guns. Also, don't spend a fucking dime.
/r/seduction13/05/13 09:20 AM
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Great advice - also, stop filtering yourself. Say what you are thinking. It lets her experience you faster and will improve the quality of conversation.
/r/seduction13/05/13 09:19 AM
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You are asking the wrong question. Seduction and "pickup" is not something you get past. It's your new life. A better life.
/r/seduction13/05/13 09:10 AM
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Me and my mates use the 0 - 1 - 2 scale: 0 - Won't fuck, use as reference experience or smth. 1 - Will fuck, but won't tell friends. 2 - Will fuck, brag to friends.
/r/seduction12/05/13 05:24 AM
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Then stop seeing a girl several times and live the PIMP life! Trust me: Less hassle, more fun ;)
/r/seduction12/05/13 05:17 AM
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I have some friends that took a bootcamp this weekend with Julien and they are VERY happy with the results. They push you BEYOND YOUR WILDEST DREAMS and actually REALLY want you to succeed. I saw the passion in Juliens eyes as one of his students pulled... It was actually amazing. So yes, i'd say they are worth the money and even though i'm pretty good at this stuff, will go on a BC with Julien the next time he comes to my city ;)
/r/seduction12/05/13 05:12 AM
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If someone asks you that question you are not investing ANYTHING in the conversation and they are BEGGING you to. Start investing. That way, they will invest more and you will avoid such questions
/r/seduction12/05/13 05:08 AM
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Very nice but intense as fuck and very centered around his own reality. He did a great job on the bootcamp. I saw his students doing loads of sick shit :)
/r/seduction12/05/13 02:42 AM
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I met Julien last night and he told me: Just because you pull them, doesn't mean you have to fuck them. Get the reference experience.
/r/seduction11/05/13 08:37 PM
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Go out and purposely get rejected in front of people.
/r/seduction11/05/13 11:31 AM
1

Great points! I totally agree with what you say. I thought that the best advice was to build up a good life with enjoyable hobbies and then girls will flock to you Is however something i must disagree on. Why? Well, even if women flock to you, you need the social skills to actually land them. Such social skills, or social calibration is only achieved if one has gone out A LOT.
/r/seduction10/05/13 01:50 AM
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I'd say: If you want to get good at this, and not just "get good", you have to go out 5-7 times a week for around 1-2 years. It takes A LOT OF TIME. So yes, it's worth it. When it comes to picking bars, try alternating weeks: Go to 1-3 bars one week, then change. After a month or two you will have a good "gameplan" in your head for what bars are good and when.
/r/seduction07/05/13 04:41 PM
5

Fun statement, but not very accurate. I have found that people going out on weekdays are actually out to "unwind", making them better candidates for FWB / Long term hookups. Much easier to connect on a deeper level with people that are out on weekdays as they usually have some reason to go out, which they will gladly tell you :)
/r/seduction07/05/13 04:38 PM
4

Great :) Just wanted to make the point. Some people can't really handle the powers that comes when you get good at this stuff :/
/r/seduction07/05/13 12:59 PM
6

Two of the girls that i've been hooking up with lately have been raped in their youth. The only difference that i have experienced is that it took them longer to open up to me and that they take trust and comfort MUCH more seriously. Also, if she does decide to open up to you. PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD BE A DECENT PERSON AND DON'T FUCK WITH HER EMOTIONS.
/r/seduction07/05/13 11:20 AM
1

Both are great books. I just like the power of now more in regards to the issues op has
/r/seduction06/05/13 05:32 AM
3

I've been doing this for 4+ years and i have not even once experienced that.
/r/seduction05/05/13 10:32 PM
2

I always do this. Works fine. Actually helps with kino as i keep them close after i put them down. The most important thing is that you are comfortable giving them though.
/r/seduction05/05/13 10:31 PM
0

What the actual fuck?
/r/seduction05/05/13 10:24 PM
1

Try to read "The power of now" - might help you.
/r/seduction05/05/13 09:26 PM
1

Try to accept the fact that you are not in control. It helped me a lot. :)
/r/seduction05/05/13 09:24 PM
2

Find something fun about every single person you meet. Something unique or interesting that will "spark" your attraction,
/r/seduction05/05/13 10:31 AM
20

They don't usually sleep with creepy guys either.
/r/seduction04/05/13 05:57 PM
9

If she is already back at your place, most likely your advances will be welcome. Will write more about this when I get home. Time for some daygame :)
/r/seduction04/05/13 10:53 AM
2

Escalate escalate escalate.
/r/seduction04/05/13 09:48 AM
0

I love you
/r/seduction04/05/13 09:39 AM
10

I'm not attractive, and no girl has ever called me creepy.
/r/seduction04/05/13 09:38 AM
29

Look. If you say something to a girl to "get something in return", it might be perceived as creepy. If you say something because you genuinely mean it, it's cute.
/r/seduction04/05/13 09:37 AM
1

Damn. That's me.
/r/seduction04/05/13 12:49 AM
0

Exactly! Upvote this shit! :)
/r/seduction30/04/13 07:04 PM
54

I did once. Long long ago. Then i realized this: Statistically it's idiotic of me to think that i'm the reason i got rejected. There are a million things that potentially goes on in her life that would make her unable to meet me / whatever. And, for the love of god: Don't ever send such messages. They just make you sound pathetic.
/r/seduction30/04/13 12:54 PM
3

There will ALWAYS be some attraction. It's there from the start. Maybe not sexual attraction, but attraction. So yes, you can "create" attraction at any point, you just have to change her perception of you and perhaps change the frame of the conversation.
/r/seduction30/04/13 12:22 PM
2

You are already enough. There is no need to advertise yourself as its not attractive
/r/seduction30/04/13 06:17 AM
1

Look. Even if you look 14 and short, what does that have to do with anything? Human interaction is not based on what we see. It's based on what we feel. Attraction is not voluntary, if you "game" the girl correctly, even though she prefers taller and "older" guys, she will be attracted. Go get Em tiger.
/r/seduction29/04/13 10:56 PM
6

Wrong mentality. You are not the seller, you are the buyer.
/r/seduction29/04/13 10:51 PM
4

Alone. Say something like: Hi
/r/seduction29/04/13 10:50 PM
2

Listen to good songs, yell out random things, call someone and talk about something you love, dance by yourself
/r/seduction29/04/13 10:49 PM
3

That does not happen if you do it right. Read some body language books, learn how to read people.
/r/seduction29/04/13 10:16 PM
0

No
/r/seduction29/04/13 10:09 PM
2

I talk... A lot... Totally unfiltered and very, extremely direct. Most women i meet tell me im the most unique and refreshing guy they have met. I never lie (unless its some blatant lie that is used to create drama or tention) and talk about whatever comes to mind. Also, i actually dont give a flying fuck about them, they are nothing to me. Just another girl. I make them not feel special, which actually works great! But remember, respect them!
/r/seduction29/04/13 09:59 PM
10

I give girls two options. If they are busy both days and dont suggest another i wait a week or two
/r/seduction29/04/13 07:44 PM
3

Start instantly. I really love hugs, so what i do is hug them and just keep holding them lighter while talking for the first thirty seconds or so, then push by stepping back and so on. Also spinning them into your arms might work well for you (it does for me). I dont use the escalation ladder though, doesen't fit my style
/r/seduction29/04/13 07:43 PM
6

great post. completely agree with your points.
/r/seduction29/04/13 04:20 PM
1

No its not. Its the truth.
/r/seduction29/04/13 12:34 PM
2

By running "game" on them. I don't know how else to explain it. Right now i'm getting laid pretty much 1-3 times a week (always new, i don't date at the moment) and i'd say my game is pretty solid. I'd just use that knowledge...
/r/seduction29/04/13 12:22 PM
11

if i had the knowledge i have now back then i'd fuck everyone
/r/seduction29/04/13 12:08 PM
1

You can't calibrate before the fact. 90% of my approaches go like this: "Hi. I thought you were really cute and had to come say hello, what's your name?" and after that i just say whatever comes to mind.
/r/seduction29/04/13 09:53 AM
-2

Keyword here is might. Real game works.
/r/seduction28/04/13 10:36 PM
2

You have a lot of insight in your wants, which is rare. Use it to your advantage. And, im not just recommending it because of pickup, but having a skill you take pride in slip away hurts your entire being. Good luck whatever path you choose
/r/seduction28/04/13 07:46 PM
-2

I like your post, and I'm happy for you. I just wanted to say one thing: Dancing might be good, might even feel superior to regular game. But! It's sadly not. Relying on dance, which is an art many more have learned to perfect compared to "regular game" is very high risk high reward. The risk of meeting someone that's better than you at dancing is much higher than meeting someone whom has perfected the art of the spoken word.
/r/seduction28/04/13 07:02 PM
1

Most likely it's simpler than that. I'd say it didn't work since you made a big deal about it. Girls notice these things very quickly.
/r/seduction28/04/13 06:21 PM
1

Depends on the chemistry you have with your wing. My wing, while very different than me, is my best friend and a pickup coach. We started this adventure together and have worked out every single detail of how we do stuff close to perfection. Get a wing, train together for a year, get double pulls every weekend ;)
/r/seduction28/04/13 06:19 PM
2

Actually a good read. If you wanted perspectives, here is mine: First of all: I think you give too much value to looks. You mentioned and emphasized it A LOT. Not that it's a problem, but it might become an issue for you in the future when you break up(sorry, I no longer believe in relationships after all the shit I have pulled with girls that have boyfriends with much ease). If you in the future need to get back to the game, your standards will probably be too high compared to your rusty game, …
/r/seduction28/04/13 06:08 PM
1

As you said. You re approached her. When you did, you had new information and then probably changed behavior. Which again makes her more unsure about the situation.
/r/seduction28/04/13 06:29 AM
8

That I'm fucking awesome.
/r/seduction28/04/13 06:27 AM
1

Google: "The Social Hub". You will love itm
/r/seduction28/04/13 06:27 AM
2

Please do elaborate
/r/seduction27/04/13 12:17 PM
1

Get one size smaller carrot pants. Got no idea what they are called but works great for me.
/r/seduction27/04/13 12:17 PM
1

Most of us more experienced guys just go say "hi". Works best :)
/r/seduction27/04/13 12:16 PM
2

Looks aren't important. How you present yourself is.
/r/seduction27/04/13 12:15 PM
1

Depends on the situation where you got the number.
/r/seduction27/04/13 12:14 PM
1

I used to calibrate more than I do now. It's very useful for getting laid more consistently, but you get less girls that actually like you for the true you.
/r/seduction27/04/13 12:12 PM
1

Not really. Natural game is having the natural ability to convey what's needed to seem attractive.
/r/seduction26/04/13 02:24 PM
1

For the nonbelievers: It works. I have done drama with tons of girls and every single one of them have been receptive and it ended with sex.
/r/seduction26/04/13 02:10 PM
2

Ah well. Anyway, try what i wrote. I guarantee he will be satisfied.
/r/seduction26/04/13 02:05 PM
1

Statements. "You look like a girl that likes XXXX" Makes her invest, and with the proper body language you can make her "defend" what she says (and therefore qualifying herself).
/r/seduction26/04/13 10:23 AM
2

Put on some kinky underwear and tease him for several hours. DON'T LET HIM FUCK YOU AND DON'T FULLY PLEASURE HIM. Holy shit that stuff works...
/r/seduction26/04/13 10:22 AM
1

Read more books. Find more interests. Have more experiences.
/r/seduction26/04/13 10:20 AM
1

Can't be someone active on seddit, we don't make unwelcome advances. We make women happy by spreading our seed! :)
/r/seduction26/04/13 09:40 AM
4

"Me too"
/r/seduction25/04/13 07:58 AM
1

Meditation.
/r/seduction25/04/13 06:53 AM
1

Contain yourself and stay away. :)
/r/seduction25/04/13 06:50 AM
1

My man! I've actually used the wiener-dog thing before i read this. You are completely on-point. FUCK all other advice. This is the best.
/r/seduction25/04/13 06:41 AM
1

I think you need to stop dating, stop caring about the women you meet and just be a complete asshole for a while. Fuck some girls and NEVER talk to them again, for added spice give them a fake number. Put a condom over your heart and FUCK your feelings.
/r/seduction25/04/13 06:38 AM
2

I mean, your idea is decent... But the mentality behind it is just horrible...
/r/seduction25/04/13 06:34 AM
1

Nothing actually. I say whatever enters my mind, that way i don't have to think. Simpler that way. (Requires you to have some natural game though).
/r/seduction25/04/13 06:25 AM
1

Whatever i find interesting. If i'm in a "gaming day", i ask about games she has played. Just self-amusing questions and topics.
/r/seduction23/04/13 11:07 AM
2

Why give her daily compliments? Ask her out. Don't wait for more interest, usually that ends up with you waiting too long. Don't give her compliments to "win something" (here: her interest). ONLY give compliments if you SINCERELY mean it and expect NOTHING back.
/r/seduction23/04/13 11:06 AM
1

I've done it a couple of times now and it has actually been pretty easy. I just flirt with both girls, get them both to my place, play "truth or dare" or just get them to start kissing, join in, get naked and have fun.
/r/seduction23/04/13 11:04 AM
1

Let's go back to your place. Just say it. Not like you are having less sex with her.
/r/seduction20/04/13 12:36 AM
1

Stop thinking she is a catch. She is not. She is just another girl. Any girl out there can be yours, statistically she can't be such a good catch as you project her to be. Stop trying to justify your oneitis. It doesn't need justification, it needs extinction.
/r/seduction20/04/13 12:33 AM
2

True. But, considering it's a possibility she tells him it's better to hear it from you.
/r/seduction20/04/13 12:30 AM
3

No point in dwelling on the past. Learn from your mistake and move on. Get closure by telling your friend and make sure you never repeat the mistake.
/r/seduction19/04/13 11:57 PM
1

Every situation is what you make of it. Therefore, every situation can be as awesome as you want it to be. But, very few utilize it and I'm happy you did!
/r/seduction19/04/13 11:56 PM
1

Show them.
/r/seduction19/04/13 11:50 PM
2

No excuses. Ever. These studies just make guys procrastinate due to less than optimal weather conditions
/r/seduction19/04/13 11:49 PM
2

Please do elaborate
/r/seduction19/04/13 11:45 PM
1

I'd say flirt with everyone.
/r/seduction19/04/13 11:44 PM
1

Hi - banter - escalate - sex. Easiest and best method.
/r/seduction19/04/13 10:09 PM
3

Google: "The social hub" from RSD. A great "game" to help you while going out solo.
/r/seduction17/04/13 05:42 AM
2

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GdnYedTpToA
/r/seduction17/04/13 05:42 AM
1

Rely on theory until you have enough reference experience to rely on your own knowledge.
/r/seduction14/04/13 02:43 PM
1

Rejection is by far the best part of pickup in my book. It's what you learn from.
/r/seduction11/04/13 11:46 AM
1

I can see where you are coming from, and it sure sounds like a fun idea. I just wanted to share my friends experiences so you'd see "the other side of the pond". I often make bets myself, but that's purely about and for sex. My dates are usually batshit crazy anyway so i've got the fun aspect covered ^
/r/seduction11/04/13 06:55 AM
1

Have you had any success with those kinds of bets before? I have a friend whom keeps doing it and i must say... I've not heard many success stories. Sure, betting to get lap-dances and whatnot is fun, and i recommend making such bets. But betting to see you again? It comes off as kind of desperate to me, and i guess to some females as well according to my friends stories.
/r/seduction11/04/13 06:22 AM
1

"Hi, who are you?". Then i take it from there. I never plan anything beforehand as i can't control what she will say.
/r/seduction11/04/13 06:20 AM
1

First: Why would you assume top commenter knew anything? This subreddit is filled with guys that want to LEARN. Most of them don't really know anything, not that there is anything wrong with that. Second: It's not hard for girls all you have to do is sort through the crap. That's the quote that made me realize you don't know shit :) It's nothing wrong with it, again, most people here are noobies. But to believe it's easy for girls is just WRONG. Sorry for sounding harsh.
/r/seduction11/04/13 06:16 AM
1

Don't worry about interesting. Interesting don't matter. Just say stuff :)
/r/seduction11/04/13 06:13 AM
3

No? I'm saying... Instead of dwelling on what you should do, go fucking approach the guys you want and learn by doing. It's how the guys here have done it, now it's your turn.
/r/seduction11/04/13 06:13 AM
2

You sir, don't know shit.
/r/seduction11/04/13 12:19 AM
3

Approach. Fuck the primal order of things. Be an action-taker and get what you want!
/r/seduction11/04/13 12:19 AM
1

And again you prove why you are a Moderator. Short and concise advice that's right on point.
/r/seduction11/04/13 12:17 AM
2

Hmm. I think you misunderstand the concept of nonreactive. If you don't care to speak, it means you have the IDGAF mentality in order. Nonreactive is more like: Whatever she says, whatever happens, you are in the EXACT same state as before. You don't let anything rattle your cages. However, i don't think your problem with any of this. I think it's that you don't truly believe that what you say will matter to whom you say it to. At least that's what my friend had going for him when i helped him w…
/r/seduction11/04/13 12:16 AM
3

"You develop your personality in the state you find yourself in the most" - RSDJulien. This means: If you develop your "pickup" personality while drunk, it will be underdeveloped when you are sober.
/r/seduction11/04/13 12:14 AM
2

I'd rather think of it as trading value. I don't like spending time with people / groups that don't give me value, but i make DAMN sure that i give them value back.
/r/seduction11/04/13 12:12 AM
1

Sorry if i come off as a dick, but, usually when this stuff happens: Attraction was not built FOR HER (in comparison to the other guys in her life).
/r/seduction11/04/13 12:11 AM
3

Yes. To both questions. You are overthinking it and yes, i have closed girls that haven't seen me in many years. What did i do? Same shit i do on EVERY OTHER GIRL. People need to realize this: There are VERY FEW situations where you need specific advice.
/r/seduction11/04/13 12:10 AM
1

I agree with nottraceable(probably taceable dude ). Seduction is supposed to effect all aspects of your life. I actually use the stuff i have learned more on guys / people in general than i do on girls i want to fuck. I give people 1 chance. If they fuck up: They are out of my life. I don't need them. It sounds harsh, but i inform EVERYONE that i'm starting a friendship with about it and so far very few have fucked up :)
/r/seduction11/04/13 12:08 AM
2

how do you show women IOIs tactfully and with minimal risk? Why do you want "minimal risk"? Fuck that. You gotta risk it to get the biscuit. Edit: Found more to comment on. If I am a charming, interesting guy won't they cut me some slack and give me more time to hesitate? Surely other guys don't always kiss a girl the first time they meet. No. They don't want the hesitating guy. They want the assertive guy. The guy that knows what he wants and takes it. Also, try this out: The next 5 girls you m…
/r/seduction10/04/13 11:58 PM
1

Read the book - then look at this. The book is by far the best I've ever read.
/r/seduction10/04/13 11:56 PM
0

No I'm not, I'm a self-amuser. I always have fun. You just misread my post and assumed something not even close to reality.
/r/seduction10/04/13 08:15 PM
1

I agree that honesty is important. But honesty is better shown through actions, not words. Words are confusing, especially to emotional girls (you probably have her "hooked" emotionally if you get to the point where OP is). That's why clarifying things through actions would have a more powerful effect. And this isn't something I've read or heard. It's something I've learned through my reference experiences.
/r/seduction10/04/13 06:38 PM
0

There is a difference. I tease my friends to create a fun atmosphere while I neg hot girls to crush their bitch shield. Maybe it's the same to you, and everyone is entitled their own opinion
/r/seduction10/04/13 06:12 PM
1

I use it as its the term commonly used on this site. And, Norwegian words don't fit.
/r/seduction10/04/13 06:09 PM
2

I don't like the term.
/r/seduction10/04/13 03:41 PM
2

No problem man. By the way: You can fuck in bathrooms / rent motels / alleys / parks / the ocean. :)
/r/seduction10/04/13 02:50 PM
1

Great job! Nice to see some female "pua's" that know their shit. Keep posting FR's, i loved it.
/r/seduction10/04/13 02:46 PM
3

Thing is: It's REALLY easy to "rack jack" a hot guy with no personality. Girls are attracted to his appearance, but they'd rather fuck a guy that makes their emotions go crazy (which is a way to "game" a chick).
/r/seduction10/04/13 02:45 PM
4

Wingman her friend, get her laid and then get laid yourself. I've had to do this so many times it's starting to become a habit when i open 2-X sets.
/r/seduction10/04/13 02:28 PM
0

Simple: Fuck more girls. Talk to more girls. Flirt with more girls. Get more reference experience. Edit: That's right. The order is: FUCK, TALK, FLIRT. You won't get over oneitis if you keep getting to know girls before you fuck them. It will probably just make it worse.
/r/seduction10/04/13 02:25 PM
1

Got tattoos, my hair is fucking awesome and i wear some armbands. That's pretty much it. (Getting more tattoos soon though ;))
/r/seduction10/04/13 02:23 PM
1

Not really. Teasing is something you do towards everyone, it creates attraction. Negging is SPECIFICALLY pointing out faults (towards HB9++) so they don't feel "better" than you. Why? Well, as they get hit on often they will probably shut you down unless you show them, in one way or another, that you are different and don't care as much about their looks. Hmm. I guess that explains the difference.
/r/seduction10/04/13 02:20 PM
2

First: You don't tell a girl you can't have a serious relationship with her BEFORE you fuck her. That just gives her an excuse to not fuck you. Almost no girl EVER expects a serious relationship after sex (unless you stupidly set the pretext for it). Secondly: You didn't fuck it up as long as you keep cool and carry on. Just get her out on a date again, fuck her, and stop with "text game" (text game should rarely be used unless you want a serious relationship. It fucks up with your availability.…
/r/seduction10/04/13 02:18 PM
-1

Tell them to either: Give you their number or come with you home.
/r/seduction10/04/13 02:14 PM
1

How is Chadles a dumb nickname? I think it's cute.
/r/seduction10/04/13 10:59 AM
3

I never listen to a girls issues (unless she is my girlfriend). That's what friends are for. I listen to her fun stories, i ask questions that makes her want to qualify herself to me (that means: I can listen while still demonstrating higher value as she is constantly qualifying herself).
/r/seduction10/04/13 07:41 AM
1

Romance is overrated. Girls would rather get emotional spikes than romance. (Source: Women I've dated / slept with / female friends). Sure, they think it's cute when a guy gives them flowers but that's something i'd rather save until you guys have been together for a couple of years.
/r/seduction10/04/13 06:38 AM
3

Everyone has, but you have to keep fucking / flirting with other girls to keep the oneitis under control.
/r/seduction10/04/13 06:35 AM
7

That would be being naive. But when I've had sex with this girl multiple times, i can call it that. If you are a man of decent intelligence you will understand when a girl is serious and when she is not.
/r/seduction09/04/13 10:13 PM
-1

Yes. It is. I have one weird ass looking friend whom is 1.65 (i think, really short) and he gets laid consistently. He has to work a bit harder, but he gets it done ;)
/r/seduction09/04/13 10:12 PM
2

Happens from time to time. They don't care if you don't (unless they actually made a "drunken mistake" and didn't really want to hook up with you in the first place). Did you at least finger her or give her oral until she came?
/r/seduction09/04/13 09:52 PM
8

Don't react. Don't work through them. You can only be you. If they don't like you, that's their problem. Do your best to always be positive and polite and then disregard anyone whom does not appreciate it.
/r/seduction09/04/13 09:48 PM
1

Well, i have my reference experiences but i don't think they are bad nor good. They are what they are, experiences. If i choose to take ANYTHING positive or negative from them, i dismantle them as something that happened in the past (by letting it affect the present) which is not a good thing. I've fucked up A LOT of times. Ruined TONS of friendships and "missed out" on SO MANY girls you'd be depressed if you ever knew... However, i regard them only as EXPERIENCES. Not as bad or good memories. M…
/r/seduction09/04/13 09:45 PM
30

Or: Let her call you whatever the FUCK she wants as long as it's not offensive. It's investment on her part. Take it as a compliment. A girl i'm flirting with these days is calling me: Pig, Bacon, Whore and Slut. Do i care? No. It's investment on her part and she wants the D so why would i ruin it?
/r/seduction09/04/13 08:56 PM
2

If you build a barrier between "good guy" and "hey you're hot" you are destined to fail. Make it flow between the two and you shall see massive improvements!
/r/seduction09/04/13 08:52 PM
1

Not really.
/r/seduction04/04/13 05:01 PM
9

I'm settled :) Just saying that it doesen't matter what kind of girl it is, if you frame it right and turn the girl on enough, she will fuck you in the bathroom.
/r/seduction04/04/13 02:09 PM
-1

Clearly you have not gone out as much as me. I have had sex with a girl in the bathroom at a museum Galla. As long as you frame it right and make it feels natural for her to fuck you, she will. Stop pretending you know shit when you clearly don't.
/r/seduction04/04/13 01:32 PM
-1

When did anyone sat anything about being classy? And, even classy girls have or will get fucked in the bathroom.
/r/seduction04/04/13 12:48 PM
2

It seems very non-needy and outcome independent. It kinda gives off that chill "I don't give a fuck" vibe, which women like. No. It gives off the "I have no interest in you so i want something better" vibe. It kills attraction and makes you seem less confident (as you can't maintain eye contact).
/r/seduction04/04/13 08:53 AM
2

If you escalate during the coffee date you can easily pull them back to your place or to the bathroom. The logistics are golden (as she has set aside time to spend with you), and she can rationalize with her girlfriends for whatever choice she might make (which is the number 1 reason for LMR, lack of rationalization).
/r/seduction04/04/13 06:22 AM
-2

You misread my post. Messaging a girl you BRIEFLY met on FACEBOOK when you have not ASKED FOR HER INFORMATION (meaning: She is not expecting to hear from you) is creepy. I feel that OP's post leans towards oneitis as he puts so much effort into this one girl that he briefly met. That's not the way of a true "seducer" / "pua" / "alpha" - and is not an attractive mindset to have.
/r/seduction03/04/13 09:15 PM
1

Made my year.
/r/seduction03/04/13 09:11 PM
5

My point was it should not. You will get there. :)
/r/seduction03/04/13 06:01 PM
1

After my experience: Norway > Sweden (in terms of gaming, as sex is the desired result and Norwegian girls are very easy to get with when you have a bit of "game")
/r/seduction03/04/13 04:27 PM
11

Stop trying to get confidence from your looks. It's fake and worth SHIT. Improve yourself as a person and you shall see the confidence arise within you!
/r/seduction03/04/13 04:25 PM
2

Same as EVERYTHING on this subreddit. People seem to think their situation is unique. IT IS NOT. Follow the "rules" and get laid ;)
/r/seduction03/04/13 04:24 PM
1

Both let your guard down, and help others break theirs. Try to be: More positive More assertive More demanding And in return you will be more attractive, as a friend and as a lover. Set a standard for yourself and if people fail to reach said standard you don't need them in your life.
/r/seduction03/04/13 12:28 AM
1

I told my friends: "Look. I'm good at this. You see my results. Do you want to learn it as well so we can go out together and have an amazing time?" You will at times come off as a dick, but who cares? People like dick. People like assertive. People like confidence. Just don't BE a dick and you will be fine :)
/r/seduction03/04/13 12:23 AM
1

My friends used to be shit. I helped them. Now they are awesome. I improved myself in order to help others. Do the same and you shall see immense ammounts of success!
/r/seduction02/04/13 11:26 PM
3

By no means what so ever is facebook your only means of contact. You want to "talk her into going on a date with you?"... Nope. That's not what seduction is about. It's not about convincing people to like you. It's about liking yourself enough, and being awesome enough that people actually do. Don't poke her, don't message her, don't even look at her profile! Stay away until you meet her again. And then: MAN UP AND GET HER FUCKING NUMBER! Also: Seriously oneitis vibes here... You met a girl (bri…
/r/seduction02/04/13 11:25 PM
2

Ask yourself: Why do you care about what other people think of you? What will that bring you? Where will it get you? What can you get from acceptance if you aren't being true to yourself? Start doing stupid shit step by step. Just incredible stupid. Like pulling out your dick and make a speech at a preparty with your buddies (this one makes me crack up every single time). I once ate a rose that a girl held since everyone was acting "normal" and i find "normal" fucking boring. Don't accept situat…
/r/seduction02/04/13 11:21 PM
1

Not really true. Situations are weird since you don't own up to what you do. If you own up to what you do, and act "like a boss", you will never have a weird situation again! Or, at least i have not. And i act borderline retarded 90% of the time.
/r/seduction02/04/13 11:18 PM
1

There are none. I'm not glad my first girl was my girlfriend. I'm not glad I have even had a girlfriend. Girls our age are not mature enough to handle a working relationship. Two years of my life that I could have used to fucking multiple girls were used on relationships that now mean shit. But that might just be me.
/r/seduction02/04/13 06:15 PM
5

My ex liked ripped guys. I'm chubby. If anything, it should give you more confidence. You got her despite her preferences. Fucking win man!
/r/seduction02/04/13 05:53 PM
1

Cool idea, but you are making it a bit more complicated than it has to be. We use GO! While out, in whatever situation, if i say GO and point at a girl to my friend, he has to approach her within 3 seconds or do 10 pushups at the spot (funny in busy streets, bars, shops, libraries, lines, on the subway). After said pushups you still have to approach the girl though, so it's win/win. You get a workout and you get to meet chicks.
/r/seduction01/04/13 01:11 PM
3

Your confidence or self esteem will never get better as long as you are trying to improve it with "external" things. It's ALL in your head. Your money, job, body, accomplishments mean SHIT if you don't have the mind to back it up. Think of it this way: Do you actually LIKE a girl for her body, job, money and accomplishments? No. You would fuck her because of them, but you wouldn't LIKE her. You LIKE her for whom she is, her personality, how she looks at life and how she treats YOU. Also: As long…
/r/seduction01/04/13 01:04 PM
1

Exactly my point. But, none of the lines are horrible or cheesy. I have no idea how "Who are you here with?" or "Having a good night?" is either one... It's questions that interest me when i'm out (screening for logistics. Not having a good night? How about a venue change. Here with friends? Where are they? Introduce me!). The dinosaur question always puts people off and it's something i use when i'm winging (as i tend to have no interest in the girl i just keep the conversation light and fun wi…
/r/seduction30/03/13 05:31 AM
1

"Having a good night?" "Who are you here with?" "What's up with that necklace/scarf/hoodie/whatever?" "My god you look stunning. Come here and give me a hug!" "If you were a dinosaur, which one would you be?" "I have no idea what to talk about, mind giving me some pointers?" (this one has been so much fun for me personally) This is what i have in my head atm. But really, you should NEVER think about it beforehand. It makes your calibration all messed up (since you calibrate before the fact and n…
/r/seduction29/03/13 07:59 PM
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2 - Went out Wednesday and Thursday (yesterday). Unfortunately i have catched a cold so i won't be going for hattrick :( But, on point: You just take her hand and seductively look at her while "dragging" her to the exit. Alternatively you can say "Let's get out of here" and then lead her out. The reason i use the word LEAD is because it shows confidence, dominance and basically all the attractive traits a woman is after when looking for a same night lay. Edit: Wrote 2. - got turned into 1...
/r/seduction29/03/13 05:20 PM
1

No? You don't FORCE her home. You LEAD her. Girls LOVE it.
/r/seduction29/03/13 04:35 PM
1

Be super nice and don't be sexual / touchy / escalate.
/r/seduction29/03/13 01:37 PM
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Tell him: You are awesome, but seeing as we are looking for different things i'd like us to be friends. Either he accepts it or not. Best to be honest, something women can learn from men :P
/r/seduction29/03/13 01:19 PM
1

Straight for the kill.
/r/seduction29/03/13 05:20 AM
1

Theory is solid. You come off as sexual right off the bat and if you keep an nonreactive approach to the entire ordeal you will probably get something out of it. However, i don't like routines as it makes the entire thing unnatural.
/r/seduction29/03/13 05:19 AM
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It seems like the girl is genuinely interested in meeting you. Don't screw up by playing too hard to get. Just ask her what her schedule is like and find some time.
/r/seduction29/03/13 05:16 AM
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Yes. STONE FUCKING COLD. Not a glimpse, not a smile, not anything. Just Yes.
/r/seduction29/03/13 05:11 AM
1

Take her hand, lead her home.
/r/seduction29/03/13 05:09 AM
1

Yes, if you release relevant information and have the proof to back it up. If you don't, it would be pointless.
/r/seduction29/03/13 05:08 AM
1

How can you be jealous when what you are doing is 10 times worse? Not the fact that you are sleeping with multiple women, but the fact that you are trying to deny her ways (by being jealous and wanting her for yourself) while still not giving her what she possibly is looking for? I hope i made my point, my head is spinning quite hard...
/r/seduction27/03/13 02:40 AM
1

To your place?
/r/seduction27/03/13 02:36 AM
2

I hug everyone i meet, even if i don't know them. Let's them know i'm a physical guy and all physicality comes natural to me. Even did it at a T.G.I Fridays today with a waiter i have seen there before. People are glad you do shit when it's natural to you and brings out good emotions.
/r/seduction27/03/13 02:35 AM
1

Yes. Always 100% truthful about that, but i never mention it unless asked.
/r/seduction25/03/13 08:57 PM
1

Be more assertive, physical and sexual. Should fix the problem. And no, it's not creepy if you feel natural about doing it.
/r/seduction23/03/13 04:38 PM
1

Treat them like you would any other person: With respect. Seriously, it's that simple. Be a nice guy.
/r/seduction23/03/13 04:30 PM
1

I have found that most of the time it means that they have met you before. However, if they approach you it's definitely an IOI.
/r/seduction23/03/13 04:29 PM
0

I don't ever mention anything. They know by the way i act what i want. There are some tips you can use to sub-communicate that you don't want a relationship: 1 - Stop talking about the future. 2 - Be overly sexual 3 - Be dominant (you take what you want, no matter what) 4 - Don't be even the slightest clingy. Just these four steps will probably make her understand you are not in it for more than the sex. Or, in extreme cases of girls falling for you, you just drop all contact and find someone el…
/r/seduction23/03/13 09:48 AM
0

"Yes" then go for the kiss.
/r/seduction23/03/13 09:43 AM
7

Laziness is never rewarded.
/r/seduction23/03/13 09:40 AM
1

People can expect as many free drinks as they want. You shall not give it to them.
/r/seduction22/03/13 07:10 AM
1

Painting pictures with words = Massive attraction. It makes girls relate to what you say, instead of just understand it.
/r/seduction22/03/13 07:10 AM
1

Exactly. I meant approaching someone with an entourage.
/r/seduction20/03/13 12:01 AM
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Do you find your studies exciting? If so, talk about it! Make sure they know you are excited about what you do. That's one of the most attractive traits a man can have (a drive for what he wants and what he enjoys). When they ask you where you are from, tell them as much as you want to. Just be excited about whatever you say. And i don't mean spastic, just generally excited. Make sure that you convey your interest in what you say. Don't try to be something you are not. It rarely, if ever, works.
/r/seduction20/03/13 12:00 AM
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NO. NO. NO. NEVER tell ANYONE what you do is boring. ITS THE FUCKING SHIT! It's the MOST AWESOME THING EVER. Jesus. I would seriously leave if a person started to tell me that what they decided to spend their life doing was boring. Stupidest person EVER.
/r/seduction19/03/13 09:58 AM
1

Ehm... Telling someone what you do isn't interesting is REALLY bad. Just tell them what you do with excitement. It doesn't matter for girls, as long as you truly enjoy what you do.
/r/seduction19/03/13 09:56 AM
2

"It's my birthday! Come give me a hug... Now, whats your name and where is my cake?". I use that line every other weekend or so. It's very fun when you start getting busted!
/r/seduction19/03/13 09:54 AM
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That won't help. As asad said, 4-5 guys surrounding one girl = real terror. No matter how dominant you are. Just tell your friends to fuck off when you approach girls. They will understand if they are good friends.
/r/seduction19/03/13 09:50 AM
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That's what we are here for. Working on the goal to have an abundance of women in our lives
/r/seduction18/03/13 04:13 PM
2

Replace masturbation with actually sleeping with women.
/r/seduction15/03/13 08:56 AM
1

Yep. I know. :-)
/r/seduction07/03/13 08:39 PM
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I totally agree. But if that's what it takes to make progress and actually create some real stories, that's what you gotta do. Usually you should have a lifetime of stories just from one summer, but there are people that aren't that outgoing and need help to kickstart their "experience mode". If that's the case i would recommend "making up" some stories (or just spicing up existing stories) to get started. Anyway, anything is better than telling stories about oneself being too drunk as it's not …
/r/seduction06/03/13 01:26 PM
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I don't downvote everything i disagree with. I downvote things that are just downright wrong and against the principles of seduction (self improvement). This subreddit is for people whom want to improve. Not for people whom want to become douchebags.
/r/seduction06/03/13 11:58 AM
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Sure it works. But it makes you a bad human being. Calling someone gay? Acting like a douche? Why would you want to promote such behavior? It's not about getting ladies. It's about improving oneself to the point where getting ladies is natural and not something you actually think about.
/r/seduction06/03/13 11:52 AM
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Great that you see what you did wrong. However, from my experiences, any stories that involves you getting drunk is not a DHV story. Try finding (or making up) stories that involves excitement and little to no alcohol. You are already in an environment where alcohol is served when clubbing, telling stories that diverse from this will prove more interesting to the girl and yourself. :)
/r/seduction06/03/13 10:12 AM
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This made me laugh a bit. This is the complete opposite of what you are supposed to do. Stop reacting to people. Make them react to you.
/r/seduction06/03/13 10:06 AM
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No. Reacting is beta. You are supposed to be better than him.
/r/seduction06/03/13 10:05 AM
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The more you don't let it affect you the more success you will have :)
/r/seduction06/03/13 10:04 AM
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If it's difficult to hear anything you are not speaking loud enough. It's perfectly OK to scream. Other than that, it's more about inner game and how you project yourself overall. Girls i meet, wherever and whenever will assume i'm of higher value as that is how i project myself (through my complete belief that i am a man of higher value). It just comes natural, so i'm afraid i can't go into details. However, knowing a lot of people where you are going, being nice to them, and introducing people…
/r/seduction06/03/13 09:55 AM
3

I actually don't find it comfy, but the rest of the quote is golden.
/r/seduction06/03/13 08:45 AM
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You already gave up when you didn't set a meeting, ignored her and didn't escalate.
/r/seduction05/03/13 12:37 PM
1

"I try"
/r/seduction05/03/13 12:35 PM
1

I think you are overthinking it. Assume attraction, go for it. If it fails, so what? You did what you are supposed to do as a man: Take action.
/r/seduction05/03/13 12:33 PM
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Simple: Tons of guys hit on women and give them their undivided attention. If you were to show interest, but rather than give them the attention they are used to and instead "ignore" them (by "ignore" i mean give them just enough attention that she knows you are interested, but not more) you will make them fight for your attention. Which increases their attraction to you.
/r/seduction05/03/13 12:30 PM
1

Yes. And the odds change based on your knowledge and "skill"
/r/seduction05/03/13 12:27 PM
1

And by the way: Kino is not always a sure way to show intent (especially if done wrong). Anyhow, a girl telling me that she is into someone else would just make me drop her. I don't have time for such drama. :)
/r/seduction04/03/13 10:11 PM
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I have female friends, but they are friends only because i want them to be. I don't see the point of talking to someone that doesn't give you what you want/need - hence, cold turkey. Too many people in this world to settle for anything but the optimal.
/r/seduction04/03/13 10:08 PM
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It's not about convincing. It's about developing a persona that is so good that nothing else matters. I'm tall but i am chubby and i don't look good. My persona however is so awesome no girl ever cares.
/r/seduction04/03/13 10:04 PM
0

So... You think it's time-wasting to improve yourself in a way that height doesn't really matter? Great attitude man :)
/r/seduction04/03/13 09:05 PM
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I didn't :) And i also think that context matters, and on this subreddit the "guy" is not the thing that matters. And the context of this video (and some of his other videos) are not "productive" in the ways of seddit. Sure, they are fun, but when noobs come here to get help they are suddenly filled up with bad advice ^ And, yeah, i love his videos :P They are fun :)
/r/seduction04/03/13 09:03 PM
0

How did you make your intentions clear?
/r/seduction04/03/13 08:51 PM
1

And what does this have to do with anything? I just want to help filter out posts on r/seduction in a way that actually helps people. I don't criticize the guy, he is funny and has some fun videos. But it comes off as "getting a number = success". Which is NOT the case.
/r/seduction04/03/13 08:48 PM
1

Not entirely true. The "Friendzone" is merely a "zone" that women put guys which whom they feel comfortable around BEFORE sexual intent is shown. Example: Friendly guy meets girl. Too afraid of rejection to show his intent, becomes friends with girl. Thinks "now is the time to strike" but girl doesn't want to loose the one guy she didn't think wanted to fuck her so she rejects him anyway.
/r/seduction04/03/13 08:32 PM
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After i started to improve myself in terms of "the seddit ways" many many years ago, i have never been "put in the friendzone". I make my intentions when talking to girls REALLY FUCKING CLEAR. They know within 5 minutes of meeting me that i don't want to be their friend, i want to fuck them and / or date them. If you frame your conversations with women in the correct way, they will never perceive you as a friend and you will never have the problem again.
/r/seduction04/03/13 08:29 PM
1

"Yes" "I try" "In some ways" "Not after tonight" I've actually never been asked the question and i don't see how it would come off as natural to ask such question in a conversation unless you come off as SUPER NEEDY / Desperate. Can you describe the situations where such question has come up? And, why does anyone other than you know that you are a virgin?
/r/seduction04/03/13 08:26 PM
1

I rarely ask if a girl is single. I assume that she is and do my shit. If she comes home with me and we fuck, well, my mission is complete. If a girl say she has a boyfriend, then i respect it and i move to another girl. (I rarely get the "i have a boyfriend shit-test" due to it being natural for me to talk to many people). If a friend of mine fucks a girl that another friend of mine has hooked up with or whatever, he is in violation of our "code" and will not be included in our "group". Zero to…
/r/seduction04/03/13 08:22 PM
0

193cm. Positive attribute, but doesn't really matter. However, some girls don't like guys that are shorter than them. That's for you to change ;)
/r/seduction04/03/13 08:07 PM
6

It works to get numbers. Does numbers matter? Not really. The method he used in that video is a method that will ensure "flakes". Getting numbers is easy as fuck. I mean, 90% of the girls i talk to will give me their number. Getting girls to invest in the conversation (emotionally) and thereby making sure that they want to see you again is something completely different.
/r/seduction04/03/13 08:00 PM
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Ah man. Don't ask for the number unless you are 100% sure you can't fuck her that night (or want to). The situation you described is PERFECT for a bathroom pull / k-closing / pulling back to your place.
/r/seduction03/03/13 10:22 AM
1

Valid point. But, it also makes you seem like a guy that has time for such things, which is not as attractive as a busy man :)
/r/seduction03/03/13 09:51 AM
1

What the flying F are you on about?
/r/seduction03/03/13 09:43 AM
1

Why the F would you ever text someone "all day"? There are three types of texts. Setting a date / meetup Telling someone something funny / cool / awesome that just happened Asking a question that ONLY that person can answer.
/r/seduction03/03/13 09:20 AM
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Eh. I don't like people that call me (unless they are in my family, but even then i prefer texts). So much easier to text. Cuts right through the bullshit. Also, i don't answer texts other than questions that i find interesting / valuable.
/r/seduction03/03/13 09:10 AM
2

It implies that you "need" the date. That it's very important to you. Which is not attractive.
/r/seduction03/03/13 09:05 AM
2

5th time it has been posted i believe.
/r/seduction03/03/13 08:51 AM
1

Orly?
/r/seduction03/03/13 08:43 AM
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Sorry man... The question about a "mobile app" that would "help" meeting new people in clubs / bars made me cringe hard. Men and women need to stop this bullshit digital communication and go back to REAL interaction. No wonder there are so many guys out there that are "bad" at game. Other than that, i'm interested in the results :)
/r/seduction03/03/13 08:21 AM
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Wise words.
/r/seduction01/03/13 09:05 AM
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My goal in life is to be happy. Whatever i do, it's to make myself happy. Anything else would be a lie.
/r/seduction26/02/13 09:27 AM
2

Try to change your goal for conversations. My goal has always been and will always be to say: "Hi". After i have said hi, all this tension goes away and the conversation improves (as i have reached my goal). All i can think of :)
/r/seduction26/02/13 09:25 AM
0

I'd read "The Power of Now" and try to adapt to the "Don't think, live in the moment" philosophy. Thinking, like you explained, tends to bring out sloppy shit.
/r/seduction26/02/13 09:22 AM
0

What? I have never heard of the ukulele being remotely attractive. If you want to have a "weapon", which by all means is unnecessary and desperate if you ask me, play a guitar or be in a band.
/r/seduction26/02/13 09:21 AM
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Depends what frame you had when you slept with the girl. If it was a One Night stand, she is fully aware and you don't have to say / do anything. If it's someone you're dating, just tell her that it's not working out and that you enjoyed her company. No need to fill in details. If it's a girlfriend, be a man and tell her EXACTLY why you are breaking up with her. Spares her a lot of pain and confusion.
/r/seduction26/02/13 09:20 AM
1

Sometimes, in between projects, just for the fun of it. I never chase ONE girl though. I always have spares. :)
/r/seduction26/02/13 08:02 AM
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No problem. Good luck and have fun! :)
/r/seduction20/02/13 10:59 PM
1

You know, you can actually skip the smalltalk (that's what i do). Just exchange names and go where you want to go :)
/r/seduction20/02/13 08:51 PM
2

Do or do not, there is no try. It's VERY important that you ACTUALLY want to know their passions when you ask. You HAVE TO be 100% sincere. Or it will fail.
/r/seduction20/02/13 06:21 PM
2

I'm not attractive (in the looks department, i have other attributes that makes me attractive) and i have had real success with this line countless times. Confidence however is a MUST. And you HAVE TO be 100% sincere and not say it just because you might like to fuck her.
/r/seduction20/02/13 06:17 PM
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I'm a "party guy" but i still like mini-golf. One of my friends is a "reading guy" but still likes parties. People aren't static. Go with the mini-golf idea, bring some booze and have fun.
/r/seduction20/02/13 01:01 PM
2

:D
/r/seduction19/02/13 10:40 PM
1

True. It's just making out with loads of random girls and bathroom pulling as needed :P
/r/seduction19/02/13 10:40 PM
2

My stats for online dating: Messages: 10-50 ladies when i go online. Responses: 0-50 Ammount of fucks i give: 0. Seriously. If you put too much into the message, you won't get any luck. If you put too little, you won't get any luck. If you actually don't give a fuck, and have that mentality, your messages will reflect it whether you like it or not and it WILL help you. However. There are things you can do to improve your profile and thereby improve your response rate: NO SINGLE PHOTO OF YOUR BOD…
/r/seduction19/02/13 07:06 AM
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If you cn't k-close at a rave, you are doing something extraordinarily creepy. Truest thing on seddit atm.
/r/seduction19/02/13 06:55 AM
1

You could try the "4/4" rule that me and my friends are doing at the moment. I think it would work wonders for you since you enjoy shorter conversations. The "4/4" rule states: You are not allowed to talk to a girl for more than 30 minutes or less than 10. You are not allowed to say anything about yourself the first time you approach (apart from name, age, and answering the questions you give. If you ask who she is there with, you can answer if she asks you back). Simply state that you are inter…
/r/seduction19/02/13 06:21 AM
2

Doing PICKUP is not easy, or actually preferable in raves. I've been to 25++ raves and here are my experiences: Girls on drugs = Will kiss / makeout with ANYONE who just walks up and takes action. Girls on raves = there for the rave. Not for getting to know someone or whatnot. MINIMIZE TALKING. Don't bother with numbers. Find girl. Go up to girl. Lift girl in the air. Kiss girl. Drag girl to bathroom. (DONT RAPE). You have to be very sexual to pull this off (or at least that's from my experience…
/r/seduction19/02/13 06:12 AM
3

True dat. Also. I love molly :(
/r/seduction19/02/13 06:07 AM
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Clubbing. It's ridiculously easy to get laid while out in Norway. I've been "gaming" in the US, Lithuania, Sweden, Denmark, UK, Russia and Spain. Apart from College parties in the US (I was in Austin, Texas) i'd say the Norwegian club scene is filled with girls ready to go. You just have to not be the typical introverted Norwegian drunk and you are gold.
/r/seduction14/02/13 10:09 PM
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Another fellow Norwegian here: It works. I have gotten the number from the cute cashier at Rema 1000 right where i live and went on a date with a cutie on Deli DeLuca. You just have to act a bit shy when you do it, or you don't have to but it works wonders ;)
/r/seduction14/02/13 10:05 PM
0

Why don't you just look them deep in the eye, kiss them, slap their ass while waking away and say see you tomorrow? Seriously. And, another thing: Friendzoning the girls will actually make them want more. As long as you do it before they friendzone you ;)
/r/seduction14/02/13 10:02 PM
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The only thing i want to say is: After you have been doing this for a while, you learn how to "pickup" in every kind of state you are in. As long as you are congruent you will progress. And as long as you progress, you will have fun and get laid ;)
/r/seduction14/02/13 04:21 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction11/02/13 11:36 PM
2

The rule: The one that opens chooses. If i open a girl, she is mine. If my friend opens a girl she is his. We have developed signs for two sets and everything. It's about being methodical and making sure that everyone gets laid. Not every man for himself. But if you go to places where there is only one girl, you are going to the wrong places.
/r/seduction11/02/13 01:33 PM
2

Not really. Start by making demands. You won't ever be successful with women if you don't have certain "requirements" people you hang with have to meet. If you let yourself get walked over by friends, why shouldn't girls do as well? I have a certain set of rules my friends have to abide by. If they don't, bye bye. They get 1 chance, otherwise they are out. Setting standards is even more important when it comes to friends than when it comes to females.
/r/seduction11/02/13 04:53 AM
2

I wouldn't use a wingman during daygame. The times i have tried it the girls usually find it too intense or that it's just two guys looking for some fun (rarely making it to banging). It might be that we were off our game, but i have had so much more success while doing daygame solo (or with a friend, but not interacting with the girls at the same time).
/r/seduction11/02/13 04:37 AM
1

This made me laugh much more than it should have.
/r/seduction11/02/13 04:21 AM
1

Or just get better friends? :)
/r/seduction11/02/13 04:14 AM
1

Start by improving yourself to the point where you are actually happy about who you are and what you can offer other people. This will not just help you with women, but your life over all will be improved. You will wake up every single morning with a smile on your face since you will come to actually love your life. When you have made improvements on this path you should come back here and read everything in the sidebar. If you have questions beyond that point you should ask them and you shall b…
/r/seduction11/02/13 04:12 AM
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Came here to say this. It's the first thing i think of if a girl doesn't want to see me again. Did i perform as well as i could? Did i act badly afterwords? Did she seem to enjoy it? Did she want more the day after? From all the women i have slept with, the only "commonality" between the girls that don't want to see me again is that i didn't do my best in bed.
/r/seduction11/02/13 01:14 AM
1

I love the way you actually managed to describe what OP said in two sentences.
/r/seduction11/02/13 01:06 AM
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Well... Maybe having some common sense and not acting creepy while doing rejection therapy would be a good thing? ^ But seriously: You have nothing to be afraid of. The girl is just crazy and the police is not after you (because you did nothing wrong. You asked for snacks, they didn't have any, you walked away). And the "best" rejection therapy i have tried is actually just MASS approaching. Go to a mall / street and approach 50-100 people. You are bound to be rejected by a whole lot and you als…
/r/seduction11/02/13 01:02 AM
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Complete break of rapport. Failing to fulfill her expectations (example: Giving off the "bad boy" vibe but after a few hookups turning out to be a complete "nice guy"). Bad sexual performance. Met another guy. Turned lesbian.
/r/seduction10/02/13 10:44 PM
3

It's worth it.
/r/seduction09/02/13 02:50 PM
0

I've tried some substances while going out. I don't recommend it, and i know most of you guys are against drugs, but i will share my experiences. Methylone: Great for breaking AA. You feel like a champion, but you might loose focus in conversation and you will talk faster / more than usual. Very hard to come when having sex. GHB: Small dosage makes you very silly and energetic. Close to no comedown and great as a "booster" for conversations. You might seem a bit "tipsy" but you have almost full …
/r/seduction09/02/13 12:19 PM
1

Sexual interest. It seems that you are only showing her that you enjoy her company, not that you are interested in making it sexual. You have to use some "kino". I don't always agree with kino usage as it's natural for me to be really "touchy" with girls, but for you it doesn't. You should also try to steer the conversation into something sexual, without asking for anything. And just kiss her. Damnit.
/r/seduction08/02/13 04:42 PM
1

3 weeks, several dates, dinner at her place and still no makeout? Are you actually showing interest in this girl? You should just go for it. Go for the kiss (somewhat when the time is right). Either do it fast or end up in the "friendzone".
/r/seduction08/02/13 04:10 PM
1

The number one thing the people i have "trained" give me good feedback on is my ability to relate to their situation. So don't forget that ;)
/r/seduction07/02/13 06:43 PM
1

Why wouldn't that be a good idea? If it doesn't come off as creepy, and the conversation is somewhat sexual, mentioning that you like thongs can be great.
/r/seduction07/02/13 05:55 PM
1

This is exactly what i mean when i tell people that they need outcome independence. For me, my goal when i approach is to say "Hi". When i say "Hi" i feel successful and the conversation goes much smoother. I reward myself the second i say "Hi" to keep reinforcing my own behavior. Even though i'm far from a beginner at this point, i still do this to make sure i never doubt myself or my skills. However, it's dangerous to get into the mindset if you don't have the self control, or inner game, to c…
/r/seduction07/02/13 02:52 PM
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Nice work man! Keep it up! Now it's time to turn those #'s to dates, and dates to closes ;) It's great to see how much the community helps people. It's what inspires us to help each other!
/r/seduction07/02/13 02:47 PM
3

Diskusjon.no - Har fått masse requests på PM der og var nettopp i trondheim og møtte noen derifra. Samme nick ;)
/r/seduction07/02/13 01:39 PM
1

Ignore or amplify. Not sure what show / actor, and i can't really picture the situation as you didn't describe your tonality and her body language that well, but Ignore / Amplify tends to work for me. Or giving her shit about the show could also work ;) Anyway, you are still young and still working on the stuff. I'd just keep trying stuff out and find my own way if i were you ;)
/r/seduction07/02/13 11:08 AM
1

Self amusement in conversations have worked super for me. You should try it yourself. But be aware: If you look for confirmation from the person you are talking to, it will fail.
/r/seduction07/02/13 11:00 AM
1

You actually asked a qualifying question ("You watch the justice league?") and disqualified her by saying "Oh, thought we might have had something in common". No wonders the conversation went stall after that point. Also, you hinting at her doing stuff with another guy, shows insecurities. Not very attractive. You don't need, or actually, you don't want to have something to say to talk. Just say shit you see, feel, notice, whatever. Point is for her to understand that you mostly care about what …
/r/seduction07/02/13 10:42 AM
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Dude. Just wait until you have been doing it for 3-4 years. You will look at this post and think the exact same thing as you did now, looking back at the past months. It gets even better! ;)
/r/seduction07/02/13 10:30 AM
2

I've got a tattoo of Link from Zelda. I talk about video games ALL THE TIME to women. If you sound enthusiastic enough and don't give off the "basement nerd" vibe, they don't mind.
/r/seduction07/02/13 10:22 AM
1

Making the girl laugh does not mean you have to be funny. I only focus on amusing myself when i'm doing pickup and somehow this makes girl laugh. It's not me being funny, it's me enjoying myself and amusing myself (mostly on her behalf). Girls dig that shit ;)
/r/seduction07/02/13 10:15 AM
2

Doesn't work like that on reddit mate :)
/r/seduction07/02/13 09:52 AM
1

It's more about being unfiltered. Tolle is saying focus on the present, which mean you can think, but not about the future / past. Example: You can let your mind think that a girl is hot, but if you don't act on your thought it remains a thought and that's not good. If you say it, however, your thought became your action. Thoughts like "should i" are focused on the future. Thinking in the way that you describe it now is more about processing than anything else. I hope i explained myself somewhat…
/r/seduction07/02/13 09:49 AM
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Great initiative! I've been doing the same thing in Oslo, Norway for quite some time now. (Using another forum though, as i have not found that many Norwegians here). You and the people that come to you will benefit GREATLY from this. Trust me! ;)
/r/seduction07/02/13 07:06 AM
1

It's all about progress baby ;)
/r/seduction06/02/13 06:25 AM
1

Uptokes for you sir.
/r/seduction06/02/13 06:23 AM
2

Nope. Looks don't matter for shit. I'm living proof ;)
/r/seduction06/02/13 05:40 AM
2

Cause you are fucking awesome. Or, i don't know you, but that's what you should think.
/r/seduction06/02/13 05:40 AM
1

Only if you stand close to the speakers. No club i have ever been to (unless there is a special DJ or concert or something) has been so loud there are no places to talk.
/r/seduction06/02/13 01:50 AM
1

AskSeddit is a better place for this. Also: Don't think too much. Go say hi :)
/r/seduction06/02/13 01:48 AM
1

Have fun. Talk to the people you think look interesting. First time = Find your comfort in the environment. Second time = Push that comfort.
/r/seduction06/02/13 01:34 AM
1

Do you really want to? Wouldn't you rather push your comfort zone? And, what is your comfort zone? I'd be happy to provide further assistance but i don't understand what your problem is other than actually speaking to girls (or men, if you are a girl). Just think of them as a bro, will help in the initial stages, but don't forget that they are a girl and keep pushing yourself.
/r/seduction06/02/13 01:32 AM
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I'm Norwegian/Swedish but i'm much better at English than either of those languages. For me, it's easier not to think of the language you are speaking but rather the message you are sending. I go about as i usually do, just keeping in mind that i have to use different words. I know Swedish and Norwegian aren't that much different, but i still think my input counts.
/r/seduction06/02/13 01:30 AM
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My suggestion would be to start doing stuff that scares the shit out of you. Make it a habit to approach random women on the street, to eat some food you are afraid of, you get the point. When you get comfortable doing stuff that actually scares you, you might have an easier time being you in less intense situations. Just a thought.
/r/seduction06/02/13 01:27 AM
1

Exactly. I've blown models, Personal Trainers and seriously handsome dudes out of the water cause i got my shit down ;)
/r/seduction06/02/13 01:25 AM
1

I'm no good looking guy. I think i am, i project myself as one, but by societies standards i'm not. I've had nights where I've gotten 10/10 numbers and nights where I've gotten 0/10. Don't get stuck on the percentages or rejections.
/r/seduction06/02/13 01:24 AM
1

Me too.
/r/seduction06/02/13 12:58 AM
2

Yes they do. You just have to calibrate. Seduction is not based on "type". It's based on human instinct.
/r/seduction06/02/13 12:58 AM
3

Most bars on valentines are filled with girls like this. It's my "go to" seduction day. Never once has it failed me. My record is 3 in one night ;)
/r/seduction05/02/13 11:12 PM
3

Listen to some good tunes, call friends and talk about something that fascinates you, yell shit out really loud, bust some moves in your room. Whatever makes you feel good.
/r/seduction05/02/13 11:10 PM
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Movies aren't cheesy. They are just not personal. Take her hiking, to your room to watch a movie, dinner, picnic, any class (dance or whatever).
/r/seduction05/02/13 11:09 PM
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Both.
/r/seduction05/02/13 11:08 PM
1

The Power of Now The Game (Yup, so many of the foundations are there. Great read, even though the community has worked away from so much of the material). Any book on communication and self realization will work wonders.
/r/seduction05/02/13 11:07 PM
1

If you are asexual you are asexual. I'd work on figuring yourself out. Go see a therapist or something.
/r/seduction05/02/13 11:06 PM
2

I've laid with girls that both claim and has proven to be "lesbians" before. Don't think wrong, i believe in homosexuality, but some girls (or many as far as i have experienced) are bi when they say they are lesbian. Just keep escalating until she says stop.
/r/seduction05/02/13 11:05 PM
1

I do the same "pickup" if it's one night stand or not. It's about the same thing. Building attraction and ultimately seducing her. Just cause you don't fuck her the same night, doesn't mean the rules change.
/r/seduction05/02/13 11:04 PM
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Pfft. They are not "the shit". They think they are "the shit" cause most guys treat them like that. You don't. You treat them the way you treat every other girl.
/r/seduction05/02/13 10:59 PM
2

Usually i just say "EY!" point at her, look her in the eyes, then kiss her. Works well : )
/r/seduction05/02/13 10:27 PM
2

Why do you like everything she posts? I cringed so hard by that i couldn't focus on the rest.
/r/seduction05/02/13 10:26 PM
2

If it's a shit test, you don't have to respect a relationship. But as Magicpua said, "So does my girlfriend" or "So do I" are some decent responses. I've also had success with "Call him and ask if he is up for a threesome" but that's mostly for giggles.
/r/seduction05/02/13 05:15 PM
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I'd say around 70-80% end up or start at my home. I have loads of fun places right near my apartment, and i always invite them up. If you have the logistics in order you will be able to get most of em home as well ;)
/r/seduction04/02/13 03:10 AM
1

Man, don't worry about it. It's not even BAD advice. Just wanted to give you a reminder : )
/r/seduction04/02/13 03:08 AM
2

Not if you watch it at your house. It leads to sex more often than any other date by my accounts.
/r/seduction04/02/13 12:48 AM
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That's called calibrating BEFORE the fact. You should always calibrate AFTER the fact. Although the initial text (Hi, it's ____ from ____, how's it going?) is decent.
/r/seduction04/02/13 12:44 AM
6

Tofutofu did an AMA about japan. I asked him about pickup and the differences. Check it out. (Can't link as im on my iphone)
/r/seduction02/02/13 08:23 PM
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I agree it's fun. However, people come here for tips on how to get consistent results. This method will flood /r/seduction with: "Got her number, what next?" posts.
/r/seduction01/02/13 04:10 AM
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Not really. Getting good at "game" means getting good with women. Using creativity (canned creativity) will not consistently help you improve. I'm not saying they wont work, as i stated i only dislike them due to the lack of consistency, i'm just saying this isn't for noobies that want to actually become the man that this community idealizes.
/r/seduction01/02/13 02:59 AM
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Are you thinking about her being comfortable too? Don't. She is more likely to be comfortable when you are, so just focus on yourself. Self-amusement is gold. As long as you are comfortable i think your game will improve drastically.
/r/seduction01/02/13 02:42 AM
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Read: The Power of Now. It will help you. And, how i focus: I don't think. I let what i think flow out like a stream of bullshit and insanity. I never think when i do pickup. When she talks, i just process the information. I don't try to picture it, understand it or figure it out. I just let it be processed and when it's "my turn to talk" i say whatever comes to mind. My friends say it sounds hilarious when i pickup. A girl can say: "So i went to this shop with my dad" My response could be "Well…
/r/seduction01/02/13 02:41 AM
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Theese "games" or "creative ways" are not ways that will give you consistant results (you will get numbers, shitloads of them, but they aren't likely to lead to anything). Fun for when you are good enough to actually get consistent results using other methods. But stuff like this corrupts the noobies and makes their progress slow down, by shitloads.
/r/seduction01/02/13 02:38 AM
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They shouldn't if they actually want to improve their "game" and have success with women.
/r/seduction01/02/13 02:35 AM
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That whatever i say or do is the rule. It gets accepted as the rule and girls enjoy following it. I guess that's the easiest way to describe it. I never flinch. If i say something, i mean it. I never take stuff back. I'm super direct, super sexual and always call them out on their shit. I take control.
/r/seduction29/01/13 05:27 PM
2

Awh shit, sorry, must have missed it. Go for sundays then.
/r/seduction29/01/13 08:04 AM
2

I bet you get laid a lot using that line : )
/r/seduction29/01/13 06:56 AM
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"Just so you know, when we get back to my place, we aren't having sex." or "You ain't getting any of this tonight, just so we are clear." or "You have to work for it if you want it tonight babe." You get the idea. EDIT: Only works if you have a strong frame. Seriously. If you don't, this will probably make her leave.
/r/seduction29/01/13 06:54 AM
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Yup.
/r/seduction29/01/13 06:53 AM
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I agree. I actually find that sex on anything other then a good bed is more fun.
/r/seduction29/01/13 06:52 AM
1

Hmm? 4-10 hours? Where did you get those numbers?
/r/seduction29/01/13 06:51 AM
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So. What you said right now was: I'm boring compared to something else. I should let her off, so she doesn't have to spend time with boring me. Change that to: I'm fucking AWESOME! And ask her out already, before you go on into the deep end of the "friend zone".
/r/seduction29/01/13 06:50 AM
1

Yeah, i guess some cultural differences could be in play. It's interesting to read your perspective on things though, not often you see someone elaborate on their thoughts about someones comments here : ) Yeah, the best cure for LMR is arousal. However, for me personally, my frame does so much work for me it's actually a bit ridiculous. I guess you could say they get turned on by it, but i'm no teaser and i don't like to do much work in terms of arousing, so i have developed my perception of the…
/r/seduction29/01/13 06:43 AM
1

I actually have found the opposite in regards to LMR. I have encountered close to zero LMR when the girl said, without me mentioning or hinting at sex, that "We aren't having sex". I guess it could be a cultural difference or just me being lucky. Or my frame. Don't know. And yes, saying "We aren't having sex" can work for you as well. However, sometimes they say "challenge accepted" and tease you until you blurt out cum from your underpants without even getting a handy.
/r/seduction29/01/13 06:26 AM
1

In person. Don't "talk" online (skype can work, if you have a cam and mic). Everything is better in person.
/r/seduction29/01/13 04:25 AM
2

I suggest maybe picking weekdays to go on the date. Weekends tend to keep attractive girls busy. Och, fika e kung! :D
/r/seduction29/01/13 04:18 AM
2

The thought about maintaining attraction with a girl that lives that far away is AFC. Seriously, don't get oneitis on this one. The furthest away for my standards is 30-60 minutes by subway/bus/train. This makes it easier for both parties. However, since you claim that she will be moving closer to you in a few months, i guess it's more a judgement call. I wouldn't go for it though, even though it would be some good practice. Too much wait for results, not my style.
/r/seduction29/01/13 04:10 AM
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I just say yes and move the conversation to where i want it to be. Sometimes i say other shit, but the most "reliable" thing i have found to be what i wrote above.
/r/seduction29/01/13 04:07 AM
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Don't think so much. Seriously. Thinking is good up to a point, you reached that point, now stop. They clearly want you (at least the first message, the second message as well if i understood it correctly). Go for it.
/r/seduction29/01/13 04:05 AM
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You approach A LOT of girls. Once you start getting A LOT of girls in your life, oneitis will be gone for good. My best advice.
/r/seduction29/01/13 04:04 AM
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Clubs / Bars every weekday. Seriously. There are ALWAYS someone out (unless you live in a REAL shitty town). I usually go out between 21:00 - 24:00 on weekdays. You can also find girls at malls, the street, wherever. And i don't suggest gaming at the gym.
/r/seduction29/01/13 12:38 AM
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That works wonders. Also, if the girl says "We aren't having sex" without you even mentioning or hinting at it, you are probably going to have sex (if you hold your frame).
/r/seduction28/01/13 11:55 PM
0

I'm always chill bro ; ) Just thought it was funny how GrampappyJoe directly disregarded the advice i gave and tried to be smart : )
/r/seduction28/01/13 11:54 PM
2

I don't slap that many girls in the face. On the ass, however... : )
/r/seduction28/01/13 10:10 PM
6

Oh. So you can assure me of that? Well, great! Thanks. I wasn't sure but now i am. Thank you for providing me with such insight to my own life. If you are willing to let people off when they don't respect the plans you make, you are letting them piss on you. Something i don't let people do, and you shouldn't either.
/r/seduction28/01/13 10:10 PM
1

I never remember names. Not even once has it hurt my "game". Just be honest and say "Girl. I interact with so many people during a night that the chances of me remembering your name, even though you probably are some awesome chick, is very slim" or something along those lines.
/r/seduction28/01/13 10:03 PM
7

Why would you want to be friends with a girl that doesn't respect your time? Fuck, if a guy friend doesn't respect my time i instantly ditch him. My time is valuable.
/r/seduction28/01/13 09:47 PM
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Ah. Well, i guess i can see how it would seem like that. I can assure you i'm no frat. We don't even have frats in Norway. I'm just a sexual man i guess. And, no offense taken ;)
/r/seduction28/01/13 07:13 AM
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Of course. But why share that with anyone? If my friends aren't cool, why would i be. You know? Many of my friends are boring as shit, but i oversell them as fuck, introduce them casually, then drag the girl away so she "believes" the overselling and it automatically gives me social proof.
/r/seduction28/01/13 06:55 AM
3

It really depends but nothing negative has ever come out of it. The numbers i get actually have a lower "flake" ratio then other numbers. Mostly because when i'm in the mood to use that "line" my frame is REALLY strong. If you want statistics i guess i get around 8/10 numbers. It's all about the frame and being able to say stuff like that without making it come out as something unusual. If you'd meet me in person you'd expect stuff like that from my mouth.
/r/seduction28/01/13 06:53 AM
6

Why would you want someone to think your friends are lame? If they are lame, why do you hang with them?
/r/seduction28/01/13 06:44 AM
10

Not by using that line. My frame when talking to girls is REALLY strong. It's not like i say that shit after 30 seconds of meeting her. However, i have been slapped multiple times for other reasons :- )
/r/seduction28/01/13 06:43 AM
1

Say: "Nope" or "Friends with benefits?" or "Sure, i'd love some bacon" Don't do it. Not worth it.
/r/seduction28/01/13 06:21 AM
0

Here is how i used your quality, a quality i myself possess, to get laid: I drop it. I mean, i listen and stuff like that, but when i'm out picking up girls, i drop it. If i'm in a relationship or regularly see a girl, i will give her a "snack" (listening, being caring, that stuff) once in a while, but just enough for her to make a commitment to me. If it's a serious relationship i still don't go all out with the "snacks". It hurts more than you think it helps.
/r/seduction28/01/13 05:56 AM
4

Just to clarify. When we say "girls love badboys" we mean: Girls want assertive men that have an abundance mentality and generally doesn't give a fuck. People tend to misunderstand "badboy" with "asshole". Two very different things.
/r/seduction28/01/13 05:54 AM
2

I loved listening to "Zen and the art of motorcycle maintenance". Try it :)
/r/seduction28/01/13 05:52 AM
1

You don't need to be different. You just need to feel, and project, that you are good enough for her. Read the sidebar. EVERYTHING. You will figure it out ;)
/r/seduction28/01/13 05:50 AM
2

The laws of attraction does not differentiate between dominant women and "regular" women. As far as my experiences go, dominant women LOVE assertive men, especially those that likes to be dominated ;)
/r/seduction28/01/13 05:49 AM
1

If your friends don't think you are good enough for their sisters then you should stay clear. Not to sound like a douche, but if "Carl" doesn't approve of you then you should back off his family. Either that, or make him approve of you. If you just want to fuck her though i'd seriously suggest NEXT'ing her. No point in screwing over friendships.
/r/seduction28/01/13 05:36 AM
2

Hah. Good one.
/r/seduction28/01/13 05:30 AM
2

Dude. Right off the bat you come off as needy. You don't want to "risk her moving on to someone else"? That shit won't get you anywhere. Just tell her that you are out of town and that you will contact her for a date when you get back.
/r/seduction28/01/13 05:26 AM
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Alright, now i understand. If you feel bored, try telling her that she is boring or forcefully change the way of the conversation in a playful manner. This way, you make her qualify herself and you don't have to seem like a guy that ever gets bored. If you understand what i mean. Tired as hell. It's 05:50 here, still no sleep after a night out ^
/r/seduction28/01/13 04:50 AM
1

If this is true.... Well fuck....
/r/seduction28/01/13 04:45 AM
2

It depends. Do you go out to get laid or do you go out to meet interesting women (and then get laid)? My first 1-2 years of pickup i just went for what was hot. These days i usually only go for the women that i find fascinating. If i sleep with a girl just because she is hot, i have no interest in her the day after. If i sleep with her because she is interesting, fascinating and makes me feel something different, of course i will feel something after sex.
/r/seduction28/01/13 04:39 AM
1

Totally agree. I usually make statements that makes her qualify herself. Has improved the attraction process for me dramatically. Just wanted to explain how the difference helped me : )
/r/seduction28/01/13 04:33 AM
1

If i could go back and change anything about my previous relationships it would be that i let them impact my way of life too much.
/r/seduction28/01/13 04:25 AM
19

Why would you ever tell a girl you are bored? If i'm bored, i do something about it instead of talking about it. Anyway. My "go to" "line", which i use if i want to test the girls limits or simply amuse myself, is saying: "Gimme your number so we can fuck sometime". Amuses me 10/10 times, which is why i do pickup. Self amusement = golden.
/r/seduction28/01/13 04:14 AM
3

Good FR. Just remember, try not to qualify yourself but rather qualify her. When i changed my "approach" to qualifying my game got SO MUCH better. I'm already good enough for her, she isn't for me. It might not be your taste, but you should try it. Also, tip for next FR: Skip the (). Quite annoying actually. Or make it bold. Had to read it twice. Edit: You don't have to be funny or make the girl have fun. You have to make her invested in your conversation, which you did. So don't worry about her…
/r/seduction28/01/13 03:57 AM
1

As i commented in another reply down here, took me around 50-60 nights of clubbing before i truly started to enjoy it. Don't judge something before you repeat it enough to truly understand all the aspects.
/r/seduction28/01/13 02:09 AM
1

Took me around 50-60 nights before i enjoyed clubbing. I pushed myself since i wanted to expand my comfort zone. Which is actually, in essence, what pickup is all about.
/r/seduction28/01/13 02:08 AM
1

If you REALLY want to try a drug, do Methylone. It gives you the "godmode" feeling and is not NEARLY as dangerous as Cocaine or MDMA. Edit: I'm not suggesting you do drugs, but if you have come to the conclusion that you "have to", do something that isn't really dangerous.
/r/seduction26/01/13 01:13 PM
2

Are you thinking alot when you are in a social setting?
/r/seduction26/01/13 01:10 PM
2

That's needy. Trying to ruin her event to get her? No.
/r/seduction25/01/13 06:11 PM
1

Go out. Talk to people. Talk to everyone. Get to know the bouncers, club owners, promoters. Get to know the people at the coffee shop. My friend that just moved to Korea did this. He now knows the bouncers at every good club in Seoul, has a great relationship with some of the owners and has the possibility of displaying large amounts of value when taking women out.
/r/seduction24/01/13 04:29 AM
4

What i mean is, when guys that are still AFC's use comfortable openers, they usually get too comfortable in the situation and forget about actually seducing the girl, rather becoming their friend. I guess i should have put it better.
/r/seduction24/01/13 01:21 AM
2

I totally agree, and that's not exactly what i meant. What i mean is, when guys that are still AFC's use comfortable openers, they usually get too comfortable in the situation and forget about actually seducing the girl, rather becoming their friend. I guess i should have put it better.
/r/seduction24/01/13 01:18 AM
2

I'm not. My opener is "Hi". I'm just trying to illustrate different points of view of the usage of canned openers.
/r/seduction24/01/13 01:12 AM
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Good thought. And of course, everyone is entitled to their own opinions. However, i think it would make most guys too comfortable with the girl and end up with them loosing their "sex drive" and being friendzoned.
/r/seduction24/01/13 12:55 AM
19

The point is that you are supposed to live the active lifestyle that prevents you from being readily available at all times. Using an app for the purpose i find removes the point.
/r/seduction24/01/13 12:46 AM
12

Not at all. I'd be happy to assist you in any way possible.
/r/seduction24/01/13 12:41 AM
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I did, and i will give you the TL;DR. People like you if you like yourself. If you want them to like you, they won't. If you want them to think you are cool, they won't. Make sure you make yourself look cool, to yourself. Make yourself attractive, to yourself. Make yourself "the baller", to yourself. Don't worry about escalating, kino or any of that shit before you actually have the balls to approach ANY girl / guy you see. When you get them balls, the kino / escalation will come much more natur…
/r/seduction23/01/13 11:16 PM
0

Why do you even hit on the super drunk chicks? I mean, why?
/r/seduction23/01/13 10:55 PM
1

I don't like talking about their sexual life, but about sex. Sex in general. Escalating verbally is really fun to work on and it helps getting progress real fast.
/r/seduction23/01/13 10:49 PM
1

Telling a girl she owes you something is more off putting than not.
/r/seduction23/01/13 10:45 PM
3

RSD. Get Tyler, Alexander or Brad. They are great.
/r/seduction23/01/13 10:44 PM
5

It's an OK canned opener. However, it does send off a weird vibe. Can you elaborate on the "success" you have had with the opener? I mean, i can probably say whatever and the girls will play along as i'm saying something unusual. I'd love to see how it plays out for you, or maybe i will just try it myself. Even though i'm not that into canned openers.
/r/seduction23/01/13 10:42 PM
14

Not exactly daygame, but great FR.
/r/seduction23/01/13 09:21 PM
1

Too much text IMO. Would love if you included a TL;DR.
/r/seduction23/01/13 04:29 PM
1

You could ask him? When i first started this i asked my friends who pulled extreme amounts of girls about their techniques. I like "real life" examples much more than books, but not everyone has an alpha friend. You do. Use it.
/r/seduction23/01/13 04:27 PM
1

Only three of my friends are "in the community" and we are 9 people in the group. We just convinced them that fucking loads of girls is fun and they should join us in doing so :P
/r/seduction23/01/13 03:44 PM
4

I find that if you rather focus on "If i like something, let them know. If i don't like something, let them know" you will actually develop into a natural. If you keep focusing on being nonreactive and actually making an effort to do so, you will have troubles developing a solid game. I hope that makes sense.
/r/seduction23/01/13 03:41 PM
2

Glad to hear! Keep it up man! :) You are on the right track! :)
/r/seduction23/01/13 03:38 PM
2

Me and my friends do almost the same thing. We have a group on facebook and a group chat on kakao talk. We inform everyone about the night, details and all. Help eachother on sticking points and meet up when we need wingmen. Works wonders.
/r/seduction23/01/13 03:33 PM
2

To actually become that man you have to stop trying to become the man. Girls chase men that have the abundance mentality. The men that don't really care about them as they have so many girls in their life.
/r/seduction23/01/13 12:20 PM
3

Usually i say something like "You use instagram? Wow. You're done. Finito. Cya". I don't like it when girls beg for compliments and i make sure they know it. It's nothing "gamey" about why i'm doing it, it's just because i don't want a girl that's like that.
/r/seduction23/01/13 12:08 PM
3

Great choices. I read "The Power Of Now" 1-2 times a year and i love it.
/r/seduction23/01/13 12:02 PM
1

Possible and lived. Both with 2 guys 2 girls and me + 3 girls. Everything is possible as long as you don't settle for shit.
/r/seduction22/01/13 04:00 PM
2

Just commenting on what you said about the three second rule. It's supposed to work like you described. You are not supposed to have time to work out something clever. You are supposed to say "hi". That's it.
/r/seduction22/01/13 01:26 PM
2

Haha. Getting a number is easy once you "master it". Then there is pulling. After pulling it's crazy shit like threesomes, foursomes, fucking in alleys. You know. You have to PUSH yourself. If you keep accepting that getting a number is enough, ofcourse you will think "meh" once you are good enough at it.
/r/seduction22/01/13 01:24 PM
7

Probably being a big pussy.
/r/seduction22/01/13 01:21 PM
2

No. It's not. I have no idea what OP is talking about.
/r/seduction22/01/13 01:20 PM
3

Actually, some girls do call you out but they more often than not find it interesting or positive. But i agree with what you wrote.
/r/seduction20/01/13 11:16 AM
2

Well, everything works if you are genuine and congruent. I have gotten both laid and numbers from this numerous times. But it is, as with all pickup, not 100%.
/r/seduction18/01/13 03:38 PM
4

Norwegian myself. Approach Anxiety. Betyr at du er "redd" for å gå bort til en jente (aka åpne).
/r/seduction18/01/13 02:37 PM
1

I have had some similar experiences like this before and you described them PERFECTLY for someone who is not "used" to threesomes. Not that you ever get "used" to them, but after 2-3 you kinda do all the stuff automatically. My first threesome was a MESS. I wish i had read this beforehand as it would have improved both mine and the girls experiences. Great job!
/r/seduction18/01/13 01:35 PM
20

Before, when i was a bit shy, i used "Hi. Im really shy, but i wanted to come say hi". Worked pretty well, and i still use it from time to time if i see shy girls (they identify with the "Im shy" part and accept you more for it). And honesty is always good :)
/r/seduction18/01/13 01:22 PM
6

Not everyone has AA.
/r/seduction18/01/13 01:21 PM
2

Which episode is this? I want to watch it.
/r/seduction17/01/13 04:15 PM
-2

I make sure she ends and starts the conversation, or, i don't activly make sure but i have too many girls "texting" me that i usually forget. Abundance.
/r/seduction17/01/13 02:06 PM
4

Why not? I have gotten laid from giving away my number on several occations. Relieves me of having to start the conversation.
/r/seduction17/01/13 02:04 PM
6

So true. Never overanalyze anything is pretty much my motto.
/r/seduction17/01/13 02:01 PM
1

I would even pay for this. Sounds awesome! :) Please PM me when it's up so i don't miss it!
/r/seduction17/01/13 07:27 AM
4

Great "FR". And i think you buildt interest due to the fact you actually have the abundance mentality in order (or so it seems). Good job.
/r/seduction16/01/13 09:46 PM
1

It's not a date. You are still single when you meet her. The girl is probably also an immigrant (USA!). Don't think of it as a date. Just don't. Have fun. Have a blast. Things will go smoothly :)
/r/seduction16/01/13 01:01 PM
2

Great tactics. Good read. Upvoted.
/r/seduction16/01/13 12:49 PM
3

Thank you. I have heard that saying before and it's fucking gold.
/r/seduction15/01/13 06:24 PM
0

Also my first thought. Don't matter if she was with a guy there. Worth a shot.
/r/seduction15/01/13 06:21 PM
2

Is it hard to understand? I want all my confidence to come from my perception of myself. It does now and i feel great. Nothing and no-one can hurt my feelings. Which is also why i'm good at "the game".
/r/seduction15/01/13 06:18 PM
-1

That's not the point. I don't want anything from the outside to impact it. Positive or negative.
/r/seduction15/01/13 03:15 PM
-4

I actually don't like being checked out, it gives me self esteem which i don't want to come from other sources then myself.
/r/seduction14/01/13 10:09 PM
3

Only came here to ask why this was labeled as NSFW
/r/seduction14/01/13 09:55 PM
1

I agree. The date brick described is something that would suit really nice in a relationship or something more "long term". I'd go for the sub-10$ date as a first/second date as it's where i have experienced and seen the most success.
/r/seduction14/01/13 09:54 PM
0

Not really. It's nice to take hot girls home. Them checking you out means nothing.
/r/seduction14/01/13 09:50 PM
3

Drop the "what do you want to do". Just say, sure, where and when. Meet up and take it from there.
/r/seduction14/01/13 09:48 PM
1

Indeed, but it should not impact your game in a negative way unless you make it your sticking point.
/r/seduction14/01/13 08:46 PM
1

I think this belongs in /askseddit but to answer your question: You are too "new" at this to constrain yourself. Approach everyone, get good, then you can start being picky. At least this is what i recommend for good progress...
/r/seduction14/01/13 01:15 PM
2

All advice here is for anyone who has any problem with any girl.
/r/seduction14/01/13 10:26 AM
0

If you have perfected your inner persona you won't ever think about surgery.
/r/seduction14/01/13 09:55 AM
1

The point of improving at game is to be at the point where people think "Why does he ever have to leave?". False time constraints suck. Sorry.
/r/seduction14/01/13 09:53 AM
2

Why is it impacting your game? It shouldn't unless you insist on mentioning names during the conversation.
/r/seduction14/01/13 09:50 AM
1

Very true. Being dominant is something you are very aware of and almost any social interaction you are apart of will reflect it.
/r/seduction14/01/13 09:41 AM
2

I have dated 2 "super religious" girls. They were up for anything but vaginal sex. My tip is to not actually discuss religion, as it tends to remind them of their "limits".
/r/seduction14/01/13 09:36 AM
4

Stop while you are ahead. This is just going south.
/r/seduction11/01/13 02:05 PM
3

What is this supposed to be?
/r/seduction11/01/13 01:37 PM
79

Everything you just said is in the sidebar.
/r/seduction11/01/13 01:35 PM
2

My best advice would be to do what i do: Dancefloor = For sexy, unknown fun. Don't exchange information, dance dirty and hook up. Everywhere else = Gaming. Works wonders. I get the perfect mix between sexy, unknown fun and serious hookups.
/r/seduction11/01/13 09:14 AM
3

http://www.girlschase.com/how-to-make-girls-chase This ebook is really good. I don't care how you acquire it, but that's what its called.
/r/seduction11/01/13 09:06 AM
3

I think the best male IOI is that he approaches you.
/r/seduction11/01/13 08:46 AM
1

That quote is so golden. I can't believe it came from Dr. Seuss ^
/r/seduction11/01/13 08:43 AM
3

If you already fucked her, you will be more on her mind if you don't text than if you text. :p
/r/seduction10/01/13 10:28 PM
2

I'm proud of you too :)
/r/seduction10/01/13 09:55 PM
1

Read "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle. I can't recommend that book enough. And about the side question. Of course it's ok. Personally i don't find it optimal, but i have friends who pull chicks like crazy over facebook / text. It's more based on what you are comfortable with and what portraits the real you.
/r/seduction10/01/13 09:54 PM
2

I don't believe in the "Kino" theory. Let me explain: I believe in touching. Gradually "increasing" the touching and all that. But with the "Kino" teachings out there, everything becomes overly complicated. Touching should be a part of you. It should be something you feel comfortable with and something that happens naturally. If you put so much focus on it as the theory states, you will be a bit creepy as the focus is very noticeable.
/r/seduction10/01/13 09:51 PM
1

It all depends on your outlook for success. Mine is that i have fun. When i have fun, i get laid. When i try to hard, i don't. However, getting "blown out" is totally normal. I would suggest not going for opinion openers as they tend to (at least for me) completely destroy the moment. Since you are "hot", i think a simple "Hey. I thought you were cute and wanted to talk to you. My name is ***" would work wonders.
/r/seduction10/01/13 09:41 PM
2

Not really, or, well, from my experience: Nope. I use "hi" 90% of my approaches and i have great results. The only times i don't use "hi" is when there is something about her worth mentioning. Like, if she is wearing something ubercute or whatever.
/r/seduction10/01/13 04:17 PM
2

I would not say that this opener is a "take me home tonight" statement. But guys are idiots. Most guys would think that a girl just wants the D if she comes and says Hi. I would not think so much about your opener, but rather about what you do later in the conversation.
/r/seduction10/01/13 03:57 PM
2

"You look like a nice enough guy, but i'm not interested. Good luck on future approaches though!". No, seriously, the right way is just to turn him down. Doesn't matter in what way. If a guy can't handle rejections, he needs to learn it.
/r/seduction10/01/13 03:54 PM
2

There will always be someone. However, if you think about it, why would you open a guy if sex is not what you are after?
/r/seduction10/01/13 03:52 PM
-6

Best opener is, and will always be: "Hi".
/r/seduction10/01/13 03:51 PM
55

Don't think about escalation at the moment. Focus on having fun. Go out, talk to people. When you get comfortable, and i mean REALLY comfortable with talking to anyone you see then you should move on to the seduction part. I know many disagree with this "progression chart", but it's what i have found to be most successful with my "students" (friends / friends of friends that come to me for help). It helps them be a more social and fun guy, and afterwords they get them girls.
/r/seduction10/01/13 03:49 PM
1

Solid advice.
/r/seduction10/01/13 01:10 PM
5

What did i just read?
/r/seduction10/01/13 12:17 PM
2

The power of now - Eckhart Tolle. Best book out there. Like. Seriously.
/r/seduction10/01/13 10:40 AM
2

Now you are over thinking it. If you and her have a conversation, and it goes well, then you are doing fine. You don't need to validate your social standing when it's already validated (she is already talking to you 1on1 when her friends is right there, isn't she?).
/r/seduction10/01/13 10:38 AM
2

That's just not true. Seduction is about becoming a genuine interesting, seductive and awesome man. If you think it only works for ONS / short relationships you are following the wrong advice.
/r/seduction10/01/13 08:00 AM
5

This is so true. If you don't put in the hours IMMEDIATELY following the bootcamp it's worthless. After my best friend did a bootcamp we went out 7 nights a week for 7 weeks straight. From 18:00 - 03:00. Not saying you have to be that "extreme", but you have to put in the hours after the bootcamp or else it will be worthless in the long run.
/r/seduction09/01/13 05:55 PM
1

Well, i'm pretty unconventional so i'd pick the floor for some fun, but since that's my usual vibe i'd suggest you go for the bed :-)
/r/seduction09/01/13 05:52 PM
1

It's because you go for it. Most guys don't :)
/r/seduction09/01/13 05:51 PM
4

Ok. Best advice ever for watching a movie at your place. Like seriously, this is gold. Tell her your TV doesn't work and pull up a movie on your laptop, in your bed. After that don't think about the kino shit, just gradually touch her, be comfortable, don't overthink it, get laid.
/r/seduction09/01/13 05:46 PM
1

Afaik being emotional (in the way that you come off as caring too much) is never and will never be a good thing for men.
/r/seduction09/01/13 05:44 PM
4

This will sound like a boring advice, but i'm going to say it. Align what you think with what you say. 100%. This will make sure you never (or close to never) end up in situations you don't want to end up in.
/r/seduction09/01/13 05:43 PM
1

You read the wrong Eckhart Tolle book. The Power of Now is by far the best book i've ever read. :D
/r/seduction09/01/13 03:15 PM
1

Do it like Zan. Invite her. Extend an invitation, after that, it's up to her.
/r/seduction09/01/13 03:12 PM
1

You don't. My advice is to never actually casually or subtly direct a conversation towards sex. Be straight about it, upfront and personal. Be a sexual person and make everyone you know aware of it. Works great for me. :)
/r/seduction09/01/13 02:43 PM
4

As KaptainKid wrote a great post, i will just give a small pointer. If you are afraid to ask them out because of the reason you stated you are living in the future. Start living in the present. Ask her out because in that moment you want to see her. Sure, make plans for the future with her, but don't think about it. Be in the present. It will reward you in so many ways.
/r/seduction09/01/13 02:38 PM
1

I dont concider the shopkeeper conversations "people i talk to". I get the number because my vibe is "i'm not looking for an outcome other than wanting to meet you again". Complete, total, freedom from outcome.
/r/seduction09/01/13 11:24 AM
0

If she looks for stuff it's not rubbing it in her face, is it?
/r/seduction09/01/13 11:22 AM
1

Well, the better you get the smaller the differences. I'm at a point where i dont even think about it and everything comes natural. Probably why i dont see a difference
/r/seduction09/01/13 11:21 AM
1

Wait a week, reference the raincheck, if she passes again, wait two weeks, reference, keep it going like that while still gaming other chicks.
/r/seduction09/01/13 09:44 AM
1

Improve your mental state to the point where you are always happy when around beautiful / interesting people, or even by yourself.
/r/seduction09/01/13 09:40 AM
2

10/10 times i have smoked with a girl 1 on 1 it has led to sex. Just sayin.
/r/seduction09/01/13 09:35 AM
1

Its not bad to take a girl to the movies. People say shit like that because they experience bad results when inviting girls to the movies on a date due to the fact that escalation is hard. If you are interested in actually having some fun and progressing with the girl, invite her to the hobbit. She clearly wanted to see it with you, why not? Just don't make the movie the "entire date". As Whiteshado said, invite her for some drinks after, do something fun. Go into the park and play hobbit for al…
/r/seduction09/01/13 09:31 AM
1

I must say i disagree, i find that the only "difference" between "game" is night and day.
/r/seduction09/01/13 09:29 AM
3

First of all: One girl is not a set. A set is two or more girls. Just to have that clear :-) Secondly. For us to help you i think you have to go in a bit more depth on what happened when it "just died". Did you say something? Did you do something? Did she? Do yourself a favor and don't get one-itis on this girl. My advice would be to wait for her to re-initiate and then take it from there. The behavior you describe seems like the behavior of someone who has lost interest.
/r/seduction09/01/13 09:28 AM
1

"Hi. I thought you were cute and wanted to say hello, I'm ***"
/r/seduction09/01/13 09:17 AM
0

Well, if a question comes off as trying to "peg" me, i consider it a "shit test". I mean, if the question is leading in a way that it tries to "peg" me as something.... Meh, hard to explain.
/r/seduction09/01/13 09:16 AM
1

Push pull. If she doesn't reciprocate, back off. Like, really back off. Then re-initiate. Rinse and repeat
/r/seduction09/01/13 09:08 AM
0

That's what brains are for.
/r/seduction09/01/13 08:51 AM
0

I don't send them the posts but i wouldn't mind them reading them. Almost all the women i sleep with know what i do and they have no problem with it. And even if they did, it's not my problem. I don't release their names / numbers / contact information on the internet, just my story to help others.
/r/seduction09/01/13 08:50 AM
2

This man is gold
/r/seduction08/01/13 05:02 PM
-2

I'd call it what it is. An FR. And why hide them? I mean really, are you ashamed of what you are doing? If you are, then why the fuck are you doing it?
/r/seduction08/01/13 01:54 PM
1

Yup! Always smile to yourself.
/r/seduction08/01/13 01:15 PM
2

Why do you have notes on her? Anyway, why do you care if she sees that stuff? My computer is always girl-proof since i don't give a shit about what they think of my browser history or porn. Just let it be and whatever she finds she finds.
/r/seduction08/01/13 12:48 PM
4

That would be epic.
/r/seduction08/01/13 10:04 AM
3

Why so much hate? Because you don't get laid as much as him? Because you don't get away with saying shit like he does? ...
/r/seduction08/01/13 08:38 AM
1

Well, I've been on four cruises and got laid on 3 of them. (The first one i had a GF). I just had fun, took girls exploring the ship, showed them cool stuff (that i found cool). It's a mix between night/day game mindset and you have to move them around (and it's really easy, since it's a safe environment).
/r/seduction08/01/13 06:53 AM
2

He is proving a point. What you say don't matter.
/r/seduction08/01/13 06:52 AM
2

Great job! Congrats! :-D
/r/seduction08/01/13 06:28 AM
1

Confirmed. Being physical is never a good thing (there are always exceptions, some girls do like guys that fight). But being strong and masculine is not a bad thing either, but don't ever threaten someone with physical harm.
/r/seduction08/01/13 06:21 AM
1

Hard to say without being in the situation
/r/seduction08/01/13 04:41 AM
2

1 advice - Have fun! Don't sacrifice anything for fun. As Julien says: Pickup is not serious. It's about having fun.
/r/seduction08/01/13 04:34 AM
1

I get numbers from probably 95% of the people i talk to. So in my experience, the only times i don't get the number is when i have done something "wrong":
/r/seduction08/01/13 04:10 AM
1

That's what i do. I'm all out sexual from the second i meet someone and it's working great.
/r/seduction07/01/13 04:24 PM
2

Ok. I suggest going into more depth with "Inner game". Read and learn that attractive girls are the same as unattractive girls and proceed thereafter. Directly though you can start "removing your AA" by just talking to anyone anywhere. I did this in the beginning when i had AA and now its completely gone. Learn that you don't want or need an outcome from any situation, just that the situation itself happens.
/r/seduction07/01/13 02:11 PM
1

Not necessarily friends. I'd suggest to go for just you and her if that would come of as natural. But it's up to you how you want to proceed :)
/r/seduction07/01/13 02:09 PM
1

C) Ask her to meet you at a bar to grab some drinks. No sushi. No dinner. Nothing "formal". Just some drinks. I'd go for C :-)
/r/seduction07/01/13 11:09 AM
4

Both will. Combine them and you will become a god when it comes to confidence :-)
/r/seduction07/01/13 09:20 AM
2

My friend did an RSD thing when they last were in Oslo. All i can say is that his "game" improved TREMENDOUSLY after the event. Holy S**T. I mean, i was skeptical and would never spend money on that stuff myself, but after seeing his improvement I'm beginning to rethink my decision.
/r/seduction07/01/13 08:11 AM
4

When you reach a good spot with a nice view, grab her and kiss her. Bam.
/r/seduction07/01/13 08:07 AM
2

Well, for us to help you have more fun you have to define what you think is fun. When i first started this "pickup" adventure I have been on the last couple of years i went to rsdnation.com and skimmed through everything. It could provide you with some fun, if that's your cup of tea. Activities, games, sports, hobbies... Random stuff that provides fun. And, if you think that each approach a "pua" makes is successful, you are wrong. We have just learned not to get affected by the blowouts and jus…
/r/seduction07/01/13 08:00 AM
19

Just to start i want to say that I'm chubby. I'm a bear. I have embraced this fact and that's what I'm going to try and "teach" you how i did now. Firstly you have to start EVERY SINGLE morning, and i mean EVERY SINGLE MORNING, with looking at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself: "DAMN. I look good!". At start, it will be awkward. You won't feel that it's true. You will feel like you are lying to yourself. But there comes a moment. A moment where you think: "Well, i don't look THAT bad". Th…
/r/seduction07/01/13 07:23 AM
5

No? I always go for the kiss. It has never led to anything bad.
/r/seduction07/01/13 06:53 AM
1

I think you fucked up when you said that you fuck a lot of your girl friends. She clearly felt special when you gave her this much attention, and you blew it away. Just my thought.
/r/seduction07/01/13 06:24 AM
12

Yes. You should. Always go for the kiss on each and every date you are on. NOTHING negative will ever come from going for the kiss. It shows your intent, that you are a man and that you know what you want and go for it.
/r/seduction07/01/13 06:04 AM
1

I don't usually experience this cause the people (women) i talk to actually genuinely want to give me their number. If they don't want to give you their number, it's because you have "done something wrong" previously in the interaction. So what you do is: Ignore her statement, keep talking, focus on building more rapport and making her interested in you, then tell her to give you her number again. Say something like "Ey! Give me your number so we can meet up later". Remember, don't ask for it as…
/r/seduction07/01/13 06:01 AM
8

Nope.
/r/seduction07/01/13 05:57 AM
6

It probably would work.
/r/seduction07/01/13 05:56 AM
5

Showing intent. Intent. Intent. Intent. Intent. Intent. Don't satisfy with anything but what you want. Intent. Intent. Can't stress the word Intent enough. Tell her she is sexy instead of looking "good". You get the idea. Intent.
/r/seduction07/01/13 05:55 AM
2

Not worth getting mindfucked. Especially not before you have superior game.
/r/seduction07/01/13 03:49 AM
1

I have, it went well, but i don't recommend it. I got laid, but it further fucked up our relationship as friends. But, anyway, the "game" is to help you get into an abundance mentality. You will get to a point where you don't even think about the "past" girls since you will have so many wanting to be with you.
/r/seduction07/01/13 03:08 AM
13

Have fun. Seize any opportunity to try something different. Be the guy you want to be. Align your mind with your actions. Say what you think and think what you say. Talk to everyone. Ditch the people that don't make you happy. Just some pointers. Have fun! :D
/r/seduction07/01/13 03:06 AM
27

Good songs. Yelling out stuff as loud as you can. Calling girl friends / friends and talk about something you find exciting (to pump you up). Start dancing in your room. Be silly. Have fun. Thats what i do :)
/r/seduction07/01/13 02:58 AM
10

Decent message, should be fine. Good luck.
/r/seduction07/01/13 02:10 AM
0

Hmm. This implies that you don't already look good though... I always stick with - "Hey, you are cute, my name is ...." Or something along those lines. Works fine
/r/seduction06/01/13 12:48 PM
1

Good job! :-)
/r/seduction06/01/13 12:31 PM
2

At the moment it's that i have lost my focus on "pick up" and rather focusing more on having fun. It still gets me laid due to my "natural game" but i need to get back on track i guess.
/r/seduction06/01/13 06:41 AM
1

Tonight i got: "That's a shame. You might have gotten lucky." It varies a lot, but i have actually never gotten a "bad" response. Just some responses where i think the logistics would never be in my favor anyhow.
/r/seduction06/01/13 05:49 AM
2

That's not what i said. The subject of work or materialistic things is boring.
/r/seduction05/01/13 03:42 AM
1

"That's boring" and ask a different question seems to work for me.
/r/seduction04/01/13 06:33 PM
13

I love The "i dont put out"text. Used it myself a couple of times with Good results
/r/seduction04/01/13 05:06 PM
1

Of course it can, but it's less than ideal.
/r/seduction03/01/13 08:24 PM
2

If you actually think about it for a second and not dismiss it at once it's really helpful. I talk about whatever i think of, be it video games, a movie i just saw, the people that walk by. If you let what you think become what you say, you will be seen as completely truthful and the girl will have an easier time trusting you.
/r/seduction03/01/13 02:22 AM
1

I love 20 questions as i lead it into a sexual atmosphere. But i don't really like the conversational games so i'm afraid that's all i have to offer. Good luck though! :)
/r/seduction03/01/13 02:20 AM
1

Do as RSDJulien explained when he still lived with his parents. He used public bathrooms, remote parks and dark alleys as "sex-locations".
/r/seduction03/01/13 02:18 AM
1

Why do you want someone that left you?
/r/seduction03/01/13 02:14 AM
3

This was just so messy. She clearly didn't want him there and he failed to pick up every single social queue she was giving him.
/r/seduction03/01/13 02:13 AM
1

Why over complicate things? It didn't end the way you wanted since you probably thrived more for an outcome than for having a pleasurable night. I agree to many points in the post, but it's easier to just sum it all up by saying: Avoid looking for outcomes and rather search for memorable, pleasurable experiences.
/r/seduction03/01/13 02:07 AM
1

You can pretty much say anything and make it work. As long as you don't bow to the pressure of what you said and act like it's natural for you to say such things.
/r/seduction03/01/13 12:12 AM
-2

Whatever comes to mind.
/r/seduction02/01/13 09:52 PM
3

This is NOT what seddit is about. This is NOT what pickup is about. This is SO wrong on SO many levels!
/r/seduction02/01/13 08:47 PM
1

Wait wat? No?
/r/seduction02/01/13 10:43 AM
3

Don't downvote this, but i will give you some constructive criticism: 1: - Her friends came, so you went somewhere else? NO. Engage the friends, get to know them, show her that you are one hell of a sociable guy and that all females love you! 2: - Why was it time to go? You should have told her to go get some food with you, taken her to an afterparty, done something. If you take her on an "adventure" she will remember you in a more positive light and will be even more adventurous with you in the…
/r/seduction02/01/13 04:14 AM
1

My goal on a double date is not to include nor involve everyone. It's to, as quickly as possible, eject with "my girl" to another location. A double date for me is ONLY DONE when the girl REFUSES to go on a single date or if one of my wings needs help. In couples however it's different, just think of it like a normal date but there are two people instead of one and you have to "seduce" them both, mostly the one with the same sex as yourself.
/r/seduction02/01/13 04:03 AM
7

There are no leagues. It's all in your head.
/r/seduction02/01/13 04:00 AM
1

Well... Being a good conversationalist is very hard, at least for me, to be without being face-face with a person. Cause i frankly don't actually converse via text / whatever else. But the idea seems solid. Nice thought, just wanted to give my perspective.
/r/seduction02/01/13 04:00 AM
13

Facebook and Text-messaging are great ways to arrange meetups. FTFY. You should not converse over text / facebook. Only use text-based communication for this purpose.
/r/seduction02/01/13 03:56 AM
3

The "roller coaster" as i like to put what you described is the best way of keeping a girl attracted and interested in you long-term. It's also effective if done "speedy" cause it will make her feel like she knows you better. All in all - good.
/r/seduction02/01/13 03:28 AM
5

She probably thinks you are too young for her.
/r/seduction01/01/13 08:51 PM
6

No underage girls (Norway = 16, but i stick to 18). No girls that can't walk/talk properly (too drunk). That's about it.
/r/seduction01/01/13 08:34 PM
2

RSDJulien @ julienlife.com is by far my favorite. He just released a free manifesto. Also i find RSDTim's Flawless Natural to be insanely good.
/r/seduction31/12/12 11:56 AM
1

Same situation for me. Moobs and belly. Looks dont mean anythig.
/r/seduction30/12/12 03:21 AM
1

Be physical, sensual and don't push too hard. Thats my only advice, or, also have fun!
/r/seduction30/12/12 03:08 AM
1

Don't be sorry. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion
/r/seduction28/12/12 12:11 PM
1

So true. Upvote * 100
/r/seduction27/12/12 10:30 PM
0

Haha. Yeah, i guess knowing the club owner had its advantages :P But, i promised an FR on that day and i delivered. As detailed as i can remember, bit fuzzy :-)
/r/seduction27/12/12 10:08 PM
1

The girls I've been with all tell me that they get insanely horny when they smoke pot. Probably the reason.
/r/seduction27/12/12 08:43 PM
2

It's probably possible, but since it's not essential to you picking up girls i'd rather start with improving other qualities about yourself.
/r/seduction21/12/12 06:32 PM
1

So what you're saying is that you don't really care what gets you laid as long as you get laid?
/r/seduction21/12/12 11:27 AM
4

Of course they can communicate confidence, but don't you rather wish you as a person did that, and not your clothes?
/r/seduction20/12/12 07:29 PM
4

I've never had looks on my side and I've done fairly well for my self since i turned 16... (16 is the age of consent in Norway) Didn't begin with "Pickup" before i was 18 though, which is now four years ago. Looks have never and will never matter. It's your view on how you look that matters.
/r/seduction20/12/12 04:57 PM
1

I wouldn't. I'd go out and find some new girls.
/r/seduction20/12/12 04:31 PM
1

Attaining freedom from outcome is the first step to becoming a real man.
/r/seduction20/12/12 04:30 PM
3

Working out and following fashion is LESS important than you think. It's all about being confident in yourself. LOOKS DON'T MATTER. This has to be said, understood and acknowledged.
/r/seduction20/12/12 04:28 PM
5

In other words: State your intentions.
/r/seduction20/12/12 04:25 PM
-6

I didn't "phrase" it differently, i stated something clearly different. See the difference? Btw, capslock is so 2009...
/r/seduction20/12/12 04:22 PM
5

My best advice: Sit down on a cafe every day for 4-8 weeks (just for an hour, 30 minutes, whatever you have time for) and observe people. Notice what they do, how they do it and just generally peoples behavior. It's what i did and i must say i'm actually really good at reading body language. It has become something i do naturally now, even when i'm drunk i automatically sense things. It's awesome.
/r/seduction20/12/12 03:43 PM
9

How i became one: When i first started pickup 4 years ago i just started talking to EVERYONE i came across while out, introducing people to each other, making EVERYONE have a good time. From there i got hired as a promoter at a club, again, showed EVERYONE a good time. And it just escalated from there. If you focus on making EVERYONE have a good time (BY YOU HAVING A GOOD TIME, not by trying forcefully to do it) you will eventually be a "go-to" guy.
/r/seduction20/12/12 03:38 PM
-2

You are so wrong it hurts. The whole point of PUA is to make your ELEMENT be EVERYWHERE. You are supposed to expand your element into conforming directly with who you are, thereby making where you are and what you say irrelevant.
/r/seduction20/12/12 03:30 PM
2

Good. If that's what you mean about getting personal then it's great. Most guys at the early stages don't know that those are the actual interesting topics that will get you where you want to go.
/r/seduction20/12/12 03:17 PM
3

I wouldn't say that. Attraction and seduction is pretty much pure math if you look at it from the right angle. My point is: If you go for the kiss, even though she rejects you it's in your favour. Why? Many reasons: 1 - You show her that you are not afraid to go for what you want 2 - You actually know what you want 3 - You are a man of intentions and will let nothing stop you from fulfilling them. Many more positives but i cant really be arsed to write them all down at the moment (at work).
/r/seduction20/12/12 11:31 AM
1

You are more than welcome! I will share it with my friends if it has quality as well :-) Free marketing right here! BTW: For personality, if you are going to show some in-field footage, show some really BAD stuff and some really GOOD stuff. Show people that you, as everyone, also will fail at times.
/r/seduction20/12/12 11:29 AM
1

Well, my point was actually that you can be completely honest and tease / make fun of them without actually having the conversation to get "personal". And by "personal" i mean asking what she does for a living and such. If you have another definition, please share it and i will redact my statements. Other than that, I'd like to say again what a great spirit you have and i wish you all the best luck in the future! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! (Btw, feel free to PM me if you have any questi…
/r/seduction20/12/12 11:28 AM
1

Have you made a youtube channel or something so i can subscribe? I want to see this the second it comes out and provide you with the best constructive criticism i possibly can.
/r/seduction20/12/12 10:19 AM
2

Yeah :) I know. Just wanted to help with providing questions. Also, a fun one would be how to push & pull for noobies. Most of the stuff about P&P out there is so damn vague and intended for intermediate "players" but i have had extremely good results with this from the moment i started with pickup 4 years ago.
/r/seduction20/12/12 09:41 AM
2

Solid post. Good man.
/r/seduction20/12/12 09:37 AM
3

Great report. Great attitude. Great guy. Just wanted to add something: It's not crucial to "get personal". And i say this because you usually don't get great results fast when you "get personal". And it seems like you want to improve your game. "Personal" often implies boring, and you don't seem like the type that wants to be boring. Keep up the good work and keep posting reports. Enjoyable read for sure.
/r/seduction20/12/12 09:32 AM
1

That was not my intention either.
/r/seduction19/12/12 09:56 PM
1

Well i do. My number is pretty solid at the moment and very, very few i know are even close to it.
/r/seduction19/12/12 09:40 PM
1

Never? I ALWAYS go for the kiss on the first date. It's NEVER a bad thing.
/r/seduction19/12/12 06:15 PM
2

How do i know if i have gotten laid more than tofu?
/r/seduction19/12/12 06:13 PM
1

Challenge accepted.
/r/seduction19/12/12 06:12 PM
2

Allready done! Worked just fine :)
/r/seduction19/12/12 06:11 PM
5

I will actually vote against this one due to the fact that experience is so much more needed than a guide. Most of the guides i've read and heard of have actually hurt more than helped. Also, "kino" guides are static, the environment and situation where you would implement them are not. Which makes it obsolete. Edit: Still upvoted you sice what i wrote above is just my opinion.
/r/seduction19/12/12 06:10 PM
8

I don't know how to formulate this very well, so i will explain it instead. While so many of us are becoming better and better at this, we still have some newbies lurking around. And while the intermediate "players" know all the basics, i feel that many of the replies / advice that are given here overlook the basics and expects the "noobs" to know them. Maybe a "Best back-to-basics advice" award would be fun?
/r/seduction19/12/12 02:06 PM
1

Yup!
/r/seduction19/12/12 01:42 PM
2

Something that you think is fun. Cause, as i pretty much write in every post regarding this subject, if you have fun she will too.
/r/seduction19/12/12 01:38 PM
6

Well, it's more about how you use it. For networking i use LinkedIn and my phone. If a girl / guy don't want to give me her / his number for future contact but instead want to add me on Facebook i literately see no point in it due to the fact that i spend so little time on it. If people want me to invite me to a party they will send me a text / call me. I also hit on / approach mostly 18-25 year old girls and i rarely have the subject of Facebook come up in conversation. I mean, why would it? If…
/r/seduction19/12/12 01:33 PM
-2

Don't bother with one. I'm serious. The only reason I still have a Facebook profile is due to work, school, some friends that don't regularly use their phones and people abroad that don't use skype. Using facebook for dating reveals too much about yourself (especially the fact that you are online and available, which means you are not out doing awesome stuff). But if you have to or need to use it you should indeed have it as closed as humanly possible.
/r/seduction19/12/12 01:01 PM
2

Epic post. You realize and explain almost all of your mistakes while providing an entertaining but still heart-warming story that brings us all back to our chody days. Good man.
/r/seduction19/12/12 12:58 PM
2

No problem. And again, well written post that brings me more into your reality. If there is anything else, let me know!
/r/seduction19/12/12 12:04 PM
2

The most obvious one is to have fun. Having fun should be your number one priority. As long as you are having fun, people around you will have fun and you will have success. However, you also have to internalize the lessons you learn. Don't dismiss something because it's harsh or because it hurts. Find a friend that shares the same goals as you and go out together, having fun and talking to PEOPLE. (Very important, always start by talking to people. Once you are comfortable with making relations…
/r/seduction19/12/12 12:02 PM
4

Ok so here is what i think... First of all - why so specific goals? Are you interested in improving yourself in social interactions or is this just a way for your subconsciousness to mask that you really wanna get laid and feel that making the systematic approach is the right way to do it? How to change this to the better(again, my opinion): Super short goals: A - Talk to girls i find attractive in my near proximity. (Here; Classes, hobbies, ect.) B - Introduce myself to the new people in my env…
/r/seduction19/12/12 02:11 AM
5

No problem! Have an amazing night! FR INC? :)
/r/seduction19/12/12 01:48 AM
1

Saturday is the 22nd, but i will post the FR on 24th i guess, or 25th. If the night doesn't turn out as awesome as i predict i will use one of my older reports.
/r/seduction19/12/12 01:48 AM
1

Good luck man! :)
/r/seduction19/12/12 12:16 AM
1

Stop thinking about the oldschool PUA techniques and start to follow the techniques described in Blueprint Decoded (RSD) and listen to the stories in Transformations (RSD). If you don't want to do this, there is another option: You see what the problem is, you managed to describe it pretty well, fix it. By that i mean: Stop saying to yourself that you need help to fix it or that it's out of your control. It's not. Just stop doing the things you don't want to do. :)
/r/seduction18/12/12 11:26 PM
1

Just don't get disappointed if your F close rates don't go up for 3-9 months. My best friend, whom is now great at pickup, spent close to a year getting his first real F close (by that i mean the girl was normal, HB8+ and there were no pre-existing bonds between them). Myself however spent around 2 weeks after I got dumped by my ex. It's very varied and don't look to other people for results. Match your results up to your own results.
/r/seduction18/12/12 11:19 PM
1

Ehm. Sorry but, getting the # is fairly easy. I'm in no way saying that 9 / 28 is BAD, but when I go out these days it RARELY happens that I don't get the number. Even if she has a boyfriend / husband / whatever. As long as you project a cool guy that would be fun to be around, who wouldn't give you their number?
/r/seduction18/12/12 11:17 PM
1

Well, I would teach you but I currently reside in Norway so kinda hard to teach proper touching / escalation. Females tend to be very bad at advice, yes, but if you come clean about what you are trying to accomplish, what your hinders are and how you want to improve they will most likely try to help more actively. Just ask them if they can help you improve on how to touch women. And, what I meant was: They should never ACT, they should actually be enjoying it. :)
/r/seduction18/12/12 11:15 PM
1

The blog idea sounds GREAT man. Do it!
/r/seduction18/12/12 11:12 PM
5

Just don't think about it and act like it's not a big deal.
/r/seduction18/12/12 11:12 PM
0

Are you Norwegian?
/r/seduction18/12/12 10:03 PM
-1

All I have to say is: RSD is the only source you need to improve your game. Everything they got is gold.
/r/seduction18/12/12 09:58 PM
1

Ok well, you ooze of confidence (which is good) but maybe a bit too much? You can't know what her decision is / was / would have been with absolute certainty. It's actually impossible for anyone but her to know. However, you are dismissing the points that I made without even considering them. This is not a good trait, especially not when you want to discuss what actually happened. I do get everything you write though, but I also would like to help you "solve" the issue at hand and therefore have…
/r/seduction18/12/12 09:56 PM
1

He never said that. He just said he was the only one competing - as in he is the only one that actually had a chance.
/r/seduction18/12/12 09:54 PM
10

I used to do that until I achieved complete freedom from outcome. You are criticizing yourself because you are attached to the outcome that you wanted with the girls.
/r/seduction18/12/12 09:26 PM
0

Fair enough.
/r/seduction18/12/12 09:25 PM
2

I will, but it will probably be taken down by mods if I include everything. Things usually go way out of hand with those guys... But it's worth a shot :)
/r/seduction18/12/12 09:25 PM
2

Edit: oops, 2 sec Edit2: Here you go: http://www.blueprintdecoded.com/
/r/seduction18/12/12 08:48 PM
1

I think there is a vast difference actually. Seduction is more about feelings, spirituality and connections. Pickup, at least for me, is more about "getting it done". While you still have to seduce, the art of seduction is much more complex than the art of pickup.
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:59 PM
1

First of all, they should never ACT like they are enjoying it :P So obviously you are doing something wrong. Not to be overly harsh or something, but it's pretty clear. Do you have any good female friends that could possibly help you with how to escalate or touch?
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:58 PM
2

How to seduce quickly in hectic environments?
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:57 PM
1

You read it!
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:56 PM
2

It's a seminar (on video) by RSD. Probably the best stuff I have ever seen.
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:55 PM
2

Minge?
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:55 PM
0

Good girl. Nailed it. Single?
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:53 PM
8

It's actually a fact that girls like guys that are unpredictable (it creates a hell of a lot of attraction). You don't need to be a prick to do it, but it is the easiest way. All the happy couples I know, even the ones that are married, are couples where the girl or guy is a douchebag at times to create friction, which again creates attraction. (If you don't overdo it).
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:52 PM
4

Go out on a random night out with the guys and don't pick up her calls. The next morning, show up at her door with flowers or better still send her a bouquet late at night while you are still out with the guys ignoring her calls. This will just make her think that you are cheating.
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:50 PM
2

Ok. So the problem with facebook for me is this: If I'm on the computer, I'm probably doing something for ME. Right? You play games, chat with friends, watch a movie, whatever. Why on earth would I want to, or even project that I'm interested in, talking to a girl when I am spending time doing ME things? Not giving yourself ME time and isolating yourself from such distractions as girls are, is an incredibly unattractive trait to have. Also, if I want to talk to a girl, I want to do it in person.…
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:48 PM
1

Ah, I have tried that sometimes. It's indeed high risk / high reward. Thanks for the first HR/HR opener though :) The one I have been going with these days is: "Hi" "Hi" .... ... ... Drag her somewhere and just go for it. I've had around 10/15% success rate with it but each time it has worked I have "gone all the way".
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:39 PM
1

Actually, since you are bad at night-game and you don't like crowded, noisy places, those places are the PERFECT places for you to practice. Getting good OUTSIDE your comfort zone will make you GREAT inside it.
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:35 PM
1

Just wait it out. I get around 5-10 numbers every night I'm out and around 20-50% (depending on what type of "game" I run) is the usual "callback" ratio.
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:34 PM
1

Ah well then I misunderstood the whole NEXTing concept. If it's what you describe then the downside is NONE.
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:33 PM
2

Ignore the compliment, move the conversation to where you want it to move, take control and move her back to your place for a decent, if not extraordinary bang.
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:32 PM
1

Go out, preferably with friends, and just talk to women. The first week is always the hardest. Just talk to them, try to get to know some more people. After getting comfortable with making new acquaintances when you are out you can proceed to actually picking girls up (using the same methods as while making acquaintances but adding sexual tension).
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:30 PM
1

Willdo good sir. Send me a PM and I will provide the most awesome FR as a christmas presant (going out saturday with all my buds)
/r/seduction18/12/12 05:35 PM
0

Aaaand you managed to get where with these girls? I mean, it's all good being entertaining, but if you are going to do so at least be sexual about the topics so it can lead to some bangin.
/r/seduction18/12/12 04:55 PM
2

Ah ok. Well, there is defiantly nothing to gain by thinking about it too much. Probably she has either found another guy, or rationalized something bad about your relationship. Or maybe she has lost her phone? Maybe something bad happened in her family? My point is: It's not something you can define before actually hearing from her again, and since it has only been one week (or X many days) I would just wait and see.
/r/seduction18/12/12 04:54 PM
1

I feel like I'm writing this too much, but the only advice I have for you is to HAVE FUN. That should be your ONLY goal. To have FUN! The numbers are just a bonus ;)
/r/seduction18/12/12 01:04 PM
3

That text you sent is worth a thousand upvotes. The title of this post however is misleading. How to get a fuck buddy how not to keep her? Don't you mean how to keep her? Or am I just baffled in the awesomeness of the text you sent?!
/r/seduction18/12/12 12:46 PM
2

Learning to not care / Learning to achieve freedom from outcome. By far the most important "skill" that I have learned when it comes to interacting with women.
/r/seduction18/12/12 12:33 PM
3

Have fun. Worry about your own well being and she will adore you for it :) Just have fun :)
/r/seduction18/12/12 10:39 AM
1

I work in almost the same line as you do, "Technical consulting" Which is mostly answering emails / performing installations and such. However, I find this oddly relaxing compared to what I do on a regular basis. It's nice to relax and have peace at mind for 8 hours a day (IMO) :)
/r/seduction18/12/12 10:33 AM
2

First of all, drop the questionmark. Statements work better as texts than questions (from my experience). "Hey, meet me later for a coffee!" Would work, probably, if you had the correct or proper interaction with her beforehand.
/r/seduction18/12/12 10:14 AM
1

As you stated it's her birthday party and it's at a club, I would not get my hopes up that she will deliver. Not to sound negative, but I have been in the situation before and it really backfired (as I relied on the girl beforehand).
/r/seduction18/12/12 08:38 AM
3

You don't ask. If you have good game she will notice your intentions and will notify you if they do not align with her current marital status.
/r/seduction18/12/12 08:34 AM
1

That's actually a great guide, however I'd like to pressure the importance of actually going out and practising this as soon as possibly after reading it. The longer you sit with the information, the less "automated" the kino process will be for you and the more awkward it will get.
/r/seduction18/12/12 08:30 AM
4

I do not approve of this method. I don't like it when guys use "sneaky" methods when trying to pick up girls. It is what weakens the worlds view of our ways. Just pull her aside after class, say that you think she is cute and that you guys going for a coffee would be a great idea. Then pull out your phone and say "Let me get your number and we will meet up later this week". This displays confidence, alphaness and pretty much all the attractive qualities girls are after.
/r/seduction18/12/12 08:28 AM
2

Aight so this is where I'm really beast. I don't give a fuck about what other people think. I'm overly sexual and I'm never shy when it comes to spilling my own juice or listening to others. However, I am also a gentleman in the sense that I treat women with respect. How? Well, I have found that as long as you don't seem to react to what you say, that you are congruent in a way between what you say and how you act, it's all good. You don't need to be more sexual around women to gain success. I a…
/r/seduction18/12/12 08:26 AM
3

Don't go all one-itis on us bro! Forget her, next weekend you will meet new and even more attractive girls. If she texts you for a hookup, great, if not, that girl in the corner looks cute!
/r/seduction18/12/12 08:23 AM
1

A "frame" is very loosely defined IMO. However, i will try to give you my explanation. Your "Frame" is what defines your personality in pickup. If your "Frame" is perfectly aligned there will be congruence between what you say, how you act, in what way you say it, what you make her feel and so on. By building a solid "Frame" you are building a congruence in your personality that is clearly shown when interacting with women. If someone has a better explanation, feel free to edit me.
/r/seduction18/12/12 08:21 AM
3

Nope. Why did you wait so long until you texted her?
/r/seduction18/12/12 08:17 AM
4

No. It becomes too much of a routine (imo). Pickup for me is about evolving myself to the point (where I am now) where if I talk to a girl, she will actually enjoy speaking to me. If you got this covered, your options are limitless. If you follow strict systems or pua techniques like the DENNIS system you will be locked into routine in a way that never actually displays your true self and your chance of a real connection lowers. (again, in my opinion).
/r/seduction18/12/12 08:16 AM
2

Are you awesome? If you honestly believe that you are, and I mean in the core of your soul, then just be yourself. If you don't believe that you are awesome, all you would end up doing is projecting a false image and thereby ruining your chances of appearing awesome. I know for a fact that I'm fucking awesome. I have hundreds of people a year saying differently to me, mostly because I do some crazy shit when I'm out doing pickup (i LOVE high risk high reward), but what do I care? I still don't l…
/r/seduction18/12/12 08:14 AM
1

I used to feel like this as well. Wanting everyone to like me. All until I got this one REALLY good friend that told me, without me doing anything, asking anything or being anyone but myself, that i was the most awesome guy he had ever met. After that I just didn't give a fuck anymore and it truly changed my life. Just think about this every single time you wake up: Apart from your family, everyone that hangs around you, agrees to talk to you or even orbits you: Likes you. It might not be true, …
/r/seduction18/12/12 08:12 AM
1

Rinse and repeat. Very few get it right the first 10-50 times.
/r/seduction18/12/12 08:09 AM
1

What are the upsides to NEXTing a girl? I see none unless she is a crazy bitch, even then the sex would be great so....
/r/seduction18/12/12 08:08 AM
3

Walk into the room, smiling, and wave to a random corner of the room. People will see you waving immediately and think you know someone. This has immediate social value Although I agree with the basis for this statement I also see how horribly wrong it could go. I'd rather try walking in with a mission, lording until you find your friends or a cute girl to introduce yourself to.
/r/seduction18/12/12 08:06 AM
4

First of all, why would you want a second chance? If she didn't accept and approve you for whom you were, why should she be allowed go bask in the glory of who you have become? She doesn't deserve you. Secondly, your mindset is completely wrong. By trying to "prove" something to her you are already demonstrating lower value than her, giving her all the incentive she needs to not believe you. And, last but not least, if you actually did reinvent yourself you should never have to prove it. It shou…
/r/seduction18/12/12 08:04 AM
1

This is my normal opener if i actually see some cute girl, do you have any High risk High reward openers? I like those more than anything else really as I love the tension they bring.
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:58 AM
2

What's the best non-situational opener (preferably really high risk, high reward) that you have used and had success with? How do you prioritise when you are out with a lesser skilled friend than you? Wingman all the way or some other prioritisation?
/r/seduction17/12/12 10:45 PM
2

I have used this A LOT in the past and it's fucking genius. Especially if you just make stuff up but still remain serious. :)
/r/seduction17/12/12 10:40 PM
1

I have a great tip for you guys that me and my friends use. We don't use facebook for things other than having awesome pictures so girls can look us up and keeping in contact with old schoolmates. But lately, or, almost a year ago, we made a group where we discuss our recent conquests. Writing them down in detail and giving each other boosts. It has helped all our game by such immense amounts that it's no longer weekly posts but rather daily.
/r/seduction17/12/12 10:37 PM
1

"Pickup", besides the massive amounts of false information out there, is more about how to acquire the life of your dreams than about actually picking up loads of girls. I "stopped" actively working on my pickup skills when I reached the point where I never have to worry about girls. If I sit around at home playing games, it's because that's what I want to do with my time. If I go out with my buds, I'm gladly the wingman as there is not a single doubt in my mind that I can do whatever I want and…
/r/seduction17/12/12 10:33 PM
2

Good man.
/r/seduction17/12/12 10:28 PM
1

You are showing signs of one-itis again here, by obsessing with the fact that you couldn't lay with ONE girl when there are XXX girls out there waiting for you. Anyway, on topic, in Norway it's pretty common for "high quality girls" to not hook up with their friends "past hookups". Why? Because for them it demonstrates low value. Especially if you know they are friends, and they tend to assume you do.
/r/seduction17/12/12 10:27 PM
2

Lines like this is why I wish I lived in a country where English is the native language. Would work 9/10 times. Edit: If you don't want to answer this kind of "line" you might as well just pretend you didn't hear it and continue the conversation. Whatever you do, don't give her a compliment back. It will just make things for the worse (my experience at least).
/r/seduction17/12/12 10:04 PM
1

Don't plan that far ahead and make sure you don't try too hard keeping them excited. It's not your job. It's their job to be exited BEFORE your date, your job to keep them excited ON the date. And, how do you usually proceed when "going for the" (F) close?
/r/seduction17/12/12 10:03 PM
2

No. It requires some precision to make it work, and seeing as you are asking this question I am guessing you don't have such precision. Basically what you do while doing this is trying to give yourself higher value (noticeably). One of my general rules is to make sure the girl NEVER knows when I'm trying to "acquire value". Usually, acquiring value is not a good thing as it implies your mental state is low value. But sometimes the situation requires it, and then I suggest other methods (best one…
/r/seduction17/12/12 09:58 PM
2

The only tip I have for you is to acquire the RSD blueprint - having the mental state when it comes to girls and pickup is ten times as important as looks. Improving your inner game will drastically improve your confidence and thereafter will improve your game. Good luck man, and if you'd like I'd love your progress either here or via PM. I love success stories and I have no doubt yours will be one as well.
/r/seduction17/12/12 09:55 PM
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Cause guys that can't pick up girls hate guys that can.
/r/seduction17/12/12 09:53 PM
2

Simplepickup does something similar, however that is more directed towards pickup directly and not towards seduction. I'd love it if you went deeper into how to actually SEDUCE after you have acquired that first date or whatever. The first question I'd like answered personally is "What's the simplest way of pulling of fast seduction within a hectic environment" or something along those lines. edit: GOOD LUCK! :D
/r/seduction17/12/12 09:50 PM
1

Ok. Good then :) Should have made that more clear in your post.
/r/seduction17/12/12 10:50 AM
1

Who said it was a joke? When I say stuff like that, I actually send them naughty texts and the results have been great. Gives me a real good advantage the next time I see them as the sexual tension is there already.
/r/seduction17/12/12 10:25 AM
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All I read was how you stole HB8 from your friend. If you are OK with this then nice FR. If you, however, don't like being stolen from then well.... You get it.. And just FYI, "pua routines" are out. Talking about what you want to talk about, inner game as you stated, is the new "in". :)
/r/seduction14/12/12 12:28 PM
3

Don't say No to a conversation even though you have NO IDEA what to say and the guy is ugly as fuck. It gives you practice and him self-esteem. Just my 5 cents. After you have some practice you can yourself start to approach and open males.
/r/seduction14/12/12 11:43 AM
2

The best way to deal with it is to actually break all contact and inform your friends of such action. This will lead you into never actually knowing where she is and therefore not having such issues as you describe.
/r/seduction14/12/12 11:22 AM
10

IMO such thing as actually kissing can't be taught through reading.
/r/seduction13/12/12 11:19 AM
6

Pretty good stuff indeed, however I think that it's a bit over-analysed. Reasons: For beginners: Too much to think about, they just want the kiss. For moderates: Usually get the kiss anyway due to some other methods. For pros: Interesting but have already developed their own methods. Other than that it's a decent guide :)
/r/seduction13/12/12 10:24 AM
1

Good luck!
/r/seduction11/12/12 12:01 PM
5

Afaik - Humans can't control who they are attracted to.
/r/seduction08/12/12 02:01 PM
3

Golden quote.
/r/seduction08/12/12 02:00 PM
1

Everything is worth a try :-)
/r/seduction08/12/12 01:59 PM
-5

When I used to have a girlfriend I kept daygaming, clubbing and everything as usual. I informed her of what I was doing and told her the way it was: I enjoy speaking to girls, getting to know them and so on. She was hesitant but Ok with it after some discussing. As long as I didn't meet them for anything but coffee and thereafter informed them that i had a GF.
/r/seduction08/12/12 01:09 AM
-1

Just remember I'm very positive to your research, but if you are going to do it then it should be done properly :-)
/r/seduction08/12/12 01:07 AM
-1

Math, statistics, whatever you want to call it. If X has Y possibility N number of attempts will increase the possibility if X happening. It's only with 0% possibility that multiple attempts won't increase success.
/r/seduction08/12/12 01:02 AM
0

Just so you know, I love the thought and what you want to accomplish. BUT....It's cooler if you prove that the more you approach actually does not impact your success - even if it's impossible to prove. Cause it's common knowledge that if the number of attempts increase, the probability of success increases (basic math). Anyway, lemme know how it turns out :) Edit: In Norway a "sample size" has to be with over 500 subjects. I don't know where you live but it should be some data about this availa…
/r/seduction08/12/12 12:29 AM
1

Send her a fun text asking her to do something fun. Take it from there. Or be cocky if that's your style. I must say though, weird situation.
/r/seduction08/12/12 12:01 AM
8

Nr 1 - If you want a relationship with this girl, dont try to make her cheat. It's not going to end well for anyone of you. Nr 2 - LD relationships (from my experience) works around 10% of the time. If you could state your intentions with the girl a bit clearer I could help more, but know that EVERYTHING is possible.
/r/seduction08/12/12 12:00 AM
2

I like to make my intentions really clear by using sexual language (not sensual, which is often mistaken for sexual) and telling her she is sexy / hot instead of pretty / cute. Also if she states "you are such a good friend" at any point, I simply correct her or say "with benefits" or something like that. When it comes to Kino it's basically to follow the mood, but you have to start slow to assure that she is also comfortable. Just start with simple touching and move from there.
/r/seduction07/12/12 11:58 PM
4

Afaik, it's not different other than you have to find out if the other female leans towards the same sexuality. I have some lesbian friends and they use the same techniques as I have taught them with great success. The only difference that they have informed me of is that while almost all straight women want a guy with confidence, not all lesbians want a girl with that much confidence. Also, negging / being cocky hasn't always worked for them.
/r/seduction07/12/12 11:56 PM
1

Some of my mates have, and they think it is really fun. It's the way they "entered" the "world of pickup". They wanted something fun and easy to start with, so this is what I told them and they simply love it.
/r/seduction07/12/12 04:33 PM
0

That's 4....
/r/seduction07/12/12 04:30 PM
1

Wat? You are clearly full of BS... Again.... WAT?
/r/seduction07/12/12 12:53 PM
2

Messy text but I think I understand what you mean. So, the girl you are talking about is engaged. You guys went out and had a quick kiss. She found some excitement in her life and wants to further explore it. Problem solved?
/r/seduction07/12/12 12:52 PM
2

If a guy is inexperienced with being witty / is not alpha by nature this response is actually more harmful than helpful. I suggest as I have stated below that he should disregard the question. Anyway, I wonder in what conversations this comes up? I mean, I have only been asked this four times, twice from my exes and twice from random girls where I actually commented about their weight before they did.
/r/seduction07/12/12 12:19 PM
12

Sometimes for fun I answer something completely different than what she asked. Example: So, what do you do? Yeah, I absolutely love bowling! We should do it sometime!
/r/seduction07/12/12 12:03 PM
1

I think you are too focused on the strict theory of "gaming": In "field" kino doesn't even come to my mind. I just start escalating until I get to the point where comfortable and creepy meets, then I back off, get the number and leave (whilst having a fun conversation of course). In regards to your first question: Why do you have to make plans? You can use these girls to practice your text-game. Give yourself a challenge, make her so hot for you that she asks you, or even demands that you meet?
/r/seduction07/12/12 01:44 AM
1

My rule is: I pay when I feel like paying. If I don't feel like paying, I won't. Simple as that really. I really don't care what she thinks as I don't want to hang around girls that judge me for my money (not that I don't have enough of it, but they will never hear me say anything about that until further down the road).
/r/seduction07/12/12 01:37 AM
0

Does she say you are fat or that she is fat? Anyway, what I do if a girl starts to make shallow statements: Simply pretend she never said anything and continue talking about what you want to talk about. Proves that you don't care and that you are comfortable in both your own and her skin. PS: It's usually a shittest - meaning you should give some shit back to prove you aren't one of the beta males wandering around trying to pick up chicks.
/r/seduction07/12/12 01:34 AM
1

I always see it like this: If a girl rejects me, why should I act something at all? It's not as if she meant something to me? She is just a cute girl that i said hi to. Has given me great results and a few turnarounds actually.
/r/seduction07/12/12 01:32 AM
4

So, are you saying you had a wing for a single girl? Or was it a two-set and one of the girls (your target) asked if your friend was single? If you brought a wing for a single girl, you did it wrong. Don't give yourself worse odds.
/r/seduction07/12/12 01:31 AM
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