Went blues dancing last night, which is an interesting place to meet people. Lots of fun, and I met a ton of fun people.
I wasn't trying to pick anyone up, I was just out enjoying the night, but I had a girl ask me out for coffee (never happened before). She's an HB6 with a cute face and she's a skilled dancer so her hips are incredibly hypnotic... I digress. I didn't think she was interested, but some of these woman have these poker faces that I haven't figured out how to read. I can only image the women that I passed up because I didn't think to flirt with them a little last night.
Anyway, it seems obvious for some of you folks, but until you try it you wont believe it. The lesson of the night: flirt a little and see what happens, it's not offensive. I was under the impression that it was only appropriate to flirt with people at bars, or what were in my mind "designated flirtation zones." Clearly this is not the case, I'm an idiot. The first of many lessons I hope to learn.
I also wanted to thank this subreddit. I started my journey of self improvement at the beginning of the year. I've been working out, dressing well, eating well, and developing healthy habits all with a sense of purpose. People at my work are gravitating towards me, and I'm beginning to develop healthy relationships outside of work. Anyway, thanks, y'all are great.
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