Yes, this is a complete guide. Yes this is ridiculously long. But honestly I think it's one of the shortest guides you'll find for beginning game. Plus I think it's more comprehensive than most guides of similar size.

Okay, so I think a lot of people on here approach the whole idea of seducing a woman with the wrong mentality. To me mentality is literally 100% of the game, so I think having the right mentality is a requirement. So I thought I'd make a list to put a noob in the right frame of mind to learn seduction. I know it's kinda long (that's what she said), but it's literally a complete guide. This is all you need to start getting a fair amount of women, probably enough to be recognized by most as a player. Some of this goes against Seddit's consensus, but I only speak from street experience. I used to go strictly off of material but a while back I decided to stop listening to others and go with my own observations to improve myself, not only as a person but as a seducer. This is what I came up with.

1) Unless otherwise shown, assume men and women are the same. Nobody wants to believe this but it's true. So many guys make seduction 1000x harder by trying to figure out what women want. But what they want is the same thing men want: to feel good about ourselves and surround ourselves with people who do that for us. That's it. That's what chemistry is, two people who make each other feel lust/affection/love doing so. The point is to assume the logical decision. Make this as easy on yourself as possible, and it will become easier. If a girl doesn't text back, ask why you wouldn't? Me, it's because I either didn't get her text/busy, or I wasn't interested in her. So when a woman doesn't text me back I assume the former the first time and the latter the second.

2) It's all about your mindset. People can feel your energy when you're talking to them. If you are angry people can usually tell. If you're depressed, it shows, and if you are enjoying life to the fullest it's written on your face. If you don't feel confident around the girl you're talking to she's going to sense it most of the time. Even if she doesn't, you'll think she is and then she will. You really do have to stay positive. Women can sense things like bitterness, pain and sorrow. IMO if you aren't in the right mood going out can be counterproductive. You won't get laid if you're in a bad mood, period. And if you can act enthusiastic and happy while you hate yourself that's cool cause you have the ability to act. Unfortunately some of us can't so we kind of need to be happy with ourselves and feel sexy before we'll have success. If this is you, that's okay cause we have tricks. How do you stay in the right frame of mind?

3) Get out of your own head. Seriously, stop. That's almost all of the game right there. If you feel yourself starting to wonder what you're doing or if you start going into any sort of analytical mode, do something intentionally to make your thoughts stop. If you're in the club look for some crazy cleavage or ridiculous ass to divert your thoughts. Move around if anything. Just find something to disrupt yourself. If you do it while talking to a girl, just start repeating in your head what she just said. You'll remember what she says and it will keep you occupied while she's talking (don't mouth the words). If you can be in a good mood and stay out of your own head, you'll literally be 50% of the way there and already more attractive than most guys. Ultimately ask yourself only, "How I I feel right now, and what will it take to feel better?" Sometimes asking this leads you to that girl with the ridiculous ass. You may be wondering, "How can I improve my seduction skills if I'm not paying attention to what I'm doing? Well that leads to:

4) Be yourself. I know people hate this advice but it's true. I know you're thinking, "But if that's the case how do I learn how to get better with women?" And the truth is you don't, at least not by observing and changing things about yourself. You get better with women by understanding what they want more than a certain attribute or characteristic is a guy who owns who he is. You can be whoever you want, as long as that person is genuine. There are admittedly some things that are deal-breakers with women, but the cool thing is they don't all have the same ones. Some women don't give a fuck if you're bald, don't make a lot of money, are out of shape, etc. Some women out there are going to love all the things you are and hate all the things you aren't, just as you are right now (and yes, some will be hot, too!). So take whatever personality you own, put it on, and wear it like a fucking Armani suit. When you do this, you will start turning women on...like seriously turning them on (but usually only the drunk girls will make this obvious). I know oddly enough being yourself and having confidence is easier said than done, but remember confidence is simply trusting your instincts. You know what to do, you just don't think it's right. The only difference between you and that dude getting the girls is he is going with everything he thinks of, and you should too. It will feel uncomfortable at first, but if you tough it out the rewards are infinite. The only way to be confident is to like and trust whatever it is that you come up with on the fly. Just remember that you have to go with what you've got because it's all you have. It's cool though, you find the times your instincts fail you are well worth the times it proves you right. And not only that but you'll learn from your mistakes. So, now that you have confidence you need a game plan. There are many out there but the theme of all is to:

5) Stay on the offensive, not defensive side. I heard someone say "act instead of react." This is a game, It's a fun game, but it's most fun when you're on offense :-) When you're not taking charge and coming up with the ideas, which won't be a problem if you trust your instinct, you're not playing offense. And if you don't play offense nothing will ever happen between you and women...ever. Women don't play offense hardly ever, in fact the vast majority of women will let you know they like you through more passive means like not pulling away when you put your hand on her leg; in other words she says yes by not saying no to your advances. To milk this game analogy for all it's worth, remember simply that the offense scores, and the defense doesn't. And I don't know about you but I love to score. :-) So...just take the ball, she wants you to have it.

6) When you are able to do these things--stay positive and happy about yourself, stay out of your head and non-analytical, comfortable in your own skin, and sincerely know that you have the ability to take the lead with a girl, you start to realize it doesn't matter how any woman wants you to act (or man for that matter), and you can be whoever the fuck you want. When you finally realize this, then you should start reading about seduction. If you think you suck, and are trying to "fix" yourself in order to become someone you're happy with, coming on to Seddit is the worst idea ever. You're going to get validation for your feelings of inadequacy. And when you don't find what you're looking for you'll keep looking until you find yourself on here EVERY DAY trying to "become an expert at seduction," when what you really want is to be happy. That's a baaad idea, and for some who may have depression it can even be harmful. Remember the sexiest thing on earth is self-esteem. Learn that you are okay just the way you are before you change yourself.

7) Finally, this isn't related to anything else directly but I can not emphasize enough how great of an idea it is to work out! This is hands down the best thing you can do to get women, because it changes the way you see the world to a much more seductive view. It's not just the looks either, but yeah you'll look hotter. But not only that people are attracted to similar people so fit women will start finding you more attractive (rMs. Ridiculous Ass does her squats three days a week and is attracted to men who have the same dedication to their physique). So not only are you attracting more, higher-quality women but you'll feel better about yourself, too. Your confidence skyrockets because every day you look in the mirror and see a result of hard work. It's constant reassurance you can do whatever you want with your life! And then, if unflappable confidence, physical beauty and higher quality women aren't enough, the self-discipline involved will make the hardest tasks of your life seem manageable. Plus, women get wet at the idea of a man with lots of self-discipline. It doesn't have to be working out, but anything that took time, dedication and patience to learn is going to get you a ton of sexy karma. I don't know why women respond to this but I've seen it and you will too, probably. It is what it is.

So there you go. I know it's a lot but I seriously think I put in two pages 95% of the game. If you have any questions just reply. I stay pretty busy so it may take me a bit to get back to you.