I've gotten laid but I still have approach anxiety, what's wrong with me?

arnorath · 2013-06-03T00:02:56+00:00

You appear to suffer from a condition known as 'humanity'.

2013-06-03T04:07:26+00:00

It never goes away, it just doesn't cripple you as bad the more confident you get.

2013-06-03T04:50:33+00:00

You need to keep practising or your skill fades away.

OutlawPUA · 2013-06-03T06:17:58+00:00

Pick a different field, maybe. Take the pressure off and go get drunk at a bar on ladies night or play some 8-ball with your buddies.

You'll always experience AA to some degree - don't sweat it. Condition yourself to overcome it.

recyclablebantha · 2013-06-03T12:45:34+00:00

I've come to the point where I can say that cold approaching, day gaming and knowledging myself about seduction has gotten me laid but even after this experience I STILL get approach anxiety when I day game.

Getting laid doesn't mean that your inner game is in order.

Getting laid doesn't guarantee that you're truly living in a state of outcome independence. If you have AA, you're probably still putting too much pressure on yourself over girls you don't even know yet.

Title	I've gotten laid but I still have approach anxiety, what's wrong with me?
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Date	June 2, 2013 9:42 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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