This is my first FR, so I'll keep try to keep detailed in the important areas, and concise.
Edit: This ended up being really long, if you read it you're my hero!
Background
I've been reading and learning (a little) game for years and years now. Initially I focused heavily on Inner Game, and a little on outer game (really general stuff like DeAngelo's C&F), and have had varying levels of success in the past. I've been lucky enough to be able to date a few women at most times, but I think it's mostly because I'm a little handsome and my Inner Game is strong and congruent now.
I'm now focusing more on outer game and specific techniques in order to improve my quality and get more comfortable with escalation.
Setup
Last night I was out with friends in a nightclub in Argentina. Everything starts later in this country, so we arrived around 2AM and by 3AM the club was packed. This particular city has just tons... and tons of beautiful women, so although this was an off night there was still a good crowd including some beauties.
After shaking off some initial AA, I started introducing some random girls to my friends. I make up some silly excuses for doing this, I find it helps me get into state and raises the perceived quality of our group dynamic. Also a rejection is easier to take because it's literally a joke and doesn't reflect on me. Good wingman move!
The Set
I ended up opening up a set, maybe HB6/6/7/7. One HB6 immediately engaged me (I'd like to think I was throwing good body language and eye contact), and after dancing with her for a bit, HB7 jumps in.
She wants to know where I'm from, and I say, "Guess!". She smiles and laughs, and I say "Let's play a game. Give me your hands (take her hands), guess a place and if it's closer I will press your right hand (press right hand) if it's further away I will press your left hand (press left hand)." I picked this up from a thread here the other day, I think this is really nice actually, it's playful, not a big jump on the kino ladder, and allows you to maintain physical contact while you tease, flirt, etc. Worked well, we got a little closer and she couldn't guess so I got to hold it over her head: "You're not very good at this! Don't worry, I'll tell you later. ;)" This managed to keep her coming back for a long time.
Escalation
HB6 continues to draw my attention, and I'm dancing with her, we start kissing (which is more common here than in the US) as we're dancing. HB7 seems to be fighting her for my attention, pulling me away every now and then to ask me questions. So I joke to HB6 "I think your friend doesn't like you talking to me, maybe let's go for some air. ;)"
HB6 looks right in my eyes, shakes her head, says nothing. She grabs a drink from a friend, takes a ice cube in her mouth, and kisses HB7 on the mouth, passing the ice cube. HB7 looks at me, pulls in to kiss me, passes the ice cube. We kiss for a second more before I pass it back to HB6. Awesome.
As this is happening, there are two male friends with us who are being pretty chill about all this. Not commenting, pulling the girls in to dance every now and then, but it's clear that I'm the catch of the group right now. Every now and then HB7 walks away to speak with someone else, but she either comes back, or I pull her back to dance with HB6 and I. AMOG'd a pretty beta dude by just ignoring him/pretending I couldn't hear him. My frame was pretty strong in the group. I did have some problems on understanding how to bring the three of us together in a way to escalate kino, any tips here? Tried triple-dancing, but beyond that I wasn't too inspired.
Mo HB's Mo Problems
I tried to maintain kino some kino with HB7 and tried to maintain some conversation, but it was tough as HB6 just wanted to suck my face off and grind. Hard to understand how to manage two girls that were on such different pages - and I think that HB7 was actually put off from getting close to me since HB6 was so obviously all over me. She didn't want to come off slutty I suppose, being one of two girls I was getting close with?
Close of the Evening
A little later and HB6 is getting seriously grabby (I loved her attitude from the start, very playful) and it's almost time to go home. HB7 has work in three hours (the people here are crazy), so there's no going home tonight, but I ask anyway, trying my best to maintain frame and keep eye contact, and failing miserably I think.
HB7 looks right at me: "Let's have a threesome tomorrow." (Literally "Let's have sex in a three tomorrow") Looks at HB6. HB6 looks at me (starry-eyed at this point), I look at HB7 and do my best to act cool as I say "Sure, why not?"
Give HB7 a little kiss as we all leave, make out with HB6 a little outside and we go out separate ways.
Follow-Up
I get a text 20 mins later: "It's HB7 and HB6! Haha, kissessss. Sorry I don't speak English :/."
Replied in the AM (in Spanish): "Don't worry yourselves, I like to speak Spanish in a three. ;) When do you want to meet up?"
Have waited since 10AM for a response, now almost 5PM.
Regardless what happens it was a great night! Would love some feedback and suggestions on how I handled everything.
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