Met a girl in the club, she lives far away. How to keep attraction.

nittutt · 2013-01-29T04:10:24+00:00

The thought about maintaining attraction with a girl that lives that far away is AFC.

Seriously, don't get oneitis on this one.

The furthest away for my standards is 30-60 minutes by subway/bus/train. This makes it easier for both parties.

However, since you claim that she will be moving closer to you in a few months, i guess it's more a judgement call.

I wouldn't go for it though, even though it would be some good practice. Too much wait for results, not my style.

TheHawk2011 · 2013-01-29T04:45:46+00:00

you have to remember this man, there are to many girls in this world to get hung up on one. Distance just sucks. It's a huge hinderance when there is a gap like that. You simply cannot afford to put much into this unless you like just watching all the other opportunities with local women pass you by. Sure, you had a fun night, met someone awesome. Remember that night forever, continue being her friend but move on. There are other girls just as good as her, and better, that live right where you do.

kingcal · 2013-01-29T10:07:21+00:00

Just move on. If she texts you, answer, but there's no real reason to waste on this one at this time. If she does move to your area, you can start working on her then.

puaCurveBall · 2013-01-29T15:53:55+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

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Title	Met a girl in the club, she lives far away. How to keep attraction.
Author	pua_throw
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	January 29, 2013 2:50 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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