Bad date with girl in major friend group. Damage control?

Pantsuz · 2013-01-14T15:05:57+00:00

uh, dont worry about it. Chances are if you dont care she wont care. Problem solved. continue hanging with your friends and her. It'll be a joke a year from now.

teamatreides · 2013-01-14T15:27:19+00:00

Being the same, happy, funny, alpha personality I've been cultivating with everyone else in this group.

Maybe you cultivated expectations of a good kisser too? I haven't really read much of what is on seddit, a passing curiosity, but I am thinking that you should be employing more than just seduction techniques if this is a woman you really dig, you know? Trying to cultivate an image is one thing, and I understand that and it's great, but you also want to be sure that you're no misleading her about who you are, if you are serious about her. But maybe seddit accounts for this? I'm not sure.

If you're confused about the change, just ask her. If she mentions the kissing, find out what she didn't like and see what tips she has to offer you. Maybe engaging in conversation will show her that you can communicate when there is a problem. At the least it gives her a chance to be honest with you - but you two being in a close group of friends can complicate things . . . I feel like the complication is something the two of you manifest. Reassure her that you don't want to take this too personally, but that you would appreciate being able to learn from your experience so that it may not be such a problem in the future.

puaCurveBall · 2013-01-14T16:46:02+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT)

Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many sidebar guides.

Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know

Title	Bad date with girl in major friend group. Damage control?
Author	rowecon
Upvotes	7
Comments	3
Date	January 14, 2013 2:58 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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