Hello there. I feel like with most girls from the "real world" I can just do cocky&funny > merge into authentic comfort and it works pretty well for the most part.

However, with girls that are a little nerdier, a little bit less pretty, and maybe a hint insecure (IE, the type of girls that I really like), the C&F thing obviously doesn't work at all. The girls just don't have a high enough ego for it to work IMO (though I could be wrong as to why). And I feel like even if I tone it down...it still doesnt click.

I feel like the wall I'm running into here is a clash of goals: a lot of pick-up/seduction advice is geared towards developing consistent efficacious strategies for picking up very pretty/attractive women, whereas I'm more into slightly nerdy girls.

Advice? Honestly, my mind was blown with how well C&F worked when I tried it suddenly one day, in contrast to my previous typical nice-guy persona. Just wondering if anyone has any ideas for engineering girls in general that are similarly effective.