2 parts to this. First a thank you to this sub. So i read a lot of the stuff here in the past but i never really had the confidence to perform well. Went online and just kinda looked at the confidence of others. figured being happier was worth a little awkwardness. Got some great reception which further boosted my confidence and now im completely comfortable around strangers.

2nd. I've noticed girls i tend to attract are not so single. Is it just a thing where girls will try to cheat with other people if they are in certain types of relationships? or is this just a coincidence. So is there a way to avoid this type of thing occurring or best to move on?