There is always a time when a lion must defend his Territory. Though a strong relationship / attraction does not need to be automatically defended, your lovers would APPRECIATE your effort to maintain your romance. Especially important for harem building.

1. Know yourself

Who are you? What do your woman/women mean to you? Assuming you are out with them and you aren't an orbiter, then you must decide whether the woman next to you is worthy of defending or not. Know your leadership style. Know your strength. Channel the inner part of your mind where you are most secure. Every competent man needs to have an inner frame that is indestructible, and use that frame to guard and protect those who you love. embrace the mindset that you are protecting your loved one from someone not as worthy as you

2. Know your loved one

To assess whether someone is worthy of your love and protection, you must truly understand them and communicate with them. I am personally very open and and honest to both of my lovers (again an important element of harem building). Openness and honesty is 80% of the battle.

Indeed, 80% of your effort against others undermining your relationship should be paved before another PUA walk up to your set Whether you have been with your set for the last 10 minutes or last 10 years, YOU WERE THERE FIRST, and turn that into an informational advantage by getting to know your set/lover(s)/partner(s), etc.

3. Know your enemy

There are three types of PUAs. We can borrow something from medicine called triaging, and triage the situation.

The first type of PUAs are so weak in their skills/attractiveness that they can NEVER pull your set. You really don't have to do anything, but to play with them is utterly amusing, as essentially you are taking candy away from little kids, except in this case it's socially acceptable to take their candy away.

The second type of PUA are strong enough to pull your set if you don't intervene. You should be able to judge this from the reactions of your set. For example, they may turn their attentions away from you, yet remain with you physically and fail to be isolated. They may be reluctant to share physical space with your enemy but they are not downright rejecting the advance. With the second type of PUA, you need to demonstrate your frame while destroy their frame. My approach to the second type is to demonstrate raw and unrefined masculinity, of which approach I will talk about briefly.

The third type of PUAs are extremely rare, and all men should strive to become so successful that fewer and fewer men can threaten them as the third type. The third type are simply people who blow your set away. Your set will outright be isolated, play along with their game. Your frame may be destroyed by your enemy. The third type is akin to a terminal illness in the realm of medical triage, where there isn't much you can really do on the spot. My advice to all men is simply become a man so strong that no one on earth have enough value to immediately destroy your frame

4. Specific approaches

There are many specific approaches. I will talk about some exemplar approaches for each categories. However note, like the art of surgery, the art of achieving social dominance require a lifetime of perfection, and your mileage may vary.

4a. Type I PUAs

They walk in on your set with outdated methods, they walk in with canned lines. You take a look at your set, and they are either amused or disgusted. You are the lion, and suddenly, a deer walked into your kingdom, thinking you are a deer just like him.

You really don't have to do anything. But if you are feeling particular cruel or desire some amusement, a great technique is to simply pull your lover close in a firm act of physical affection, and whisper to her ear in an ironic tone, just loud enough to be heard by your enemy, and say "I think he read some guides on how to pick up girls from the internet, look at him go!"

Then, you should proceed to simply announce his every technique and future moves in an ironic voice, as if you are a master surgeon watching your student of surgery fumbling with someone's gut for the first time. "Hey look, I bet he's gonna try to touch your/her hand." "See that ridiculous dress? It's called peacocking".

Naturally, your enemy or your date may ask you how you aware of those "guides from the internet". Simply lean back, smile, and say something that demonstrate your higher value. My favorite line is "A renaissance man must be able to play the piano, slaughter his own food, perform surgery, and entertain the fairer sex. My intellectual curiosity briefly took me to the field that this man in front of us is struggling with...5 years ago"

4b. Type II PUAs

Your dates are intrigued. They actually pay attention to your enemy. What do you do now?

At this point, I naturally become hypermasculine, as my territory is being threatened. Just like a lion, I would begin to demonstrate why my enemy should wonder back. The key, of course, is to demonstrate your masculinity in a way that is subtly aggressive and use it to destroy your enemy's frame. Remember, you are now interacting with YOUR ENEMY

Begin with small talk, or if your enemy is a particularly good conversationalist, chime in to the conversation. A wise type II PUA will not try to make the mistake of being outwardly rude to you (it leads to defensive behavior from your harem) but instead trying to subvert your kingdom while under your rule. Therefore he must at least superficially acknowledge your status as a leader of the conversation.

Take charge of the conversation. Shape the topic toward something that enhances your frame while weakening his. A small personal example that springs to my mind is last weak, when a man tried to talk to my group about his "crazy injury/ER stories". I steered the conversation naturally toward my field of expertise, and raised the point that his injury is unusual and often due to receptive anal sex. Then I begin to talk about MY stories of how I performed surgeries to fix injuries like his. Note how you are dragging his frame away from something he is good at (PUA) to something he is NOT good at (medicine). All while humiliating this person.

My dear readers, you may think I am just playing up the persona of an extremly arrogant, douche-bag surgeon. And of course, I am playing that role. I am playing that role because I know my group love it, AND it makes the "social intruder" uncomfortable. Your group will come to learn that the aggressive you is an enraged lion trying to defend THEM and come to love you for it.

4c. Type III PUAs

I've ran into a guy like this once. Not only he's just as good as me socially, he also happen to own a private jet. There isn't much you can do about them at the situation. But you must raise your value over the long haul.

Sometimes, it's important to accept defeat.

In summary, you defeat other PUAs by destroying their frame. A technique I presented in this guide is to drag their frame away from something they are familiar with and bring it into something you are familiar with