Me: Checking out the Pier tomo evening. Come with and give me costume ideas for Halloween
Her: You're lucky that Halloween is my favorite holiday But also the Pier is so beautiful!

I’ve been getting a lot of this. I’ll get a number. Initiate some banter. Go for the meet up. And theyll respond with some wishy washy shit that says neither yes or no. Seems like they need more of a reason to meet up with me.

They’re indirect No’s in my opinion but then why would they even respond. Anybody else deal with this? Do I engage and go for the meet up again or just leave it at that?