Oh boys do I have I good one for you. This is going to get a little long but bare with me, its worth it.
Lets start with a little background on myself and this plate. I am 25 and just started swallowing the pill about 5 months ago. I have always been in somewhat good shape from football in high-school and being in a fraternity (which focused on being the best man you could be). I began to get serious about lifting because of what i read and I noticed the results almost instantly. I decided I wanted to spin plates, I also want to add that I had 2 other plates during this whole story. I met a girl in a sorority through a friend, (Lets call her Zero) and went on their formal. I had a great time and decided to start spinning her. I talked to her for a few weeks when I noticed her friend (lets call this friend Ashley) take interest in me. Ashley was much more my type and I decided it wasn't worth the risk to spin two different girls in the same circle. (Also found out that Zero got doubled teamed by two dudes at her workplace). I went out with Ashley a few times we hooked up, nothing special. Along comes Bailey, best friends with Ashley and just recently single. Bailey came on to me very strong. I was showing great frame to Ashley and trying new TRP ideas I read on her, I think just the display of my frame pulled Bailey for me. So i dropped Ashley and instantly started hooking up with Bailey.
The opening Act. Bailey had been spinning with me for about 3 months, great sex, very loyal, a little sassy but dread game usually put her in her place. Bailey asked me to go on a trip with her, I said yes. This was probably a huge mistake on my part. The trip started out fine but in the middle Bailey became very distant toward me. I used a hard move and abandoned her for half a day and it seemed to work well until we got back. I dropped her off and that was the last I saw of her for a month. I had moved her to my main plate and turned into a wussy, I could feel my frame weakening with the crap I was saying. During the month I was with the other 2 plates and hooked up with some randoms, even started spinning a new plate. I had sent a few messages back and forward with Bailey during the month but any attempt to meet up with her failed. I felt my self heading into oneitus. I made a move for the worst and let my feelings get involved. I read here before never to do this and man was that advice so fucking true. I called her and we talked, she told me she wanted to get back with her ex and couldn't see me anymore, she then tried to make a power play to keep me hanging along and said "I'm just so confused, I love him and we have such a great pass, but I really like and very attracted to you." I told her I wasn't going to play that shit. I didnt talk to her for a few weeks.
Act two the falling out. Last weekend I had been out on the town and pretty drunk. I get a call at 1am, its Bailey. I didn't answer because i was going to get dick deep in some birthday slut but texted Bailey the next day, she said calling me was a mistake and didn't want to talk about anything. But she started texting flirty back to me, like she had before. Me, being the weak framed person I was becoming with her gave in. She still wouldn't meet up with me at all. This was because she was basically back with her boyfriend and didn't want to see me. We talked and the same conclusion happened. She wanted to be with him and started to ignore me again. Fuck I felt it, everything I wanted to be was going back to the old me. Bad habits are hard to shed.
This is were shit gets crazy and clear. This weekend. She texted me. Out of nowhere. I hadn't talked to her at all. At first I thought maybe she had some shit with her boyfriend and I was the safety net. But I got some inside information. My buddy who is dating her best friend was holding her phone when a text came through. Bailey had saw some pictures of me with another slut on my FB page and got jealous. She texted me a few times back and foward and then said the words I have heard before.
"I just dont know how to act around you now that you are a friend. we have never been friends before."
Everything I have learned here has taught me these are words you do not want to hear. I had put myself in this spot with my own weakness. That was it. I saw it in the real world in front of me. I knew what I had to do. I addressed that immediately, asking her why she thinks we are friends. I have never been her friend and told her I never wanted to be her friend. I then said we weren't arent hooking up then dont bother contacting me. She texted just an 'ok' back. This is the part I have heard here many times, the truth behind the world and the magic. She texted me back, 3 hours later. saying she was in my area and wanted to see me. I couldn't believe it, she has a boyfriend now ( or w/e) and wanted to see me for drinks. I got ready and met her out. One of the first things she said was..
"I just want to let you know I am not going home with you and we are not having sex tonight"
Another thing I had just recently learned on here was LMR. I remember a guy on here freaked out and played it off like such a bitch. Everyone told him about LMRs and how this was a easy one to spot. Although It crossed my mind to bitch her out for that, I played it cool and said "Who said I would even let you in my house". The night went on and we talked, got drunk, and then her friend wanted to take her home. She said to me " I am going home with her now". I used my head to buy just a few more minutes and I don't remember how I did it but I convinced her to stay and talk shit out with me that night and I would drive her home later.Friend left without her. She used another LMR saying she didn't want to go to my place. I said fine lets walk around the city. We got to a near by park and her boyfriend called her. I listened as she lied about who she was with, where she was going, and all the bullshit that goes with it. She hung up and told me she couldn't do this. Against everything I wanted to do. Every part of my head was telling me to try and convince her to stay. Everything except the part that got me here, my Red Pill Knowledge. I told her to get lost. I told her to call a cab or have her friend to pick her up. Shit I even started dialing for her. She refused and came closer. I told her some bullshit and held her, told her about my lifting and had her feel my chest. This was it, she did and we just started hooking up there. I brought her home and fucked her 3 times that night. Wild shit.
This is were the hamster started spinning. She texted me the next day flirty but it stopped again. We had a long talk on the phone and could you believe it she said it again. "I want to be with my boyfriend, I want to work shit out with him". I was numb to her shit this time. I told her I didn't give a shit. Go be with him, I dont care anymore. She got defensive and said something I will never forget.
"When I am with someone I tend to be very LOYAL. I want to give him my all and shut anyone else out".
Yes. This slut I had facedown the day before was telling me about how loyal she is to her boyfriend. The one who had my cock rammed up her not 24 hours earlier was faithful to the relationship and all that. I couldn't believe it. Everything has worked out the way you guys said it would. She showed her true colors and used me. She lied every step of the way and I fell right back into everything I thought I had changed. I feel drained of my will to talk to girls for a while and just really want to lift. I cannot believe I let this one get close to me and have it blow up in my face like this. I will learn though, I will get stronger and I will move on. Just wanted to share how right you guys were and get some broconsulting. Let me know where I lost frame and how I can improve. Really call me a pussy, I dont care just help me learn from this.
TLDR; Met plate through friends, spun for 3 months. She gets back with ex. I rebuild frame and fuck her brains out. She goes back to ex
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