How I Messed Up My Social Standing In A Group And What I Learnt From It

It has confused me from the start how to properly neg. I learnt how to do it improperly and instead of it coming off as a subtle IOD I ended up overusing it/using it in the wrong way, and coming off as an insecure dick who was inauthentically trying to bring people down to my level. As a result, instead of becoming attracted to me, the women who I talked to became:

• Distant
• Pissed of at me
• Unattracted

So the lesson in my view is: LEARN HOW TO USE NEGS PROPERLY BEFORE YOU USE THEM