I figured it all out and i will call it caving.

  • go in a club
  • think of every person in your life who loves you for who you are
  • figure out why they love you
  • realize that you have a life full of people who love you no matter what

your mindset should now be independent from the outcome

  • say your friends you need to go to the bathroom alone
  • act as if you are unable to find the bathroom
  • check out every corner with every girl as you act reasonably searching the bathroom. keep it fast, not creepy

your playground has mental notes of good locations and future victims

  • be the first who goes to the bar
  • small talk with the barkeeper+ tips
  • go back to friends but keep an open frame away from your group
  • don't stand around or sit down. Keep it fresh and lead your group to the playground.
  • Have fun, make fun of the cheesy music, keep it light

Don't approach any women, don't let them catch you seeking. Be cool. Be yourself As you smile and enjoy the safe companionship of your group, initiate small glimpses of eye contact with girls surrounding you, keep smiling. Nevermind wich one as soon as a girl answers your eye contact, be more open towards her. Don't grind her.

At this point there are a million possibilities to make a move. Be creative. Don't use openers. Dont touch her. If she is very responsive be touchy but never use your hands. Make a statement, an observation from a detail of the club or ask something witty about one of her accesoires. Don't be creepy or offensive. As soon as she reacts, look for her girlfriends, you are a man with options and you want to know more about her best friend. Leave your victim for a small talk with her best girlfriend. She will be very responsive. Go back to your group. Congratulations, you have created interest.