I went out because of the advice I read here about Vday and it ended up being true. I found it easier to approach girls but maybe it was just me and how I was portraying the situation.

Anyways, I met this group of girls last night in line to a bar/club with some friends of mine. There was a girl in that group who was super sexy looking. I saw that she kept giving me looks and I made sure not to break eye contact until she did (I had problem with eye contact but now that I am aware of what I was doing, I'm working on not looking down or away). They all ended up getting to cut in line and I didn't see them till later. Later in the evening, I was talking to this one girl being the wingman for my buddy as he talked up the girl he was interested in. While I was talking to her, I saw that sexy girl was right over the shoulder of the girl I was talking to. She saw me and started giving me those looks again and this time I gave them back as I talked in the ear of the other girl. She seemed to enjoy it. The night continued until last call and everyone started leaving. I saw the sexy girl walking past me so I stopped her. I gave her a few compliments on her looks (I truly thought she was the hottest girl in the bar and I let her know that) and she responded with how she liked my style. So I told her I had to get her number. She was down. She put her number in my phone, told me to text her so she can get mine and mentioned wanting to go out soon. I didn't. I wanted to wait. A few moments later I was talking to the bouncer about his job... The dude has his Masters and is working on getting his Ph.D. I was blown away by his story. As I was talking to him, that sexy girl walked behind me and ran her hand through my hair. She kept walking but looked back and gave me that damn sexy look again.

This is where things make a turn for the weird.

I leave the bar, get a friend to drive me to my car (this too was also a successful night for not needing to get drunk to talk to girls. I was pretty much sober) and as I was getting ready to drive away a guy my age stopped me. He wanted a ride up the street. I felt charitable so I let him in. We talked and he seemed like a really cool guy. We liked all the same stuff and we talked for a bit just getting to know each other. He wanted me to hang out with him and his buddies and I was down... The guy was cool so I let him put his number in my phone. I was letting him out in front of his house so I could park but as he was getting out.... He took my head brought it close to him and went in for a kiss.

I stopped him before it happened. I responded with "whoa hold on.. I'm not like that." I think he was embarrassed. I was totally caught off guard. I did not see that coming. I did not think he was gay at all. I don't look down on the guy for being gay, all I was thinking of was how close I was to getting kissed by a dude.

I end up leaving and when I get home, I remember to text that girl. The problem is that the only number that I have featured in my contacts is the guy who wanted to kiss me. I take a look through my contacts and I realize I never asked that girl what her name was.... There are also many names that I am not familiar with that I have gathered in my previous drunken nights. It kills me knowing that girl wanted me to take her out but I have no idea who to look up in the sea of my contacts.