This is my first field report.

Went out to a party last night because it was some girls birthday, it ended up being one of the best parties I've been to in a long time. They made like ~15 gallons of Jungle Juice and the house never got over crowded or filled with tons of randoms no one knew. It was about 70-30 girls to guys the whole night. The vibes were awesome.

I noticed two girls standing near the beer pong table HB 7(glasses) and HB 9 (sweedish). I approached them both and asked if they would like to play my buddy and I in a game of beerpong. They were delighted to oblige, so I then asked them their names and where they were from. Found out HB 9 was from Sweeden, an absolutely stunningly sexy Blonde haired, Blue eyed beauty.

So we play through the game of beerpong and beat them pretty badly, all the while I'm making playful eye contact/ banter with HB 9 and laughing with her when things happen. At the end of the game my friend walked off to go get another drink and she came over to my side and asked if she could be my partner. (Huge IOI). We played a few games together over which I began to learn a bit more about her, turns out her interests are dancing, crossfit, and vodka. (Hell yes!!) At this point I was really vibing well with her, we were engaging in some mutual friendly kino. Her hips were open to mine as we talked, our faces were continually drawing closer when I would make her laugh (which was often). She would give me a high five every time I made a shot but her hand would linger on mine just slightly longer than normal. So we finished our games and I walked off from the table to go and get another drink, she went over and began speaking to glasses again, who my buddy from earlier had started chatting up.

Fast forward about an hour and I'm talking with Sweeden again only this time its pretty much just flirting and playful banter. I literally walked up to her with a screw in my hand I had found on the floor early and presented it to her with the biggest shit eating grin on my face and said "Hey sweedish, wanna screw?" (This is so much fun to do and I reccomend doing it with women you have already established rapport with). Its fun and its silly but it gets her thinking about you sexually in an innocent way. She responded yes, and tried to take it from so I said "too bad its mine" and put it back in my pocket.

I was teasing her about her "long dangly sweedish arms" winning that beerpong game for us. Around this point in the conversation my wing girl came over (she apparently knew sweedish) and starts talking me up to her outright. (Dudes female wingmen are the SHIT they say exactly the right thing everytime, having girls who will wing for you is the best thing in the world). She just started telling her about my MMA career and Sweedish immediately wrapped both her arms around my right arm. (I freaking love it when women do this its so endearing). She held onto my arm sort of feeling the muscle up and down for the next 5 minutes or so.

I decided it was time to escalate further so I worked us towards a more quiet corner of the house, she had her hands on my torso. I looked her in the eyes, placed my hand on her face and went in for the kiss. She turned her head slightly so that I only caught 1/2 of her lips. "I can't kiss you" she said. "But you want to", I replied. "I have a boyfriend...but he is all the way in Sweeden" Very sly smile from her.

Now at this point I had two options. 1 being that this girl was obviously still willing to get with my or else she would have never dropped a comment like that while keeping physical contact, so I could rescalate and continue pushing for the kiss...

But as unfortunate as it may be, I had to go with option 2. I immediately replied with "You really shouldn't be putting your hands all over other men if you have a boyfriend." See I have huge standards when it comes to this type of thing. Sure, I would have never met this guy in a million years and he would have never found out, but I dated a girl once who cheated on me with many men, and I don't wish that feeling on anyone, even my worst enemy.

So at this point I kind've backed off from her a bit. But the story has a happy ending She was still being touchy/clingy, but she decided to go off to dance for a bit. About 20-30 minutes later I see her dancing with my buddy from earlier and they are really vibing well. I had been talking him up to her all night. I'm not sure how it ended because I haven't talked to him yet today, but as I was leaving to meet up with some friends at a bar she was dragging him into a bedroom in the hallway. So everything went perfectly!

On a side note, because of the amount of time I spent talking/vibing/kinoing with sweedish last night, I had two seperate groups of girls approach ME outright and ask my name and spend 10-15 minutes talking with me before I told them it was a pleasure meeting them and moving on . This did HUGE things for my confidence because it was two seperate groups of two girls. (all in the HB 5-7 range). It just really hammered home the idea that women pay a lot of attention to who the other girls are in the room and who they are talking to and who is having the most fun.

Moral of the story, stick to your guns, be confident and funny. Be YOURSELF and don't compromise your standards, even for a flawless Blonde haired blue eyed sweedish girl who you really vibe well with. Don't be afraid to be the one to start kino and keep it going if you are getting positive signals. Thanks for reading.