Free 170 page ebook: Johnny's Journey: Critical Lessons from my Involvement with the Seduction Community

sapzapfap · 2013-01-19T22:25:32+00:00

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blindwombat · 2013-01-20T10:34:32+00:00

What Sleazy talks about isn't exactly a revelation in the PUA world or in the general context of "self help" gurus.

The way any self help society makes money is by making you feel good and getting you to keep coming back and spending money. What's the easiest way to make someone feel good? To externalise blame and problems. You see it everywhere its not you its the women/its the sinners in the world/its the business you apply for/its the idiots racing for their graves/its because you aren't praying enough/its because you're eating those organic foods instead of our weight loss range.

The model of any self help program these days: if something goes right internalise it (it was me and the program I'm on) and if something goes wrong externalise it (all girls are frigid). Promote the positive and bury the negative. If you include this in the mess of other promotion tactics: "anyone can do it", "instant results", "in 30 days you'll notice a change" the PUA is no different from a weight-loss drink that says as long as you drink it as part of a balanced diet and exercise regularly you'll see results.

You'll always find quotes on PUA forums like: "since I've started going out I've met so many girls", well no shit? How many girls do you meet in your bedroom on a Friday night?

Here's what I think about seddit, it's self improvement focused and from what I've read there is very little externalisation when things go wrong. Lots of posts here speak of being genuine and getting to know your inner self as a foundation of you game. Bringing out your best self and working on flaws instead of trying to be someone new and patching over those flaws.

There are so many communities out there that go from being self improvement forums to generic women-hating, crisis of man, anti-feminine (not anti-feminist) societies. Don't be one of those seddit, keep on doing what you do best.

FlashedBlaze · 2013-01-20T05:28:41+00:00

Hmm very interesting book. I'll admit there is some shit here that I don't try, such as really direct openers. However this community has helped me a lot. Kino works really well as long as you have made them smile 5 times( My personal rule). My inner game has improved greatly, I am a much happier person. Also a little bit of teasing rather than asking those generic "What's your major" question goes a long way. I wouldn't say I am a PUA but this is fun xD. I like reading the FRs and I like going out talking to strangers.

Title	Free 170 page ebook: Johnny's Journey: Critical Lessons from my Involvement with the Seduction Community
Author	sapzapfap
Upvotes	7
Comments	4
Date	January 19, 2013 7:30 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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