Hi guys.

This is my first post on reddit at all but I've lurked for long enough and I finally feel like I have something more significant to say. I guess a little background might be helpful to start with. I graduated college back in May and my experience with women and sex was limited to two LTR's. The first LTR I was very beta but I was getting laid and lost my v-card to the girl. The downfall of that relationship was my friends finally saving me from my betaness and my realization of the crap I was putting up with. The second LTR was with a much nicer girl, but it ended for a few reasons. I didn't love her like I thought I should and felt incapable of it (with her). I was beginning to feel a hunger for an upgrade to someone more attractive that could bring out that feral passion. I ended the relationship about a month after graduation and continued life as usual hanging out with my friends who still lived in my hometown. Life was great, I was in a greater Beta stage and didn't care about having a girl at all.

So the summer ended and all my friends had to go back to school. I was feeling pretty lonely so finding a girlfriend was high on my list of things to do. With this new resolve I started trying to be a little more social at work and started talking to a female coworker [HB8.5]. Things were going alright but sometimes we had a hard time relating to each other's life experiences. But I was alone and needed someone to hold on to (this is a post realization). We ended up dating for about a week, and the passion was there but I was really out of it and didn't know how to fan the flames into something sustainable. She broke things off with me and we went back to just friends and coworkers. I hit a real low point here and went through a 24 hour depression, I felt more alone then ever, I was able to pick myself back up though by going to the gym and squatting till I thought I was going to die (This usually fixes any sort of emotional issues I may have).

About a week after I found Seddit. I dove in feet first reading everything and anything seduction related that this community recommended. I found myself continually feeling better and started to piece together a social life plan and an unshakable confidence. I had that realization that I had made out with an HB8.5, and she found me attractive enough to get it started in the first place (This is where my confidence exploded, all the dominate body language was feeling natural). Through the information recommended on seddit I learned that it was my responsibility to make sure I was a more interesting person. I took the advice, stopped playing video games, and picked up all sorts of skills and hobbies(bar tending, motorcycle license, Argentine Tango, and teaching myself Spanish). I now suddenly had something to talk about in my life besides Lifting weighs. This too drove my confidence higher and higher.

As the months went on I found a good group of guys to go out and wing with. Sometimes were a great influence on each other and other times we let one person be so negative that we all fail. More importantly though is I started to get lots k-closes. I was able to kino way more then ever before and started to understand more on how women's attraction works.

So back to the title of the post. I was traveling for work this week to a conference, and was out with a couple of coworkers at a bar across from our hotel. We were drinking around a table next to a group of people who were attending the same conference and we would occasionally talk to some of the people in their party. One girl seemed very outgoing and walked to the bar to get her table the next round. I seized the opportunity and joined her at the bar. I started making comments about alcohol for an opener while going with some light kino. She kino'd back... I knew at this point that my chances of at least making out with her were incredibly high. I then formally introduced myself at her table and began getting to know the people on an individual basis, ignoring the HB7 sometimes with the push pull mentality. The night went on and the kino had really really escalated but I withheld the kiss for a long time. When we were 5 minutes from leaving I finally kissed her and she immediately said to wait and not do it again while she said goodbye to her friends. After she said goodbye we went back to her hotel. The second we got in the elevator I went full Alpha. I had her up and on the wall making out till we got to her floor. Once we were in her room I picked her up and threw her on the bed and had her clothes off within about 30 seconds. For the next two hours I had the greatest sex I've ever had. She had a plane to catch a few hours later so when she was leaving she had her cab drop me off at my hotel. No number exchange, and I don't even know her last name.

Thank you seddit, you've taken an absolute Beta and brought him to lesser Alpha status for now. I'll take over from here on out though it's time for me to be a real Alpha all the time.